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Bringing Science and Reason to Self-Help with Addictive Behavior Volume 13, Issue 4 • Fall 2007

A. Thomas Horvath, PhD, President Emmett Velten, PhD, Editor

This issue is David Burns, MD, author of the best-


dedicated to seller, , described how he
Feeling Good

Dr. Albert Ellis and Ellis maintained correspondence.


1913-2007 “Even though I belonged in another
school of thought—with Aaron Beck––
President’s Letter Ellis was generous with his time. Ellis’s
each speaker. Full text of the remarks work in the 50s provided the foundation
of many of the speakers is available at for much of what we today call
http://www.rebtnetwork.org/library/ cognitive-behavioral therapy.” Burns
In memory of Albert Ellis, PhD, said he once had presented data to Ellis
tribute_to_albert_ellis.html. on the importance of therapist empathy,
1913-2007 Jon Carlson, PsyD, EdD, psychology at a time when Ellis emphasized getting
On August 17th at the annual conven- professor and author, organized the the client to do homework, regardless of
tion of the American Psychological tribute turned memorial, and introduced how the client felt about the therapist.
Association in San Francisco, a each speaker. (Continued on page 2)

memorial was held for Albert Ellis, PhD, Bob Alberti, PhD, co-author of the
the founder of Rational Emotive bestseller, , and the
Your Perfect Right Inside:
Behavior Therapy (REBT). Despite editor at Impact Publishers, noted that President’s Letter
failing health Dr. Ellis had been Impact had published five of Ellis’s 85 In memory of Albert Ellis, PhD . . . . . . .1
expected to attend, but he died on July (!) books. He wished he could have 4-Point ProgramSM . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .1
24. What was originally organized as a published more of them. The copyright SMART Progress
tribute became a memorial to Ellis’s life for all these books is held by the Albert SMART Recovery® Online Update . . . .3
and work. About one dozen students Training Staff Pursuant to
Ellis Institute, indicating Ellis’s complete the Throughcare Link . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4
and colleagues spoke, filling the two commitment to establishing and main- SMART Ideas
hours with stories of Ellis’s courage, taining the Institute on solid financial “Problems,” Medical
wisdom, wit, curiosity, learning, profes- ground, even at his own expense. and Otherwise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5
sional contributions, and personal Despite health problems, Ellis was still Gullible’s Travels . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7
generosity. Below are my highlights of It’s Only a Game . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7
signing books as late as 2004. Fighting Fear . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8
Tucson, Arizona - City with
The SMART Recovery® The program offers specific tools and The Most SMART Recovery®
Meetings in the World! . . . . . . . . . . . . .9
4-Point ProgramSM techniques for each of the program points:

T
People Power
he SMART Recovery® Point #1: Enhancing and maintaining A Tribute to Dr. Albert Ellis . . . . . . . .12
(Self-Management And motivation to abstain Two Great Ways to Support
SMART Recovery® Without
Recovery Training) Point #2: Coping with urges Really Trying . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13
program helps individuals Point #3: Managing thoughts, feelings and I Won’t Forget Albert Ellis . . . . . . . . . .13
gain independence from behavior (problem-solving) Prison Outreach
addictive behavior. InsideOut® Launches
Our efforts are based on
Point #4: Balancing momentary and Spanish-Language Version . . . . . . . . . .15
enduring satisfactions From Beyond the Walls . . . . . . . . . . . .15
(lifestyle balance)
scientific knowledge and evolve

as scientific knowledge evolves.


3-Minute REBT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .16
President’s Letter Continued

Ellis changed his views based on Burns She stated that Ellis would definitely psychoanalysts, and both ended up
data, an act of intellectual honesty that be helpful in getting her to think having similar views of its efficacy.
made a deep impression on Burns. “He more functionally. Bill Knaus, PhD, also of the Institute
was kind, gentle, and supportive to me, Art Freeman, PhD, psychology of Critical Thinking, described Al Ellis
even though I never quite knew why.” professor, a past president of the the private individual as warm, cordial,
Burns’s remarks left me with the Association for Advancement of responsive, and generous. Ellis deeply
impression that, despite a different Behavior Therapy (now the Association believed in freedom and liberty for all,
public persona, in private with Burns or for Behavioral and Cognitive and fought for them to the end. He
with anyone, that’s just who Albert Ellis Therapies), and like Burns primarily a repeatedly had the courage to take on
was: kind, gentle, and supportive. Beckian cognitive therapist, spoke about issues that others would avoid. Ellis was
Elliott Cohen, PhD, at the Institute how Ellis helped him finish his disserta- deeply upset by recent events at the
of Critical Thinking, suggested that Ellis tion in 1966. Freeman had everything Albert Ellis Institute, where he was
was a philosophical pioneer. At a time finished except the write-up of the voted off of the Board of Trustees. A
when philosophy was dominated by results, but couldn’t bring himself to judge later re-instated him. Despite this
logical positivism and linguistic analysis complete the project. For five months conflict, Ellis believed that REBT would
(e.g., Wittgenstein, Russell), Ellis was he had attended a therapy group, led by carry on, and helped establish
interested in turning the power of a Freudian, for doctoral students unable REBTNetwork.org.
philosophy onto the problems of to finish their dissertations. Although he Alan Marlatt, PhD, a pioneer in the
everyday life. In this regard he was was gaining “insight,” little was being field of addiction treatment and relapse
similar to ancient philosophers, espe- written. He saw Ellis for six bi-weekly prevention training in particular, spoke
cially the Stoics (e.g., Epictetus, Marcus 30-minute sessions, and guess what? By on “Moving from 12-steps to SMART
Aurelius) on whom his work was partly the last session, he’d completed his Recovery®. Many of his comments were
based. Cohen hopes that in time Ellis’s dissertation! In homage to Ellis’s famed based on information I sent him about
REBT will come to be understood not rational songs, Freeman provided lyrics the history of SMART Recovery®, and
just as therapy but also as philosophy. commemorating him, set to “Oh, how Dr. Ellis has been the “patron saint”
REBT emphasizes that the mind is Susanna,” and led us in singing them. of our organization.
active, not passive, that absolutist At one point the audience was left to John Norcross, PhD, a leader in the
thinking is often inaccurate, and, complete a couplet, to rhyme with study of psychotherapy, spoke of Ellis’s
“Thought without behavior is empty; “Puck.” Everyone seemed to know what courage in arguing half a century ago
behavior without clear thinking is to do! that homosexuality was not a disorder,
blind.” Participants in SMART Aaron Beck, MD, founder of cogni- that sex education was needed, and
Recovery® already appreciate Ellis as tive therapy, was an unexpected speaker. that the outcome of psychotherapy
both therapist and philosopher, even He had published a paper in the 60s on should be studied empirically. Ellis, in
though—true to Ellis’s inquiring spirit— how people think when they are 1950, was the third person to present
they don’t always agree with him! depressed. Ellis called him to discuss it, psychotherapy outcome data. Norcross
After Cohen spoke we viewed two and encouraged him in his work. Beck quoted Tom Paine: “He who dares not
segments from the Gloria film, in which then invited Ellis to make a Grand offend cannot be honest.”
Carl Rogers, Fritz Perls, and Albert Rounds presentation at Penn. Beck was John Minor, PhD, an independent
Ellis each work in turn with the same grateful for the support. Beck noted that practitioner, described Al as the
woman. One segment shown was a he had started out to get evidence in “consummate psychologist.” He noted
portion of the Ellis and Gloria session, support of psychoanalysis, whereas Ellis Al’s voracious reading habits, and his
and the second was a portion of her had already realized the mistakes of ability to manage diabetes well past an
de-briefing about the three sessions. psychoanalysis. Both were trained age when most people would have died
from it.

