THE PSYCHOLOGY OF THE FILIPINO most concerned with, but pakikipagkapwa which means treating
the other person as kapwa or fellow human being.
What is Psychology? Cherry Kendra (2020) defined "psychology" as the study of There are two categories of kapwa: the Ibang-Tao (outsider) and mind and behavior that encompasses the biological influences the Hindi-Ibang-Tao (‘‘one-of-us’’). In Filipino social (genes and heredity), social pressures (society, peers and family) interaction, one is immediately ‘‘placed’’ into one of these two and environmental factors that may affect on how a person think categories; and how one is placed determines the level of and feel. interaction one is shown. For example, if one is regarded as ibang-tao, the interaction can range from pakikitungo The Sikolohiyang Filipino (Filipino Psychology) as defined in (transaction/civility with), to pakikisalamuha (inter-action with), the Asian Journal of Psychology (2000) is the psychology that to pakikilahok (joining/participating), to pakikibagay (in- was anchored to the experience, thoughts and orientation of the conformity with/in-accord with), and to pakikisama (being along Filipino. with). If one is categorized as hindi-ibang-tao,then you can expect pakikipagpalagayang-loob (being Thinking about the Filipino behavior, it was always been in-rapport/understanding/ acceptance with), or pakikisangkot analyzed and interpreted in the light of the western theories (getting involved), or the highest level of pakikiisa (being one which mainly caused of the colonization that happens in our with). country back then. Since this theories are inevitably culture Using the Sikolohiyang Pilipino perspective, It was re- bound, the picture of Filipino has been in accurate, if not conceptualized the Filipino behavior patterns and value structure distorted. where he designated hiya(‘‘propriety/dignity’’), utang na loob (‘‘gratitude/solidarity’’) and pakikisama Rethinking Filipino values based on Filipino orientation some of (‘‘companionship/esteem’’) as colonial/accommodative surface the Filipino values looks negative when it comes to other values; and bahala na (‘‘determination’’),sama/ lakas ng loob perspective. Some of this are: (‘‘resentment/guts’’) and pakikibaka (‘‘resistance’’) as confrontative surface values. He emphasized kapwa (‘‘shared "BAHALA NA" identity’’) as core value; pakikiramdam (‘‘shared inner A Filipino attitude that accepts suffering and problem and perception’’) as pivotal interpersonal value; and kagandahang- leaving everything to an end which also show Filipino loob (‘‘shared humanity’’) as linking socio-personal value. determination but with other perspective, the value "bahala na" Associated with the above are societal values such as karangalan is a fatalistic attitude of resignation, withdrawal from crisis and (‘‘dignity’’), katarungan (‘‘justice’’), and kalayaan sharing from personal responsibility. (‘‘freedom’’). Thus, the area of Filipino personality developed as a strong area "HIYA" using the Sikolohiyang Pilipino perspective. The Filipino is a In Philippine culture, hiya is generally defined and translated to blend of East and West. The Western influence can be seen mean "shyness or shame" which is connected to dignity. in other more in external ways – dressing, liking for hamburger and perspective hiya is the uncomfortable feeling that accompanies other food, Western music and dance, etc. However, the internal awareness of being in socially unacceptable position or aspect, which is at the core of his pagkatao (personality), is performing socially un acceptable action it also said that hiya is Asian – deference for authority, modesty/humility, concern for an ingredient in why Filipino overspend during fiestas in order others, etc. to please their visitors to the extent of going into debt Knowing the Psychological perspective of the Filipino will help "UTANG NA LOOB" us understand why Filipinos do or behave in that manner. A Filipino values known as gratitude or solidarity but for others perspectives, it is a principle of reciprocating the help of other to an individual. It is a feeling of obligation to repay the debt in future when the benefactor is in need of help. It is also known as showing gratitude by returning the favor with interest. Looking to the Filipino 's point of view in "utang na loob" it is not necessarily burden as the word "debt" connotes because in Filipino pattern of interpersonal relations, there is always an opportunity to return a favor which is not absolutely obligatory. "ANG HINDI LUMINGON SA PINANGGALINGAN AY HINDI MAKAKARATING SA PAROROONAN"
"PAKIKISAMA vs PAKIKIPAGKAPWA Pakikisama is a Filipino value that shows smooth interpersonal relations by going along with the group or the majority decision.
The concept of kapwa (shared identity), which is at the core of
Filipino social psychology, and which is at the heart of the structure of Filipino values. It was discovered that it is not maintaining smooth interpersonal relationships that Filipinos are