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Becoming Responsible in Personal Relationships

1. Below are the three kinds of personal relationships EXCEPT one.
a. Gang b family
c. friends d. partnerships
2. What item shows the importance of relationships?
a. It provides food and shelter.
b. It assists one in his/her job.
c. It gives one sense of belongingness.
d. It increases one's enthusiasm towards work.
3. What is meant by having quality time with your loved ones?
a. having cheerful moments with your friends
b. having serious arguments with your parents
c. eating dinner with the complete family members
d. spending a day with the family members in the mall
4. What is meant by being responsible in a relationship?
a. taking turns to do household chores
b. taking your duty religiously and seriously
c. taking advantage of the kindness of the other party
d. taking your responsibility to keep the relationship healthy
5. What is meant by a sense of security in a relationship?
a. being able to own a property
b. being able to secure all important things
c. being able to know you have someone to rely on
d. being able to feel that you have to someone to protect you
6. What is meant by a sense of reliability in a relationship?
a. knowing that there is someone to blame you
b. knowing that there is someone to do things for you
c. knowing that there is someone whom you can rely on
d. knowing that there is someone who can protect you against trouble
7. What item does NOT show well-communicated love?
a. thumbs up to a boy who hit a homerun
b. a cheer to the performance of a young girl
c. a woman scolding her daughter in front of the cashier
d. a man putting a coat to the old woman seated on a bench
8. What statement does NOT show that a person is a good listener?
a. He/She puts earphones on.
b. He/She gives the person a hug.
c. He/She willingly shared his/her point of view.
d. He/She discusses his/her previous experience.
9. Below are the things that comprise trust EXCEPT one.
a. love
b. honesty
c. interrogation
d. encouragement
10. What is likely to happen when one person consistently receives someone’s trust?
a. He/she will hate him/herself more.
b. He/she will love him/herself more.
c. He/she will demonstrate unpleasant behaviour.
d. He/she will be confident in whatever thing he/she does.

11. What is meant by non-judgmental listening?

a. reacting violently over the issue
b. keeping what was shared a secret
c. keeping your mouth shot the whole time
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d. getting the point of view of the person sharing
12. What is meant by commitment in a relationship?
a. forgetting your own identify
b. offering yourself to the relationship
c. insisting someone to offer him/herself in a relationship
d. making the other party comfortable in the relationship
13. How can you show you value your relationship?
a. I will consider the feelings of my loved ones.
b. I will consider the benefit I get from everyone.
c. I will forget the kindness of the people around me.
d. I will take good care of my loved ones when they are sick.
14. What statements do NOT give the importance of relationships?
a. Help one be decisive.
b. Help one sees his/her potentials.
c. Help one boost his/her confidence.
d. Help one to have a sense of direction.

15. How significant is one's understanding about the importance of a relationship in

his/her life?
a. It will help him/her value his/her identity and capabilities.
b. It will help him/her see his/her future problems and avoid them.
c. It will help him/her evaluate his/her relationships with his/her loved ones.
d. It will help him/her create means of communication with his/her loved ones.
A person obliged him/herself to dedicate his/her time to someone or in doing something.
COMMITMENT
It is the feeling or state of liking or falling for someone or something that provided pleasure on your
part. ATTRACTION
It is the act of being very familiar or a special kind of attachment with the company of someone.
INTIMACY
It is a sort of arrangement between two people sharing the same feelings and responsibility.
PARTNERSHIP
It is an abstract thing that is meant to be shown through different means and is one of the key
elements in any kind of relationship. LOVE

What is likely to happen when two people shared mutual love? Their relationship
will_______________.
a. grow in numbers alone
b. be pleasing for everybody
c. grow and become stronger
d. be broken and get separated
What personality does a good and real friend must have to make
the relationship stronger?
a. Envious b. assertive
c. Gregarious d. compassionate
What should a family avoid to maintain the trust in each member?
a. Affection b. dishonesty
c. disagreement d. encouragement
What item will BEST make a good romantic relationship or partnership to last?
a. infidelity b. generosity
c. insecurities d. communication

