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Terapia en Casa A Refugiados
Terapia en Casa A Refugiados
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Every Friday at 10 a.m., 1 travel to West Africa. I drive one hour from my subur-
ban neighborhood, down city streets, across the big bridge, and through neighbor-
hoods I never have reason to visit otherwise. When I arrive at my destination, 45
minutes after I've begun, I am at an apartment building with a distinct 1970s look
to it. Parking my car neatly in a tiny guest spot near the office, I walk to the second
floor of a building adjacent to the apartment office. Outside her door, I knock, and
a few minutes pass before a smiling, well-coiffed young woman, Véronique,'
welcomes me inside. For the next hour I will be a guest in her home, her personal
representation of a small piece of Liberia, West Africa, transplanted to a living
room in the U.S.
The author extends her gratitude to the anonymous reviewers for their helpful comments on the
manuscript. Thanks also to the refugee resettlement professionals involved in this case, for their
many contributions to the work presented here.
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to Laurie L. Charles, Ph.D., Family
Therapy Program, Department of Counseling & School Psychology, University of Massachusetts
Boston, 100 Morrissey Blvd., Boston, MA 02125. Email: laurie.lopez_charles@umb.edu
'Not her real name.
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INTRODUCTION
Today, on the day I write this, over 44 million people are living in the world
as refugees. Refugees, displaced by war and political conflict in their home
countries, are often survivors and witnesses of torture and mass violence. They
represent a unique clinical population for mental health providers in the U.S.; most
humanitarian disasters which displace families and result in their refugee status
occur outside U.S. borders (Jacobs, 2007).
In this article, I illustrate a clinical case that demonstrates that home-based family
therapy allowed me a unique perspective which greatly informed my clinical work
with a Liberian woman displaced to the U.S. by war. In presenting the case, I do
not intend to generalize the work to all war-displaced refugees or all Liberians.
However, I do intend to illustrate how a critical examination of the cultural and
social context of a person's life (see Melendez & McDowell, 2008) resulted in a
discovery-oriented clinical process that was of particular fit in this case. Home-
based family therapy allowed me a perspective of the client that was uniquely
different from more traditional, trauma-based clinical methods commonly used
with war-affected populations.
Health care professionals in the U.S. are not typically exposed to human rights
concepts (Iacopino, 2002), and thus, may not know how to work with the torture
and war-related trauma that affects people displaced to the U.S. (Iacapino, as cited
in Engstron & Okamura, 2004a). Similarly in the field of family therapy, insuffi-
cient attention has been paid to international concerns affecting families, despite
the recognition and widespread interest in multiculturalism and a welcoming at-
titude toward international learners (McDowell, Fang, Griggs, Speirs, Perumbilly,
& Kublay, 2006).
Even clinicians who work with immigrants and refugees may inadvertently
overlook the ways in which their clients' pre-migration experiences may have been
influenced by war and political conflict in their home countries. One way family
therapists and other systemic clinicians can improve their ability to recognize if a
client has experienced politically motivated violence is by educating themselves
about the historical and contemporary political and human rights conditions of
the countries from which their clients originate (Fabri, 2001).^ Educating one's
self in both routine and continuous ways about the international concerns that factor
into the everyday life of refugees in the U.S. can greatly enhance clinicians' under-
standing of the complexity of a refugee client's situation, as well as the adapta-
tions they must make (Richman, 1998) in their post-migration world.
Although the majority of the world's refugees come from non-Western coun-
tries (Bracken & Petty, 1998), the majority of clinical literature about work with
^One simple and thorough way to do this is to visit a website like Human Rights Watch (www.hrw
.org) to read about specific countries' records of human rights abuses and violations, as well as
political, economic, and societal factors that are relevant to the country situation.
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^It has been said that many refugees, asylum seekers, and survivors of torture do not necessarily
distinguish between physical and mental health.
