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Mirabai in a group of bhaktas

Poison
to
Nectar

The Life and Work of Mirabai

by Madhu Kishwar and Ruth Vanita

Nam Rahega kam son woman (widowed or separated) who is is placed amongst the half dozen greatest
identified in the popular imagination as bhakta poets in what has today come to
Suno sayane loye
having rebelled against husband and in- be called Hindi.
Mira sut jayo nahin laws. In the country as a whole, she is the The figure of Mira, constructed in
Shishya na mudo koye best known of all women poets. Versions popular imagination through legend and
of her songs are sung in Gujarati, Hindi the supporting interpretation of her
“One’s name will live on through one’s and its dialects, Punjabi, Bhojpuri, Bengali, songs, has accumulated many meanings
work, consider this if you are wise; Mira Oriya. Some are incorporated into the Guru over time. She is seen as a saint, as a mystic,
did not give birth to a son nor did she Granth Saheb. Her songs have been so as a fervent devotee of Krishna, as an
have any disciples.” much a part of living oral traditions that it anguished virahini, as one who gave up
(popular saying) is not possible to establish definitively the the world for god, and also as a rebel.
authenticity of all the songs attributed to Many of the bhakta poets are perceived
THE culture of north India values her. Many of the more popular songs as rebels against injustice of various kinds
women mainly as mothers of sons. Yet it appear in different forms.1 Mira’s work is perpetrated by the established order, but
honours and reveres Mira, a childless also part of written literary tradition. She Mira is perhaps the only one in the Hindi

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I saw the dard clouds and I wept,
Shyam, I saw the dark clouds and
wept
The black clouds and the yellow
gathered, and they rained for a
very long time.
Wherever I looked, there was water;
the thirsty earth was green.
My lover lives in a foreign country,
I”ve gotten drenched in my door-
way standing and waiting for him.
Mira’s Lord Hari is the imperishable
one; he proved his love for me.
(82, trans, Zide and Pande)

Friend, the arrow of his glance struck


my eyes;
Its point pierced my heart (and) his
swet image entered my soul.
For a long time I have been staying
(here) watching the road, standing
at my house.
My life clings to (my) dark beloved,
(he is) a life-giving herb.
Mira says I am sold into the hands of
Giridhar, but people say I am
loose.
Mira is dyed Hari’s* colour, other (14, trans, Zide and Pandey)
colours did not take.
My bangles are the tilak androsary,
chastity and austerity my ornaments
I don’t want other ornaments. This is
The wisdom of my guru
Some may blame me, some may
praise me; (but) I will sing the
praise of Govind.
The path that the saintly have taken,
I will take.
I neither steal nor harm anyone; what
can anyone do to me?
having ridden an elephant, how can
I ride a donkey? Such a thing
can’t be.
(25, trans. Zide and Pandey)
*a play on the word which means “Vishnu” and also
“green”
76 MANUSHI
region whose rebellion is against injustice any other kind in her community, nor, after legacy.
within the family and kinship group, her, did any such tradition develop. She was married into the royal family
injustice done her because she was a Rajasthani Rajputs and Rajasthan in of Sisodia Rajputs of Mewar. The identity
woman. This dimension is present in the general did not, even in the nineteenth of her husband is not established beyond
life, legends and compositions of some century, throw up a social reform dispute. Traditionally, she was believed to
women bhakta poets in other languages, movement around women’s issues, even have been the wife of Maharana Kumbh,
but is perhaps most clearly and forcefully though at this time such movements but most scholars now agree that her
articulated by Mirabai. emerged in many other communities and husband was Bhojraj, eldest son of the
Part of the forcefulness emanates from regions. famed warrior, Rana Sanga. Some interpret
the fact that Mira belonged to the Rajput How then, do we explain, or rather, the marriage as part of a political alliance
aristocracy of Rajasthan. Rajputs understand, a Mira? What does her between the Ranas of Mewar and the
traditionally prided themselves on the emergence, her cultural survival and her Rathors of Jodhpur, against the royal family
valour of their men and the fiercely subsequent popularity signify? Let us look of Marwar.
guarded sexual virtue of their women- both at the little that is known and the more that According to some accounts, Mira was
essential components of the izzat or is believed concerning her life. accompanied from her natal to her marital
honour held so dear in their martial home by her maidservant and companion
traditions. Their norms of segregation, Life and Legend in bhakti, Lalita, who remained with her
seclusion of women, sanctions against throughout her life, acted as her
remarriage and widow marriage, were all The dates of Mira’s lifespan are amanuensis, and died with her. Dhruvdas,
Jinked to control and valorization of uncertain and much disputed. According in his versified account of Mira’s life, says
women’s sexual virtue. The practice by this to one account to which we will generally that Mira said : “I will take Lalita with me,
group of sati and of jauhar (collective sati adhere she was born c. 1498 and died c. (wherever I go), I have great love for her.”4
performed by Rajput women when the 1546. She is believed to have been the The legend continues that when she
defeat and death of the men at the hands daughter of Ratnasingh of the Medtiya went to her marital home, Mira was
of enemy forces seemed inevitable) are Rathor clan, and his wife Vir Kunwari. required, as a new daughter-in-law, to
glorified in Rajput tradition as an Mira’s paternal great grandfather, Jodhaji, worship her in-laws’ family deity- the
expression of the courage of their women- was the founder of Jodhpur. Her paternal goddess (devi). The Sisodias were
a courage thus articulated primarily in grandfather, Dudaji, had conquered Medta Shaktas, worshippers of Shakti. In the
defence of their sexual virtue, the city and 360 villages around it. He gave Bhaktamal Vartik, 1712, his versified
supposed repository of community Mira’s father, Ratnasingh, 12 villages of commentary on the Bhaktamal, Priyadas
honour. which the central village was Kudki. Mira narrates:
Some groups of Rajputs were was born in the small fort at Kudki.
prominent amongst the groups that Tradition has it that as a young child, When she reached the house, she
practised female infanticide in the Mira pestered her mother to tell her the touched her mother-in-law’s feet...
nineteenth century, and boasted that they meaning of “bridegroom.” Her mother The mother-in-law arranged a puja of
never had to bow their heads before a son- replied that every girl has a bridegroom. the goddess.
in-law and his family. Being the dominant Mira then demanded to know who her The groom worshipped first, and then
community in Rajasthan, Rajput norms bridegroom was. To escape her persistent the bride was to worship.
strongly influenced Rajasthani culture as questioning, Vir Kunwari pointed to an She said: ‘How can one who has been
a whole. Even today, the effects of the image of Krishna, saying: “There’s your sold into Giridhar’s hands
devaluation of women’s lives are evident bridegroom”, and, ever after, Mira Worship any other? My aspirations
in the low sex ratio (proportion of women considered herself wedded to Krishna. The are set on him alone.’
to men), low literacy, education and significant point is that Mira’s natal family
employment rates for women, and greater were Vaishnavs. Her grandfather, Dudaji, The narrative goes on with Mira being
seclusion and segregation in most parts his son Biramdev, (her uncle), and told: “Worship her whose worship will
of Rajasthan as compared to many other grandson Jaimal (her cousin) are all enhance your suhag”, that is, lengthen
parts of the country. mentioned as eminent Vaishnav bhaktas your husband’s life, but still she refuses.
It is in this context that Mira’s rebellion in Bhaktamal, a versified anthology of the The mother-in-law then tells Mira’s
acquires its dramatic quality. She stands lives of bhaktas, composed by Nabhadas, husband that “This bride is of no use. ...
out as a lone and extraordinary figure, the a bhakta of the low caste Dom community, get rid of her, she has insulted me. Why
exception that proves the rule. She does who lived in the late sixteenth or early wait for further evidence?” and “Rana was
not seem to emerge from any known seventeenth century. Like Andal, Mira thus angry when he heard this.”5
tradition of women’s rebellion of this or of inherits Vaishnav bhakti as part of a family Thus, Mira’s bhakti first became

