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ivity takes place w
ithin a culture and interacts with culture.” Po p e
J o h n Pa u
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ow you answer those questions is influenced by the cul-
ture to which you belong. If you identify with a culture
that emphasizes individualism, you probably rank per-
FOCUS QUESTIONS sonal freedom as more important than social order and think an
honor reflects primarily on the individual who wins it. However, if
1. How do cultures and you identify with a culture that emphasizes collective well-being,
social communities shape
you probably think an orderly society is more important than per-
communication?
sonal freedom and believe an honor reflects primarily on the family
2. How does communication shape of the individual who receives it (Hofstede, 1991, 2001; Hofstede,
cultures and social communities? Hofstede, & Minkov, 2010; Jandt, 2009; Simons & Zielenziger,
1996). Likewise, in cultures that emphasize collective life, people
3. What is ethnocentric bias?
tend to think any honor an individual receives reflects on that per-
4. How do people respond to cultural son’s family and community.
differences in communication? Cultures also differ in the extent to which they view power
differences among people as normal and right. In cultures that
have relatively low power differences among people, it’s generally
assumed that people with more power earned it and others who
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work hard can also earn power. Conversely, in cultures where there are larger gaps
between people with and without power, there is a tendency to see the differences as
stable and one’s own position as unlikely to change.
The value people assign to individualism and collectivism and how they view power
differences influence how they communicate. For instance, in cultures that empha-
size collective goals and harmony, people generally do not state their positions directly
or strongly and do not promote themselves. In cultures where power is very uneven,
those with less power tend not to challenge the existing hierarchy and to speak respect-
fully to those with power. This is only one of many ways in which communication and
culture are linked.
We live in a diverse world in which people increasingly move in and out of cul-
tures. The number of students who travel abroad to study increases each year. In
2010, the number of U.S. students who studied abroad totaled 260,327; conversely,
690,923 students came from other countries to study in the United States. (IIE, 2011).
Immigration to the United States adds to the diversity of life within the borders of this
country. In fact, demographers predict that by 2050 Caucasians will no longer be the
majority of Americans.
To participate effectively in today’s world, all of us need to understand and respect
cultural differences and the ways they affect communication. Effectiveness in social
and professional life demands that you understand and adapt your communication
to people of varied cultural backgrounds. The competitive style of negotiation cus-
tomary among Americans may offend Taiwanese businesspeople. Friendly touches
that are comfortable to most Americans may be perceived as rude and intrusive by
Germans. Americans typically form lines to enter buildings and rooms, but in India
people don’t form lines; instead they push and shove to get a place, and that’s not per-
ceived as impolite (Spano, 2003). In some cultures, direct eye contact is interpreted as
indicative of honesty. In other cultures, however, it is interpreted as disrespect. These
examples highlight the importance of adapting communication to various cultures and
social communities.
In this chapter, we discuss the sixth and final basic communication process: adapt-
ing communication to cultures and social communities. We first discuss dimensions
of cultures and social communities. Next, we explore four important relationships
between culture and communication. The final section of the chapter discusses guide-
lines for adapting communication effectively to diverse cultures and social groups.
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DIVERSITY
Racial Bias Starts Early
Is racial bias still a problem in America? According to an ABC News and Washington Post poll reported
in January 2009, that depends on whom you ask. Twice as many blacks as whites think racism is still a problem,
whereas twice as many whites as blacks think racial equality has been achieved (Blow, 2009).
What can explain the major discrepancy between blacks’ and whites’ views? One explanation is that
most whites believe they are not racially biased but still hold implicit biases. That’s the idea behind Project
Implicit, a virtual lab managed by scholars at Harvard, the University of Virginia, and the University of
Washington. After six years of testing people’s biases, the findings are clear: 75% of whites have an implicit
pro-white/anti-black bias. While some blacks also harbor implicit racial biases—some pro-black and some
pro-white—blacks are the least likely of all races to have any racial bias (Blow, 2009).
