In Search for a Soulmate...

Soulmates is a pretty fancy name for a couple. But it is not always true that a soulmate must be a
spouse. Any person, whom you can share your heart with, who can feel your pain even without
knowing it, who can help you out and be there with you when you need them, is a soulmate. That
can be your parents, your teachers and even your classmates (not friends - I will get back to that
later) or your life partner.
Friend is a very elite adjective. You often state any of your classmates as a friend from school.
But just think once, can the boy sitting in the corner who wants a share of your tiffin but does not
even lend you a pen, be your friend? The answer, needless to say, is yes. Friendship is a much
more recondite matter than you think. And it is also hard to maintain a friendship. So you get it,
right? A lot of troubles.
Then who is your friend? ‘A friend in need is a friend in deed’ is going to work every time, huh?
You may be in a friend circle, where there is a bestie and you cannot have fun in class without
him/her. But the boy you neglect and do not talk to appears to be a lifesaver when you have no
money to buy a tiffin. Now who is better, your bestie or ‘that boy’?
Now you can easily find a friend with a simple formula. But finding a soulmate is harder. Think
once, you and your bestie (not the cool guy but the friendly, kind and helpful one) are single. You
both have not married and you love to spend time with each other. Then you are none but
soulmates. Who on earth made a written rule that two soulmates must be in a love relationship? I
have such a friend who is kind of a bestie. I can easily state him as my soulmate without any
doubt because I am pretty sure that he will always be by my side whenever I need him.
Now, how do you find a soulmate if you are single, have no bestie or good friend and want to love
someone truly? You may have heard/read a quote saying: “Your perfect partner is that person
who loves you more than your love towards him” or whatnot. But wait a while, your parents do
the same, right? Then do you want to make love with them? Of course not.
Lemme tell you something better, perhaps the best one. It's not made up by me, I heard it
somewhere. That is: You want to find the perfect soulmate, right? Write down a list of the
qualities you want in your soulmate. Think again and again and again. Write down very carefully.
Detail everything (except the skin tone and measurements of the secret weapons). Now be it.
Come on, be the list. You want a partner, right? With these qualities? So acquire these first. The
perfect match will automatically come to you. Tinder and whatever isn’t gonna work.
Oh, come on! Do I sound like a relationship advisor? If no, then I love you and if yes, then duck
my hen, it's very healthy!