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to discuss his book, and SMART
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Continued
Recovery®.
11:00 a.m. Sunday: Anne Fletcher,
Gerald Corey, EdD, a psychology as a saint not for his language, but author of Sober for Good: New Solutions
professor and author, noted that Al for his complete dedication to the for Drinking Problems – Advice from
“brought psychology to the streets,” but well-being of his fellow human beings. Those Who have Succeeded, will be on
gave credit to his predecessors. He was hand to discuss her book (which has
always ready to give a workshop. He brought many to the SMART
relentlessly encouraged clients to do Recovery® program!) as well as the
their homework, including exposing importance of recovery options.
themselves to feared situations (PYA: 1:00 p.m. Sunday: A Tribute to
“push your ass”), and to challenge their Albert Ellis, led by Dr. Emmett Velten
own thinking. He didn’t expect others (co-author of a number of books with
to be like him, but he wanted them to Dr. Ellis) and Jonathan von Breton,
learn from him. Director of SOL.
Nick Cummings, PhD, a past president 2:00 p.m. Sunday: Dr. Robert
of the American Psychological Association Meyers, author of Get Your Loved One
and a leader in the field of brief Sober, Alternatives to Nagging, Pleading
psychotherapy, first met Ellis in 1954. They SMART Progress
and Threatening. Dr. Meyers is also
had the longest association in this group of the creator of the Community
speakers. Ellis used to tease Cummings SMART Recovery® Online Update Reinforcement Approach and Family
(born in 1924) that Cummings was “just a Meet Renowned Authors, Visit with Training (CRAFT) intervention,
youngster.” Cummings believed that Ellis Volunteers, and enjoy the FUNdraiser! which is a scientifically based inter-
used REBT on himself as much as anyone, This year SMART Recovery Online vention designed to help concerned
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and that he was the “tenderest, shyest” (SOL) will be celebrating our 9th significant others (CSOs) to engage
man he had known. Birthday, and we plan to do it in a treatment-refusing substance abusers
Debbie Joffe-Ellis, Al’s widow, was also BIG way! Please plan to join us for into treatment. Note: SOL has weekly
an unexpected speaker. She noted that Al some of these outstanding events! online meetings for CSOs.
practiced what he preached. When she A 24-hour Chat-a-thon, beginning 4:00 p.m. Sunday: Dr. Reid Hester,
found herself furious over the actions of at 11:59 a.m. Saturday, October 6th, renowned researcher (he has been a
the Institute, he encouraged her to “just and ending at midnight on October Principal Investigator on a total of
understand what they are thinking.” This 7th. At News & Views press time, seven NIAAA funded research proj-
shift allowed her to empathize. In his final the following special guest speakers ects) and creator of the new SMART
months of life, he continued to be kind. will be featured (check the message Recovery® online web course, will be
She gave as an example how he spoke boards for updates on any discussing the new online course, as
with one of his caregivers, who had just new/exciting additions): well as the empirical basis of the
lost a sibling. 7:00 a.m. Sunday - Fraser Ross, elements of SMART Recovery®.
“Saint” may seem an incongruous SMART Recovery® UK - Love Songs 6:00 p.m. Sunday: Dr. Michael
concept given Al’s public persona. and SMART Recovery® Tools for the Edelstein, author of Three Minute
After Marlatt mentioned this concept, Stages of Change - E-Voice Therapy, will be available to discuss his
two other speakers took it up. Bill Knaus 10:00 a.m. Sunday: Dr. Tom very popular book.
had already noted how a dozen nuns Horvath, President of SMART
had walked out of a 1962 presentation 10:00 p.m. Sunday: Reminiscing —
Recovery® and Author of Sex, Drugs, 9 years of SMART Recovery® online,
Al made at Springfield College. Gambling & Chocolate: A Workbook for led by Arby, one of the originators
However, at this tribute, Al was viewed Overcoming Addictions, will be available of SOL.

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Remember…check the message Training Staff Pursuant to teach offenders the theory, tools, and
boards from time to time for techniques of Cognitive Behavioural
announcements of additional special the Throughcare Link with Therapy (CBT), as used in SMART
guest speakers! Substance Abuse Interventions Recovery®. SMART Recovery® is a
Throughout the weekend we’ll be between Corrective Services successful CBT program that is used
having the annual SOL FUNdraiser. around the world and is available
Exceptional prizes to be auctioned off: and the Community throughout the community, and also
by Geoffrey Wilkinson, Program Development Officer,
to offenders in custody. SMART is a
Gourmet Coffee or Tea Gift Department of Corrective Services, Sydney, AU
preferred option and link for the
Collection from Roast De Gourmet Throughcare management of offenders
The Getting SMART training experience in
$100 Barnes and Noble gift card Tasmania, June 2007 requiring ongoing substance abuse
$100 gift card from Williams Sonoma The Tasmanian Department of Justice treatment with a anti-criminality
Canadian and Australian versions of requested assistance from the NSW focus.
the latest Harry Potter book Department of Corrective Services The Getting SMART and SMART
Plus: Autographed books, unique to train correctional centre staff in Recovery® programs have already been
artwork and handicraft, stamps, the anti-criminality substance abuse widely applied throughout correctional
surprises, and more! intervention, settings in NSW and
Getting QLD. Many organi-
Bidding will end at 9:00 PM EDT SMART. The
Sunday evening, so be sure to get you latter is an zations play a
bids in throughout the weekend. And evidence-based significant role in
better keep an eye on your bids so as program the big picture of
to not lose out at the last minute! devised by the Throughcare treat-
Drop by, day or night (or both!) NSW Offender ment for offenders,
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in order to training in Tasmania and the community.


