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Poison
to
Nectar
Nam Rahega kam son woman (widowed or separated) who is is placed amongst the half dozen greatest
identified in the popular imagination as bhakta poets in what has today come to
Suno sayane loye
having rebelled against husband and in- be called Hindi.
Mira sut jayo nahin laws. In the country as a whole, she is the The figure of Mira, constructed in
Shishya na mudo koye best known of all women poets. Versions popular imagination through legend and
of her songs are sung in Gujarati, Hindi the supporting interpretation of her
“One’s name will live on through one’s and its dialects, Punjabi, Bhojpuri, Bengali, songs, has accumulated many meanings
work, consider this if you are wise; Mira Oriya. Some are incorporated into the Guru over time. She is seen as a saint, as a mystic,
did not give birth to a son nor did she Granth Saheb. Her songs have been so as a fervent devotee of Krishna, as an
have any disciples.” much a part of living oral traditions that it anguished virahini, as one who gave up
(popular saying) is not possible to establish definitively the the world for god, and also as a rebel.
authenticity of all the songs attributed to Many of the bhakta poets are perceived
THE culture of north India values her. Many of the more popular songs as rebels against injustice of various kinds
women mainly as mothers of sons. Yet it appear in different forms.1 Mira’s work is perpetrated by the established order, but
honours and reveres Mira, a childless also part of written literary tradition. She Mira is perhaps the only one in the Hindi
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Mine is the dark one, who dwells in I am dyed in the dark one’s hue, Rana,
Braj. I am dyed in the dark one’s hue
Friends, marriages of this world are Beating the drum to keep time, I
false, they are wiped out of danced before the sadhus.
existence. People thought me mad with love.
Wed my indestructible one, whom the crazed for love of the dark one.
serpent, death, cannot devour. Rana sent me a cup of poison, I
My beloved dwells in the heart, I’ve swallowed it without a thought.
seen the source of all bliss. Mira’s god, the lifter of mountains,
Mira’s god, indestructible joygiver, remains true life after life.
your slavegirl seeks your feet. (37
(194)
z z
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O heart, touch the feet of Hari
The lovely, cool and lotus-soft feet
that take away the flames of the
world.
Prahlad touched these feet, and took
on the rank of Indra.
The feet which made Dhruva steady
the feet that are the help of the
helpless;
The feet that encompassed the universe,
and filled the earth from
top to bottom with splendor;
The feet that mastered (the serpent)
Kalia, and played with the milk-
maids;
The feet that held up (mount)
Govardhan, and took away Indira’s
pride.
Mira says I am the slave of Giridhar’s
he is a ship to cross the limitless
sea (of life).
(I, trans. Zide and Pandey)
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former: “I will stay neither in my parental
home nor in my mother-in-law’s home.”15
Having dealt with family opposition by
leaving the protection of the home, Mira
still had to deal with often disapproving
opinions in the wider society. She
frequently refers to what “people” and
“people of the world” say about her, but
does not more closely specify who these
people are: “The people of the world speak
bitter words, and laugh at me.”(45)
But, even in her lifetime, she received
praise as well as blame. In more than one
song, she repeats the phrase “some praise
me, some blame me.” And, more strongly:
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homes; her brother the bhakta Nagaridas acknowledgment for its viewpoint and god to save her from distress, she entered
had a disciple Banithaniji (died 1765). Some becoming part of mainstream religious the temple and disappeared, having been
verses by both women are extant; ideology and practice. This fact is crucial absorbed into the image of Krishna. This
Banithaniji’s are clearly influenced by Mira. to the survival of Mira. Even in the legends is interpreted by some scholars as her
Gangabai (bo 1571) who is said to have of the bhaktas’ lives, the dialogue never having emerged from the western door of
lived for 198 years, and was a follower oft breaks down. The Brahmans do not refuse the temple which faces the sea and having
Vallabh Sampraday, also wrote some to dispute or debate. The very fact, for leapt into the sea, unseen by anyone.