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of a refugee clietit's home life, before and after the displacement, can be espe-
cially challenging in the best of circumstances, but are especially so when influ-
enced by linguistic and cultural complexities.
Chester (as cited in Engstrom & Okamura, 2004b) noted that home-based
therapy with refugee survivors of war can be especially helpful in that it allows
clinicians to broaden a client's sense of community. Being part of a community
helps bring refugees a sense of validation and self-worth and provides a support-
ive network to replace the loss of family and neighborhood (Richman, 1998). As
one reviewer of this article put it, "going into the client's home reverses the tradi-
tional hierarchy of therapist/client, because the client has become the Host and
the therapist the Guest, [and] puts the client in a position where she has some-
thing to offer, not just something to take."
In addition to allowing a therapist the opportunity to observe aspects of a
refugee's world from the inside, home-based work also:
The clinical work with Véronique that is described in this paper took place through
a partnership with a refugee resettlement program situated in the eastern U.S.
Funded by the U.S. Office of Refugee Resettlement and other sources, refugee
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resettlement programs routinely offer access to a variety of health, legal, and edu-
cational services to individuals granted official refugee status. The work descrihed
in this paper took place in the context of such a program.
''Several months after the partnership began, program staff received monies to fund the author's
clinical work. The amount of $50.00 per session was agreed upon. Nine months after the partner-
ship began, a separate grant, to fund a team of home-based therapists and supervisor (the author),
was awarded. The author's relocation a few months later ended the partnership—but not, fortunately,
the increase in the provision of home-based clinical services.
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Most noted by me on those early visits was Véronique's quick smile and con-
tagious laugh. She often had other people around (African neighbors, also refu-
gees), and seemed very comfortable with all the activity in her house. I also noticed
that Véronique was more comfortable with her cell phone than I was with mine!
I quickly assessed that Véronique had some refreshingly normal things going on
in her life that I wanted to know more about. Here she was, a woman with a story
made from the stuff of nightmares who had found the resources to build another
life for herself, in another country, and in spite of her past.
As Singer (2005) found in her study of clients' experiences of therapy, cli-
ents have tremendous stores of expertise that therapists don't ask about. Cli-
ents' hypotheses about their presenting problems. Singer (2005) noted, are as
sophisticated as those of any professional. As I found out about Veronique's
past, I also learned about her desire to work and be active. From sitting with her
and listening to her stories, I became increasingly curious about her store of
experience—that which was not attached to any professional hypothesis about
her as a traumatized refugee. What was she up to? What was the sophisticated
model she was using?
In the camp, Véronique grew up. She had two children. One day while walking to
the market to sell dried fish—Véronique worked while she lived in the camp, as did
many others—she was caught in some crossfire. Fighting from the neighboring war
in Liberia had spilled across the border. To this day, Véronique does not know for
sure who Is responsible for shooting her. She thinks it was soldiers.
The next thing Véronique remembers is waking up in a hospital in Abidjan some
days later. Her family had not been able to find her. Until she awoke, the hospital
staff did not know she was Liberian. Hospital staff in Abidjan repaired her legs the
best they could. Not long after that, Veronique's request for refugee status was
granted, and she arrived in the U.S. Since her arrival in the states, Véronique has
had three more surgeries on her legs. (Although Véronique walks with a limp, you'd
be surprised how well she gets around for someone who was shot in both legs less
than three years ago).
Véronique mentioned that she had a man in the camp, but it was several sessions
later before she identified him to me as her husband.
In the first few meetings with Véronique, I learned some important things about
the life she was constructing for herself in her new world. To keep busy, Véronique
attended English classes four days a week. She walked to meet her children at the
bus stop after school, and rode the bus to medical appointments when she could
not get transportation from her caseworker. Véronique told me she hated staying
home all the time, that she missed being active, and that she had never been inac-
tive in Africa. She told me, laughing, "I want very much to work—just like every-
one else in America!"
