What if we make our connections

a source of our happiness?

Relationship Circles
Making our connections visible

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 "We are the average
What if for 2017
we make our connections a source of
 our happiness?
of the 5 people that we
spend the most time with."
Making our  connections visible

-jim rohn
 When was the last time you asked yourself,
"who are the people that I want to truly connect with? "
What if for 2017
Given the “Law of Averages” and the importance of
we make our connections a source of
surrounding ourselves with people who support us, it is
 our happiness?
crucial that we take the time to look at our daily
interactions.

This Relationship Circles exercise was written to make

“visible” the connections that we have and the
Making our  connections visible
connections that we would like to have with people
in our immediate circles. The intention is to reflect
on the people that we interact with on a regular basis
and to weigh in on how much that interaction is
favourable or not to our well being.

 Who are your people?

List down the top 20-30 people that you connect with on a regular basis. These are
people who are in your relationship circle. People who are in your immediate circle
of interaction and influence. If you would like to keep the names anonymous, you
can opt to give pen names for these 20-30 people. You can also add in more. 

What if for 2017

we make our connections a source of
 our happiness?

Making our  connections visible

 Where are they in your circles?
Using a black pen, write each name in the circles below. Base it according to the
 amount of time, energy, and attention that you put in with that person. Factor in
the opportunity and daily circumstances that allow you to connect with the person.
The nearer to you, the more connection, the farther to you, the lesser the
connection. 

you
 Check-in Moment
Look closely at your Relationship Circles, what can you take
from this visualization?

What if for 2017

we make our connections a source of
 our happiness?
How do you feel with regards to the placement of people in
your circles?

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Are there changes that you would like to do? 

 Check-in Moment
Now get a RED pen and using arrows indicate where is your IDEAL Relationship
Circles with each person. Are they going towards you or away from you? If they
are to remain in the same spot, write over the name with the red marker.

How do you feel now with regards to your ideal placement of people in your
circles?

What if for 2017

we make our connections a source of
 our happiness?
What 3 tasks can you do to nurture your closest circles?

Making our  connections visible

What 3 tasks can you do to bring in more of the people you wanted closest to
you? (those that you marked with RED arrows moving towards you)