Another question studied by scientists at Project Implicit is when racial prejudice starts. According
to Mahzarin Banaji, a professor at Harvard, it starts at much earlier ages than most of us think. She has
devoted her career to studying hidden and often subtle biases and attitudes. According to Banaji’s
research, children as young as 3 years old have the same level of bias as adults (Fogg, 2008). If you’d like
to learn more about Project Implicit or take tests to determine if you harbor implicit racial biases, go to
the book’s online resources for this chapter and click on WebLink 8.1.
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slaves perceive slavery very differently. Extending Hegel’s point, we can see that
those in positions of power have a vested interest in preserving the system that
gives them privileges. Therefore, they are unlikely to perceive its flaws and ineq-
uities. On the other hand, those who are disadvantaged by a system are able to see
inequities and discrimination (Wood, 1993a, 1993d, 2013).
Nonverbal communication often reflects the perspective of dominant groups. For
example, the dominance of people without disabilities is reflected in the number of
buildings that do not have ramps or bathroom facilities for people who use wheel-
chairs, and public presentations that do not include signers for people with hearing
limitations. Many campus and business buildings feature portraits of white men but
few of women or people of color. Mostafa’s commentary illustrates how his standpoint
affects his perceptions of his school.
Mostafa
I went to a black college for two years before transferring here, and it’s like two different worlds.
There, I saw a lot of brothers and sisters all the time, and I had black teachers. There were
portraits of black leaders in buildings and black magazines in the bookstore. Here, I’ve had only
one black teacher, and I see 50 whites for every one black on campus. I’ve yet to see a black
person’s portrait hung in any campus building, and I have to go to specialty stores to buy black
magazines. The whole atmosphere on this campus communicates, “White is right.”
Of the many social communities, gendered communities have been most extensively
studied. Because we know more about gender than about other social communities,
we’ll explore gender as a particular example of a social community. However, the prin-
ciples and patterns that characterize gendered social communities also apply to other
social communities.
Scholars have investigated the communication of people socialized in different gen-
der communities. One of the earliest studies reported that children’s play is sex segre-
gated, that boys and girls tend to play different kinds of games (Maltz & Borker, 1982).
Games that girls favor, such as house and school, involve few players, require talk to
negotiate how to play because there aren’t clear-cut guidelines, and depend on coop-
eration, sensitivity, and communication among players (Goodwin, 2006). Baseball,
soccer, and war, which are typical boys’ games, require more players and have clear
goals and rules, so less talk is needed to play. Most boys’ games are competitive, both
between teams and for individual status within teams (Pollack, 2000; Rudman &
Glick, 2008). Interaction in games teaches boys and girls distinct understandings of
why, when, and how to use talk.
Research on gendered patterns of communication reveals that the rules we learn
through play remain with many of us as we grow older. For instance, women’s talk gen-
erally is more expressive and focused on feelings and relationships, whereas men’s talk
tends to be more instrumental, assertive, and competitive (Guerrero, Jones, & Boburka,
2006; Leaper & Ayres, 2007; McGuffey & Rich, 2004; Mulac, 2006; Wood, 2001b,
2001c, 2013). Many women favor management styles that are more collaborative than
those typical of men (Eagly, Johannesen-Schmidt, & van Engen, 2003). In personal
relationships, women tend to be more interested in talking about relationship issues
than men are.
Another general gender difference is what each gender tends to perceive as the cen-
ter of a relationship. For many men who were socialized in masculine communities,
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Michelle
I’m offended when I read that blacks communicate differently from whites. I don’t, and neither
do a lot of my black friends. Both of my parents were professionals, and I attended good schools,
including a private one for two years. I speak the same way whites do. When the author of our
book says blacks engage in call and response or talk differently from whites, it makes it sound
like blacks are different from whites—like we don’t know how to communicate like they do. If
the author isn’t black, how does she know how we communicate?