Although I was in Veronique's home in a professional role, the fact that I also
saw myself as a guest precluded my being bothered by the many visitors she had
or by the many people I saw in her home. I knew from previous home-based work
that neighbors and friends in the home did not mean therapy was in jeopardy, that
it was not doable, or that something was wrong with Veronique's (or my) sense
of boundaries. Home-based clinicians are accustomed to such "distractions," yet,
even home-based therapists adhering to strict, westernized view of mental pro-
cess might see these extra people in the home as a threat to therapy, or as a lack of
boundaries. I did not.
I also knew from my own experience living in Africa that it would be very
unusual for Véronique to not have anyone else around her home. Most of the fami-
lies I had had contact with in West Africa, where I had lived as a development
worker, were full of "extra" people, coming in out, with no clear relationship to
anyone else except that they, like me, were welcome. So, while Veronique's ac-
tive household is not nearly as quiet as mine, it was normal for her, and I saw it as
perfectly appropriate. It also told me that she had somehow translated her past
into the present by developing a network of people that was active and thriving in
the aftermath of her forced migration.
Véronique also received many phone calls while I was present. One day, some-
one called her and, in Krahn, she spoke briefly to the caller and then hung up. I
asked Véronique if she had been speaking to her roommate, also a Liberian Krahn
speaker, who was at work. Véronique surprised me when she told me that the call
had come from West Africa. She had told the caller to check back in an hour.
I think it was this moment that I first felt I was doing a good job with Véronique
—that I was truly a welcome guest, despite my professional role in her life. I felt
it somewhat of a marker that she would postpone such a long distance call be-
cause we were talking at her kitchen table. I told Véronique next time she should
take the call if she wanted to; I did not mind one bit.
On one Friday, Véronique told me about a letter she had received from the Social
Security Administration (SSA). She didn't understand what it meant—could I help
her? When I saw the ten page letter, I could see why Véronique was confused. The
letter was in government-speak and difficult to comprehend. We studied it together,
and the last few paragraphs seemed especially declarative. The end of the SSA letter
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told Véronique that if she wanted to work, she could apply to a vocational training
program. SSA would pay for it. More importantly, she would not lose her disability
benefits if she took this training and started work. The possibility of a real job ex-
cited Véronique very much.
1 suggested Véronique clarify what the letter said by calling the SSA—maybe, the
following week, as today was Friday. However, Véronique surprised me by grab-
bing the phone and calling the 800 number on the letter right then. She motioned
for me to put my head near hers, and both Véronique and I were listening when a
machine answered. The voice suggested Véronique call back between the hours of
10 p.m. and midnight. (Apparently the SSA was trying to increase service provision
and was experimenting with new hours). Véronique told me she'd call back later
that night.
Within two weeks, Véronique was enrolled in a childcare certification course that
would eventually lead to work in a daycare ("I take care of kids anyway so why not
do it for a job," Véronique joked, smiling).
Guidance navigating the social service and healthcare system in the U.S. is a
typical need of refugees and asylum seekers (Sveass & Reichelt, 2001). My im-
pression, after months of working with her, was that Véronique only seemed to
need initial guidance about how to navigate complex systems. Once directed, she
could follow through on her own. The example of calling the SSA in the moment,
while I was at her kitchen table, was quite instructive for me. 1 did not realize how
useful such a simple gesture on my part (putting my ear to the phone with her)
could be. Although Véronique had a support person (Lina), she could have asked
to help her with this issue, it was me who she asked; I was the one that was there
the day she got the letter.
I have not forgotten how overwhelming it felt to read and try and comprehend
the bureaucratic language of that letter. It humbled me to realize the kind of ne-
gotiations Véronique had to go through every day—negotiations that were chal-
lenging for me, a privileged, educated U.S. citizen. Further, Veronique's efficient
incorporation of me into her negotiation reminded me as a clinician that I should
never take Veronique's expertise for granted: she grabbed the phone and she put
it in my hand; she knew when she needed help and she was not afraid to ask for it.
