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REPORT:
A Step-By-Step
Game Plan for
DOUBLING Your
Day Game Success!
By Sinn
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction ......................................................................................................................... 3
The 8 Major Differences Between Night and Day.............................................................. 3
5 Things You Can Constantly Work On... .......................................................................... 4
Talking to strangers ..................................................................................................................... 4
Body Language ............................................................................................................................. 5
Relentless Positivity ..................................................................................................................... 6
Teasing ......................................................................................................................................... 6
Touching ...................................................................................................................................... 7
Different Approach Scenarios ............................................................................................. 7
1) Moving Sets ............................................................................................................................. 7
2) Seated Sets .............................................................................................................................. 8
3) Standing Sets ........................................................................................................................... 9
Openings ............................................................................................................................. 9
4 Categories of Teasing .................................................................................................... 11
1) Role-Plays............................................................................................................................... 11
2) Push/Pulls .............................................................................................................................. 12
3) Name Calling .......................................................................................................................... 12
4) Challenging ............................................................................................................................ 13
Qualification Pinging ........................................................................................................ 13
Touching During the Day.................................................................................................. 15
Instant Dates ...................................................................................................................... 16
Basics of Delivery ............................................................................................................. 19
The 5 Keys To Creating Massive Amounts of Comfort Quickly ..................................... 20
Conclusion ........................................................................................................................ 21
It was this that led me to learn how to meet them. Unfortunately I was underage, so I
was forced to learn to game during the day. That’s how this report came to be. I can
honestly say that I have done more than 4,000 day game approaches, and over that time
and my time as the senior most instructor for Mystery Method, I patched together a
mishmash of techniques and systems to produce amazing results during the day.
In this report, I’m going to be spilling the beans on some of my most closely
guarded secrets. This is the stuff that I’ve previously only revealed to guys that paid
almost a thousand dollars each to learn at my Day Game Seminar.
Before we get started we need to figure out what Day Game is.
In my opinion (and for the purpose of this report) Day Game refers to any approach
not in a bar or club. This can include approaches done in restaurants, on the street, in a
bookstore, coffee shop etc…
Let’s start out by discussing some of the Differences between Night time approaches
and Day time approaches.
2. The Stigma of Cold Approach is lessened during the day: Many girls have a
stigma against not being picked up in a club. Girls are more approachable during
the day, as every girl would prefer to tell her friends how she met her bf/husband
in a bookstore or coffee shop rather than at a bar or club.
3. Groups are MUCH more difficult to approach during the day. It is markedly
harder to keep 2-3 people’s attention during the day without using an energy
level that will come off as “weird”. Furthermore you will often be approaching
women on the move during the day. It is very difficult to stop a moving group
4. Tone Down Your Energy Level by 2/3s. If you go in real high energy you blow
yourself out. A good general rule is to use about a third of the energy you would
use at night when approaching in a bar or club.
5. You don’t need to disqualify or “Neg” during the day. Because you’re operating
on a much faster timeline, we want to avoid attraction material and disqualifiers
as much as possible. Day Game is really about qualification and comfort.
6. Attraction is much shorter during the day, if it’s even necessary at all. Generally
you want to generate attraction with your opener then try to get through
qualification as quickly as you can.
7. Direct Game works better during the day. You can demonstrate a lot more
interest early on during the day. In fact the sooner you can establish that you are
interested in her romantically the better.
8. Girls are not always in a social mode during the day. What that means is that
you can often run into girls who literally aren’t paying attention as you’re trying
to open them. We deal with this through the use of pre-openers. A pre-opener is a
social question that girls have heard before, which allows them to contextualize
the interaction. Examples are “Do you know what time it is?” or “Do you know
where McKinney Ave is?”
Home Study Course: This is my list of 4 things you can work on ALL the time,
to help improve your game.
Make it a goal to have 3-4 “random” conversations a day. In the past I have
suggested that students stop wearing a watch to give them an opportunity to ask people,
“What time is it?”
It’s also a good idea to get into the habit of talking to everyone… say hi to people you
pass on the street. In fact if you’re really new, you may want to take the
Fastseduction.com newbie challenge – Get dressed, do your hair, put on cologne, and go
Another benefit of talking to everyone is that it keeps you in social mode all day long.