The Tasmanian
Department of
SMART Recovery ® Program Tools & Techniques Justice organized a
three-day
The SMART Recovery 4-Point Program employs a
® SM
Participants are training/workshop
variety of tools and techniques to help individuals encouraged to learn for 20 people repre-
gain independence from addictive behavior. how to use each tool senting not only
• Change Plan Worksheet and to practice the correctional centre
• Cost/Benefit Analysis tools and techniques staff, but also
These • ABCs of REBT (Rational Emotive as they progress community organiza-
Behavior Therapy) for Urge Coping tions. In attendance,
tools • ABCs of REBT for Emotional Upsets toward Point 4 of the were staff from
• DISARM (Destructive Images Self-talk program—achieving Relationships
include: Awareness and Refusal Method) lifestyle balance and Australia, Salvation
• Brainstorming leading a fulfilling Army, Red Cross,
• Role-playing and Rehearsing and healthy life.

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The Link social services, The Bridge Integrated Offender Management, community based rehab as opposed to
drug rehabilitation services, Anglicare, Tasmanian Prison Service serving a custodial sentence. However,
and correctional centre staff including “I have reflected a lot on what I have community based rehabilitation
case management custodial officers. taken away and how it will be helpful, not centres often complain about the
only as a professional, in the work that I behaviour and attitudes that offenders
Training all interested parties together bring into their services. This
proved beneficial and practical. Some of do, but personally. It was a pleasure to be
there amongst that group.” Sonya Bacic, highlights the fact that many
the reasons being: community-based services need
Family and Relationship Counselor,
• There was a high level of Relationships Australia Tasmania additional support regarding the
enthusiasm, participation, and treatment complexities of offenders.
diverse skills. “I thought the training was great. This This training process will enhance
is such a great programme. I really hope it the Department’s opportunity to make
• People from a number of is able to come to life in the Tasmanian
occupations were there, which better informed community based
correction system as well as our commu- referrals for offenders, and at the same
enabled attendees to broaden their nity sector.” Michelle Ewington, Red time allow for community services
perspectives on the bigger picture Cross, Tasmania to provide specialized treatment for
of offender management. “The knowledge I gained over the 3 their clients.
• Attendees and organizations days will be invaluable to me.” Pam
linked up, using Throughcare Enniss, Assessment & Planning Unit,
treatment links. Tasmanian Prison Services
• The cost was the same to train “A thoroughly enjoyable and worth-
either 6 or 20 staff, which made the while 3 days. It can only improve my
workshop highly accessible to all. value and skills as a Correctional Officer.”
Francis Cronin, Correctional Officer, SMART Ideas
Geoffrey Tasmanian Prison Services
Wilkinson and
Tara Rouse
from the
Offender “Problems,” Medical
Programs Unit
conducted the training, and all materials and Otherwise
by Hank Robb, PhD, ABPP
for the training were produced by
inmates working at Corrective Services Recently, I again heard someone
Industries at Grafton Correctional talking about “medical problems,” and,
Centre, NSW. Participants commended as usual, my little rap about “medical
the facilitators, as well as the excellent
Experiential learning required everyone to participate

problems” went off in my head. It


quality of the materials. What can we learn from this goes something like this. “Medical
experience? It is evident that this problems” are when you take medicine
Some of the feedback from the cross-sector style of staff training
participants was… and the medicine gives you problems.
would be a beneficial ongoing prac- It has nothing to do with the “nature”
“I completed the training feeling amply tice. Many offenders entering custody of a problem for which one takes
confident of delivering the program in our facing drug related charges seek medicine. Labeling problems as
correctional setting.” Scott Winters, assistance from a corrective services “medical” just tends to drum up more
Alcohol & Drug Program Facilitator, addictions Counselor so as to enter a business for the medical industry.

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More important, it helps stop the thought about doing this instead of Crummy problem-solving methods
“Blame Game” from being played by, that?” The partner who wanted such as those suggest, or so I think,
and on, the person with the “medical commiseration then says something that sometimes there are other and
problem.” This is because part of like, “You just don’t understand!” more life-affirming ways to treat life
having a “medical problem” is not And, the problem-solver, usually by experiences.
being “at fault” for “having it.” Of now annoyed, responds with some- It is common to talk about acting
course, one could just stop the Blame thing like, “What do you mean? I’m rationally when participating in
Game because it isn’t that useful or working as hard as I can!” SMART Recovery® meetings. In a
pleasant to play, but people often The root of such exchanges is very important way, being “rational”
insist on having a “good reason” to do acting as if the only available response means being “flexible.” It means doing
that. “Having” a “medical problem” to life experiences is to treat them as things that actually work in growing
seems like a “good reason” to stop the “problems,” and to start solving them. and maintaining a fulfilling life, not
blaming and condemning. As the saying goes, “When all you just for today, but for as long as
However, instead of the above, this have is a hammer, everything starts to possible. Flexibility means more than
time when I heard “medical problems,” look like a nail.” Thus, when the only having many different problem-solving
I realized that life experiences don’t response a person has is problem- strategies. It means having other
come labeled as “problems” either. Life solving, then every life experience ways to relate to life experiences
experiences are exactly that—life expe- starts to look like a problem in need of besides treating them as problems to
riences. The way we relate to them is a solution. While commiseration be solved.
up to us. We could choose to treat won’t solve problems, it will draw Consider urges. One can treat them
them as “problems” and get busy people closer together, which also is as “problems” or one can treat them
“problem-solving,” or we could choose something worthwhile in life. just as facts to be made peace with. In
to treat them in other ways. This can be real trouble when one fact, urges tend to come and go and,
I had previously noticed this in realizes that the nature of life is such if not acted on, over time they tend
a specific way when couples complain that we are not always going to get to come less often. Benign neglect
about “communication problems.” what we want. And the nature of can be a very effective way to relate
In truth, most couples with human beings is to feel sad when they to life experiences.
“communication problems” don’t have don’t get what they want. So, we get Not only can SMART Recovery®
communication problems. They have the admonition, “All life is sorrowful.” meetings be good places to develop
agreement problems. Each knows You just can’t be alive as a human problem-solving strategies, they also
exactly what the other person wants. being without sometimes feeling sad can be good places to develop
At any rate, sometimes couples because some of the time you won’t additional ways to relate to life
really do have communication get what you want—and maybe a lot experiences. Try treating yourself as a
problems. The most common one of the time! person to be loved, not a problem to
starts when one person wants the The best way to relate to this be solved. It may just “work better.”
other to commiserate with him or situation is to make peace with it. Editor’s Note: Hank cogently points out
her. Commiseration sounds like this, Turn problem-solving loose on, “I the folly of musturbating (at B) about
“Wow, that must be so painful. I’m so don’t want sorrow, but as long as I’m Activating Events (at A) we dislike, but
sorry you’re having to face this.” The alive, I will have sorrow, because all cannot solve (change) without possibly
partner, however, doesn’t recognize life is sorrowful,” and what do you get? causing ourselves more problems, or
that what is wanted is commiseration Bump yourself off, take drugs, drink cannot solve (change) at all, such as the
and instead starts problem-solving, like a fish, shop till you drop, etc. inevitable Activating Event, namely:
which sounds like, “Well, have you “Life’s a bitch, and then you die.”