Michelle wrote her comment after reading a previous edition of this book. She’s
correct that not all blacks communicate the same way and not all blacks communi-
cate differently from whites, who also don’t communicate in a uniform way. What
you’ve read about the communication patterns of African Americans or other social
groups is based on research, much of which was conducted by scholars who are mem-
bers of the groups described. I include this research because many minority students
have complained to me about textbooks that present only middle-class white com-
munication patterns and present those as standard or correct. This point of view is
reflected in Jason’s comment, which he wrote after reading the same book Michelle
criticized.
Jason
This is the first time since being at this school that I’ve seen blacks really included in a textbook
or a class, other than my Af-Am classes. I think that’s good, like it affirms my identity as a black.
If I have to study how whites communicate, why shouldn’t they learn how I communicate and
why I communicate that way? I think we’re all broadened if we know more about more kinds of
people and how they think and act and talk.
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Individualism/Collectivism
The dimension of individualism/collectivism refers to the extent to which mem-
bers of a culture understand themselves as part of and connected to their families,
groups, and cultures. In cultures high in collectivism (Pakistan, China), people’s iden-
tity is deeply tied to their groups, families, and clans. In cultures high in individualism
(United States, Australia), people tend to think of themselves as individuals who act
relatively independently.
Communication scholar, Stella Ting-Toomey has studied cultural differences in what
she calls face, which includes individual and cultural facets of identity. For instance,
individual facets of your identity include your major or profession and your tastes in
music whereas cultural facets of identity include whether you see yourself more as
an individual or a member of families, groups, and your culture. Ting-Toomey (2005)
reports that in collectivist cultures, the face of the group is more important than the
face any individual in that culture or other group. In individualist cultures, the face of
the individual is more important than the face of the group.
Uncertainty Avoidance
Uncertainty avoidance refers to the extent to which people want to avoid ambiguity
and vagueness. In some cultures (Poland, South Korea), people like to have everything
spelled out very explicitly in order to avoid misunderstandings. Yet, in other cultures
(Hong Kong, Sweden), uncertainty is more tolerated and expectations are less set since
surprises may happen.
Power Distance
The third dimension of culture is power distance, which refers to the size of the gap
between people with high and low power and the extent to which that is regarded
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as normal. Social hierarchies exist in all cultures, but how they are understood and
whether they are accepted varies widely. In some cultures (India, China), the distance
between high and low power is wider than others, making for a society in which peo-
ple respect the powerful, and there is lower expectation of movement between classes,
castes, or levels. In cultures where power distance is low (New Zealand, Norway), peo-
ple tend to expect that those in power will have earned it, rather than simply gaining
power by virtue of position.
Masculinity/Femininity
The fourth dimension of cultural is masculinity/femininity (sometimes called
aggressiveness). This dimension refers to the extent to which a culture values aggres-
siveness, competitiveness, looking out for yourself, and dominating others and nature,
which are typically associated with men) versus gentleness, cooperation, and taking
care of others and living in harmony with the natural world, which tend to be associ-
ated with women. In cultures that are higher in femininity (Netherlands, Norway),
men and women are more gentle, cooperative, and caring. In cultures that are higher
in masculinity (Japan, Germany), however, men are more aggressive and competitive.
In highly masculine cultures, women may also be competitive and assertive, but gener-
ally they are less so than men.
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Intan
Eye contact is the hardest part of learning American culture. In my home, it would be very rude
to do that. We look away or down when talking so as not to give insult. In America, if I look
down, it is thought I am hiding something or am dishonest. So I am learning to look at others
when we talk, but it feels very disrespectful still to me.
Both conscious and unconscious learning are continuous processes through which
we learn language and internalize culture so that it is seamlessly part of who we are
and how we see the world. As we learn language, we learn cultural values that are
encoded in language.
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Maria
I get hassled by a lot of girls on campus about being dependent on my family. They say I’m too
close to my folks and my grandparents and aunts and uncles and cousins. But what they mean
by “too close” is I’m closer with my family than most whites are. It’s a white standard they’re
using, and it doesn’t fit me. Strong ties with family and the community are important, good
values we learn in Mexico.
