ONE-ON-ONE MINISTRY GUIDE

The purpose of this guide is to give you some tips on how you can do the one-on-one
personal ministry with your Victory Weekend participant.

PURPOSE OF OUR ONE-On-ONE MINISTRY

The intention for this One-on-One ministry time is to be able to process with them
learnings from the video teaching topics, and also go through their spiritual pro le and
minister to them.

Remember that this One-On-One Ministry segment of our Victory Weekend consists of
5 meetups and conversations.

One for each video teaching, and the last one for the remaining categories in their
spiritual pro le.

Speci cally we want to:

• Have a conversation about what they’ve learned from the from the video teachings.
• Minister to them.
• Be able to have a conversation about how you can help them with regard to current
struggles.
• Remind them on why they can live a victorious life, and then have a conversation on
how they can live victorious lives over their sin struggles which they marked as
patterns in their spiritual pro le.

START
1) You can start your ministry and processing by first checking on how are they so
far.
2) Pray before you begin.
3) Ask them how the Victory Weekend was for them. And have them share about one or
two things that they’ve learned and served as highlights for them.
4) Remind and cast to them a vision that it is God’s heart to change them and
eventually overcome those things they are struggling with. Af rm their victory in Jesus.
That while this may not be instantaneous, you are there to help them, and that’s why
this may not be the rst time that conversations like this would happen.

MINISTRY
Remember that the biblical pattern form: TRUTH, REPENTANCE, FAITH

Probing, Listening, Understanding, and Learning.

The rst part of ministering to them involves asking questions to learn, understand, and
know what are the things that your participant is struggling with. Doing this allows you to
be equipped with context, and also identify beliefs that may not be biblically true and
right.
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For the video teachings, you can use these questions to help you in knowing, learning
and understanding, what they have been learning from the video teachings.

FIRST MEETUP: For the “Reconciliation” video:

a) Have you harbored bitterness against someone? If so, can you describe who they
are in your life, can you please share a gist of why you have harbored bitterness
towards them?
b) What sin do you need to repent of? What will you do about it?

SECOND MEETUP: For the “Truth” video:

a) Please share what the gospel of Jesus Christ is?
b) Have you turned away from and renounced all false religions and ideologies?
c) Are you a member of a Bible-based church? Are you being discipled?
d) Who are the people that are helping you and walking with you in your relationship
with God?

THIRD MEETUP: For the “Purity” video

a) What are the immoral and compromising practices you struggle with?
b) Are you still involved in immoral and impure relationships?
c) Do you have a daily habit of reading and studying God’s Word? When? Where?
d) Identify three people who can stand with you and help you with these struggles by
holding you accountable.

FOURTH MEEUP: For the “Freedom” video:

a) What addictions need to be broken in your life?
b) How can I help you overcome these addictions?

As you go through each video topic, you can refer to their Personal Spiritual Pro le
and ask the participant which speci c sin areas are still a current struggle for them in
the lists related to the video topic.

FIFTH MEETUP: When it comes to the categories of “Generational Curses and

Family Patterns”, “Curses and Judgements”, and “Vows Made”, refer to their
answers of the questions from their Personal Spiritual Pro le.

You can ask context questions like:

a) Can you describe how this has been a pattern in your family?
b) How has this label, and words spoken to you affected your life? Even till today?

Some tips on this segment of ministry:

- Ask only relevant questions, and don’t force them to open up.
- Discern and listen to the Holy Spirit as well, as you listen to them.
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Share TRUTH
In this part se what the Bible says and lovingly confront them with the truth by sharing
what does God’s word say about:
- the sin that they need to repent of
- breaking the curse
- forgiving someone, and the vindication and redemption that comes from Him
- God, and the healing and restoration that comes from Him

A time of REPENTANCE, FORGIVENESS, BREAKING CURSES and HEALING.

Identifying the kind of ministry to be done.

In this part of the ministry, what you want to do is to discern and identify what ministry is
appropriate, based from what they have shared:

A) If it’s a sin pattern or an unbiblical vow that they would need to REPENT of….
Once they understand and accept the truth, lead them into a prayer of repentance, if
they are willing. A pattern that can be used is:

A prayer of repentance >>> A prayer of renouncing sin >>> then pray for them.

i) Guide the person to pray a prayer of repentance: “Lord I repent of ________”

ii) Guide the person to renounce sin by praying: “Jesus, I renounce_________,”
iii) Pray for freedom, for grace, for empowerment.