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Gullible’s Travels I made a list of 40 people in my CENT of my entire social circle either
The incredible effect of stopping an
social circle and then categorized had no reaction or else congratulated
them by their response to my quiet, me. My reticence on public disclosure
face-to-face announcement that I was MY PROBLEM, and the idea
addiction and its effects on people you

know, love, or tolerate.


would no longer be drinking. that I would be stigmatized or
About two years ago, after legal ostracized was an Irrational Belief
problems with addictions, I decided While the sample size is small, and
the story is anecdotal, I could break residing in my mind.
(with the heavy-handed guidance of
the court) to quit drinking. Given the list down into three categories. Here endeth the lesson.
my live-for-the-moment lifestyle, this 50% of my acquaintances didn’t Submitted by: L’Angelo Mysterioso
was a dramatic change. While care at all. It was truly a non-issue.
handling within myself the fact that My “non-drinking” pronouncement It’s Only a Game
I had quit drinking was difficult had ZERO effect on their lives or my by Joe Gerstein, New England Volunteer Advisor

enough, I couldn’t figure out how I relationship with them. At a recent prison meeting, an interesting
would address disclosing this fact to 30% of my social circle said, “It’s scenario played out. One of the inmates,
the outside world. First I concealed about time!” They knew that I had a an African-American man about 35-years
this life-changing experience from problem, but hadn’t been able to tell old, doing his 3rd “bid” or sentence, had
the outside world, and I used the me so. I cannot resent them for not “sold” a pair of sneakers to a younger man,
standard copouts: pushing me to quit or slow down. who delivered a lot of excuses, but never
the payment (which involved some
• Sorry, I’m on medication. 20% of my social circle did NOT canteen credit transfers). Hearing that the
• I have a very early meeting understand why I had decided to quit
tomorrow morning. sneakers’ purchaser was being transferred to
for good. They encouraged me that I a lower-security prison, the older man
• My drive home is filled with cops on could have just one drink, maybe two, confronted him and got the sneakers back,
the prowl. and it would not be a problem for me with more excuses.
• I’m still hammered from last night. to continue drinking.
• I can’t drink now and still do Naturally enough, he had a strong
For this last group, I came to realize impulse to “pop” the guy, and certainly
ecstasy, cocaine, and heroin later on. three things: (1) Because it was impos-
had such a disrespectful episode occurred
After six months, I finally got sible for me to have just one drink (or earlier in his history, he almost certainly
through the intellectual knothole of maybe two), this crowd did NOT have would have, he said. However, he knew
letting my social circle (gradually) my best interest at heart. (2) The only there would be severe consequences if he
know that I wasn’t drinking. That thing I had in common with these initiated a fight, so ultimately just
discreet public acknowledgement people was drinking. This being the walked away, seething.
made me realize two things: ONLY common bond (and since I I asked him why it was that now he
1. The personal difficulty with letting wasn’t going to drink) truly meant I was able to think rationally about the
people know individually of my didn’t fit in with them, they didn’t fit consequences and choose to avoid them
change of lifestyle turned out to be in with me, or both. (3) We would not (obviously a more mature decision)
MY PROBLEM. have to make an explicit decision to whereas previously he had been unable to
2. Within my circle of friends, self- part company. We would probably do this.
selection will take place—by this I drift apart—and that’s what happened. His answer shocked me: “CHESS”!
mean my mutual interaction with A lot of the baggage/trauma/drama He had taken up chess during this
these people will be guided by how of quitting an addiction and acknowl- term and was very enthusiastic about it.
they NOW treat me, and how I react edging it publicly is self-induced. Just He played almost every day, considered
to their response. think about my case. EIGHTY PER that he was quite expert, read books

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about chess strategy, etc. “Obviously,” he Another of our meeting attendees had boogie man. You lie there paralyzed
asserted, “chess is a game that requires you been punched in the face by another with fear, shaking, eyes wide open in
to think ahead. You always have to be inmate without warning. Because he had darkness. But the feeling is just
thinking two or three moves ahead. If you been reminding himself that no matter too…scary. So you get up, grab the
see that pawn sitting there just begging to what, he must not get a “ticket” because Louisville slugger and grope through
be picked off, it may be a trap. You can’t he was going to pre-release in a week, he drawers, far more terrifying than the
just plow ahead and make the obvious had taken this blow and walked away. A monster on the house, and get the
move. You must think your way through Corrections Officer, who had not directly flashlight and you sneak out, still
the problem before you move.” witnessed the altercation, had written him shaking. You shine the flashlight
The object of chess is to checkmate up, and thus he had spent a week in solitary around, bat poised for destruction.
the King. Period. Nothing else counts. and lost his pre-release. He appealed that The shadows hold terrors beyond
When inmates set as their highest goal to decision. When the event was investigated description, the light casts glows on
get out of prison as soon as possible, or to in more depth, he had been exonerated hunched shapes of bushes that hide
get to a better prison, and that becomes and went straight to pre-release. He agreed monsters…and you discover the tree
the “check-mate” issue, then their atti- that the only reason that he had avoided limb that you meant to trim is bashing
tude and behavior change. disaster was that he was constantly on the shingles. Now you are not
rehearsing what he would do if provoked: scared, you use the bat for a walking
What a marvelous paradigm of what we walk away. stick and you go back to bed, sleep
are trying to get across to people with the soundly with the sound of the tree
SMART Recovery® program. Naturally, In the same way, a chess player had
better resist the impulse to take pieces off setting the beat for a dream.
thinking it through does not always
produce the best answer, but it does allow the board or do the “obvious” move, and Naming Dragons, that’s the term I
one to avoid the impulsive, “spur of the instead, had better assess situation carefully have used since I was a kid. Once you
moment” decision, which very often is so as not to act without thinking through name a fear, you can tame it. Or at
self-destructive. the long-term consequences. least take away its power.
Our brains are set up to handle instant In a way, life is a chess game. It can be a My life for sure has been filled with
responses to threats or temptations. But lot of fun, but is ultimately deadly serious. scary things, things I didn’t know,
it is amazing how humans can actually Decisions often have widespread and couldn’t understand. Recovery has
assess an acute situation within a second lingering implications. We should be given me a chance to pick up the flash-
and avoid precipitous but inherently making them methodically in dealing with light and the bat and confront them.
destructive actions if they want to do so. people, events, and substances. Fear of the unknown. Every great
And know that this type of assessment Let’s all learn to be chess players. It pioneer (I choose to believe this) was
is possible. works for addictions. It works for life. That for a moment terrified of what was
Provocations are legion in prison, the is the essence of maturity. over the next rise, what lay beyond
rule rather than the exception. Inmates the horizon, what lurked in the next
who never thought that they could react to Fighting Fear shadow. But the need to go forward,
a provocation in any way except direct
by susanj, SMART Recovery® Online Participant, as posted the desire to discover—well, it’s a
confrontation and physical violence, can
on the Message Boards
good motivator. These days my
learn to walk away and feel good about it It’s dark, the wind is blowing, there’s a Louisville slugger is the ABC tool.
once they understand the technique of deep thump and then a scratching— I am finding all kinds of new and
always considering the long-term conse- thump scratch, thump scratch—and sometimes terrifying feelings. And yet
quences. It isn’t easy, but they learn they your mind gets to work, stirring the I am able to step up and take them on.
can do it and feel good about it. Self- cauldron of fear: it’s a monster, Just recently I was paralyzed by
empowerment is satisfying and someone’s in the house, I am bait, I the fear that I would live out my life
habit-forming am going to become a victim of the in loneliness. That I had such a flaw

