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Sexuality Counseling of Women With Spinal Cord Injuries
Sexuality Counseling of Women With Spinal Cord Injuries
Cord Injuries
C a r l a E. T h o r n t o n , R.N,, M.S.
ABSTRACT: This article begins with a review of the literature pertinent t o the sexuality of
women with spinal cord injuries. Important areas in sexuality counseling are described and
include experimenting with and re-learning about one's current sexual response, con-
traception, and social skills and realities.
We must remember that the disabled woman is first a woman and second
disabled; she has desires, needs and feelings just like any other person and
has the right to express them in ways that are acceptable to her. Sexuality is
composed of many things, has many ways of expression, and requires the
possibility of compromise just as other facets of life do; it offers satisfaction in
giving, as well as getting, and while its expression may present certain
problems, these problems need not be hopeless. 5
"it is interesting to note how much potential people still have to experience
orgasm and sexual pleasure despite the fact that significant parts of their
bodies are sensationless and motionless. ''14
Helsinga (1974) found in a discussion group of people with spinal cord
injuries that the first question after surgery for the spinal-cord trauma was
"Am I going to live?" The second question was "What are my sexual
responses like now?''17 Cole et al. (1973) stated, "For some, regaining
sexual performance is more important than regaining the ability to walk",
and "in the vast majority of patients, psychosexual content remains
substantially normal in spite of loss of sensation. ''is Trieschmann (1975)
added that "the onset of a physical disability does not eliminate sexual
feelings any more than it eliminates hunger or thirst. ''19
When one's sense of self is seriously disrupted by the trauma of a spinal
cord injury, it is more important than ever to re-establish a positive self-
concept. Diamond (1974) believed that "meeting an individual's sexual
concerns can go a long way in re-establishing a general feeling of self-worth
conducive to general rehabilitation. ''2° Hohmann (1971) found a "great
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To provide sexual education and counseling for women with spinal cord
injury, professionals themselves need to understand and be comfortable
with the range of experiences and options available for sexual expression
and satisfaction.
Cole (1975) has suggested that hospitals should provide the opportunity
for more privacy in exploring one's sexual responses after the traumatic
event of a spinal cord injury and concluded that "we should encourage
sexual rehabilitation in the hospital as well as outside of it.' ,23 One facility
that has available a private room for patients has found it greatly benefitted
patients and their partners in coping "with interpersonal aspects of the
disability and particularly the sexual aspects. ''24 Rooms such as these
should be more widely available.
Sexuality information and counseling have not been widely available for
people with spinal cord injuries either in their initial hospitalization or
rehabilitation center. Women interviewed by Fitting, et al. (1978),
comment that "health professionals could have been more helpful in terms
of sexual counseling and treating them as human beings and not bodies. ''I~
In 1974, only three education and counseling programs on sexuality and
disability had been described in the literature, ls'21'15 More programs do
exist today 2s and one book is available to assist family planning and
sexuality clinics in becoming accessible to women who are disabled. 27
S P E C I F I C A R E A S IN SEXUALITY C O U N S E L I N G OF W O M E N
WITH SPINAL-CORD I N J U R I E S
One of the most important things a woman with a spinal cord injury needs
in sexuality counseling is permission to acknowledge that her sexuality is an
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integral part of her being, not just what she does. Women who become
injured often share the stereotype that the general public imposes on
disabled people. Part of the stereotype is the false assumption that one who
is disabled is also asexual; and yet the disabled woman may be confused at
finding she continues to have sexual feelings or desires. She may fear that
she will be unable to respond sexually. She needs permission to explore and
reaffirm her sexuality.
Communication skills are important in all sexual relationships and
assume more importance when one is looked at as "different". The newly
injured woman needs to be able to meet and relate to other peopIe and to
deal with the myths often directed at her. If she can learn to relate her
needs, desires, and feelings in a confident, assertive manner, it is believed
that others will respond in a more positive way. ~ She also needs to "check
out" her feelings, hopes, fears, etc. with her partner so that she can find out
"what is and is not possible, and what is or is not acceptable. ''2° Role-
playing can be very useful in expressing feelings or trying out new situations
or experiences.
