14 PSYCHOLOGICAL WAYS TO MAKE SOMEONE OBSESSED WITH YOUWORNING This is very effective so don't use it for fun. And this information is taken from internet and | am not a inventor of this psychological technique. INTRODUCTION This is a manipulative technique used to make a girl or boy obsessed with you. At first you need to get her attention and then ~ Talk to her about her interest. - Listen to her replies. - Give her attention. (not too much ) - Give her few compliments. - flirt with her. - Tease her. - Be funny. - Don't tell her that you like her - Don't be a simp while giving her attention And suddenly change your personality. all the attention which made her feel valued and this is when she will crave to hear all those praises about her from you. She will wonder what. made you lose interest from her, during this period she will think a lot about. While you are in "backing off" stage you don't need to completely ghost her. You can talk to her for once or twice in a week that too it should be necessary for any work or something. (Do this for 2-4 weeks) depends on you1, GIVE THEM ALL YOUR ATTENTION If you're talking to someone and they're interested in what you're saying, you'll notice their eyes will be glued to your face, never wandering down or across the room. If you want to make someone obsessed with you, give that person your undivided attention when they need it. Show them you're interested and they'll reciprocate. Your attention is a powerful thing that very few people get to experience in their lives. So when this person sees that you're giving them your full attention, they'll definitely believe you're interested in them. Show this person that your attention is exclusively for them, and pretty soon, they'll be dying to know you better. 2. BE A GREAT LISTENER good listener is someone who can listen and respond to another person’s words and feelings, with empathy, understanding and interest. It’s someone who truly makes the other person feel like they are being heard, cared for and understood. And you know what? This is exactly how you make someone obsessed with you! Remember that too much talking can bore people, so don’t go on and on about yourself. To keep a person fully engaged, ask questions and listen to their answers as much as you can.And by the way, this is also how you make someone obsessed with you in the same way you want them to be. When they feel heard by you, they'll start wanting to hear more from you. The feeling of being understood by someone else is incredibly powerful — because it validates your own thoughts and experiences, connecting you both on an even deeper level. Lend them your ear and make them feel heard, and soon enough, they'll want to tell you more about themselves. 3. BE EMOTINALLY ATTRACTIVE The greatest thing about becoming emotionally attractive is that it’s completely under your control. All it takes is knowing how to behave, being conscious of what you're saying and determining whether this will come across as a positive or negative trait. You have to keep in mind that being emotionally attractive is being real — it's being genuine and not putting on an act. This is how you make someone obsessed with you emotionally. How? By being emotionally honest and open, being compassionate and empathetic, and being sincere and authentic in your emotions. Show this person that they can trust you with their deepest thoughts and feelings, that you are someone they can trust no matter what. This is how this person becomes truly open to — not just to anyone who will listen, but someone they know will listen in the right way. Show them that they're safe with you by listening actively, non- judgmentally and empathically, instead of waiting for your turn to speak.Being emotionally attractive has a lot more to do with what is on the inside and less on the outside, so don't worry if you're not in looks yet. Reciprocating respect, admiration and trust will definitely make this person become overwhelmed with wanting to be around you more often. 4, TREAT THRM LIKE A PRIZE If you want someone to be obsessed with you, make them feel like they're the most important thing in your life at that moment (when they are). | know this might sound mean, but it’s not. People respond well to feeling needed and special; by treating other people this way, you'll see the relationship develop quicker than you would have expected. Now, how to make someone feel like they're a prize you've won? First, don't disappear. When you get them interested in you, don’t let them feel you're slipping away; answer all your texts quickly, keep going out for drinks with them and don't disappear from their lives. Give your utmost attention to the person who seems most interested in getting to know you — because eventually, this person will be obsessed with you. Secondly, catch them off guard. If they can't predict what's going on around them, they'll be anxious and nervous to get back to feeling secure again. Being unpredictable is fun but can also be really stressful — so try not to overdo it, It’s a win-win situation: they'll feel like they're the center of your world and you'll get closer to them than you ever thought possible.5. SHOW THEM HOW MUCH FUN YOU CAN BE When it comes to attraction, there are two different types a person can be: the one who makes it happen, and the one who is made to happen. The first type likes to make things happen for themselves and for others, bringing more happiness into their lives. This is the kind of person that everyone wants to be with because this person brings life itself into their lives (and into their partners’ lives). The second type is the one who likes to be a follower, not a leader. This is the kind of person who lets the other person bring energy into the relationship because they don’t really know how to do it on their own. If you want someone to be obsessed with you, then be someone who makes things happen Have fun, take risks and enjoy yourself. Don’t make them force themselves on you — let them be swept away by your charisma and attraction. They'll certainly become a fan of yours! 6. MAKE THEM HELPLESS ONCE IN A WHILE One of the best ways to make someone obsessed with you is to become their resource for help. When they're in a pinch, they'll turn to you for assistance and even if this other person is generally self-reliant and capable, they'll still want you around to help them out. You can do this by showing your support, having humor and knowing how to make them laugh at any given moment — but only when they need it.If you want this person in your life to be obsessed with you, then make yourself a part of their life. Let them know that you care about them deeply, without spoiling everything else in the relationship. Isn't it a possible way for a deeper emotion like... love? 7. BE UNIQUE Give them everything they want, and a little more than they expect. Have an opinion on every subject, even if it's just to agree with what they say. Need | say more? Create a unique impression of yourself to them. Being drawn to your attention and your opinions will make you seem unique to them, since the other people in their lives will not be able to supply either of those things in the same way that you do. If you are truly in touch with