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conflict ridden in the context of her marriage. In two of her songs she the community of bhaktas. A secluded
resistance to her husband’s family’s describes herself as virgin through life after devotion to Krishna within the women’s
attempt to mould her, as the new daughter- life” (Nos. 51, 77). This, however, could quarters is unlikely to have provoked such
in-law, according to their requirements. One be meant as a metaphorical rather than a animosity from the family (although, as
of Mira’s songs is highly suggestive of literal description. Nilima Singh puts it: “A married woman
her reaction to this attempt by her in-laws: Traditionally, the “Rana” addressed in who did not consider her husband god,
Mira’s songs has been interpreted as her but considered god her husband must
Today I am in the company of husband. Later bhaktas who narrated her have startled them’!).9 The conflict of
good people, Rana, how fortunate I am. life in their versified anthologies of norms became irreconcilable because of
Those who mingle with good people bhaktas’ lives established this Mira’s spending time with like-minded
are dyed four times over interpretation and referred to her husband people not of her family, and actually going
Do not associate with the Shaktas- as “Rana.” Recent scholarship, however, so far as to dance and sing in gatherings
your devotion will be disturbed. tends to identify the “Rana” addressed in of devotees and in public places like
Sixty eight holy places, crores of her songs with her husband’s brother temple- a highly unsuitable practice for a
Kashis and Gangas are at the feet sants. Vikramjit Singh who succeeded to the title Rajput princess, and one that few middle
Whoever slanders them will go to of “Maharana” after the death of Mira’s or upper class families would consider
hell; will become blind and crippled. father-in-law and husband. By this respectable even today.
Mira’s god is the lifter of mountains; account, the conflict escalated only after It must also be remembered that the
I am clad in the dust of the sants’ Mira became a widow. community of bhaktas was by no means
feet. In earlier accounts Mira is nowhere entirely drawn from the upper castes. In
referred to as a widow, but is often fact, one important feature of bhakti was
Modern Hindi scholars have been at described as a married woman refusing the its openness to people from all groups and
great pains to argue that Mira “lived pleasures and restrictions of married life. its emphasis on the equality of all
happily with her husband” until his death, Nor in her songs does she ever refer to devotees before god, the primacy of
and then turned to intense Krishna herself as a widow. She describes herself devotion and love over booklearning, and
bhakti as a sort of compensation: “As as refusing silks and jewels, of which a a consequent leaning in favour of the poor
soon as she was separated from her widow would have been deprived. and lowly whose sincere devotion is
patidev (husband as god) she suddenly Whatever the historical facts may be, viewed as more acceptable to god than
shattered all worldly ties, averted her it is significant that the Rana addressed in the ritualistic religious observances of the
attention from all else, and became even Mira’s songs is not explicitly identified by learned.
more immersed in her chosen deity.”6 her in terms of the familial relation he bears Some idea of the social composition of
Vishwanath Tripathi indignantly to her, nor is he even named. He is referred the bhakta community can be gleaned
repudiates the idea that her rebellion may to only by his title as a chieftain. His from Vaishnav chronicles like Chourasi
have been directed against her husband, most important function in her songs is Vaishnavon ki Varta and Do Sau
saying: “She was not a light minded or that of a figure of authority. His power Vaishnavan ki Varta (The accounts of 84
psychologically abnormal woman.” 7 extends over the family as well as the Vaishnavs, and The accounts of 200
Chaturvedi too condemns the traditional community and the larger society. The Vaishnavs). Many of the accounts identify
idea of Mira as a rebel against her husband: women described as hostile to her are bhaktas who were from low, Shudra and
“... The blot of being a rebel against her identified in familial terms (mother-in-law, untouchable castes, Muslims, nomads and
husband has been [wrongly] placed on sister-in-law), but the hostile male figure disreputable, even criminal groups:
her pure character.”8 is clearly more powerful and dangerous.
However, accepted tradition is at His displeasure has more fearful “The story of Yadvendra Das the potter”;
variance with this view. Nagaridas, a consequences- he attempts to kill her and “The story of Patho the Gujari”:
bhakta of the Vallabh Sampradaya’ who also persecutes the other devotees. The “The story of Ali Khan, the Pathan”;
also happened to belong to the same larger significance with which the Rana is “The story of a Chuhra”;
Rathor clan as did Mira in his verses invested by the lack of explicit
composed c.1743, says that Mira was identification leaves his figure open to
offered poison because she preferred the more diverse interpretation. This in part
company of other devotees to physical explains how this figure lends itself to the *or, I behave differently/uniquely;
contact with her husband. Legend has it traditional interpretation as her husband. (mein chalungi chaal anuthi) the word
that Mira remained a virgin after her The major source of conflict, as it chaal means both to walk and mode of
marriage. Considering herself wedded to emerges in Mira’s songs, and in legends, conduct as in chaal chalau.
Krishna, she refused to consummate the is her insistence on active association with **JiteraIly, the kitehen fire,

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Mine is the dark one, who dwells in I am dyed in the dark one’s hue, Rana,
Braj. I am dyed in the dark one’s hue
Friends, marriages of this world are Beating the drum to keep time, I
false, they are wiped out of danced before the sadhus.
existence. People thought me mad with love.
Wed my indestructible one, whom the crazed for love of the dark one.
serpent, death, cannot devour. Rana sent me a cup of poison, I
My beloved dwells in the heart, I’ve swallowed it without a thought.
seen the source of all bliss. Mira’s god, the lifter of mountains,
Mira’s god, indestructible joygiver, remains true life after life.
your slavegirl seeks your feet. (37
(194)
z z

If Sisodiya is angry, what will he do


to me?
I will sing the virtues of Govind,
friends.
If Rana is angry, he will stay in his
own country (and not harm me).
If Hari is angry, I will wither, friend.
I don’t care for worldly position;
Fearless, I will beat the drum, friend.
I will sound Shayam’s name on the
castanets
I will cross the ocean of life, friend.
Strong Giridhar isMira’s refuge;
I will cling to his lotus feet, friend.
(35, trans, Zide and Pandey)

Mine is the lifter of mountains, the


cowherd, and none other.
O sadhus! there is no other -- I have
seen the whole world.
I left brothers, I left kindred, I left
all I had.
Sitting near the sadhus, I lost worldly
shame.
I looked at the devotees and I was one
with them; I looked at the world
and wept.
With tears I watered love’s creeper
and it took root.
I churned the milk, drew out the ghee
and threw away the whey.
Rana sent a cup of poison; I drank
it and stayed ecstatic.
Mira’s attachment is strong -- what
was to happen has happened
(18)
Early nineteenth century painting of Mira