B) If it is releasing FORGIVENESS…
Once the reason for the hurt and offense is clear, and once they are willing to release
forgiveness, you can follow this pattern of ministry:

A prayer of repentance for bitterness and forgiveness > >>> A prayer of releasing
forgiveness towards the person. >>>> A prayer of blessing over the forgiven
person. >>> then pray for them

i) Guide the person to pray a prayer of repentance: “Lord I repent of ________, I repent
for not forgiving _________”
ii) Guide the person to release forgiveness by praying: “Jesus, I forgive _________,”
iii) Encourage the participant to pray a prayer of blessing over the forgiven person.
iv) Pray for freedom, for grace, for empowerment.
C) If it is BREAKING generational curses, or words of judgement and
condemnation received….
Once the type of curse, or unbiblical identity or words of judgement and condemnation
received has been identi ed. This pattern of ministry can be done:

A prayer of repentance in behalf of the family for generational curses >>> A

prayer of renouncing sin of the family >>> then pray for a prayer of breaking the
curse >>> Pray prayer of dedicating the family to God, and a prayer of renewed
blessing.

i) Guide the person to pray a prayer of repentance: “Lord, in behalf of our family I repent
of ________,”
ii) Guide the person to renounce sin by praying: “Jesus, I renounce_________,”
iii) Pray a prayer of breaking the curse: “In Jesus name, we break this pattern/or this
label/this curse of ________ in his/her life.
iv) Life up the participant’s current and future family to God, pray for grace, and for
renewed blessings to be upon the participants life and future family and descendants. In
blessing the participant, you can pray the opposite descriptions or situations of the
curses.

D) If it is ministering emotional healing

This pattern of ministry can be used:

Direct the person towards Christ’s forgiveness and reconciliation (if necessary) >>
Encourage the participant to pray a prayer of verbalizing the pain >> Encourage the
participant to pray a prayer of repentance and forgiveness. >>> Pray a prayer of
healing, restoration, and redemption.

If the pain is coming from a relational dysfunction.

i) Guide the person to pray a prayer of repentance: “Lord I repent of ________, I repent
for not forgiving _________”.
ii) Guide the person to release forgiveness by praying: “Jesus, I forgive _________,”
iii) Encourage the participant to pray a prayer of blessing over the forgiven person.
iv) Pray for healing, freedom, protection, for grace, and for empowerment.

If the pain is coming from a non-relationship situation

i) Guide the person to pray a prayer verbalizing the pain: “Jesus I feel/felt _______”
ii) Guide the person to commit the pain and what had happened to Jesus: “Jesus I lift
up ______”
iii) Pray for the participant a prayer of healing, restoration, and redemption. Pray for
peace, comfort, and even fresh joy.
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End of One-on-One Ministry. Ending it with FAITH

After ministering and praying, end it with an encouragement and a practical outworking
of how to continue in the freedom and victory of that simple truth.

Pray a closing prayer. And set when the next meetup will be.

AFTER THE MINISTRY TIME OF THE 5TH MEETUP

Dispose of the Personal Spiritual Pro le (Have them tear it).
i) Pronounce a prayer of blessing on them.
ii) Remind the participant that it’s not a one-time thing, but a continuous walk with God.
Discipleship is for a lifetime.
iii) Celebrate with them and recast the vision of helping others follow Jesus.

REMINDERS:
a) Get help for special or dif cult areas of ministry. (Feel free to get in touch with our
pastors)
i) Extreme sexual perversion – child molestation, rape, etc.
ii) Cases with legal implications – drug dealing, murder, suicide attempts, etc.
iii) Cases that require medical expertise (like mental or physical disorders).
b) Be led by the Spirit the whole time.
c) If something unnatural happens, focus on what God is doing, not on manifestations of
demonic spirits. Be bold and con dent in theauthority and power of God—bind and cast
out only when there is possession.
Note, if there are manifestations you can cast the demons out:
> Understanding that you have the authority. (Luke 4:18-19)
> Discern upon the which root/issue it is manifesting from
> Drive the demons out. By COMMANDING IT TO GO OUT.
> Then just pray for the person, when things have settled down.
d) Rely on God’s Spirit to bring conviction and change.
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