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Mary
It was 15 years ago, when I was just starting college, that a professor sexually harassed me, only
I didn’t know to call it that then. I felt guilty, like maybe I’d done something to encourage him, or
I felt maybe I was overreacting to his kissing me and touching me. But I later learned the term.
Now I have a name for what happened—a name that said he was wrong, not me. It was only
then that I could let go of that whole business.
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American women that they understand their experiences as black women. Here’s
Houston’s explanation:
Generally, it’s rude and disempowering to speak for others. Just as we should not
speak for others, we should not assume we understand how they feel or think. As we
have seen, distinct experiences and cultural backgrounds make each of us unique. We
seldom completely grasp what another person feels or thinks. Although it is supportive
to make an effort to understand others, it isn’t supportive to presume that we under-
stand experiences we haven’t had, as Susan’s commentary points out.
Susan
I hate it when people tell me they understand what it’s like to have a learning disability. For one
thing, there are a lot of learning disabilities, and I resent being lumped in a broad category. For
another thing, if someone doesn’t have dyslexia, which is my problem, they don’t know what
it means. They have no idea what it’s like to see letters scrambled or wonder if you are seeing
words right. People shouldn’t say “I understand” what they haven’t experienced.
Respecting what others say about their thoughts and feelings is a cornerstone of
effective communication. Ethical communicators do not attempt to speak for others
and do not assume they fully understand others’ experiences. If you don’t understand
what others say or do, ask them to explain. This shows that you are interested and
respect their experience. It also paves the way for greater understanding between peo-
ple of different backgrounds.
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Responses to diversity range from total rejection and disapproval to full participa-
tion in a different culture’s communication styles. At particular times in our lives, we
may find ourselves adopting different responses to diversity or to specific forms of
diversity. We may also find that our responses to people with different cultural back-
grounds evolve over the course of our relationships with them. That’s natural in the
overall process of recognizing and responding to diversity in life.
Resistance
A common response to diversity is resistance, which occurs when we reject the
beliefs of particular cultures or social communities. Without reflection, many people
evaluate others based on the standards of their own culture. Some people, includ-
ing Maggie (see her commentary), think their judgments reflect universal truths. They
aren’t aware that they are imposing the arbitrary yardstick of their particular culture
and ignoring the yardsticks of other cultures. Devaluing whatever differs from our
ways limits human experience and diminishes cultural life.
Maggie
I’m tired of being told I should “appreciate” difference. In most cases, I don’t. If people from other
countries want to live in America, they should act and talk like Americans. They should adapt,
not me.
Resistance may be expressed in many ways. Hate crimes pollute campuses and the
broader society. Denial of other cultures leads to racial slurs, anti-Semitic messages,
and homophobic attacks. Resistance may also motivate members of a culture or social
community to associate only with each other and to remain unaware of commonalities
among people with diverse backgrounds. Insulation within a single culture occurs in
both majority and minority groups.
Members of social groups may also resist and deny their group identities in an effort
to fit into the mainstream. Assimilation occurs when people give up their ways and
adopt the ways of the dominant culture. Philosopher Peter Berger (1969) calls this
surrendering because it involves giving up an original cultural identity for a new one.
For many years, assimilation was the dominant response of immigrants to the United
States. The idea of America as a “melting pot” encouraged newcomers to melt into the
mainstream by surrendering whatever made them different from native-born citizens.
More recently, the melting pot metaphor has been criticized as undesirable because
it erases the unique heritages of people who come to America. Jesse Jackson proposed
the alternative metaphor of the family quilt. This metaphor portrays the United States
as a country in which diverse groups’ values and customs are visible, as are the individ-
ual squares in a quilt, and at the same time each group contributes to a larger whole,
just as each square contributes to a quilt’s overall beauty.
Some people use another form of resistance to provoke change in cultural practices
and viewpoints. For example, heterosexuals who refuse to refer to their partners as
“spouses” are resisting mainstream culture’s refusal to grant legal status to gay and
lesbian commitments. When culturally advantaged people resist and challenge the
devaluation of disadvantaged groups, they can be powerful agents of change.