Helsinga pointed out that "in the world of the non-handicapped, people
keep thinking of new things to do and new ways of doing them" and
encourages people who are disabled to do the same. 17
Sexual enhancement and pre-orgasmic group programs such as those
described by Ayres et al. 2s and Barbach 29 can be adapted and used for
women with spinal cord injuries. These programs contain specific exercises
which can assist the woman in exploring her body and learning her current
sexual responses. Some women with spinal cord injuries have spotty or
breakthrough feeling or may respond to pressure in paralyzed parts of their
bodies. When she explores her own body, she then may be able to
communicate to her partner specific likes and dislikes or learn to reach
orgasm herself. Ayres et al. (1975) 2s also include exercises to do with a
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partner. Again, these can be adapted for the woman with a spinal cord
injury and will encourage experimentation with her partner. Schanche's
group work with four women with spinal cord injuries was based on an
adaptation of Barbach's program and utilized fantasy work, body-mirror
imaging and much experimentation in sensation exercises. Vibrators were
used first on parts of the body that had sensation and later on the rest of the
body. The two women who were orgasmic pre-injury once again
experienced orgasm by the eighth session with a partner. The other two
women reported heightened sensations and increased feelings of satis-
factionJ °
It should not be assumed by a counselor that genital functioning is
absent; many people with spinal cord injuries need four to six months for
recovery from spinal shock, and two years is not an unreasonable amount of
time in which to anticipate some genital function and/or sensation to return.
Women with spinal cord injuries definitely need an explanation of spinal
cord physiology as an adjunct to understanding their post-injury sexual
responses. They also need to know that people can have orgasms (generally
from sensory input to areas of the body other than the genitals and through
psychological components) that are not genitally based. Women who have
had the reflex arc interrupted by the injury may find that lubrication of the
vagina is impaired and will need advice on the appropriate vaginal jellies or
lotions (K-Y jelly, which is water soluble) to use; those with intact reflex arcs
may need manual stimulation to activate lubrication. Only time and
experience will determine what is possible for a woman with a spinal cord
injury.
For many women with spinal cord injuries, itis important to use the whole
body, rather than just the parts of the body that have sensation, in sexual
activity. Because part of the body is paralyzed does not mean that part of
the body no longer exists.
With an injury below T-6, women can be very sensitive to breast
stimulation and should be encouraged to take advantage of this, The area
around the injury in the back sometimes becomes very erogenous; some
find new erogenous areas after injury (shoulders, neck) or find that. pre-
injury erogenous areas (mouth) become more sensitive to stimulation.
Vibrators can be useful in determining where sensation exists and as part of
sex play. All of this should be discussed with the woman and she should be
encouraged to experiment and discover what areas of her body now feel
good by being touched and which areas react to touch.
Some women experience pain or burning in the paralyzed parts of their
bodies for some time after the initial trauma. If the woman has pain, it will
have to be dealt with in whatever way is acceptable to her; some find sexual
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so can be very positive and should be discussed as one possibility with the
woman with a spinal cord injury, but should be discussed only as one
possibility.
Bowel and bladder control during sexual acts need to be explored and
perhaps planned for. Many people find a bowel or bladder accident
unesthetic and disruptive; others seem less bothered or learn to cope with
it. This is one aspect that definitely needs to be verbally explored between
sexual partners. Indwelling catheters can either be removed or left in during
sexual activity without harm. If intermittent catheterization or the Credd
method is used, planning to void immediately before sexual activity may
assist in avoiding bladder accidents during sexual activity. It is also useful
to let her know that some able-bodied women also void involuntarily during
sexual activity. A regular bowel program can greatly diminish or eliminate
the possibility of a bowel accident. For those who need attendant care to
perform bladder and bowel functions some advance planning with the
attendant can be useful. Positioning for sexual activity with either a
catheter or ileostomy bag in place has been well described by Mooney et al.
(1975) 33and Shaul et al. (1978) 16The prevention and treatment of bladder
infections is important to discuss, especially as bladder infections can
cause incontinence in people with spinal cord injuries who otherwise have
good bladder control.