In the months we worked together, Veronique's daily English classes .showed
in her increasingly sophisticated speech, and I witnessed, many times, how fear-
less she was about asking questions of others when she needed help. By the time
I'd ended my work with Véronique, she'd dealt successfully with the SSA, she
had had the training she needed to work in childcare, and she'd lost none of her
benefits as she had feared.
the way for those in her community to prosper and to learn. People came to her
for help, and she was ready with advice for newcomers (many new refugees had
been settled in her apartment complex, and Lina was thinking of asking Véronique
to lead a support/information group for the new refugees). Her inquisitive nature,
common-sense initiative and vastly improving English helped her absorb a great
deal of information that she was quick to share with others.
Near the end of our time together, Véronique was preoccupied with how to re-
unite with family members that remained in West Africa. In particular, she be-
came increasingly concerned about her husband. Like the situation with the form
from the SSA, Véronique asked me for help.
I asked Véronique to explain to me what information she had about how to bring
her husband to the U.S. Véronique told me that her marriage had been a tribal
marriage, without formal documentation, that had taken place in the refugee camp.
Realizing that she needed proof of their union for U.S. authorities, Véronique had
already asked her husband to find one of the witnesses to the ceremony and ask
him to write (and fax) a letter to Véronique that he had witnessed the wedding.
She was now waiting for the letter, but was unsure where to go from that point. 1
wasn't sure either, but I told her I would find out.
Before my next meeting with Véronique, I made a face-to-face appointment
with Lina, who did not know that Véronique had a husband, and at first wondered
why Véronique had not said anything about it previously. At first it seemed to me
that Lina was offended. "Why has Véronique not told me this before?" she asked.
However, Lina minimized that curiosity and focused on helping Véronique fill
out the necessary state department paperwork that would bring her husband to
the U.S. Véronique could now do this because she had recently become a U.S.
"resident alien," which meant, among other things, she had the right to petition to
bring her husband to the U.S.
DISCUSSION
A recent study about refugee mental health revealed something less than surpris-
ing: refugees experience a recurring sense of loss around everyday meaning in
their lives. When contrasted alongside the pre-migration roles and activities that
had given their lives structure and coherence (Miller et al., 2002), the losses refu-
gees experience become especially poignant. In this article, I illustrated how in
my role as a home-based clinician, I was able to observe and witness the structure
and coherence with which one refugee had re-fashioned a life for herself after her
displacement.
Veronique's concerns about finding work, and occupying her time with pro-
ductive activity, seemed to be very much about finding meaning and worth in her
everyday life. She was trying to construct a new map for herself, one independent
of the territory she had previously traversed. My time as a guest in her home
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provided me with a unique viewpoint, which I could not ignore: Véronique did
not see herself as someone who was traumatized. Nor did she identify herself as
a woman who was depressed or in need of counseling or therapy. Instead, she saw
herself as a woman in need of "support," a woman who wanted "someone to talk
to." Although Véronique had certainly experienced suffering and great loss, which
often haunted her in her dreams, I agree with Hernandez (2002) that focusing only
on these losses would have been clinically inappropriate and unethical.
I do not want to give the idea that I was incurious about the traumatic experiences
Véronique had faced. As a clinician, a conscientious U.S. citizen, a former resident
of West Africa, I was very curious about what had happened to Véronique. But 1
refrained from focusing on these experiences as a primary way to organize otir meet-
ings. I also channeled my curiosity by learning more about the war in Sierra Leone,
which had spilled over to Liberia and resulted in Veronique's displacement.
Véronique and 1 discussed her experiences of violence only when Véronique
brought them up, or I when sensed a legitimate clinical reason to have a discus-
sion about them. During these times, I learned that Véronique continued to expe-
rience occasional bad dreams, desperate missing of her dead mother and sister,
and most of all frustration at not being able to move her body around like she was
used to. It is very likely that in her phase of post-migration, Véronique was more
focused on certain needs than others when I met her, and perhaps that would change
over time.