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that no one could possibly WANT to Maybe the feeling of lonely is part of to attend. Learn tools to help you, and
be my friend. And I was like a kid the recovery. So much of what we do in to help you help your loved ones, in
banging a cabinet door on my fingers, recovery means doing it in our heads, their journeys toward sobriety!
just doing it to see how long it would and that kind of separates you from the
hurt and which bang wasn’t gonna rest of the world. In this crowded old NOTE: Dr. Bob Meyers will be
hurt. I just kept doing the same planet we are never really alone. Ever joining in the SOL FUNdraiser as a
old thing thinking that the results watched kids on the playground? How guest speaker at 2:00 p.m. on Sunday,
would change. sometimes they play side by side without October 7th. You can order a copy of
Sometimes getting rid of the boogie interacting? Man, kids are smart. and pose
Get Your Loved One Sober

man means renaming a fear. I took They know that just being near is questions directly to the author!
the loneliness dragon and renamed sometimes enough.
her solitude. She seems so less I have learned that my surges of new
dangerous now. feelings are a lot like scary sounds in the People Power
You see, I thought the isolation of night, I can just hide from them in
early recovery was a short-term thing, a terror or I can drag out the flashlight
time to focus all of my attentions on and the ball bat and get to figuring out
the business of getting sober, finding what is scaring me.
the edges of sanity and then when I Life seems full of the unknown—
was better then the isolation would go just ask the astronauts, the divers,
away. Well, it kind of does; you are the explorers. And from my silly
more able to ease into the world perspective, I am all of these. Just a
without feeling as if you have doggy-do pioneer in my own life. Now, that’s Tucson, Arizona - City with The
in your purse, but there is still a part of FFT = food for thought! Most SMART Recovery®
you that holds back. In the middle Be well and courageous. Meetings in the World!
stages (the part I am still in) of by Thomas M. Litwicki, Member, SMART Recovery®
recovery, we cherish the time we spend DID YOU KNOW…that SMART Board of Directors
alone. The solitude gives us room to Recovery® Online (SOL) has a weekly
think, plan, dream, and scheme. Lonely I recently learned that Tucson has
meeting just for CSOs (Concerned more SMART Recovery® meetings
and alone are not the same thing. Significant Others)? It is open to all, but
Lonely is a feeling, alone is a place. than any other city in the world.
its focus is family, friends, and loved Considering that Tucson is my home
When I crawled out from under my ones who would like to learn the
blankets and examined this feeling of town, and I have worked for more
SMART Recovery® tools and the than ten years to get SMART
loneliness, I realized that like the tree CRAFT tools. CRAFT is Community
limb, it was just something I hadn’t Recovery® fully integrated into the
gotten around to yet.
Reinforcement And Family Training. prison system in Arizona, I began to
Dr. Bob Meyers at the University of wonder: How is it that a town like
Like many people, I am terrified of New Mexico developed it several years Tucson—which is around the 65th
being lonely for all of my life, dying ago, and it has served families in the
alone, being left behind. Funny how odd largest metropolitan area in
community quite successfully. SMART America—would have such a swell of
that sounds when you see it written Recovery® Online members also
down. But sometimes while we are SMART Recovery® Meetings? What
participate and offer valuable insights are the ingredients that make this
struggling to avoid being lonely, we to Family and Friends at the Sunday
“hook up” with people who may not be town different? This led me to
12:30 ET online meetings. Please feel investigate the implementation of
the best choice. Or we try too hard to be free to attend or invite your loved ones
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a historical review of SMART provider of transitional housing services, SMARTcal listserv, I hear many
Recovery® growth in Tucson and the Old Pueblo Community Foundation, accounts of arguments with legal
people behind that growth. has opened its doors to SMART systems, and lawsuits against state
The most comprehensive analysis of Recovery® meetings. agencies demanding parity. None of
evidence based research is provided by In addition to hosting the actual this has occurred in Tucson, where
the University of South Florida, SMART Recovery® Meetings, the SMART Recovery® has flourished
National Implementation Research SMART Recovery® philosophy has What happened here that might be
Institute. In their implementation been embraced by institutions translated to other areas?
manual, Implementation Research: A throughout Arizona. Our Regional I suggest that SMART Recovery®
Synthesis of the Literature, Dean Fixsen Behavioral Health Authority, the flourished in Tucson because of a handful
and others identify six stages to imple- Community Partnership of Southern of dedicated volunteers and members. It
mentation of evidence based methods. Arizona, supports the integration of seems that SMART Recovery® has
These include Exploration and SMART Recovery® through free grown here based on a simple mission of
Adoption, Program Installation, quarterly training sessions offered by making groups available to those who
Initial Implementation, Full Ken Rogers, a SMART Recovery® want to attend.
Operation, Innovation, and Member and Volunteer. I also had Volunteers have led a SMART
Sustainability. I suggest that Tucson is the pleasure to provide training on Recovery® revolution in Tucson. But it
in the Full Operation Stage and our methods to behavioral health has been a generally quiet revolution.
moving into Innovation and providers attending the Summer Some of the first meetings and regular
Sustainability. Institute, an annual research imple- trainings in Tucson were organized by
Currently there are nine SMART mentation conference supported by Dr. Emmett Velten in the mid 1990s,
Recovery® Meetings available to the the Addiction Technology Transfer when he still lived in the Bay Area. He
public in Tucson, and seven meetings Center and the Center for Applied and Dr. Patricia Penn, now a clinical
held in institutions. Meetings are Behavioral Health Policy. and research psychologist with La
supported by the four major behavioral Finally, I have the honor of sitting Frontera Center in Tucson, had been
health providers of inpatient and outpa- on the Co-Occurring Policy Advisory friends when she lived in the Bay Area.
tient services; the Arizona Department Team, a committee formed by the As he did with everyone who would
of Corrections through meetings in their Governor’s Office to advise the state listen (or not), Emmett had ceaselessly
general population and their treatment legislature on policy and funding proselytized for—then—Rational
programs; the Pima County Probation needs for persons struggling with Recovery. Pat listened. When she
Department, which invites SMART co-occurring disorders. All of the moved to Tucson to retrain as a clin-
Recovery® volunteers to present each behavioral health providers currently ical psychologist at the U. of A., Pat
year at their annual Probation Officer sitting on this committee express their soon secured a five-year NIDA grant
Training; other peer support organiza- support for SMART Recovery®. to compare—then—Rational
tions such as Hope, Inc., which provides All of this points to full systems Recovery and 12-step. Thus began
consumer-managed behavioral health integration here in Tucson. But the SMART Recovery®’s behavioral
services; youth programs, such as the question still remains, why Tucson? So health system integration, with Pat’s
Pima Prevention Partnership, which many people I speak with are strug- research on the application of
initiated meetings facilitated by youth in gling to get SMART Recovery® SMART Recovery® for persons with
their outpatient clinic; the University of integrated with local behavioral mental health disorders. Emmett was
Arizona, which hosts a meeting in the health systems and implement the consultant for the Rational
Student Campus Health Service depart- community based meetings. On the Recovery module. He wrote its
ment; and most recently, the largest