verses.19 instance, that they are offended by Kabir’s Woman in Bhakti
The subverting of many conventional feeding Shudras instead of them suggests In the work of bhakta poets, all that
values by bhaktas could be extended to that far from despising him utterly, they comes in the way of self realisation
include unconventional behaviour by wish for his recognition. This tension is through devotion, is criticised and
women- not only such activity as singing also evident in the legendary account of condemned. Most frequently, it is pride
and dancing in temples, which was central Mira’s end. which obstructs devotion for which
to Mira’s expression of devotion, but also Tradition has it that when she was humility is a precondition. Pride may
such actions as leaving ONE’S husband. staying at the Ranchhorji temple on the originate in status, power, wealth, learning,
Bhaktamal narrates how Narsi Mehta, the seacoast at Dwarka, Gujarat, her natal and ritualistic piety. All these may lead one to
famous Gujan bhakta, had two daughters marital families sent a group of Brahmans consider oneself superior to others and
— Kunwarsena who left her husband and as emissaries to persuade her to return. distract one from devotion. However, the
returned to her father’s home, and When she refused, the Brahmans started pleasure of material enjoyments may also
Ratansena, who did not marry. These two, a fast unto death outside the temple to act as a distraction, becoming a substitute
along with two low caste women singers exercise pressure on her. Mira was now for the love of god.
who had become Narsi’s disciples, used confronted with a dilemma. If the Brahmans In the work of most male bhaktas,
to sing and dance before god. Narsi’s uncle, died, she would have their blood on her including such famous ones as Kabir and
the Brahman, Salang, was minister at the head. It is believed that after composing Tukaram, woman frequently appears as an
court of the king of Junagadh. He the song Hari, tum haro jan ki pir, asking obstruction on the path of devotion.
complained to the king of Narsi’s improper
behaviour, and the king summoned Narsi
and the court. Absorbed in devotion,
Narsi and the four women came dancing
and singing into the court assembly. The
assembly was impressed, but the king said:
“What kind of behaviour is this? Why do
you keep these young women with you?”
Narsi answered: “You have read many
books but your brains are dust covered,
you are far from the fragrance of devotion.
Did not Shukdev praise the women of
Mathura who left their husbands?”20 This
kind of daring interpretation of religious
symbolism (the gopis’ love for Krishna
being interpreted as a model of the
acceptability of the separated woman) to
encompass and validate the experience of
the marginalised in a way that put the
religious orthodoxy on the defensive was
typical of the bhaktas’ style of functioning.
It is noteworthy that the bhaktas,
though they were criticised and rebuked
by the priestly authorities, were not
persecuted as heretics, cut off and
outcasted. A dialogue and creative tension
persists between the opposed opinions,
with bhakti ultimately winning
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Mother, don’t forbid me: I will go to
see the holy men.
Shyam’s beauty lives in my heart:
Friend, the dark one’s glance is like nothing else pleases me.
love’s dagger. Everyone else sleeps peacefully, but
It struck me, and I grew restless; I my eyes are awake.
lost all sense of my body. The world which does not like Shyam
Pain spreads through my body, my is mad, and without wisdom.
mind is intoxicated. Shyman is in my heart, and sleep does
I have found a few friends — all of not come to me.
them are mad. I don’t drink the water of a pond
Now I know well who he is — the one I saw your beauty and was caught. filled only four months of the year;
who wanders the groves. All my family members and kindred The cascade of Hari’s nectar pours
The chakor loves the moon, the moth forbade me again and again. down, I will quench my thirst with
by the lamp is burnt, Strong had my attachment grown to it.
The fish dies without water — dear the peacock crowned dancer. The dark one’s beauty is excellent,
indeed is such love. My mind is absorbed in the dark one; I will go and took at his face.
How can I live without seeing (him), people say I have gone astray. Mira is suffering from the pangs of
my heart is not at rest. Mira takes refuge at god’s feet, he separation;
Go to him and say: Mira is yours. knows every heart. Whatever she wants to, she will do.
(174) (9) (28, trans. Zide and Pandey)
Krishna lifting mount Govardhan to protect the people of Braj from the torrential rains sent by indra
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god she sometimes calls Ram, sometimes
Giridhar, sometimes Hari or Prabhu. One
such famous song is “Payo ji mainey Ram
Ratan dhan payo”, another is “Ram nam
ras pije manuva”:
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difference between bhakti as a mode of symbols). Having thus proved herself, from other women and the freedom allowed
attaining god, and many other modes, is dared all, broken all barriers, she is exalted her will not be extended to them.