who you are and you make sure that this person can figure out where you stand on each issue, that's going to make them feel like you might really understand them! Now how to be unique you ask? It’s simple, try not to follow where the crowd is headed, do something you don’t have many people doing yet, or create your own crowd. With this, you will leave a lasting impression on this person that will make them think of you at night before they sleep, trust me on this. 8. BE GENUINELY INTO THEM There's something about a genuine interest that just clicks with people. If you're genuinely interested in this person, then they'll know that you're into them and not just playing games — and they'll be drawn to you first and foremost because of the attraction alone.If they don't feel this attraction in the beginning, it will revive the more they get to know you (which means they are not obsessed with a fake picture, but a real person). If someone is really interested in you, it’s really hard for them not to be obsessed with you; there is no way around it. It’s science — once we know that someone is interested in us, chemicals in our brain produce a feeling of excitement, and we want to learn more about that person, who they are, what their likes and dislikes are. If you seem like the kind of person that is genuinely interested in them without having a hidden agenda or anything like that, then that is going to make whoever it is obsessed with you. 9. BE UNPREDICTABLE The best way to make someone crazy about you is to do things that are totally out of the ordinary for them. You want to make things feel fresh and new, so you can't just copy everything from their past and expect them to respond in the same way. If you want someone in your life to be obsessed with you, then try doing something completely random from time-to-time (or every day). For example: + If the person you want is the type that loves to read, get them a book they haven't read yet when you go out to eat or see each other + Making up funny jokes on the spot or singing silly songs in public can really make someone feel important. They'll love how special they feel when you show your love for them — and it will make them mentally search for ways to keep you around.* Don't talk about the same kind of music all the time — surprise them by introducing something they've never heard before, or even better, teach them how to play an instrument. * Ifyou have a car, take them out for a joy ride. Ifyou don't drive one, go on a motorcycle ride with them and if that’s not your thing, take them for a walk in your favorite park Remember, the most fun time is when you do things that also benefit others. 10. MAKE YOURSELF INTERESTING It’s no secret that people love talking about themselves They go on ad nauseam about their jobs, their passions and what they're doing in life. In fact, the only way to get someone to stop talking is by listening so intently that they begin to feel uncomfortable with the amount of time you're spending listening. If the person you're interested in starts finding you fascinating — as opposed to annoying — it's a good indication that they may be interested in being your friend or more. First of all, you need your own interests and hobbies that will draw this person's attention and make them want to know more about you — and make sure they have some interesting ones that they like! Let me tell you a secret: once they find out that the things you like are common to the things they are interested in, they will automatically be attracted to you. They will find it irresistible that you share common tastes. But as a reminder, never pretend to be interested: they will feel it, they will notice it, they will know it.Tl. MAKE THEM FEEL ATTRACTIVE This might seem a little bit like tricking someone into feeling romantically attracted to you, but remember that this is just a manipulation of energy. Making someone feel attractive isn’t so much about what you say, but how you act and how you treat them. If you want to make someone obsessed with you, show them how confident and happy they make you feel when they're around | mean... you are already attracted to them for wanting them to be obsessed with you. So why not put into action this energy you're feeling? It’s a win-win for everyone. They get the affection and attention they so desperately crave, you get the love and attention you want — but it’s all from them. 12. SHOW THEM YOUR VULNERABLE SIDE A lot of us have been hurt before, and so we're afraid to let the people we care about see us without a mask on. Just showing someone our vulnerability makes it easier for them to get past the masks and barriers that separate us from everyone else — it tells them that there is more than meets the eye; something worth exploring. When you open up to this person and get them to open up to you, that's going to make them feel like you're interested in them, but not using them. The last thing someone wants is for the person they are getting involved with is just using them for their own means. Relationships should be a mutual exchange of feelings and self-expression — not one-sided! So just give this person some love and respect by letting them in on what's going on inside your head. If you want someone to be obsessed with you, then one of the things you have to do is show them a side of yourself that only they can see.13, BE SOMEONE THEY CAN TRUST Because people are attracted to people that make them feel safe — the more comfortable you make them feel, the safer they'll be around you. Nothing can get someone to be obsessed with you quicker than making them feel like you're a trustworthy and reliable person. You will know that when someone is attracted to you because of the attraction itself — not because of your actions or the actions’ first impression. When you show that this person can trust you, it's going to help them fall deeper and deeper for you. Now how can you earn their trust? This could be the start: just be honest. Don't lie or mislead the person, and don't try to trick them into trusting you either. Simply be yourself and show that you have nothing to hide — and more people will want to open up their hearts to you. 14. MAKE THEM SMILE If you want this person to be obsessed with you, then they need to be happy when they're around you. How can you make this person obsessed with you if they are on the edge every time they're with you? If they aren't happy or comfortable around you, you have got yourself a huge problem And no one will be able to pull off being someone's obsession if we don’t respect them in the first place, so make them feel good about themselves and make them feel like their life is worth living by making them smile — it's that simple! There are many ways to make someone smile: * you can tell them a joke * you can tell them a story + you can play a game* gift them something meaningful * tell them that you like their looks + smile back to them, a lot The more smiley you are to them, the more comfortable and open they will be around you — and the more relaxed they feel, the less they're going to care about what anyone else thinks of them — and that’s a huge turn-on. Make them smile in your own little ways and see that they will become obsessed with you.