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“The story of a Dokri”; O Mira’s god, lifter of mountains! ...I lost the honour of the royal
“The story of Kalavat, the washerman”; The Rana persecutes the bhaktas. family, I went astray* with the
“The story of a prostitute”; (190) sadhus,
“The story of a thief who was a Vaishnav”; * In folklore, an image of hypocrisy I constantly rise up, go to god’s
“The story of a weaver’s daughter”; particularly religious hypocrisy, as in temple, and dance, snapping my
“‘The story of a Pathan’s daughter”; bagula bhagat, because it stands still, fingers,
“The story of a prostitute’s daughter”; pretends to be lost in meditation, and then I don’t follow the norms as an oldest
“The story of an ironsmith”; snaps up unwary fish which approach it.
“The story of Raskhan Pathan”; ** The smaller (rivers) are purer and daughter-in-law, I have thrown away
“A Chuhra who got the better of Pandits.” more useful than the large and mighty (the the veil,
sea), an idea found also in Kabir (Bada I have taken refuge with the great
For a married woman to establish hua to kya hua ...) guru, and snapped my fingers at the
associations with people outside her family consequences.11
and mingle with them on her own is even In popular perception, too, Mira’s caste
today generally frowned upon. This is so status features as a point of conflict *The word used is bhatki — the same
even when her associates are of her own between her and her in-laws. In a folksong word used in song 9: “People say I have
caste and class status. Mira’s song quoted recorded by Padmavati Shabnam, Mira and gone astray.”
above suggests that the bhaktas were her sister-in-law, Udo, are depicted as
criticised by many in contemporary holding a dialogue. Udo says:
society. Many of their practices were The first circle of opposition that Mira
certainly unorthodox. Numerous legends had to break through was that of the
relating to different bhakias revolve Sister-in-law, I’ve tried my best to immediate family. This opposition took the
around their conflicts with established form of restricting her movements by
religious authority and practice. Many dissuade you, but failed; do listen locking her in:
relate to the breaking down of caste to me.
taboos. For example, in one legend, Kabir The Rana is angry- do not go O friend*, I cannot live without the
got into trouble with Pandits because he amongst strange* sadhus. delight giver
chose as an act of piety to feed poor It is a blot on the family, sister-in-law, Mother-in-law fight, my sister-in-law
Shudras instead of Brahmans. we are being severely criticised. teases,
That hostility to the bhaktas took Wandering from forest to forest with The Rana remains angry.
active forms too, apart from slander, is They have a watchman sitting at the
indicated in the last line of a Mira song sadhus, you have lost your honour. door, and a lock fastened on it.
which also suggests, through its pointed You have been born in a great house Why should I give up my first love,
paradoxes, that those who appear great yet you dance, clapping your hands.. the love of my former life?
and good may be the opposite while those For you to sit amongst the high and Mira’s god is the lifter of mountains
who appear base may be more worthy: the low [making no distinction], None else pleases me.
sister-in-law, when you are of so (42)
Strange are the ways of fate. superior a caste,
The deer has large eyes to see yet And when you have a husband like the * Whenever the word “friend” is use
strays [as if lost] from forest to forest. Rana [is not right]10 in translation, the original word is Sakhi,
The crane* is shining white, the Sajni, Ali or Mai, all terms for a woman
cuckoo black in hue, * The word used is par, which carries friend.
River water flows pure, the connotation of a strange man, paraya
the sea turns it salt** purush with whom it is improper for a
Fools are enthroned as kings, woman to associate. Paradoxically, Mira resists this
the learned wander door to door. opposition and goes her own way with
According to tradition, Mira chose the aristocratic self assertion and valour
Ravidas, also known as Rohidas or Raidas, supposed to be characteristic of Rajputs,
the Chamar bhakta, as her guru. In a song even while she is flouting community
attributed to her, she says: norms, Nabhadas in the Bhaktamal noted
this quality when he described her as
...I have found a guru in Raidas, he “independent and completely fearless.”
has given me the pill of knowledge, The first person subject, coupled with

80 MANUSHI
O heart, touch the feet of Hari
The lovely, cool and lotus-soft feet
that take away the flames of the
world.
Prahlad touched these feet, and took
on the rank of Indra.
The feet which made Dhruva steady
the feet that are the help of the
helpless;
The feet that encompassed the universe,
and filled the earth from
top to bottom with splendor;
The feet that mastered (the serpent)
Kalia, and played with the milk-
maids;
The feet that held up (mount)
Govardhan, and took away Indira’s
pride.
Mira says I am the slave of Giridhar’s
he is a ship to cross the limitless
sea (of life).
(I, trans. Zide and Pandey)

Friends, I am completely dyed this


(i.e. Krishna’s) colour.
I drank the cup of immortal bliss,
and became drunk.
My inebriation never goes away,
however many millions (lit. crores)
of ways I try (to get rid of it).
Rana sent me a basket with a snake
in it, and Mira (lit. the girl of
Merta) put it around her neck.
Smiling, Mira hugged it as if it
were a string a new pearls.
Rana took a cup of poison, “Find
Mira,” (he said), “and give it to
her.” “Love — like the deer hearing the horn — come forth, give up your life.”
She drank it like charanamrita, there, your body wastes away. — die enclosed within it.
singing the praises of Govinda. If you desire to love, be ready to give Mira says, surrender your being
I drank the cup of his names; nothing up your head.* at Giridhar’s lotus feet.
else pleases me (now). Love — as the moth loves the lamp — (191)
Mira says that her Lord is Giridhar revolve round it, surrender your
Nagar; all (other or others’) body. *lit. make of your head a seat, inter-
impermanent colours fade. Love — like the deer hearing the horn preted by scholars as “ behead yourself
(40, trans. Zide and Pandey) — come forth, give up your life. and make your head your seat”, do
Love — as the chakor loves the moon what is impossible.
— consume fiery coals.** ** The partidge who in legend is so
Love — do not name it, O innocent Love — as the fish loves the water enraptured by the moon that it eats fiery
one. — die rather than be parted. coals, mistaking them for fragments of
Strange is the path of love — set foot Love — as the bee loves the lotus the moon.

