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Often there will be a pattern for such thoughts, these being called
cognitive distortions. In the 1960s, psychiatrist Aaron Beck pioneered
research on cognitive distortion in his development of a treatment known
as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).
The more severe and prolonged these events are, the more likely that one
or more cognitive distortion will form. These thoughts are usually not
rational or healthy in the long-term and can have a big impact on how
people feel and behave.
1. Overgeneralization
You may have succeeded at doing something many times before, but
despite this, you may still predict things will go wrong.
This type of thinking is very common for people with generalized
anxiety and social anxiety disorder, and it is a way to increase anxiety and
stress further.
People with anxiety disorders may be more likely to avoid situations
where they predict something bad will happen, which in turn makes it
harder for them to overcome their anxiety.
5. Magnification
This type of cognitive distortion involves unreasonably magnifying the
negatives and unreasonably minimising the positives. This is similar to
discounting the positive, but instead of dismissing the positive attributes,
they are minimized in themselves, but magnified in other people.
Likewise, the negative attributes in themselves are magnified, but
minimized in others. People may often explain away their own positive
characteristics or achievements as if they are not important.
This distortion can be thought of as looking through the world through
either end of the same pair of binoculars.
An example of minimisation is if you got a promotion at work, you may
think ‘I was just lucky’. Or if you pass an exam you might believe ‘it
didn’t count, it wasn’t important’.
An example of magnification is if you made a mistake on a work
assignment, you may think ‘this is terrible’ or ‘I have failed at my job’.
Disqualifying one’s own attributes or achievements can have negative
effects such as lowering feelings of self-worth and sense of self. This type
of thinking can also affect behavior in a variety of ways.
It can contribute to feelings of anxiety, fear, and panic, because it causes
people to exaggerate the important of insignificant events.
People often believe that other people notice and judge their small
mistakes, when in reality, other people are probably more concerned with
their own errors.
At the same time, they will minimize their own ability to cope with
feelings of stress and anxiety, which can then contribute to increased
anxiety and avoidance of many situations.
6. Emotional Reasoning
This cognitive distortion involves believing something to be true because
the person feels that it is true. This is basing views of situation, oneself,
or others, on the way the person feels about them.
They will usually ignore or discount any evidence that doesn’t support
their conclusion, the only evidence that something bad will happen is that
they feel like something bad will happen.
People may experience emotional reasoning when they feel anxious about
something. They may have a feeling that things will not work out, despite
any evidence of this being true.
People who use emotional reasoning tend to take their emotions as being
evidence of the truth. This thinking can contribute to a number of
problems including feelings of anxiety and depression.
Whilst this distortion is common in those who have anxiety or
depression, it’s thought that emotional reasoning is a very common way
of thinking that many people engage in.
7. ‘Should’ And ‘Must’ Statements
‘Should’ and ‘must’ statements create precise and fixed ideas of how
others should behave, and overestimate how bad it is when these
behavioral expectations are not met.
It is not necessarily unhelpful to have some shoulding and musting
statements, such as ‘I should get to work on time’ or ‘I shouldn’t drink
alcohol and drive home’. These statements only become unhelpful when
they put unreasonable demands or pressure on yourself and others.
Some example statements which are unhelpful include ‘I should always
get things right’, ‘I must be the best’, ‘they should know better than that’.
Someone who repeatedly uses these kinds of statements may feel guilt or
disappointed in themselves. Likewise, they may leave someone feeling
frustrated, angry, or disappointed in others, resulting in interpersonal
issues.
8. Labeling
This type of cognitive distortion involves assigning labels to the self,
others, and the world. These are often negative labels which make global
statements based on behavior in specific situations.
People may use negative labels even thought there are many more
examples that aren’t consistent with that label.
For example, you may knock over a hot drink onto the carpet and say, ‘I
am such an idiot’. Or, if a friend appears to ignore you when you pass
them in the street, you may think ‘they are inconsiderate’.
These labels essentially generalize about people and ignores all the other
positive characteristics and actions. When stepping back from the
situation, you may realize that one action does not define someone.
The friend you saw on the street may have had a lot on their mind and
truly did not see you. Labeling people in this way based on only one
situation, can result in interpersonal issues. Likewise, labeling the self in
a negative way can impact on self-esteem and self-worth.
9. Personalization and Blame
Personalization and blame involve beliefs that others are behaving
negatively because of them, without giving any consideration for more
likely explanations for this behavior. They make take other’s behaviors
personally and take total responsibility for external events occurring.
The person may take 100% of the responsibility for the occurrence of
external events, usually when something hasn’t gone quite as wanted or
expected.
People can blame themselves for everything that goes wrong or could go
wrong, even when they may only be partly responsible or not responsible
at all.
Example statements of this cognitive distortion are ‘this is all my fault’
and ‘I’m to blame’. Carrying all the responsibility for something that the
person probably had little control over is a large burden and one that’s
likely to leave them feeling discouraged or overwhelmed.
Personalization and blaming are found to be common for people who
have experienced trauma or have been in abusive relationships. People
who have depressive or anxiety disorders are also likely to blame
themselves for external events.
10. Catastrophizing
Catastrophizing is also thought of as making mountains out of molehills.
When something negative happens, no matter how small, a person who
catastrophizes blows the situation out of proportion and will view the
situation as terrible or dreadful, even though the reality is that the
problem itself is quite small.
An example of catastrophizing thinking could occur when you are home
alone at night, and you hear a noise which startles you.
You may think, ‘someone has broken into my house, they are going to
kill me’. Another example is if you wake up feeling depressed in the
morning and think ‘what if I always stay depressed?’
These thoughts can relate to other cognitive distortions such as predictive
thinking and jumping to conclusion. Even thought the reality of the
problem itself may be small, when someone catastrophizes, things can get
very big very quickly and an individual may get themselves to a point
where it all seems out of control.
People with generalized anxiety, posttraumatic stress disorder, obsessive
compulsive disorder, and social anxiety often experience this thinking
where they believe things are going to be a lot worse than they really are.
11. Black And White Thinking
This is also known as all-or-nothing thinking as people who use this
distortion tend to see only one extreme or the other. They may view
things as either right or wrong and good or bad, without seeing the shades
of grey in-between.
An instance of this is if a student does not achieve straight As in all of
their classes, they may believe they are a failure. They may think ‘If I am
not the best at what I do then I am worthless.
This type of thinking is very unhelpful as it can lead to extremely
unrealistic standards, you’re the self and others, and can affect motivation
and relationships.
It can also set you up for failure if you quit something that you think you
will not be perfect at. This type of polarized thinking can also make
people miss the complexity of most people and situations.
How Can You Change These Distortions?
Most irrational patterns of thought can be reversed once you are made
aware of them.
Through this, you can consider what engaging in the distortion is costing
you. Weighing up the costs and benefits of the thought patterns could
motivate you to change them.
Replace absolutes
Instead of using statement that use words such as ‘always’ and ‘everyone’
try to replace these words such ‘sometimes’ and ‘this’. For example,
instead of ‘I always get things wrong’, this could be replaced to
‘sometimes I make mistakes.’
This can stop you from generalizing statements to every situation and
changing the statements to more realistic ones.
For instance, instead of saying ‘I am lazy’, you could say ‘I didn’t clean
today’. Labels such as ‘lazy’ cannot be applied to every situation, but
labeling behaviors are more accurate.
You may find that there is a lot of evidence to dispute your negative
thought or statement and that there may be a lot of facts you are
overlooking or ignoring.