that giving up a householder’s life is not and revered, and regains in far greater Though Mira may not have inspired
required of a bhakta. Most of the male measure the honour and repute she lost or collective action by women, she has
bhaktas continue to live with and provide seemed to have lost by flouting the norms certainly acted as an inspiration to many
for their families, to perform their caste of womanly behaviour. She is now individual women. Despite her not being
based occupation, and to do all the social perceived as existing beyond such norms. placed, for literary merit, in the same class
duties required of them. They pride But, by being compelled to be so far as Sur and Tulsi, her songs, because of
themselves on attaining god through beyond the ordinary, she becomes a not their superb singability, linger in the
simple devotion, not through austerities. easily imitable model. Her way remains memory. A line like “Pad ghungroo bandh
It is this which makes bhakti more literally “anuthi”. Like Kali who may tread Mira nachi re” or “He Ri, mein to prem
attractive and accessible to large numbers on her husband, like certain south Indian diwani” catches the attention for the
of ordinary people. goddesses who behead their husbands, sense of abandon it conveys. The
But Mira is not allowed to do this. The she becomes an object of adoration rather outstanding melodic quality of her work,
ideology of pativrata, whereby a woman’s than a model or a guide to action for other making it so suitable for singing and
salvation lies in unquestioning devotion women. dancing, has ensured its wide reach, and
to her husband, comes into active conflict It is significant, nevertheless, that she the plain and direct language and
with the ideology of bhakti when the finds so honoured a place in so many sentiment its easy adaptibility to many
bhakta is a woman. Apart from the flouting traditions and media. Her sharpest, most languages.
of secular and religious authority in which defiant and critical verses are among her The paradox of Mira’s song is
all the bhaktas have, to some extent, to best known and have contributed to contained in its intense lyricism which
engage, the woman bhakta has also to her.special fame. This is in contrast to many conveys the overall emotion of joy even
flout the absolute authority of the cultures where women’s writings when pain, suffering, separation, are being
husband and his family over her life, since perceived as outrageous were described. This may, ultimately, be the
she now acknowledges a higher authority. suppressed, even destroyed, or buried, paradox of all art which, like the parasmani,
This conflict makes the simultaneity of and had to be recovered from oblivion transmutes the painful riddte-of life into
bhakti and grahastha, which is possible centuries later. lasting beauty, or, in Mira’s phrase,
for the male bhakta, impossible for her. This duality in dealing with strong and changes poison to nectar.
Once out of the house, Mira is creative women seems to be a
effectively out of her community. The male characteristic of our culture that persists References and Notes
low caste bhakta who continues to live even today. A woman who is ready to risk Translations of Mira’s and other
and work at home, and dies there,* in the everything, by openly defying family, bhaktas’ poems in and accompanying this
midst of the community, becomes a focus community and social opinion, and by article are by Ruth Vanita, unless otherwise
for community aspirations. Mira, having flouting all norms, may be subjected to all indicated.
become outcasted, or at least remote, kinds of ordeals and temptations — 1. Numbering of Mira’s songs quoted
cannot function in the same way. The sought to be restricted, married 6ft, and referred to in this article follow that in
perception of Mira as having been imprisoned, even beaten or killed. But if Parshuram Chaturvedi, Mirabai ki
outcasted from her community took deep she manages to survive it all and still be Padavali, 17th edition, 1983, Hindi Sahitya
root. This is suggested by the fact that it creative, she will get not just recognition Sammelan, Allahabad,”T’from which the
appears to survive in some form even but a very special kind of honour reserved translations are also done, unless
today. Parshuram Chaturvedi narrates that for such women, almost worshipped as otherwise indicated.
when he visited Chjttor fort and Udaipur being of a category apart, a heroine, a near- 2. Nabhadas’ Bhaktamal mentions a
he was told that Mira is not respected goddess to whom ordinary standards do Rajput queen, Jhali, who was a disciple of
amongst Rajputs there. Padmavati not apply. She can then get away with Raidas, but little else is known of her.
Shabnam says that the folk literature library much that would ordinarily be considered 3. Chaturvedi, op. cit., pp. 18 and 25.
at Girnar reports that most of Mira’s songs outrageous. 4. From the excerpt in Chaturvedi, p.
were collected from lower caste and Bhil But her existence and high repute will 233. See also Sudershan Chopra, Mim
singers.25 not of itself become ground for restrictions Parichay Tatha Rachnayen, Hind Pocket
Mirabai had not only to live an on other women to be relaxed or for the Books, Delhi, 1976, 2nd edition, and Nilima
extraordinary life but to prove her boundaries of their freedom to be Singh, Mira: Ek Antavang Pari-chay,
extraordinariness by going through enhanced. Being perceived as Saraswati Vihar, 1982.
ordeals (of which the cup of poison, the extraordinary, she is by definition 5. From the excerpt in Chaturvedi, 234-
snake and the bed of thorns are dramatic considered to be in a different category 235.
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