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active verbs, is strongly in evidence in her Slander against a woman’s moral and it did not harm her; he sent her a bed
songs. Her name occurs not only in the character is a powerful weapon often used of thorns which changed into a bed of
customary last line signature, but often as to intimidate women into accepting flowers when she lay on it. Some scholars
a statement of what she is doing, for restrictions on their movements and interpret these incidents as evidence of
example, in a first line: “Ecstatic, Mira sings associations. In Rajput culture, with its Mira’s having supporters in the palace,
god’s praise.” (41) Phrases like “I will”, “I emphasis on women’s sexual virtue, this who substituted harmless objects for the
will not”, “I do” “I am”, “I have” and their weapon was especially potent. Mira harmful ones.
variants are scattered through her songs. renders it impotent in the only effective At some point, Mira left the palace and
She repeatedly emphasises her disregard way- by declaring her refusal to be ruled the city, and, according to tradition,
for public opinion, that great deterrent to by this norm: “I have given up the norm of returned to her natal home at Medta. After
unorthodox actions, especially for women, family honour, what can anyone do to she left, Bahadurshah attacked and
even today: me?”13 By stepping out of family and conquered Chittor in 1534 and about
womanly maryada (which means both 13,000 women are said to have committed
Rana, to me your slander is sweet. “limit” like a lakshmanrekha, and jauhar. One popular belief is that this was
Some praise me, some blame me. I “honour”) Mira disarms her detractors- the a visitation of divine wrath on the ruling
go the other way.* poison of slander fails to work. family of Chittor for their maltreatment of
On the narrow path, I found god’s The hostility she faces then takes Mira. A few years later, Vikramjit Singh
people. What should I turn back sterner forms. The Rana’s hostility appears
for? to have taken the form of an attempt to kill
I’m learning wisdom among the wise, Mira. The incident of his sending her a
and the wicked look at me with cup of poison, which Krishna turned to
malice. nectar when she drank it, is repeatedly
Mira’s Lord is Giridhar Nagar. referred to in her songs. It acquires the
Let the wicked burn in a furnace. * * potency of a major symbol of her faith in
(33, trans. Zide and Pandey)12 her god, her triumph over her detractors,
and the transmutation of her pain into joy.
In one of her most famous songs, her regained control over Chittor.
She, at times, expresses a pained
abandon is conveyed in her dancing and The rulers of Medta too were
surprise at the hostility of the Rana:
her laughing: beleaguered, and, under attack from
Maldev of Jodhpur, frequently sought
Rana, why are you my enemy?
Mira danced with ankle-bells on refuge at Ajmer, Ranthambhor and Malwa.
You seem the karil* among trees to
her feet. Mira’s songs suggest that her natal
me.
People said Mira was mad; my family, although Vaishnavs, did not
I left your palace, and your roof;
mother-in-law said I ruined the approve of her way of expressing her
I left your city.
family reputation. devotion:
I stopped putting on kajal and beauty
Rana sent me a cup of poison and “I broke [bonds with] mother, father
spots, and put on sash and
Mira drank it laughing. and family, like a straw.” (119)
shawl**
I dedicated my body and soul at the And, again:
Mira’s Lord is Giridhar Nagar.
He turned the poison to nectar. feet of Hari.
1 am thirsty for the nectar of the Whatever they say, my mind is fixed.
(34, trans. Zide and Pandey)
sight of him. Like gold added to good fortune
Mira’s lord is Giridhar Nagar; I will is my love for the mind delighting
* a thorny tree of the acacia family,
come for refuge to him. one.
associated with graveyards.
(36, trans. Zide and Pandey) The mind, sleeping through many
**lit., saffron shawl, i.e., ascetic robes.
births,
Woke at the guru’s word.
In other songs, she refers to further Mother, father, family, clan, broke
events which seem to either describe or like a thread.
symbolise attempts to kill or torture her. Mira’s god is the lifter of mountains;
The Rana sent her a serpent which turned fortunate am I.14
into an image of god when she opened the
basket in which it was kept; in another Her having taken to a wanderer’s life
version, she wore the snake as a necklace rather than settling at Medta suggests
that, for some reason, she preferred the

82 MANUSHI
former: “I will stay neither in my parental
home nor in my mother-in-law’s home.”15
Having dealt with family opposition by
leaving the protection of the home, Mira
still had to deal with often disapproving
opinions in the wider society. She
frequently refers to what “people” and
“people of the world” say about her, but
does not more closely specify who these
people are: “The people of the world speak
bitter words, and laugh at me.”(45)
But, even in her lifetime, she received
praise as well as blame. In more than one
song, she repeats the phrase “some praise
me, some blame me.” And, more strongly:

Because of you, beautiful dark one,


all the people laugh.
Some say Mira is mad, some say
she is a destroyer of family,
Some say she has lit a lamp and is She refers in some songs to symbols a pond?
immersed in the beloved’s name.16 of poverty such as tasteless vegetables I have no use for (the) Ganga and
arid ragged clothing which she prefers to (the) Jamna, I will go to the sea.
In general, her attitude to those she the luxuries of the life she has given up. I have no use for associates. I will go
terms “people of the world” is one of lofty The world she has found is posed as the (straight) to the chief.
disregard. In one song, she criticises their polar opposite of the world where the Rana I have no use for courtiers. I will go
priorities and distinguishes her own rules: to the court.
aspirations from theirs: I have no use for tin and glass; I will
(like red-hot iron) withstand (the
People of this world die of shame I don’t like your strange world, hammer blows).
[to be seen] invoking Ram’s name Rana, I have no use for gold and silver; I
Going to Hart’s temple, their feet A world where there are no holy men, am a dealer in diamonds.
start aching and all the people are trash. My fortune has awakened, the ocean
But they roam around the whole I have given up ornaments, given up (the storehouse of jewels) is near.
village. braiding my hair. Who would turn down a cup of nectar,
They will run to watch a quarrel, I have given up putting on kajal to drink bitter water?
abandoning their work at home. (collyrium), and putting my hair I am acquainted with pious men, I go
They will sit all day to watch jesters, up. away from the wicked.
dancers, a harlot’s dance. Mira’s Lord is Giridhar Nagar; I Mira’s Lord is Giridhar Nagar; he
Mira’s god, lifter of mountains, fix have found a perfect bridegroom. will fulfil my desires.
my heart’s desire on your lotus (32, trans. Zide and Pandey) (24, trans. Zide and Pandey)
feet. *More often interpreted as “the big
(157) house is locked” (against me).
As distinguished from the people of The pleasures she has found in her new
the world, Mira opts for the society of other world are imaged as true wealth, as against
bhaktas. In song after song, she describes the false wealth of the community she has According to legend, Mira travelled
herself as fortunate to have found the left: widely, visiting many temples sacred to
company of other devotees, privileged to Krishna, including the shrine at Dakaur
sit with them, join in common devotion and (from where one set of handwritten
in gathering of wisdom. This community I am connected with the great house* manuscripts of her songs has been
and its supporters in the wider society the merit of my former life has recovered), Vrindavan, and finally, Dwarka.
would seem to have provided her an borne fruit. According to legend, Akbar and Tansen
alternative way of life. I have no use for a lake; why go to travelled to Dwarka to pay their respects

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to her, and she and Tansen sang one of with the situation by making it public never to return.
her bhajans together. instead of shrinking in silent Another well known legend (also
In one song, the temple (Giridhar’s embarrassment or humiliation: found in Priyadas’ narrative) says that
house) becomes the centre of her Mira went to meet Chaitanya’s disciple,
existence, and her survival needs are Jiv Goswami, at Vrindavan, but he sent a
looked after in the course of this devoted Spreading a bed in the midst of the message, saying he could not receive her,
existence: sant samaj, she said, as he had resolved never to look on a
‘Why hesitate now, fearlessly immerse woman’s face — implying that looking on
I go to Giridhar’s house. yourself in enjoyment.’ a woman might lure him from the path of
Giridhar is my real lover; I see his devotion to god. Mira replied that she had
beauty and am allured. thought there was only one man in
When night falls I go; and when day The sadhu then turned white and fell Vrindavan, namely, Krishna, and was
breaks I come back. at her feet, asking her to guide him on the surprised to find another man there —
Night and day I play with him; I path of devotion.17 This legend links up implying that the gender difference
please him in every way. with an important aspect of women between mortals is irrelevant in bhakti,
[line omitted from translation: What he bhaktas’ lives. To be a bhakta was, in a wherein all souls are in the position of the
clothes me in, I wear; what he gives I sense, to be outside conventional norms female in relation to god. Chastened by
of behaviour. But a woman bhakta had to this rebuke, Goswami came out and
also deal with certain powerful norms respectfully escorted her in.
specific to women’s behaviour. Those As this legend suggests, bhakti
women bhaktas, for example, who were provided a creative framework, wherein
travelling on their own had to deal with conventional notions of gendered
the possibility of sexual harassment. Some behaviour tended to be subverted. Mira
of them dealt with it in an openly was able to find a respected place among
confrontational way. Lal Ded and the bhaktas because of this tendency to
Mahadeviakka, by discarding clothing, did subvert many value systems. Women, like
what some groups of male sadhus do even the lower castes and other despised
today. It is noteworthy that both of them groups, were able to find in bhakti more
were Shiv bhaktas. The practice of space than was available to them in
wandering naked had been adopted by ritualistic religion. Even in the more
some Shiv bhaktas who were known as restrictive culture of north India, the
avadutas. But because they were women, presence of a number of women bhaktas
eat] their action would not only strike is recorded in Vaishnav chronicles.
He is my old lover, I can’t be without observers with awe but also indicate that Bhaktamal, for instance, gives a list of
him for a moment. they had nothing to be ashamed of, to fear women bhaktas’ names, in the Hindi
Where he wants me to sit, I sit; if or to lose, with regard to the body. Mira’s region:
he sells me, I will be sold. spreading a bed in public is a similar way
Mira’s Lord is Giridhar Nagar; I of striking awe into and silencing the Sita, Jhali, Sumati, Shobha, Prabhuta
make myself an offering to him potential seducer — the normative pattern Uma, Bhatiyani,
again and again. is reversed when not she, but he, is Ganga, Gauri, Kunwari, Ubitha, Gopali,
(20, trans. Zide and Pandey) shamed and embarrassed. Ganeshde Rani,
According to another legend, Kala, Lakha, Kritgarho, Manmati,
recounted in Chaurasi Vaishnavan ki Shuchi, Satibhama,
According to legend, Mira had to Varta, the Vallabhachari Sampraday, a Yamuna, Koli, Rama, Mriga, Deva
encounter different kinds of antagonism powerful sect, wished to enrol her as a De Bhaktin Vishrama,
from amongst bhaktas too, but in each member. While she was cordial to them, Jugjeva, Kiki, Kamla, Devaki, Heera,
case she is supposed to have deftly she refused to join them. This angered Haricheri...”18
handled the situation and emerged them and they refused to accept her
triumphant. Priyadas in the Bhaktamal donations or her hospitality. Even when
Vartik, 1712, narrates how a sadhu her own priest, Ramdas, joined the More is known about some other
demanded that Mira sleep with him, saying Vallabhacharis, Mira refused to join, women bhaktas like Sundar Kunwaribai,
he had received instructions to this effect whereupon he is said to have abused her, (born 1734) who also suffered much
from Krishna. Mira is depicted as dealing calling her a whore, and left her house, hostility in both her natal and marital

