Essay

Do I agree that relationships are also a big work where you should put
all of you to make it work and stay for a long time?
The relationship is a significant topic for reflection and we can talk a lot
about it. Today people are interested in the “right” relationships for
improving themselves and their behavior. Although some people think that
is not necessary to talk about it.

I agree that relationships are also a big work. Erich Fromm wrote in The Art
of Loving "Love is an art, just as life is an art; if we want to learn to love, we
must do it just as if we wanted to master any other art, such as music,
painting, carpentry, medicine, or engineering". This is means that both
partners should work in a relationship. They should keep on work during all
time. It takes effort, but we cannot achieve something without effort. Of
course, this is not easy, and it should not be easy. If we choose to be in
relationship, we need to understand that our life will change.It isnt means
you must change all in your life, that means you have to take responsibility
not only for yourself but also for your partner.

Couples can break up with many diferent reasons. In my opinion, there are
a few basic ones. At first it is a total misunderstanding of each other. It's as
if you're talking about the same thing but in different languages. People may
not understand you because of a different style of thinking or may not want
to understand you.

Secondly, it is when you are completely dissolved in a person. You give all
100 percent of yourself and completely forget about your hobby, friends,
and so on. Then you will quickly get bored of each other. Because everyone
should have their own life, not live someone else's.

And thirdly, it is distrust. Nothing can be created without trust. If you do not
trust your partner, you will look for reasons to betray. This will destroy your
relationship. We need to learn to keep from doing this if we want to save
relationships.There are many other reasons for breaking up. And all of them
should be avoided.

So, a relationship is an important thing, and it should be kept in mind. But it

will not be too difficult if both partners work to strengthen this relationship.