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THROUGH BLESSING.
CONTROLS YOU?
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INTRODUCTION
To begin our study today, we will ask ourselves three questions:
ü Do you control money or money controls you? Which one will you prefer?
ü If you have more money now, what will you do?
ü What makes you feel valuable? Is it keeping the money or the things you have acquired or bought with the
money? Is it spending money on people?
As human, we believe we have power over money. We always feel that we are in control of money. We decide how
and what we spend it on. The common jargon used in our world today is “I buy what I want and spend my money
how I want, after all, it is my money. But the question is, who controls who? Are we actually controlling money or
money is controlling us?
Some people don’t like to have money (liquid cash), but they love to have things (things they purchased with money).
We pray to have money, but our motives are sometimes wrong. Some want to have money just to spend it on
themselves (buying a phone, a car, building a house for themselves, invest it to have more). What we want to do with
money reveals our true selves. And what we do with our money is what makes us feel valuable and important in life.
Our study today will reveal to us if we are truly in control of our money or it rather controls us. It will help us
understand the dangers of being controlled by money and the remedy. I pray that God will open our eyes to understand
and grant us grace to break loose from the control of money.
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Matthew 6:24
24 “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and
love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the
other. You cannot serve both God and money.
Jesus presents to us two masters, God and money. Jesus calls money a
master, Wow. This means that money is a master. And money has the same
influence God has on people. That is to say that money controls.
ü The things you do, does money control you or God does? Who is your boss or
manager?
Jesus tells us that we can’t submit to both God and money. He is not saying
it an option, but it is impossible to submit to both masters.
The word serve here is the word used for slave “douleuo” which means to
become enslaved by master. And today money has enslaved many people.
Many people are not free. But you will be free today. Amen.
ü Is the person you want to marry is not rich, will you go ahead and marry him
or her? Why?
Ecclesiastics 5:8-15
8 If you see the poor oppressed in a district, and justice and rights
denied, do not be surprised at such things; for one official is eyed by
a higher one, and over them both are others higher still. 9 The
The poor are oppressed and deprived of their justice and rights. And this is
because there is an official over them who keeps extorting from them and
provides nothing in return. However, the same official has another official
who is above him, higher in rank, and the hierarchy continues. The officials
of higher rank keep taking from those of lower rank. It is only in a just
statement? Discuss
It is not the issue of whoever has money never has enough, but whoever
loves money. If you love money, you will not be content with your income,
that is why those at the top are never satisfied, they keep getting from the
lower ones. But who will be able to say it is enough?
The one who doesn’t love money. You will have to determine it yourself.
But if you love money, you will keep going after it. That is why we say
being rich is relative.
ü How will you describe yourself, are you poor or rich? Why?
You can have enough money but you are still poor, because to you, you
still don’t have. When something is controlling you, you can’t have enough
of it.
Whatever you desire, has the capacity to control/rule over you. So, anybody
who desires so much money stands the chance of being ruled by money.
Women love for men makes them vulnerable.
So, be careful what you are loving and desiring, because very soon you will
be under the control and manipulation of that very thing.
There is something called spirit of greed, you just love money, you cannot
get over it. We have to rid ourselves of this love for money.
If God takes you captive. It will be very beautiful. You will be intoxicated
by God. What should intoxicate you that will leave you normal and
prospering? Nothing in this world. Anything that will intoxicate you in this
world will leave you miserable. Prefer to be a lover of God than a lover of
anything.
ü Can you sacrifice for God the same way you sacrifice to get money (staying
all night to trade vs doing all night for God, cooking for the rich guy or lady
you desire to marry vs cooking for God’s people and visiting them to show
love, going shopping vs going for visitation or for bible studies etc.? Discuss
money? Discuss
How can you keep something that you love so much and it ends up
destroying you. The second is better, which is it is lost through some
misfortune than destroying you. Many families and marriages have been
destroyed because of money. In fact, when they did not have money, they
were more together, but when they got money, the marriage ended.
It is only God that when he gives, he can protect you from the harm of what
he has given you and also protect what he has given you.
ü Do you believe that money makes one proud? Discuss
ü If you had a lot of money today that you lack nothing, will we still find you in
FCI?
Matthew 6: 19-21
19 “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths
and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But
store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin
do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For
where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Where your treasure is there your heart will be. Is your treasure God?
Is not the inverse, it is not because your heart is there, your treasure will be
there? Where your treasure is, is a real prove of where actually your heart
is. The fact that your treasure is not in God or geared towards the
advancement of the things of God, it shows there is a problem, your heart
is actually somewhere. That is why you have to give to your wife and your
husband too. Because where you give or invest, your heart stays there.
Some of the girls are very stingy, you don’t give. They think they are just
receivers. This is also one of the reasons you have to give to God, because
it protects your heart from money. That your heart will stay with God.
May God grants us grace to set our hearts on things above, on the realities
of heaven, to think about the things of heaven. May we never give room for
money to take the place of God in our hearts. Amen.
MEMORY VERSE
MATTHEW 6:24
24 “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the
one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and
despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.