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homes; her brother the bhakta Nagaridas acknowledgment for its viewpoint and god to save her from distress, she entered
had a disciple Banithaniji (died 1765). Some becoming part of mainstream religious the temple and disappeared, having been
verses by both women are extant; ideology and practice. This fact is crucial absorbed into the image of Krishna. This
Banithaniji’s are clearly influenced by Mira. to the survival of Mira. Even in the legends is interpreted by some scholars as her
Gangabai (bo 1571) who is said to have of the bhaktas’ lives, the dialogue never having emerged from the western door of
lived for 198 years, and was a follower oft breaks down. The Brahmans do not refuse the temple which faces the sea and having
Vallabh Sampraday, also wrote some to dispute or debate. The very fact, for leapt into the sea, unseen by anyone.
verses.19 instance, that they are offended by Kabir’s Woman in Bhakti
The subverting of many conventional feeding Shudras instead of them suggests In the work of bhakta poets, all that
values by bhaktas could be extended to that far from despising him utterly, they comes in the way of self realisation
include unconventional behaviour by wish for his recognition. This tension is through devotion, is criticised and
women- not only such activity as singing also evident in the legendary account of condemned. Most frequently, it is pride
and dancing in temples, which was central Mira’s end. which obstructs devotion for which
to Mira’s expression of devotion, but also Tradition has it that when she was humility is a precondition. Pride may
such actions as leaving ONE’S husband. staying at the Ranchhorji temple on the originate in status, power, wealth, learning,
Bhaktamal narrates how Narsi Mehta, the seacoast at Dwarka, Gujarat, her natal and ritualistic piety. All these may lead one to
famous Gujan bhakta, had two daughters marital families sent a group of Brahmans consider oneself superior to others and
— Kunwarsena who left her husband and as emissaries to persuade her to return. distract one from devotion. However, the
returned to her father’s home, and When she refused, the Brahmans started pleasure of material enjoyments may also
Ratansena, who did not marry. These two, a fast unto death outside the temple to act as a distraction, becoming a substitute
along with two low caste women singers exercise pressure on her. Mira was now for the love of god.
who had become Narsi’s disciples, used confronted with a dilemma. If the Brahmans In the work of most male bhaktas,
to sing and dance before god. Narsi’s uncle, died, she would have their blood on her including such famous ones as Kabir and
the Brahman, Salang, was minister at the head. It is believed that after composing Tukaram, woman frequently appears as an
court of the king of Junagadh. He the song Hari, tum haro jan ki pir, asking obstruction on the path of devotion.
complained to the king of Narsi’s improper
behaviour, and the king summoned Narsi
and the court. Absorbed in devotion,
Narsi and the four women came dancing
and singing into the court assembly. The
assembly was impressed, but the king said:
“What kind of behaviour is this? Why do
you keep these young women with you?”
Narsi answered: “You have read many
books but your brains are dust covered,
you are far from the fragrance of devotion.
Did not Shukdev praise the women of
Mathura who left their husbands?”20 This
kind of daring interpretation of religious
symbolism (the gopis’ love for Krishna
being interpreted as a model of the
acceptability of the separated woman) to
encompass and validate the experience of
the marginalised in a way that put the
religious orthodoxy on the defensive was
typical of the bhaktas’ style of functioning.
It is noteworthy that the bhaktas,
though they were criticised and rebuked
by the priestly authorities, were not
persecuted as heretics, cut off and
outcasted. A dialogue and creative tension
persists between the opposed opinions,
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Kanak kamini, gold and woman, both mentioned earlier, Udo tells Mira: Better your own less fertile plot —
represent false intoxication, as opposed something will be born in it.
to the true intoxication of devotion. They Another’s young man may be worth a
are amongst the strongest lures to tempt There is great suffering in the company lakh — it has nothing to do with us:
the unwary devotee. Love of a human of sadhus... If you go around with him, none will
beloved is not, in this tradition, as it is in Wear gemstudded ornaments, enjoy call you good.
some sufi traditions, a step on the road to limitless pleasures... Better your own interior husband
love of god. In bhakti, the devotee, when Eat kheer and sugar, wear southern even if he is a leper:
relating to god through madhurya-bhav, silks... When you go with him, all the people
as lover, must take on the role of a woman [otherwise] you will get stale leftovers will call you good.
who is singlemindedly devoted to one to eat and sour whey. A lover like the indestructible one;
beloved — god. The fear of woman as You will weep, sister-in-law, and die love for him is true.
distraction and temptress has deep roots or starvation, god will not come Mira has met god — this alone is the
in earlier tradition — witness the many and meet you. way of devotion.
myths of rishis losing the power (26)
accumulated through tapas, because they
succumb to the charms of a woman. To all of which Mira replies by saying
Interestingly, we do not find a simple “Sister Udo. ... you go and enjoy a royal Against the lure of suhag, the woman
reversal of this idea in the work of women life, I have no use for it.”21 bhakta poses the overwhelming charms
bhaktas. Mortal man does not appear in Nowhere in Mira’s songs is the person of her god. Her attraction to god is natural,
their work as a charmer who must be of her husband (or of any man) described spontaneous and so strong that it enables
shunned lest the mind be distracted from as an allurement. Only suhag, the her to break all bonds, confront all
devotion. The husband or prospective respectable status the husband’s presence opposition. Her energies are directed much
husband, who often appears in their work confers on her, is mentioned. Suhag, in more against external opposition than
as an impediment to the quest for truth, is her work, becomes a symbol of delusion against temptations within. As compared
perceived not as a temptation, but as an and maya (as woman often is in the work to the number of poems in Kabir, for
obstruction, pure and simple. It is not his of male bhaktas). The woman addressed example, that deal with the waywardness
beauty or other allurements which must in Mira’s songs is told not to be taken in of the sinful mind, Mira has far fewer poems
be resisted, but his interference, even by it, the implication being that what on this theme.
tyranny. deludes and lures women is the idea of the Mira represents her love of god as
What is represented as a temptation is married status, which is in fact far something that comes to her perfectly
the status marriage confers on a woman surpassed by the mystical marriage with naturally, in comparison to which family
— suhag. There is a special emphasis on god which springs from within oneself, not ties, norms of honour and material luxuries
this temptation in the work of Mira. Many from an external source which can vanish: appear artificial impositions. The images
other women bhaktas use imagery drawn used to describe her love are frequently
from kitchen and household drudgery in drawn from the world of nature — the
their poetry — the spinning wheel, the Friend, O my friends, let us sport gathering of clouds, the coming of the
waterpot, the cooking fire. Mira’s poetry together, not go to a stranger’s rains, the flowing of the river to the sea,
is more replete with symbols of suhag — house. the coming of dawn. All of these are
sindoor, headornament, bangles. For a False these gems and pearls, false images commonly used by bhakta poets.
woman of the Rajput nobility, marriage their gleam and glitter; But in Mira’s work, the rhythms of nature
conferred not only respectable ritual and False these ornaments, true the seem to fuse with the rhythm of the “I”
social status but also made many luxuries beloved’s garland; who dances, sings, keeps time on various
accessible. Dressing in finery was an False these silken clothes, these saris musical instruments, climbs to the rooftop
important privilege of the married woman. from the south, to watch for Krishna, sets out on a narrow
These luxuries too recur as images in Mira’s True the rags of the beloved in path, laughs and plays.
work — delicate food, silk saris, the high which the stays pure. Mira’s God
towers of the palace, and, most often, Pour away the fifty six delicacies— Mira like many other bhaktas, posits
various kinds of jewellery which represent such consumption is flawed. her god as a husband and also as a lover,
women’s special form of wealth. Our beloved’s vegetables are better, even an adulterous lover. It would be a
In popular perception too, these whether salted or saltless. mistake to simplistically see this as the
luxuries are seen as a temptation Mira must Why look at others’ fertile fields and substitution of one male dominated
resist. In the folksong Udo-Mira dialogue, grow envy (in your heart)? structure by another. For one thing, many