Tolerance
A second response to diversity is tolerance, which is an acceptance of differences
whether or not one approves of or even understands them. Tolerance involves
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Respect
Once we move beyond judgment and begin to understand the cultural basis for ways
that differ from ours, we may come to respect differences. We can appreciate the
distinct validity and value of placing family above self, of arranged marriage, and of
feminine and masculine communication styles. We don’t have to adopt others’ ways in
order to respect them on their terms.
Respect allows us to acknowledge genuine differences between groups yet remain
anchored in the values and customs of our culture (Simons, Vázquez, & Harris, 1993).
Learning about people who differ from us increases our understanding of them and
thus our ability to communicate effectively with them. What is needed to respect
others is the ability to see them and what they do on their terms, not ours. In other
words, respect avoids ethnocentrism.
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Participation
A final response to diversity is participation, in which we incorporate some practices
and values of other groups into our own lives. More than other responses, participation
encourages us to develop skills for participating in a multicultural world in which all
of us can take part in some of each other’s customs. Harvard professor Henry Louis
Gates (1992) believes that the ideal society is one in which we build a common civic
culture that celebrates both differences and commonalities.
People who respond to diversity by participating learn to be multilingual, which
means they are able to speak and understand more than one language or more than
one group’s ways of using language. Many people are already at least bilingual (also
termed code switching). Many African Americans know how to operate in mainstream
Caucasian society and in their distinct ethnic communities (Orbe, 1994). Bilingualism,
or code switching, is also practiced by many Asian Americans, Mexican Americans,
lesbians, gay men, and members of other groups that are simultaneously part of a dom-
inant and a minority culture (Gaines, 1995).
My partner, Robbie, and I have learned how to use both feminine and masculine
communication styles. He was socialized to be assertive, competitive, and analytical in
conversation, whereas I learned to be more expressive, cooperative, and relationship
oriented. When we were first a couple, we were often frustrated by differences in our
communication styles. I perceived him as insensitive to feelings and overly linear in
his conversational style. He perceived me as being too focused on relationship issues
and inefficient in moving from problems to solutions. Gradually, each of us learned to
understand and then respect the other’s ways of communicating. Still later, we came to
participate in each other’s styles, and now both of us are fluent in both languages. Not
only has this improved communication between us, but it has made us more compe-
tent communicators in general.
People reach different stages in their abilities to respond to particular cultures and
social communities. The different responses to cultural diversity that we’ve discussed rep-
resent parts of a process of learning to understand and adapt to diverse cultural groups. In
the courses of our lives, many of us will move in and out of various responses as we inter-
act with people from multiple cultures. At specific times, we may find we are tolerant of
one cultural group, respectful of another, and able to participate in yet others.
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to adapt to the perspectives and communication styles with people who differ from us. Moving beyond the
of others. Extending this, the second guideline is to belief that our ways are the only right ways allows us
respect what others present as their feelings and ideas. to understand, respect, and sometimes participate in a
In most situations, speaking for others is presumptuous, diverse world and to enlarge ourselves in the process.
and disregarding what they express is rude. The third Although this chapter has focused on differences
guideline is to resist ethnocentrism, which is the great- between people, it would be a mistake to be so aware
est threat to effective cross-cultural communication. of differences that we overlook our commonalities. No
Finally, we learned that adapting to diversity is a pro- matter what culture we belong to, we all have feelings,
cess. We may find that our response to diversity changes dreams, ideas, hopes, fears, and values. Our common
as we grow personally and as we develop relationships humanity transcends many of our differences.