What item does NOT show a proper way of communicating one’s love
and affection to someone?
a. warm embrace
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b. frequent nagging
c. a tap on a shoulder
d. a kiss on the cheek
Being a good listener also entails being a good____________.
a. adviser b. teacher
c. partner d. provider
Which statement shows the meaning of “Respect begets respect”?
a. You should respect others for them to trust you.
b. You should respect others for them to accept you.
c. You should respect others for them to respect you.
d. You should respect others for them to encourage you.
What is likely to be developed by a person when he/she is able to experience the
sense of reliability from his/her loved ones?
a. He/She will become loyal.
b. He/She will become honest.
c. He/She will become sensible.
d. He/She will become responsible.
Which is NOT true about having mutual respect?
a. Only one party shows respect.
b. It makes the relationship stronger.
c. It develops wholesome relationships.
d. Both parties try to understand one another.
How can relationships help you have a sense of direction?
a. It helps me reach my own goal.
b. It helps me gain opportunities I need.
c. It helps me aim to share a good life to my loved ones.
d. It helps me project my concentration to the priorities of both.
What will be your BEST reason for valuing relationships?
a. It is the only way to get rid of my bad habits.
b. It is the way to become the best version of myself.
c. It is the first thing to establish connection with everyone.
d. It is the first step for me to become the person I dreamed to be.
How important is honesty in any relationship?
a. It creates miscommunication between you and your loved ones.
b. It is the only means of making the relationship stronger and firmer.
c. It is like the last piece of the puzzle that makes any relationship complete.
d. It is through one's honesty that he/she gains the trust of his/her loved ones.
Why is it important for us to become responsible in our relationships?
a. It helps us live a good life.
b. It gives us delightful feelings.
c. It makes us the most important person.
d. It helps us see the beautiful people around us.
Why is understanding the value of relationships important for you to study?
a. It leads me to assess my own relationship.
b. It leads to re-examine how people deal with me.
c. It leads me to change my values for the sake of others.
d. It leads me to the reality that no relationship is perfect.
What things clearly show that one person gives importance to his/her relationship?
a. He/She values his/her potential.
b. He/She values his/her reputation.
c. He/She values opportunities he/she receives.
d. He/She values the feelings of his/her loved ones.
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Various Roles of Different Individuals in Society and How They Can Influence People
Through their Leadership or Followership

1. volunteering to handle task F

2. set example L
3. exhibiting loyalty F
4. walk the talk L
5. offering suggestions for improvement F
6. willing to serve L
7. delegate work L
8. does not afraid to confront changes F
9. learn to appreciate L
10.be patient FL
11. proactive in developing excellence L
12. working effectively as a member F
13. does not sacrifice personal integrity FL
14. feels a sense of personal respect FL
15.understands where they are coming L

Friend is someone who is not related to you but very much willing to be part of your life. He/she is
like a family to you. TRUE
Partnership is a romantic relationship wherein two people create a special form of agreement,
understanding, love, intimacy and commitment. TRUE
Mutual respect is important to gain a healthy relationship. TRUE
Quality time can be characterized by having a positive aura and jolly characteristic whenever you
are with your loved ones. TRUE
Sense of reliability and security develop a sense of responsibility among the people in a
relationship. TRUE
Personal relationship refers to the intimate connection between two or more people established by
emotional bonds and interactions through constant and consistent communication. TRUE
Family is comprised with love, care, support, compassion and affection each member renders to
one another. TRUE
Becoming responsible in a relationship can make any form of relationship stronger. TRUE
Well-communicated love entails open communication TRUE
Good listening with a high value of integrity indicates non-judgmental and not discriminatory
presence. TRUE

In a society great leader can be influential. They can make or break

a team/ institution. To become excellent leader, they must be guided by the
following roles: Setting example is the first rule. Do not (1) compromise
anybody in the organization. Assumes and do (2) responsibility in guiding and
developing excellence in everyone. Do not wait for anyone to tell you what to
do. They must have an (3) initiative in planning and solving circumstances.
They must learn how to (4) capacitate himself and members. They must show
(5) enthusiasm that can motivate the followers.
To enhance good communication between leaders and followers,
great leader should pay (6) attention to facial expression, body language and
maintain eye contact, sentence should start with “I” instead of “You”. They
must (7) delegate work to a manageable task and explain thoroughly what you
are asking the members to do.
Some of these characteristics of a leader can be found in followers. A
great leader (8)encourages teamwork. (9)followers are team that can
contribute success in the leadership. They must have the following roles to
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become effective. They must feel and sense personal (10) responsibility and
ownership of their own behavior, ready to take (11)challenges and make stand
if the leader’s action (12)contradicts the best interest of the organizations. A cando attitude (13)
motivates himself to get things done easily and smoother.
Leaders want followers who seek to (14) enhance their own
growth and development rather than depending on the leader to do it. They
must also (15) realize that their actions affect the whole.