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Mother, don’t forbid me: I will go to
see the holy men.
Shyam’s beauty lives in my heart:
Friend, the dark one’s glance is like nothing else pleases me.
love’s dagger. Everyone else sleeps peacefully, but
It struck me, and I grew restless; I my eyes are awake.
lost all sense of my body. The world which does not like Shyam
Pain spreads through my body, my is mad, and without wisdom.
mind is intoxicated. Shyman is in my heart, and sleep does
I have found a few friends — all of not come to me.
them are mad. I don’t drink the water of a pond
Now I know well who he is — the one I saw your beauty and was caught. filled only four months of the year;
who wanders the groves. All my family members and kindred The cascade of Hari’s nectar pours
The chakor loves the moon, the moth forbade me again and again. down, I will quench my thirst with
by the lamp is burnt, Strong had my attachment grown to it.
The fish dies without water — dear the peacock crowned dancer. The dark one’s beauty is excellent,
indeed is such love. My mind is absorbed in the dark one; I will go and took at his face.
How can I live without seeing (him), people say I have gone astray. Mira is suffering from the pangs of
my heart is not at rest. Mira takes refuge at god’s feet, he separation;
Go to him and say: Mira is yours. knows every heart. Whatever she wants to, she will do.
(174) (9) (28, trans. Zide and Pandey)

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bhaktas, including males, when relating humble and selfless service of his people. is black, some say he is fair, I have bought
to god through madhuryabhav, address Numerous legends relating to both him with open eyes.”
him as husband and beloved. The mystic Vaishnav and Shaiva bhaktas stress the The number of Mira’s songs which
marriage, the bhakta as bride waiting for importance of serving the devotees, which start with “I” or a variant (“me” or “my”)
god as husband to lift the veil, and as is often seen as the highest form of far outnumber those starting with any
woman pining for her distant lover, are by devotion. other one word (29 in Chaturvedi’s
no means restricted to women bhaktas. Humility and love of god do not anthology, as compared to 11 starting with
They are all pervasive in bhakti. This is a indicate servility but self respect. Self Sanwaro or Shyam, which is the next largest
prevalent idiom of mysticism — not an respect consists in following the god one number).
idiom specially chosen by women bhaktas has chosen, the god one finds by looking It is also interesting that Mira only
because they happen to be female. within. One of Kabir’s famous padas occasionally addresses the sants (as Kabir
Neither does the image of being the compares the atma looking for god to the constantly does: Santobhai’’Brother
dasi or chakar (slavegirl or maidservant) muskdeer which wanders in pursuit of the sants”) but very frequently addresses one
of god originate in her femaleness. fragrance of the musk, not realising that it or more woman friends. Thirty six poems
Dasyabhav or the attitude of a slave was emanates from itself. The bhakta’s in Chaturvedi directly address a woman
one of the five bhavas or rasas accepted relationship with god is thus self directed, friend and about eight others use “He Ri”,
in bhakti as an appropriate way of the fruit of an active, conscious choice, the mode of addressing a female. Taking
approaching god.22 The other four were pursued with determined effort. Mira says: on the person of a gopi and addressing
shant, vatsalya, sakhya and madhurya, “Of my own volition I became enslaved.”24 women friends is a mode commonly used
of which only vatsalya seems to be absent Language and metaphor stress the element by male bhaktas too, but seems more
from Mira’s work. Dasyabhav is of active decision and choice, which make personalised in Mira, particularly in the
particularly appropriate to emotional this enslavement entirely different from the context of a discussion on suhag versus
bhakti, because of its implications of enslavement forced upon one by external devotion which, occurs in several songs
constant proximity, intimacy, complete social forces. addressed to women friends.
surrender of will, humility, undemanding Mira uses the image of buying and Mira’s god, as defined in her songs,
service, and a sense of belonging. A large selling to indicate the quality of her does not fit neatly into a sagun or nirgun
proportion of male bhaktas in the Hindi relationship with god. Mira is sold to category. On the one hand, she celebrates
region added das to their names — Giridhar and the sentence construction is god in the form of Krishna — not Krishna
Kabirdas, Tulsidas, Surdas, Raidas. “Mein to Giridhar hath bikani” (I am sold as child (celebrated by Surdas) or as king,
Inextricable from dasyabhav is the into Giridhar’s hands”, not “Giridhar has but as cowherd, flute player, beloved of
refusal to acknowledge any authority as bought me”). In another song, she buys the women of Braj, beautiful and delight
superior to god’s authority. Almost every Giridhar, and here active verbs are used: giving, refuge and protector of the people
bhakta’s life has legends attached to it of Braj and of all those devoted to him.
relating to their defiance and even rebuke In no song is there any element of fear
of authority. One legend relating to Kabir My friend, I bought Govind, of Krishna. She adopts a demanding tone,
(of which there are variants relating to You say secretly, I say openly — reproaches him for staying away and
other bhaktas) is recounted in Bhaktamal after beating the drum I bought neglecting her. Joy resides in presence,
Vartik, wherein he refused to bow to the him. pain in absence. Nor in any song is
king, saying he would bow his head only You say expensively, I say cheaply Krishna represented as telling her to do or
to god. The bhaktas’ defiance of after weighing (him) on the scale, I refrain from doing anything. He is not a
authorities, secular and religious, is the bought him. commandment giving but a delight giving
consequence of their intention to humble I sacrificed my body, my life, and (all presence. Among the attributes seen in
themselves only before god, the authority my) priceless things. him by Mira, one that seems special to her
they have freely chosen. Kabir even goes (Mira says) Lord, give me your work as com-pared to that of others, is the
so far as to imagine himself as the dog of darsharn, in previous life you sweetness of his words and his voice
god: promised me (this) which recurs in more than one song,
(22, trans. Zide and Pandey) perhaps as a contrast to the bitterness of
Kabir says, I am Ram’s dog, Moti is the words she mentions people as
my name; speaking against her.
Ram leads me by a string, I go An interesting popular version adds While she experiences the pain of
wherever he takes me..23 some lines which suggest the choice of a separation and longs for union with god,
spouse (normally a bride but here a groom) she also repeatedly says, in the common
Service of god is also interpreted as who is criticised by others: “Some say he paradox of bhakti, that god is within her.