KEY CONCEPTS
assimilation, 171 power distance, 162
cultural relativism, 170 resistance, 171
culture, 157 respect, 172
ethnocentrism, 169 social community, 158
high-context communication style, 165 standpoint, 159
individualism/collectivism, 162 standpoint theory, 159
long term/short term orientation, 163 tolerance, 171
low-context communication style, 165 uncertainty avoidance, 162
masculinity/femininity, 163 uncertainty reduction theory, 168
multilingual, 173 understanding, 172
participation, 173
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Recommended Resources
1. Fern Johnson. (2000). Speaking culturally: Harcourt. This book offers clear examples of
Language diversity in the United States. communication misunderstandings between
Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage. This book provides blacks and whites.
excellent historical information about different 3. Edward Schieffelin and Robert Crittenden’s Like
groups in the United States and the different ways People in a Dream is a richly told account of first
in which they understand and use language. contact between two cultures. In 1935 white
2. Lena Williams. (2002). It’s the little things: explorers went into interior parts of New Guinea
Everyday interactions that anger, annoy, where the indigenous people still used Stone
and divide the races. New York: Harvest/ Age tools.
A pply what you’ve learned in this chapter by analyzing the following case study, using
the accompanying questions as a guide. These questions and a video of the case study
are also available online at your CourseMate for Communication Mosaics.
Mei-ying Yung is a graduating senior. Like many college students, Mei-ying loves
technologies. Unlike many of her peers, however, she is particularly fascinated by
programming. In her senior year, she developed and installed complex new programs to
make advising more efficient and to reduce the frustration and errors in registration for
courses. Although she has been in the United States for six years, in many ways Mei-ying
reflects the Chinese culture where she was born and where she spent the first 15 years
of her life. Today, Mei-ying is interviewing for a position at New Thinking, a fast-growing
tech company that specializes in developing programs tailored to the needs of individual
companies. The interviewer, Barton Hingham, is 32 years old and a native of California,
where New Thinking is based. As the scenario opens, Ms. Yung walks into the small room
in which Mr. Hingham is seated behind a desk. He rises to greet her and walks over with
his hand outstretched to shake hers.
[Ms. Yung looks downward, smiles, and limply shakes Mr. Hing-
ham’s hand. He gestures to a chair, and she sits down in it.]
Yung: Yes.
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Hingham: I see from your transcript that you majored in com- Yung: Yes. I very much like to solve problems to help others.
puter programming and did very well. I certainly didn’t have
Hingham: What was your favorite course during college?
this many As on my college transcript!
Yung: They are all very valuable. I enjoy all.
Yung: Thank you. I am very fortunate to have good teachers.
Hingham: Did you have one course in which you did espe-
Hingham: Tell me a little about your experience in writing
cially well?
original programs for business applications.
Yung: [blushing, looking down] I would not say that. I try to
Yung: I do not have great experience, but I have been grate-
do well in all my courses, to learn from them.
ful to help the college with some of its work.
Later Barton Hingham and Molly Cannett, another interviewer
Hingham: Tell me about how you’ve helped the college. I see
for New Thinking, are discussing the day’s interviews over
you designed a program for advising. Can you explain to me
dinner.
what you did to develop that program?
Cannett: Did you find any good prospects today?
Yung: Not really so much. I could see that much of advising
is based on rules, so I only need to write the rules into a pro- Hingham: Not really. I thought I was going to be bowled over
gram so advisers could do their jobs more better. by this one woman—name’s Mei-ying Yung—who has done
some incredibly intricate programming on her own while in
Hingham: Perhaps you’re being too modest. I’ve done
college.
enough programming myself to know how difficult it is
to develop a program for something with as many details Cannett: Sounds like just the kind of person we’re looking for.
as advising. There are so many majors, each with different
Hingham: I thought so, too, until the interview. She just didn’t
requirements and regulations. How did you program all of
seem to have the gusto we want. She showed no confidence
that variation?
or initiative in the interview. It was like the transcript and the
Yung: I read the handbook on advising and the regulations person were totally different.
on each major, and then programmed decision trees into an
Cannett: Hmmm, that’s odd. Usually when we see someone
advising template. Not so hard.
who looks that good on paper, the interview is just a formality.
Hingham: Well, that’s exactly the kind of project we do at
Hingham: Yeah, but I guess the formality is more important
New Thinking. People come to us with problems in their jobs,
than we realized: Yung was a real dud in the interview. I still
and we write programs to solve them. Does that sound like
don’t know what to make of it.
the kind of thing you would enjoy doing?
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