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How To Get Over A Guy in 10 Days
How To Get Over A Guy in 10 Days
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really understood what that of emotion, breakups HURT you delusional. Once you
meant. It felt like people were and there’s no “right” way— start to catch these delusions
praising me for something but there’s a way I’ve found and become aware of them,
that didn’t feel praise worthy. works for me. In order for it makes it easier. We’ve all
I don’t want to be good at this to work, you’ll need to experienced a friend being
breakups. I don’t want to do exactly what I say. Don’t delusional during a breakup.
keep having breakups. I’m get discouraged if some of
tired of having to move on. these steps take multiple “They’re just afraid of
days or longer, it’s more commitment!!! They have
I’ve had 3 breakups over than okay. Try your best. abandonment issues!!”
the past 4 years. Each with
people I thought at one point Everyone has issues.
I’d spend the rest of my life As a disclaimer, I’m a woman They are not special. It all
with. Even typing that out who has only dated men so depends on what you’re
feels vulnerable, like there’s that’s the place i’m writing willing to put up with. If you
something wrong with me. from but feel free to use want to be with someone
I got over each of these this advice towards anyone forever and excuse how
relationships fairly quickly, who broke your heart. terrible they make you feel,
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lasting 2.5 weeks before I be the right guide for you.
started coming back to my You can stop here.
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hate them if you did. Write feel. It will be nice to look
Answer the following everything. Your friends will back in the future and see
questions and be honest love this too. how far you’ve grown from
with me. And yourself. this moment.
Pairs nicely with wine.
This phase hurts the most.
Why are you still holding on? But it gets better. Much
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Are they nice to you with
mornings and the nights are
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The pain will feel unbearable. GLVWUDFW \RXUVHOI Make
Are they choosing you? You will feel alone. the day pass as quickly as
possible. The more days
Here’s what I do, and this pass, the more clarity you
may shock you: I feel it ALL. have.
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you’ll excuse behavior. They may not respond, you
Not because you want to, may feel rejected. That’s Either way starting today,
you’ll just forget. During this okay. It’s all a part of healing. you will need to start
phase, I call my friends and You always hear “don’t call transitioning to no contact.
have them make a list with them !!! resist the urge!!!” Phase 2 was for getting
me. We don’t just bash this everything out and putting it
person, we write down the I disagree. on the table. It teaches you
part of the relationship I a lesson.
liked… and then we make THIS IS NOT PERMISSION
a list of all the things that TO SLEEP WITH YOUR You might not get it right
were bad. This is not the EX (if you happen to, I away, you may need a
time to give excuses. Write won’t tell anyone and you couple days—but starting
down the facts. The ways haven’t ruined your healing today you need to start
your needs weren’t being progress) but during this coming to terms with the
met, the things you never time it helps most to journal fact that you need to cut out
told anyone because you and write a novel in your contact completely. Watch a
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early. You’re probably not entire group is doing. This is 5HSHDWSKDVH
hungry but try your best to not you being petty, and don’t
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Being in a relationship can
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take you off of a personal
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routine. You have another
stalking their insta stories and it sucks but this whole
person to consider. You
from your fake account. thing sucks so just do it).
have to compromise.