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god she sometimes calls Ram, sometimes
Giridhar, sometimes Hari or Prabhu. One
such famous song is “Payo ji mainey Ram
Ratan dhan payo”, another is “Ram nam
ras pije manuva”:

Drink the nectar of Ram’s name.*


O people,** drink the nectar of
Ram’s name,
Give up bad company, sit always in
good company, listen to talk of
god.
Pour away lust, anger, intoxication
[of pride], greed and illusion from
your being.
Mira’s god is the lifter of mountains,
immerse yourself in his name.
(199)

*Ram, in Mira’s work, is generally referred


to in the general sense to signify god, not in the
specific sense of Ram, husband of Sita and king
of Ayodhya.
** also interpreted as “O heart”.

Another, in which she uses more of


the terminology of mysticism, combining
it with her own preferred imagery:

“... and a headjewel of gold” Let us go to the land of the unattained


Finding the beloved is indistinguishable neither comes nor goes. on which death fears to look.
from finding that which is within, the self Mira’s god is the lifter of mountains; there, on love’s full lakes, swans*
or the atma. “The doctor dwells within the day and night she watches the path ever play.
sick one, the doctor alone knows the cure” for his coming. In the company of sadhus and sants,
(73) indicates the interiority of the entire (23) let us garner knowledge.
experience. The god within is not just the Fixing our thoughts on the dark one,
incarnate Krishna, but the parmatma with *the body, composed of five elements make the mind bright.
whom the atma longs to merge. The nirgun **jhirmit, a game like hide and seek, where the Tying on the anklet bells of good
aspect is often evident. In this song the players’ identity is disguised; here, an image of action, dance and dance of fulfilment,
complex meanings of this god emerge: the atma disguised in the world, searching for
the parmatma. *In the case of both Kabir and Nanak, for
example, the legend exists that on their death, a
I am dyed in the hue of the lifter of dispute broke out between their Hindu and Muslim
mountains. followers as to whether the body should be
Wearing a five-coloured robe* I go to Although more of Mira’s songs to the cremated or buried. When the shroud was lifted,
play a masked game.** incarnate Krishna are well known, in a large the body was found transformed into a heap of
number of songs, frequently in the same flowers which the two groups divided up. The
In this masked game, I met the dark
physical presence of the body thus transmits a
one; body and mind took on his song, she also conceives of god as the silent but crucial message to the community. The
hue. nirgun god. Without specific attributes, fact that so many women bhaktas disappear (Mira
they whose beloveds live abroad keep whose name is the key to salvation, and Andal, Mahadeviakka, Lal Ded) and their bodies,
who is approached by the path of wisdom, or samadhis are not found indicates in one sense
writing and sending letters.
their remoteness from any one specific
My beloved lives in my heart and through the mediation of the guru. This community.

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Adorned with the sixteen adornments Even today, Kabirpanthis and Raidasis are
and a headjewel of gold.** organised bodies of opinion whose faith
Mira is indifferent to all but the dark one’s has a political and social dimension.
love. Mira, however, was not picked up as a
symbol for any such self respect movement
*In mystic vocabulary, an image for the amongst women, even though her life and
atma work would seem to lend themselves very
**The headjewel in Rajasthan is worn by well to such a role. This is true of all women
married women as a sign of their suhag. bhaktas. None have any sect established
in their name, and though many are
An important dimension of the integrated in mainstream traditions, none
bhaktas’ conception of god was that of have been picked up by women
the protector of his devotees in distress, collectively for any specific relevance they
especially the poor and the despised. may have for women’s lives.
Legends emphasising this dimension While we are not in a position to
abound. To take just one, Chokhamela, the provide definitive explanations for this
untouchable bhakta who is reproached by difference, some possibilities suggest
the priests for offering food to god and is themselves. When bhaktas from lower
refused access to him, is justified when caste groups repudiate discrimination on
god refuses to accept any offerings until the basis of caste, there is not much that is
he is recalled. Such legends began to attractive in low caste status which they
acquire the status of the earlier stories of must give up. In repudiating the role
god’s redemptive mercy. The bhiktas’ own society defines for a woman, of which
compositions helped this cumulative marital status is a central feature, however,
process. Mira gives up much that is very attractive.
Some of Mira’s songs too, apart from She, like lower caste male bhaktas, risks
referring to the traditional stories of god opprobrium and attack when she breaks
coming to the rescue of Sudama, Draupadi, taboos (her entry into public spaces and
Ahilya, Prahlad, Shabri, and the drowning Mirabai in a Rajathan temple. The activities forbidden to women; their entry
elephant king, also narrate (song 139) how inscription on the base reads “The into sacred places and activities tabooed
he came to the aid of Kabirdas, by crestjewel of bhaktas, Shti Mirabai” to low castes). But, in addition, she loses
providing for his family after Kabir had the very limited but very concrete rewards
given away to a needy sadhu all the cloth that society offers a law abiding woman.
he had woven for sale; to the aid of Mira as Symbol By saying “I will not be a Sati” (Sati na
Dhanna Bhagat (fifteenth century peasant Although Mira does not directly hosya)—which could refer either to
bhakta) by making crops grow in his field generalise about women’s situation on the burning on her husband’s pyre or to being
though he had sowed no seed, having fed basis of her experience, yet her account of a virtuous wife in the tradition of Satis like
all the seedgrain to visiting sadhus’, to the her struggle for personal freedom from Sita, Savitri, Anusuya — she gives up the
aid of Namdev the Maharashtrian bhakta) societal restrictions imposed on her respect a Sati gets, and accepts instead
by restoring overnight his burnt up house, because she was a woman is perhaps the appellations like “bhakti” (fallen woman).
after Namdev, seeing god in the form of most sharply delineated account that She has to wear such abuses as her crown:
the fire consuming his house, had poured survives in the work of women bhaktas. “Whatever was said of me, good or bad, I
into it the few of his possessions that had Several male bhaktas from lower caste took it all on my head.”(13)
been saved; and to the aid of Karmabai groups who similarly refer to the injustice In contrast, lower caste male bhaktas
born c. 017 in Jhansi in a Teli (oil presser) they encountered or who are constructed who were abused for breaking rules did
family, by refusing any food but the through legend as having encountered not lose any praise they could have got
khichdi she offered every morning to such injustice (Kabir, Raidas, Chokhamela) by following the rules. There exists no
Jagannath’s image at Jagannathpuri, and became symbols for self respect tradition of honouring and exalting
which god in the form of a child always movements amongst the lower castes. obedient Shudras or giving them the
ate, after a saint had reproached her for Although they may not have tried to set exalted, even defied, status of anything
not cooking it in the prescribed fashion, up sects, groups of people chose to name comparable to a Sati.
that is, not bathing and washing the themselves after these bhaktas, explicitly Second, low caste male bhaktas who
kitchen, before cooking, and thus delayed identifying with the egalitarian embraced poverty did so while continuing
the process. implications of their message of bhakti. to live a householder’s life. One important

