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just hw much it had nemeated my way of being. So-called ‘sary contr.
the heavy technology uses who throw themselves at every new devce and
serio, wil ai W an unconizaable impulse lo check et ea accounts
socal networking sites. Researchers have caled this ‘variable interval
reinforcement schedule’, Suoh people haven effect been craw into digtl-
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finding account for those days which seem to ss So icy with
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ie connect, the more ou thoughts lean outwar Powers wites.
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busting oer, rather than “in hee" with youre and those
right around you.
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‘echnolagis. He condudes, haweve, that we need to find the
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was just stating, owever, tying to ut his and other ideas nto regular
practic in an attempt to balance work and home life, Powers also talks about
“vanishing fami trick, where a seemingly sociable family gradually issoWves
‘aay to Soreens in diferent comers ofthe house, I's clearly a situation to be
‘dad, Our digital detox had been something ofa wake-up cal. And guess
what? When the owner handed back our phones, we idh't have a missed call
‘or message between us.
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the grounds that being aay rom ona regular bass allows us to
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Ashita slower, ss ess way fining, where you can just
be none place, doing oe part thing, and enjoy
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‘ury ana naoatyrecarced ~ my enoyment spt between tat
technological impulse andthe more decate human need to bein
the moment. This is how we ve these days
6G What ci strike me though was the change in Wil’ behaviour I
iy worst habits incessant messaging, hiss allowing his phone
to take precedence over everything ese. Country walks, cnnet,
bathing our son ~no moment is safe from the seemingly resistibe
‘inging, wbratog, nagging pone that demands ~ and wins ~ is
attention wen he shoud be enjoying the moment wth us.
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‘he paco ofl that incaning information has produced a reste,
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