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SEP 2023 VOL 5 | ISSUE 9
EDITORIAL
BY KNOLLYNE GAI
President
Samuel Misiani
Executive Secretary
Japheth Ochorokodi
CFO/Treasurer
David Sande
Executive Publisher
Philemon Odhiambo
Editor
Knollyne Gai
Associate Editor
Maureen Were
Circulation
Knollyne Gai Zipporah Awino
told the people, “I can of myself do The man and the woman were
nothing!” Why? And yet He is God? created equal but different. God To understand the insight is
Pr. Benard Okoko
The answer is that in the plan has equipped them differently to act upon it. ‘ Al-Ken is not
of redemption, the Triunion God according to the roles He wanted restricted to our notion of
purposed and agreed that they them to play in a marriage logical conclusion or rational
would function as the Father, the relationship and in their role as analysis. ‘Al-Ken is about what
Son, and the Holy Spirit! Equal stewards. we are to do due to our
but different roles! In His office as understanding.
Marriage is about what God
the Son, He humbled Himself and expects of the couple more than Its two components mean
became a servant! We call Him what they expect of each other. “what is foundational and what
the Ebed Yahweh, the servant of Marriage is, first of all, for God. is correct that leads to action.”
the LORD. He submitted Himself This is often the missing link that In other words, the creation of
to the will of the Father. But He makes so many marriages man and woman is presented
was always God. miserable and painful. It is why as coming out of one life. Eve
In marriage, we imitate God many opt to get out of a marriage was made from Adam. She is
and follow the divine order of relationship as soon as they enter the bone of his bone and the
creation in order to fulfill the it. flesh of his flesh. She has her
divine purpose for our creation own life and her own mind, but
The marriage vow often has the two are one.
and the institution of marriage.
this phrase: “Forsaking all others,
Therefore, you cannot fully Since man and woman have
you shall cling to him or her." The
understand and appreciate the that essential original unity in
root of that phrase is based on
marriage relationship until you marriage, we are simply
the text in Genesis 2:24. “Therefore
clearly know who God is and His bringing about “the restoration
a man shall leave his father and
purpose in creating you. of that union by an exclusive
mother and be joined to his wife,
relationship that reunites what
and they shall become one flesh.”
was once a single entity.
This word, therefore (Al-ken in That is the purpose of
Hebrew), is much more than a marriage. It is not lust
logical conclusion of what has abatement, economic leverage,
been said previously. In Hebrew, or passionate possession. It is a
it has a deeper meaning:
reunion. It is a homecoming. It
a call to an act of
obedience! One is two becoming one again. This
author says: is “soul-partner” language. It is
“Knowledge is what we are all yearning to
always connected find.” (Hebrew Word Study by
with obedience.” Skip Moen, 2009).
there is an understanding that the Acknowledging the departure The influence of the parent-
energy and enthusiasm of youth of young individuals from the child bond on a young person's
must be channeled effectively to church, often challenging their faith is emphasized,
prevent potential harm to their upbringing, particularly as they highlighting that the quality of
spirituality and relationships enter the workforce or pursue this bond holds more
(Gospel Workers, p. 21). higher education, is seen as a significance than the
The importance of their worrisome development. religiosity of the parent.
contribution through courageous Recent studies shed light on Consequently, blaming the
testimonies and energizing the various factors contributing to church entirely for certain
church's members is emphasized, this disconnect, encompassing challenges may not be entirely
especially in light of the church's aspects like the perceived accurate. Effective parenting
evangelistic mission and the need insincerity of adult members, styles that prioritize care,
to focus on youth for its undue focus on less essential affection, warmth, and
continuation. matters, negative attitudes, and freedom are identified as key
It's recognized that being born uninspiring worship services. in nurturing faith and
into Adventist families doesn't emotional well-being.
guarantee conversion or baptism;
there's a call to address the BEING BORN INTO
concerning trend of youth leaving
the church, particularly during ADVENTIST
the transitional phase after high
school. FAMILIES DOESN'T
The story of the prodigal son is
cited as a relevant narrative,
GUARANTEE
suggesting that grace and love
should guide the approach of
CONVERSION OR Tom Obuya is the Youth Director of the
Central Nyanza Conference of Seventh-day
Adventists.
parents and senior Adventists BAPTISM
towards those who have strayed. Community service at Migingo