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difference between bhakti as a mode of symbols). Having thus proved herself, from other women and the freedom allowed
attaining god, and many other modes, is dared all, broken all barriers, she is exalted her will not be extended to them.
that giving up a householder’s life is not and revered, and regains in far greater Though Mira may not have inspired
required of a bhakta. Most of the male measure the honour and repute she lost or collective action by women, she has
bhaktas continue to live with and provide seemed to have lost by flouting the norms certainly acted as an inspiration to many
for their families, to perform their caste of womanly behaviour. She is now individual women. Despite her not being
based occupation, and to do all the social perceived as existing beyond such norms. placed, for literary merit, in the same class
duties required of them. They pride But, by being compelled to be so far as Sur and Tulsi, her songs, because of
themselves on attaining god through beyond the ordinary, she becomes a not their superb singability, linger in the
simple devotion, not through austerities. easily imitable model. Her way remains memory. A line like “Pad ghungroo bandh
It is this which makes bhakti more literally “anuthi”. Like Kali who may tread Mira nachi re” or “He Ri, mein to prem
attractive and accessible to large numbers on her husband, like certain south Indian diwani” catches the attention for the
of ordinary people. goddesses who behead their husbands, sense of abandon it conveys. The
But Mira is not allowed to do this. The she becomes an object of adoration rather outstanding melodic quality of her work,
ideology of pativrata, whereby a woman’s than a model or a guide to action for other making it so suitable for singing and
salvation lies in unquestioning devotion women. dancing, has ensured its wide reach, and
to her husband, comes into active conflict It is significant, nevertheless, that she the plain and direct language and
with the ideology of bhakti when the finds so honoured a place in so many sentiment its easy adaptibility to many
bhakta is a woman. Apart from the flouting traditions and media. Her sharpest, most languages.
of secular and religious authority in which defiant and critical verses are among her The paradox of Mira’s song is
all the bhaktas have, to some extent, to best known and have contributed to contained in its intense lyricism which
engage, the woman bhakta has also to her.special fame. This is in contrast to many conveys the overall emotion of joy even
flout the absolute authority of the cultures where women’s writings when pain, suffering, separation, are being
husband and his family over her life, since perceived as outrageous were described. This may, ultimately, be the
she now acknowledges a higher authority. suppressed, even destroyed, or buried, paradox of all art which, like the parasmani,
This conflict makes the simultaneity of and had to be recovered from oblivion transmutes the painful riddte-of life into
bhakti and grahastha, which is possible centuries later. lasting beauty, or, in Mira’s phrase,
for the male bhakta, impossible for her. This duality in dealing with strong and changes poison to nectar.
Once out of the house, Mira is creative women seems to be a
effectively out of her community. The male characteristic of our culture that persists References and Notes
low caste bhakta who continues to live even today. A woman who is ready to risk Translations of Mira’s and other
and work at home, and dies there,* in the everything, by openly defying family, bhaktas’ poems in and accompanying this
midst of the community, becomes a focus community and social opinion, and by article are by Ruth Vanita, unless otherwise
for community aspirations. Mira, having flouting all norms, may be subjected to all indicated.
become outcasted, or at least remote, kinds of ordeals and temptations — 1. Numbering of Mira’s songs quoted
cannot function in the same way. The sought to be restricted, married 6ft, and referred to in this article follow that in
perception of Mira as having been imprisoned, even beaten or killed. But if Parshuram Chaturvedi, Mirabai ki
outcasted from her community took deep she manages to survive it all and still be Padavali, 17th edition, 1983, Hindi Sahitya
root. This is suggested by the fact that it creative, she will get not just recognition Sammelan, Allahabad,”T’from which the
appears to survive in some form even but a very special kind of honour reserved translations are also done, unless
today. Parshuram Chaturvedi narrates that for such women, almost worshipped as otherwise indicated.
when he visited Chjttor fort and Udaipur being of a category apart, a heroine, a near- 2. Nabhadas’ Bhaktamal mentions a
he was told that Mira is not respected goddess to whom ordinary standards do Rajput queen, Jhali, who was a disciple of
amongst Rajputs there. Padmavati not apply. She can then get away with Raidas, but little else is known of her.
Shabnam says that the folk literature library much that would ordinarily be considered 3. Chaturvedi, op. cit., pp. 18 and 25.
at Girnar reports that most of Mira’s songs outrageous. 4. From the excerpt in Chaturvedi, p.
were collected from lower caste and Bhil But her existence and high repute will 233. See also Sudershan Chopra, Mim
singers.25 not of itself become ground for restrictions Parichay Tatha Rachnayen, Hind Pocket
Mirabai had not only to live an on other women to be relaxed or for the Books, Delhi, 1976, 2nd edition, and Nilima
extraordinary life but to prove her boundaries of their freedom to be Singh, Mira: Ek Antavang Pari-chay,
extraordinariness by going through enhanced. Being perceived as Saraswati Vihar, 1982.
ordeals (of which the cup of poison, the extraordinary, she is by definition 5. From the excerpt in Chaturvedi, 234-
snake and the bed of thorns are dramatic considered to be in a different category 235.

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6. Chaturvedi, p. 21. 13. Sudershan Chopra, op cit., p 39. in dasyabhav, the devotee relates as a
7. Vishwanath Tripathi, Mira ka Kavya, 14. Chaturvedi, p. 240. servitor to the glorious form of god; in
Macmillan, Delhi, 1979, p. 43. 15. Chaturvedi lists this as part of a sakhya bhav, the devotee relates to god
8. Chaturvedi, p. 220. variation of No. 23, p. 106 footnote. as a friend and constant companion: in
9. Nilima Singh, op cit, p. 9. 16. Chaturvedi, p. 240. vatsalyabhav, the devotee identifies with
10. Padmavati Shabnam, Mira: 17. From the excerpt in Chaturvedi, p. the parents of god as a child, and rejoices
Vyaktitva aur Krititva, Hindi Pracharak 236. in the god child’s beauty (in a variant, the
Sansthan, Lucknow, 1976 , pp, 202-205. 18. Quoted in Vishwanath Tripathi, op. bhakta relates like a child to god as
11. This is one of the poems listed as cit., p. 24. parent); in madhuryabhav the devotee as
doubtful by Chaturvedi, p. 244. 19. Chaturvedi, p. 79. wife relates to god as husband and
12. Poems from Mirabai, translated by 20. From the excerpt in Vishwanath therefore, all-in-all.
S.M. Pandey and Norman H. Zide, with an Tripathi, op. cit., pp. 21-22. 23. Kabir Granthavali. ed. Bhagwat-
introduction by S.M. Pandey, unpublished 21. Padmavati Shabnam, op. cit., pp. 202- swarup Mishra, Vinod Pustak Mandir, Agra
mimeo, University of Chicago, 1964. All 205. 1986, 4th edition, p. 61, doha no. 14.
other poems marked “trans. Zide and 22. In shantbhav, the devotee calmly 24. Sudershan Chopra, op. cit., p. 40.
Pandey” are from this collection. contemplates the incarnate form of god; 25. Padmavati Shabnam, op. cit. p. 500.

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