1. A servant leader put his own concern, motives, and interests first and foremost above the
others. Bluff
2. An efficient leader sets himself/herself as an example. Fact
3. Leaders are to serve others. Fact
4. Leaders want followers who seek to enhance their own growth and development rather than
depending on the leader to do it. Fact
5. Effective follower feels a sense of personal responsibility and ownership for his or her own
behavior in the organization. Fact
6. Effective follower does understand the needs of the organizations. Bluff
7. Effective leaders listen deeply to others and emphasize with people around. Fact
8. Great leaders get easily annoyed and cannot hold temper if untoward incident happens. Bluff
9. In leading a team or organizations, a great leader divide works depending on the length of
service in the company. Fact
10.Effective follower does not feel the sense of ownership and responsibility for his/her own
behavior. Bluff
11.Effective followers view the struggle of change and transformation as a mutual experience
shared by all members, support the leader and does not afraid to confront the changes. Fact
12.Effective leaders should be guided by their own duties and responsibilities. Fact
13.Effective leader should not be proactive in guiding, teaching, and developing excellence in
everyone.They must do their own initiative Bluff
14.A leader’s job becomes smoother when he or she has followers who are positive and self-
motivated Fact
15.Effective leaders must know how to appreciate members. It can boost their motivation to work
Fact

Social Influence
1. It occurs when an individual changes his/her behavior to adapt to social
demands.
A. Social Influence
B. Social Facilitation
C. Social Relationship
D. Personal Relationship

2. It is the change in one’s behavior to be more like the others in the group.
A. Obedience
B. Conformity
C. Compliance
D. Complement
3. It is the change in one’s behavior by doing a request asked by another individual in exchange
for reward or punishment.
A. Conformity
B. Compliance
C. Complacent
D. Complement
4. It is the change in one’s behavior by following the demand given by the individuals you respect.
A. Objective
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B. Obedience
C. Conformity
D. Compliance
5. It happens to a person in order to perform better at working with others than working alone.
A. Social Change
B. Social Loafing
C. Social Influence
D. Social Facilitation
6. Which of the following characterizes a conforming individual?
A. Likes reward
B. Gains approval
C. Fears punishment
D. Accepts responsibility
7. Which of the following is not a characteristic of a conforming individual?
A. Gains approval
B. Avoids rejection
C. Accepts opinion
D. Accepts responsibility
8. Which of the following characterizes a compliant individual?
A. Likes reward
B. Accepts opinions
C. Respects authority
D. Accepts responsibility
9. Which of the following is NOT a characteristic of a compliant individual?
A. Likes reward
B. Follows request
C. Avoids rejection
D. Fears punishment
10.Which of the following characterizes an obedient individual?
A. Accepts opinion
B. Avoids rejection
C. Fears punishment
D. Respects authority
11.Which of the following is NOT a characteristic of an obedient individual?
A. Follows order
B. Avoids rejection
C. Respects authority
D. Accepts responsibility
12.Sierra greets her grandmother’s friend to show respect. A
13. Edward posted on social media positive remarks about his peers. A
14.Alicia is motivated to receive a high grade after answering all the test items correctly. B
15.Armand joins a group to support advocacy for responsible citizenship C

1. Perception is to interpret information as Social Influence is to change behavior

2. Social Influence is to change in behavior as Social facilitation is to work in groups.
3. Perception is to thought as Influence is to behavior
4. Social Relationship is to interact as Social influence is to adjust
5. Conformity is to gain approval as Compliance is to like reward
6. Compliance is to fear of punishment as Conformity is to avoid rejection
7. Obedience is to accept responsibility as Conformity is to accept opinion
8. Conformity is to gain approval as Obedience is to respect authority
9. Compliance is to follow explicitly as Conformity is to follow norms
10. Purposely is to on purpose as Purposefully is to done on purpose
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