I had a bad experience in relationship in last 1year...

thats the reason why i found

it difficult to fall in love or trust in any man

.......I met a guy online in 2010,We chat for some months and he claimed to be
everything that i want, he promised to be there for me in eveything and take good
Care of me, and not to hurt me in anyway.....Well, he seems nice and true to me ,
we fell in love for eachother, someday, he invited me to come and meet him in
Germany,and i decided to go , so far am seeking for the right man and i believe i
had met him

well, for i have one heart and true heart with him,I did as he wanted, but not
knowing that i would waste my time,my energy, my money to make my trip down to him
by renewed my travelling passport and visa, bought flight ticket / and when i got
to him, unfortunately for me when i got there. the first night he make love to me
and we have fun and its because i love him... the third day, i went for shopping..
when i came back i met him with other lady and he denied me to be a stranger,i
slept on the street for complete 4days and i surfered alot ,

Am really down and sad , since then i promised myself not to trust in any man and i
decided not to have anything to do with any man again....but on the second hand, i
believe am not meant to be alone for the rest of my life, i need a man to love and
take good care of me and give me hope which are kids,and thats why i decided to
give just one more try for any man that comes my way....and now its your turn
baby.. but i am still scared if the same thing will happen to me if i come there to
you...

Well, i dont believe in rushing into relatioship with the man i dont even know or
meet in person...i would love to meet the man in person before i can fall inlove
for him with all my heart, cos he can surely treat me the same way as the first man
i met.......i need to be careful of men on here, they are wicked and liars....full
of sweet words

Most of them would join dating site, pretend as if they are seeking for
truelove..not knowing that they are on here to make cybersex and talk sex with the
lady they meet, they would talk sex with lady and when they get hot and horny, they
would masturbate and sign out , stop talking with the lady.most of them are here to
lie for ladies not knowing that every promises made are suppose to be fulfil, its
better not to make promises than not to fulfil them

Most of them would promise lady to make her happy and be always there for her, and
someday after the lady fallen for them , they would stop talking to her and go on
search with another lady , thats how they plays their game on internet, most are on
here to have fun and some other naughty things......

, let me know what you are wanting from a lady and all you are seeking and
whats your steps, cos i cant be wasting my time by sacrificing my time and moment,
to be coming online to chat with a man thats lieing to me and the man thats gonna
leave me someday after i have fallen for him....let me know whats on your mind, and
i can know if i can go on with you or NO..cos am really deferents from those other
ladies that are here to do non sense and to waste their moments for unserious men

, whats on your mind, perhaps, how am gonna be sure you are not a player, wanna
play with my head and go away someday

well, thats what the first man told me and still he shed tears from my innocent
eyes

i can give a try and see whats gonna happen, i would try my best not to fall so
hard for you so if you hurt me i would just say goodbye to relationship in my life
Let me give you a try and see whats gonna happen then....

So what i suggest if for us to keep chatting each passing day, getting you know
eachother better and more feelings and know many things about eachother, then i
can come down back to states to meet you in person , only if you are honest with me
in all