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training manual, flew down to Tucson If there is an implication for increasing opportunities for members
often for trainings, and in 1997 he SMART Recovery® as a worldwide to take the lead in helping other people
ended up moving here. organization, I believe it is to increase help themselves. There is sufficient
Besides Pat and Emmett and one our focus on starting SMART membership in Tucson to support our
leader of RR meetings, Bob X., there Recovery® meetings because we enjoy local needs and provide funding to the
were two people in the corrections seeing people empower themselves, Central Office. SMART Recovery® has
field who got going strong at about which includes cultivating and a method that will help many people
this time: a parole officer, Fred supporting facilitators. transform their lives, and these people
Markussen, and, ahem, yours truly. Implementation research illustrates are ready and willing to give back.
Our long-term, outstanding Volunteer that training leads to approximately When members feel close to our
Advisor, Jennifer Wilson-Diez, was the 5% of method adoption, while management, we can more easily tap
second group leader and counselor for training, demonstrating, practicing, into their motivation.
what had by then become the and coaching results in 95% adoption. Tapping more easily includes—I
SMART Recovery® module. She SMART Recovery® grows where there think—simplification of our literature
emerged as a supportive leader, who are local organizations managed and so that facilitators can start meetings
encourages meeting facilitators by supported by local volunteers and with minimal training and more local
offering quarterly facilitator meetings, members. Our worldwide organization coaching. I have often heard members
updating a meeting phone line, has a responsibility to provide support say that they would lead a meeting but
providing updated meeting lists, through literature and guidelines, but they are not knowledgeable enough.
presenting to interested agencies, meeting growth depends on local We need to fix this. The change
and always being available by phone people who care and who want to help process offered by SMART Recovery®
and at new meetings as a coach for other people help themselves. is simple and accessible. Our literature
new facilitators. In addition, I think Tucson should reflect this. People are our
Through the dedication of the SMART Recovery®’s success comes greatest asset and meeting their needs
people mentioned above, SMART also from the fact that its members is why we exist.
Recovery® got going and has flour- feel they are a valued part of the local I am optimistic that these changes
ished here. However, besides the fact organization, and they also feel they are already happening in SMART
that they are saints, what makes those are part of a purpose they very much Recovery®. Our current national confer-
people unique? What do they have in care about. Members are supported in ence reflect this shift with less emphasis
common? I would say they have some becoming new facilitators. For on training, and more emphasis on
common traits. Specifically, they example, people who attended dialogue with the members, with
believed in SMART Recovery®, which SMART Recovery® meetings in growth as our objective. I encourage
in its earlier days was essentially prisons and behavioral health agencies volunteer facilitators and members to
REBT’s self-help philosophy and are now leading SMART Recovery® attend these sessions, and to continue
methods, and they enjoyed making an Meetings in the community. They are to make your voices heard.
alternative available and seeing people doing this because they found the
methods helpful and believe they In conclusion, SMART Recovery®
empower themselves with what grew is in Full Operation stage in Tucson
into SMART Recovery®’s 4-Point can now help others. They continue
to do this because they are supported Arizona, and we hope that our success
Program. The early days were exciting, as a community can encourage others.
but the work was steady, seven days a by local volunteers.
If we can do it, so can you. Our next
week, during actual SMART As a worldwide organization, stage is Innovation, as we find new
Recovery® meetings. SMART Recovery® will grow by ways to grow and serve present and

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potential members, through training his impact on US and international Secular Organizations for Sobriety, and
and conferences, web-based presence, addiction treatment, and in particular, Life-Ring Secular Recovery.
social events, and chapter development. addiction self-help groups. When SMART Recovery® changed
Editor’s note: I agree with Tom that In the mid-1980s, a California its name in 1994 it also explicitly
your Podunk areas, such as New York, social worker and REBTer, Jack stated that it would keep modifying
LA, and AAmityville, can do it if Tucson Trimpey, started a revolution against its recovery program in the light of
can do it. (BTW, I moved to a real city, the almost universal insistence that empirical findings. The original
Phoenix, eight years ago.) However, he the 12-step approach was the only way program was based on a cognitive-
forgets one big fact: Pat Penn secured a to recover from addiction. He wrote behavioral self-help format. Since
five-year, well-funded government grant, The Small Book, which was an applica- 1994, more motivational components
with employees—including Pat, Emmett, tion of REBT and some of his own have been added, based on the
and Jennifer. If not for that, Tucson might original ideas about coping with success of motivational interviewing.
not be our world capital. So, my #1 craving and about how to decide to Mindfulness components are currently
recommendation is this: apply for grants. quit drinking forever, and which he under review.
There are dozens of potential, important astutely titled to place its contents as If there is a patron saint of SMART
research projects bearing on SMART an alternative to the AA “Big Book.” Recovery®, it is Albert Ellis. (One
Recovery . Recommendation #2 starts
®
He also started Rational Recovery, a might wonder how Al would take up
with fact that part of Tom’s success was network of free self-help groups. Like the role of a patron saint…). Even
that he astutely persuaded the correctional AA, they were free, open to all, and though REBT itself is not widely used
powers that be—his employers—of the supporting abstinence, except that the in addiction treatment, Ellis’s self-help
value and timeliness of recovery alterna- program of recovery followed The philosophy and methods are widely
tives. Again, hundreds of you have jobs Small Book, not the Big Book. viewed in SMART Recovery® as the
helping people with addiction problems, In 1991, Trimpey gathered a volun- foundation on which the cognitive-
and SMART Recovery® should be a real, teer board of advisors, who met in behavioral treatment of addiction is
programmatic alternative, not just a faint Dallas. This group evolved, with based. For the average non-psycholo-
tack-on that gets mentioned to a few Trimpey’s blessing, into a non-profit gist, CBT is about thinking rationally
clients out of charity to you. You will have organization, incorporated in 1992. in order to feel better and to behave
to push for it. The non-profit was to run the better. For most SMART Recovery®
As for Fred Markussen, he did work as Rational Recovery self-help groups, members distinctions between the
a parole officer, but his work for SMART while Trimpey provided his for-profit schools of Ellis, Maultsby, Beck, A.
Recovery® was almost entirely after-hours. services under a different aegis. By Lazarus, Seligman, or others are not
This is a true fact: he retired and became a 1994, differences of opinion about the worth bothering with. Albert Ellis is
stand-up comedian! proper direction for Rational Recovery Dr. Rationality. The accessibility of
resulted in the non-profit’s changing Al’s many books, not to mention their
A Tribute to Dr. Albert Ellis its name to SMART Recovery®. By often colorful language, has made him
by: G. Alan Marlatt, PhD, Member, SMART Recovery
Jan 1, 2000, Rational Recovery the natural choice to read for many
®

