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10 Things You Should Never Have To Apologize For
10 Things You Should Never Have To Apologize For
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If you’re honest with yourself, then you know that not everyone in your life will support
every decision you make.
People will judge you. It’s inevitable. But that doesn’t mean you have to apologize for
making a decision they don’t agree with.
Bringing yourself down by apologizing for things you aren’t sorry for only takes away a
part of who you are. It’s worth making a point to be honest with others. Start
by not apologizing for these 10 things.
1. Your Past
Do you have a friend or family member who always brings up the same instance over and
over? And it’s something that happened 10 years ago? Do they still use it to manipulate
you?
Everyone makes foolish mistakes. We were all dumb teenagers once. But as long as it’s
not part of who you are today and you’ve forgiven yourself for your mistakes, it
shouldn’t be on your list of things to apologize for.
Your sexual preferences are your sexual preferences. Just like you would never apologize
for liking the color green when your best friend likes the color blue, you shouldn’t have
to say sorry for what you do and don’t like when it comes to sex.
Truth be told, no one else should care. It’s frankly none of their business. But
unfortunately, people will care if your preferences don’t comply with mainstream ideas.
As long as all of your actions are consensual, what you do in private should stay in
private, but even if it does get out, you shouldn’t have to say sorry.
But instead of taking a step back and apologizing for standing up for yourself, take this as
an opportunity to stand up for yourself once again.
This type of assertiveness can empower you and boost your confidence.
Sound familiar?
Your first instinct is to probably console her, say you’re sorry, and tell her that it doesn’t
look that bad. But you shouldn’t have to do that, especially when she has asked you to be
honest.
Honesty has been linked to better health, says the American Psychological Association.
You shouldn’t have to take back your opinions, nor should you apologize for them. It’s
only in the best interest of your well-being.
But expressing your emotions is a healthy behavior, and it’s not something you should
practice concealing. In fact,expressing your emotions—even in just a journal—has been
shown to make you happier since it helps you cope with life better.
Do you have to justify this action? No. Do you have to apologize for it? Definitely not.
Does this person make you happy? Do you enjoy being around him or her?
You should never have to apologize for doing something that makes you happy,
including hanging out with someone others might not approve of.
8. Forgiving Someone
Have you ever forgiven someone only for your friends to wonder why you did so? They
still wanted to kick the perpetrator’s butt while you were content with letting the situation
go.
Forgiveness is another one of those things that can improve your mental well-being, so
it’s not worth apologizing for forgiving someone.
9. Being YOU
Are you kind of weird? Sometimes nerdy? Perhaps a bit too opinionated?
Then that’s the only justification you need to continue being who you are. If other people
can’t handle it, that’s their problem. You shouldn’t say sorry for preferences or actions
that define who you are as a person—as long as you know you like that person.
All of these dreams take preparation, but unfortunately no matter what dream you pursue,
you’ll get scrutinized bysomeone.
Have you heard your parents criticize your career choice? Do your friends laugh at your
efforts to pursue your talents?
Not once should the words “I’m sorry” come out of your lips. Instead, you should be
saying, “I’m proud of myself for following my dreams.”
What things do you apologize for when you’re not actually sorry? Share your ideas in the
comment section.
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