Contraception
All women of child-bearing age with spinal cord injuries should have
contraception discussed at a counseling session. Women with spinal cord
injuries become pregnant as easily as able-bodied women and should have
the same rights and information in order to make knowledgable choices in
contraceptive protection.
There is some controversy surrounding women with spinal cord injuries
using oral contraceptives. Because they are at risk of thrombophlebitis due
to lack of mobility and because oral contraceptives have been implicated in
thrombophlebitis, they may be at double risk if they use oral contra-
ceptives. However, no research has been reported in this area and whether
or not the risk of being pregnant is greater than the risk of a woman with a
spinal cord injury taking the Pill has not been determined. If a woman with a
spinal cord injury were to develop thrombophlebitis she might not be aware
of the earliest sign (pain in the calf or thigh) and also might not notice r
dness or swelling. She should be advised to examine her legs regularly. 16
For the woman with a spinal cord injury who has some uterine sensation
and can cope with the possibilities of increased menstrual flow or
breakthrough bleeding an intrauterine device may be acceptable. There is
some concern about the woman with no uterine sensation in that she would
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not be aware of the usual signs (pain, increased cramping) that indicate a
problem with the IUD such as puncture of the uterus or infection. She also
may need assistance in checking for the IUD strings each month to ensure
that the device has not been dislodged or expelled.
Diaphragms and jelly are a reasonable method of contraception but their
use may be complicated by problems of paralysis. A women with poor hand
coordination may not be able to insert and remove a diaphragm without the
assistance of her partner or attendant. Some women can use an inserter
device which works well with coil spring diaphragms. The ability of her legs
to spread can also interfere with the diaphragm insertion. Diaphragms may
be contraindicated for women with recurrent bladdder infections. Dia-
phragms may slip if pelvic muscles are weak or may be dislodged with the
Cred6 method of emptying the bladder, t6
Contraceptive jellies and foams along with use of condoms is another
effective contraceptive method; however the woman with little hand and
arm use may encounter great difficulties with their use, unless her partner
or attendant can assist her.
For the woman with a spinal cord injury who has decided she has enough
children or chooses not to have children, tubal ligation is a viable
possibility. For the woman who wishes to postpone having children, reliable
contraception can be quite complex and frustrating.
The woman with a spinal cord injury should understand that her fertility
remains undiminished and that if she chooses to become pregnant, she may
develop anemia, bladder or kidney problems as often happens with able-
bodied women. As mentioned earlier, she has more potential complications
during labor and delivery and may need to be closely monitored at this time.
A spinal cord injury itself is not a contraindication to pregnancy.
Social Realities
The reality of the world outside of the hospital is a paramount topic for
the person with a new spinal cord injury to become aware of. There wilt
inevitably be personal questions, stares or negative comments, or the
person may be pointedly ignored. Coping with unwanted sympathy,
obtaining help when needed and handling help or offers of help when she/he
is capable of carrying out the task independently will have to be learned. It
can be quite useful to share with her/him the Stigma tape 34 (in which young
adults with disabilities discuss living as a disabled person) or to role play
some possible situations. Social excursions outside of the rehabilitation
center can provide an awareness of the reality of being in the world in a
wheelchair or braces and crutches. Peer counseling in independent living
can be extremely beneficial and supportive°
Because our culture values physical "perfection", the woman with a
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spinal cord injury may find a scarcity of available sexual partners. She may
be considered asexual by others who see only her wheelchair or crutches or
who consider all disabled people as asexual. Cole et al. (1973) found "the
most serious sexual problems of the spinal-cord injured person were the
unavailability of sexual partners (from whatever cause). ''is The disabled
are not in demand in the "sexual market place" of our culture. 31 For the
woman who experiences this situation, the counselor can provide her
emotional support, assist her in working through frustration and anger
feelings, and work with her in increasing her communication and social-
ization skills.
Emotional aspects--depression, lowered self-esteem, changed self-
image, grief, depression, performance fears--can also interfere with sexual
functioning. It may be difficult to determine if a sexual dysfunction is due to
the psychological aspects of a new disability or to the physiology of the
disability. Brief therapy can be initiated for emotional problems related to
sexual expression and often is very successful.
SUMMARY
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