International Advisory Council, and A. Thomas Horvath, PhD,


President, SMART Recovery® stopped operating any free support SMART Recovery® participants.
groups as a matter of policy. Furthermore his concepts are also
Although Albert Ellis was only SMART Recovery® has emerged as presented as components of the
slightly involved with substance abuse the leading alternative support group. SMART Recovery® Handbook.
treatment or research, a significant Other notable groups include Women So at a typical SMART Recovery®
part of his legacy may turn out to be For Sobriety, Moderation Management, meeting, in addition to members

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doing their CBAs (cost/benefit his time in making a number of free 684 or so participating stores,
analyses), they are also doing their presentations to large audiences of iGive.com will donate $5 FREE to
ABCs (Activating event, Belief, the general public drawn to his SMART Recovery®!
emotional and/or behavioral philosophy, methods, and fame. HOW IT WORKS
Consequence). They are watching Severe addictive behavior is an 1. Join to Support SMART
out for musturbation, awfulizing, and excellent example of irrationality. It Recovery® - Just go to
catastrophizing. When a new idea is fitting that Al’s work would have http://www.igive.com/SMART
emerges, they wonder what Dr. Ellis found a lasting place SMART
would think of it. Recovery®. There, participants not It’s FREE, private, & easy!
SMART Recovery® now offers only learn to overcome addictive 2. Shop the Mall at iGive.com - You’ll
online meetings, at smartrecovery.org, behavior, but also how to lead more see familiar stores.
seven days a week. There are about functional and happier lives. It’s 3. Up to 26% of each purchase gets
300 face-to-face meetings, mostly in what Al wanted for all of us. donated to SMART Recovery®... and
the US, but also in Vietnam, Canada, it costs you nothing!
Australia, the UK, and Uzbekistan, And just in case you’re thinking, oh
and emerging in other countries. And yeah, who wants to buy something
there are dozens of meetings online. from Never-heard-of-it.com, here are
Like the British empire of old, the sun just a few of iGive.com’s 684+ stores:
never sets on SMART Recovery®. Office Depot, Lands’ End, JCPenney,
There is a rapidly growing number of PetSmart, Expedia.com, The Gap,
meetings in prisons and other correc- Dr. Albert Ellis
tional settings. The latter increase has Barnes & Noble, Neiman Marcus,
1913 – 2007 eBay, Best Buy, Dell, Vitamin
depended considerably (Editor: but also
see Tom Litwicki’s column) on court Shoppe, QVC, Shop NBC,
Two Great Ways to Support Drugstore.com, Orvis, Hallmark,
rulings in effect in nearly 20 states,
that the government cannot order SMART Recovery® Without Staples, and more!
someone to attend a 12-step meeting Really Trying And remember to use the
because of its religious content. Did you know that you can help Amazon.com link at
Dr. Ellis supported SMART support SMART Recovery® without SMARTRecovery.org for your
Recovery® in a number of ways, and in its costing you a single penny? purchases at Amazon to help support
Phoenix, the Albert Ellis SMART SMART Recovery®, along with SMART Recovery®!
Recovery® Center obviously bears his iGive.com, invite you to turn YOUR So, consider helping SMART
name. He reviewed books for the Online Holiday shopping into Recovery® this online shopping
SMART Recovery® newsletter. His support for a truly worthy cause! season, and have your clicks support a
Institute in NYC was the site of great cause... without really trying!
SMART Recovery® trainings. He was You can support SMART
a member of our International Recovery® this Holiday Season just
by shopping online for brand-name I Won’t Forget Albert Ellis
Advisory Council. In behalf of by Emmett Velten
SMART Recovery® and because he stuff at over 684 well-known online
knew he could draw large audiences, stores, and get free deals and coupons I had a 40-year-long personal as well
he appeared on numerous panels at just by being an iGive.com member! as professional connection with Al.
professional conferences in America Join iGive.com and make a With these words, I will share a few
and Canada. Similarly, he donated purchase within 45 days from one of personal details about him and his