Only once was I especially concerned about Véronique. On that day, she did
not show her typical quick smile or laugh. She talked less, smiled not at all, and
seemed especially sad. Pointing out my observation, I asked her what was hap-
pening. Several days earlier, Véronique said, she had learned of the unexpected
death of a 21 -year-old male cousin who lived in a nearby city. Her grief was pal-
pable. When I asked Véronique to tell me more about her experience of the grief,
she explained that it was the cousin's youth that had affected her most—the fact
that he had died such an early death. Her dreams became noticeably worse during
this time, and we talked the rest of the session about the ways her faith in God
promoted her healing and released her suffering. I believe that this description—
of her faith helping her deal with her difficulties—was part of her sophisticated
understanding (Singer, 2005) of how she made sense of both her problems and
her resources.
It was clear to me and others who knew Véronique that she was working hard
to construct a new narrative for her life, and that she appeared to be succeeding.
This new narrative was completely independent of any clinical impressions of her
as a traumatized woman with symptoms of post-war stress. Her nightmares, her
sadness, the memories that haunted her—these parts of Veronique's life were not
all of her life. They were a predictable human response to an inhuman situation
(Hernandez, 2002).
To me, Véronique was young, smart, and courageous. She was clever and in-
telligent, funny, and full of initiative. I admired her sense of humor, her resilience.
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and her pioneering spirit. I was often surprised at how, despite her bad legs, she
had such a high level of physical activity. She walked her children to the school
bus stop everyday. She took the bus herself to her English classes four days a week.
(Taxis, provided by the resettlement program, were reserved for trips to the phy-
sician who'd twice performed surgery on her legs).
Witnessing her everyday life during our brief visits provided a kind of back-
ground scenery about Veronique's life that contrasted powerfully with what was
represented in her refugee file. Helped along by the proximity I had to her life
while working with Véronique in her home, I chose to focus on those contrasting
elements. That focus led to clinical questions and "a-ha!" experiences I doubt I'd
have had otherwise.
It helped as well that the contrasts were in the foreground ofthe place Véronique
found most comfortable: her home. By being in her home, I was able to closely
observe some of the rituals of her life and the events of her everyday experience.
As a guest in her home, I was allowed a view of Véronique as someone quite at
ease in the world, in the way people are when they are on their own "turf (Snyder
& McCollum, 1999). Seeing her laugh, talk to neighbors, joke about her children,
eat her lunch on the fly in front of me so she could get to the bus stop in time
these moments forced me to notice things about Véronique that illustrated how
she was thriving, despite her past suffering; it was very powerful for me to wit-
ness this as a clinician.
Véronique, it seemed to me, had become an important figure in her local com-
munity. She was in regular phone contact with the rest of her surviving family
members, still displaced on another continent. Her struggle to work and make a
living, and her commitment to helping others in her community, seemed to ener-
gize her. She seemed to thrive with this responsibility rather than be overwhelmed
by it, as many of us might assume of someone with her background.
If someone were to ask me today: What was your most significant clinical
moment from your work with Véronique?, I would know exactly what to say. As
part of my initial assessment, I had asked Véronique the miracle question (see
Miller & de Shazer, 1998): "If you woke up tomorrow morning and discovered
that a miracle had occurred overnight, while you were sleeping, what would be
different? How would you know a miracle had occurred?" (Since my work with
Véronique, I have found this question incredibly powerful with refugees, who seem
to grasp its potential immediately.) Véronique answered the question quickly, her
response ready on the tip of her tongue, a beatific sense of wonder on her face:
"I'd run, and run, everywhere!. . . and then, I'd go to work!"
CONCLUSION
Visiting a client's home can be a compelling experience. While turning the typi-
cal therapy relationship on its bead, home-based work also provides unexpected
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