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family you otherwise might never fellow Californian, and we first met in collaborated with him in promulgating
know, and do the same for some 1988, Jack and Lois knew of me only REBT, and ran his Institute for several
details of his professional part in because my name was on the same list. decades. She continues to live and
SMART Recovery®’s unrecorded pre- The American Humanist practice in New York City. Late in life,
history, before they are lost. Association formally allowed Rational Al married Debbie Joffe, the dearest
The fashion these days is to “cele- Recovery Systems to affiliate with it in love of his life, who saw him through
brate” the life of the person who died. 1989 or 1990, I believe it was. In his final years of grueling hospitaliza-
I think that’s mainly nonsense, our September 1992, a new non-profit tions and personal tragedy.
culture’s denial of what is stark and corporation, Rational Recovery Self- Al leaves two nephews, David Ellis
forever. Al’s death at 93 was the death Help Network (RRSN), was and Joel Greer, and a niece, Judith
at 65 of part of me, too—not just me, established. Its five board members Greer Greenspan. His brother, Paul
but many others—and dreadful grief were Jack and Lois Trimpey, humanist Ellis, and his sister, Janet Ellis Greer,
when I can bear to remember his Peter Bishop, current SMART preceded him in death, as did his best
kindness, his genius, his wit, his guts. Recovery® News & Views columnist friend and co-author, Bob Harper. Paul
Al’s wish had been to die at home, in and long-term REBTer, Phil Tate, was a businessman who helped Al in
his apartment at his Institute, to and—yours truly. founding his Institute and served on
which he returned for that purpose the By mid-1994, Jack Trimpey had its Board for many years. Al’s sister,
last month of his life, after a grueling made dramatic changes in the way he Janet Greer, was a leading light of
year or more in the hospital and formulated addiction and recovery, Overeaters Anonymous and died of a
nursing home, and three years of and in effect he left behind RRSN, stroke she suffered while giving a talk
almost unimaginable personal and which not long thereafter was on a tour for O. A. through the
professional tragedy. renamed the Alcohol and Drug Abuse Midwest. Few know—and no one now
Al and SMART Self-Help Network—ADASHN. at his Institute—but in death Al
Without Al and REBT, we might Thank goodness for REBTer Rob leaves three children. They are a
not be around. All—100%—of the Sarmiento! He came up with the daughter, Laurie Farber, and two sons,
people first brought into and attracted “doing business as” moniker we all who prefer to remain anonymous.
to Rational Recovery Systems, begin- know and love: Self Management And Note: In 2007, Emmett has two books
ning in 1985, were REBT practitioners Recovery Training—SMART about Ellis coming out through See Sharp
or fans, members of the American Recovery®. The rest, as they say, is Press. They are The Lives of Albert
Humanist Association, or both. history, the history most of you already Ellis: American Revolutionary, fore-
Among the many honors and acco- know. word by David Burns; and Under the
lades Al had received, had been the Family Influence: Reflections of Albert Ellis
Humanist of the Year award of the Al was married three times and in the Work of Others, foreword by the
American Humanist Association. It divorced twice. He married Karyl late Mike Mahoney. Emmett will soon
was the fact that REBT was at least as Corper in the late 1930s and Rhoda have served nine years as a Board of
much an explicit humanist philosophy Winter Russell in the mid-1950s. He Trustees member for Ellis’s Institute.
of life as a cognitive-behavioral self- remained friends with them both after
help system, which made it a perfect divorce. Corper died in 2000; Russell
part of the recovery revolution Jack is alive and well in Texas. Al had a
Trimpey led. Jack was a trained REBT- 37-year-long relationship with Janet
er and on Al’s Institute’s referral list. Wolfe, who became a psychologist
When they contacted me, then a with his encouragement and support,

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As we come to recognize the bene-
tional program designed to deliver Sources: fits of effective self-management, we’ll
treatment and prevent recidivism. Mumola, C. J., & Karberg, J. C. (2006). Drug choose it more and more often.
Now, this exceptional program is use and dependence, state and federal prisoners.
Thereby, as Albert Ellis once said, we
available in Spanish. This version Bureau of Justice Statistics Special Reports. 3.
Sabol, W. J., Minton, T. D., & Harrison, P. can partly transcend some of our social
of InsideOut® includes participant M. (2007). Prison and jail inmates at midyear and biological limitations. We’ll
workbooks and videos in Spanish, 2006. Bureau of Justice Statistics Bulletin. 6. become more fully in control of our
which makes quality treatment lives, better able to direct our energies
available to a lot more people. From Beyond the Walls and do what we prefer—more
According to research by Sabol, Self Management is the Key to Control complete, healthy, and balanced
Minton, and Harrison (2007) at the by Barry A. Grant
people, living the SMART way.
United States Department of Justice’s One of our most detrimental miscon- Positively Speaking: My direction in
Bureau of Justice Statistics, the ceptions is that we can control others life is determined by the degree and
number of Hispanic/Latino inmates in or things. The hard-won truth is that skill of how well I choose to control
federal and state correctional facilities we can only control ourselves—and it my-self as the vehicle to my destina-
equals about one-third of the total may take a lifetime to learn this—yet tion. Think hard, feel deep, and
inmate population, and the proportion it does not have to be. Self-control choose wisely.
has risen considerably since 2005. Put means release—release from the
this fact together with Mumola and bondage of uncontrolled, thoughtless,
Karberg’s finding (2006) that 53 and and irrational behavior. When we Articles are Welcome!
38 percent of those inmates in state recognize that our only legitimate If you have a story or information
and federal correctional facilities, power is over ourselves, it gives you would like to see published in
respectively, reported using and/or us the freedom to develop and the News & Views, please feel free
abusing drugs during the month before enhance ourselves. to submit a copy to Emmett
incarceration. Some facilities had Lack of control is not freedom; it is Velten, Editor, via email:
difficulty treating the growing number chaos. Conflicting impulses squander ev_verb@msn.com. Unsolicited
of Spanish-speaking inmates due to energies instead of controlling them material is most welcome!
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3-Minute REBT

Overcoming Problems of
Self-Concept and the Past
by Philip Tate, PhD

Author of Alcohol: How To Give It Up


and Be Glad You Did,
1996, See Sharp Press, Tucson, AZ.

We humans tend to categorize and label ourselves. If you Worthless is only a thought, isn’t it? And, it refers to nothing.
have problems with addiction, you may think of yourself as Truth lies in what you see and do and not in what you think.
an alcoholic, a recovering person, a troubled person, or as a Unlike the labels mentioned above, when you look for worth-
person with any other category or label. lessness, it never shows its face.
By doing so, you create your self-concept. What are you? The only accurate label for you is human.
All notions of self-concept are thoughts. If you believe How important are thoughts? Thoughts are not facts.
them, you influence yourself accordingly. They’re of history. Most can be set aside without loss.
Thoughts of you limit you, because at best they represent When does life take place? Now.
only partial truths based on the past, whereas the truth about How can you overcome troublesome thoughts? Accept
you is complete and in the present. their limitations. They lack sufficient truth about you now to
Thoughts of your past burden you. They represent the be important. Awareness of what is going on now, especially
total you about as much as an old photograph. Please think of what you are doing, is immensely (perhaps a thousand
seriously of what I am saying. To bring the past into the percent) more valuable and truthful than any thought.
present, and to believe it contains the truth about you, is What you are doing this moment is the only reality,
closer to dying than to living. isn’t it? Your awareness of what is going on is your only
Of greater importance than the categories and labels connection with reality, isn’t it? Thoughts interfere with
mentioned, you may believe that you’re a worthless person. awareness, don’t they?
The theory of REBT considers this belief to be irrational Focus on your actions. If you’re drinking and have wanted
mainly because it is absolutistic and easily creates emotional to quit, then do something else, and do it with no thought
disturbance and self-defeat. Simply ask yourself, “Where’s the whatsoever except to focus on it. If you’re not drinking,
evidence that I’m worthless?” When you look for facts to continue your activities with an attentive and quiet mind.
prove that you’re worthless, what do you find? You find that
you’ve made mistakes. But, do you find worthlessness?

Featured Quote of this Issue

REBT emphasizes that the mind is active, not passive, that absolutist thinking is often inaccurate,
and, ‘Thought without behavior is empty; behavior without clear thinking is blind’.”

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of the Alcohol & Drug Abuse Self-Help Network, Inc.

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