It’s sometimes hard for you to go 0 – 60. There’s a dynamic that occurs when you
have not been talking to anyone for the last 3-4 hours. All of a sudden see a girl you want
to approach you have to snap into your most outgoing, attractive self without the benefit
of a warm up.
One of the things about Day Game is it cannot be faked. You cannot be weird. It is
simply a test of how cool you are. If you are going 0-60 then you are stressing about the
approach. You will not be cool… you will be nervous.
It’s also important to not practice Bad Habits. You should not practice having boring
conversations. Ever. Every new conversation you have is an opportunity to practice your
new more attractive way of interacting with people.
Another often overlooked idea during the day is the way you dress. Don’t leave
your house looking like crap…EVER. Even when you go to the gym… You’re clothes
should always match, be clean, and fit you well.
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Body Language
If you are nervous talking to a girl, what does that say about you? It says that you
think she’s of higher value than you are, it says you are worried about the outcome of the
interaction, and it says you want something from her. None of which are things we want
to communicate to women.
Before we get into some specifics, I want to say there is NO such thing as perfect BL.
You want to focus on eliminating nervous twitches, using less movement, and
seeming “Too comfortable.”
Evolutionarily speaking the guy who is positive, and also has a positive outlook is
more likely to be successful. He is more likely to have been successful in the past. This
guy is more likely to be successful in the future as well. Positivity is the emotional
equivalent of big muscles. A girl sees a guy with big muscles and her primitive brain says
“That can survive.” A girl sees a guy with a positive outlook and the same response is
triggered.
2. Don’t find excuses for why things won’t work. Instead find excuses for why they
will. Don’t say if I approach her she might say NO… rather think, if I approach
her she will say YES!
3. Find the good in everything. You are no longer pissed that you have to wait in
the line at the bank. Rather you are happy that you get the chance to text message
your girls etc.
Teasing
Most guys are afraid to tease. You want to get into the habit of teasing everyone.
Stop taking life and conversations so seriously and learn to open up, and poke fun at
yourself and others.
As guys we are naturally too serious, especially outside of our own comfort zone…
We don’t have enough fun. Guys tease the hell out of their buddies, yet are afraid to do it
If you’re going to tease women you’re interested in, you need to tease other people as
well. Women have a really good BS detector. They can tell when you are not being
yourself. They can tell when you become this other guy when you are around them.
The solution is to make your “actual self” the guy who is attractive to women rather
than having to go into “Pick Up Artist Mode”. Teasing is something you can practice all
day long, on both guys and girls. Internalizing this skill alone will yield HUGE results.
Touching
In fact if you notice one of the first things we do when we’re introduced to a new
person is shake their hand. This little form of social politeness allows us to actually see
that the other person is real.
You want to get into the habit of being a “touchy” guy. The more you practice this
with co-workers, baristas, waitresses, shop clerks and your friends, the easier it will be
with women you approach.
Get used to doing most of your early touching in the area between the shoulder and
the elbow. Make the extra effort to emphasize what you’re saying with an arm or
shoulder touch.
Now let’s talk a little bit about what kind of approach situations you’ll find out in the
real world and how to work with them.
1) Moving Sets:
There’s no doubt, moving sets suck. No other way around it. You have 1.5 minutes
maximum before the target starts to think, “Why is this strange guy talking to me? Why I
Before we can even get to how to open girls on the move, we have to first
understand that there are two different types of girls on the move.
A. The first one is a girl walking the same direction as you. With these girls you
have two different options. The first is to run an observational opener. I like to
say things like “You’re very …” and then point out whatever is unique about her.
B. The other option is to go direct, by saying something like “I know this is really
random, but I noticed you and had to meet you.”
Now the other type of moving approach involves girls walking towards you. The
first way is to block her space and say, “Hey”. Brad P calls this technique The Rodman
how you jump in front of the girl like you’re playing defense in basketball. When you do
this, you want to go in with a more high value opener, to compensate for the fact that you
might spook her with the blocking of her space. Also make sure to smile.
The other way to open a girl moving in the opposite direction to you, is to use a direct
opener like “Hey, I noticed you walking by and I knew that if I didn’t come over and see
if there was more to you than meets the eye then I was going to regret it for the rest of the
day… I’m [your name here].”
The only advantage to a Moving Set is that you get to approach a set that you would
otherwise not have gotten to talk to. That’s it! Other than that, there are no real
advantages to approaching a moving set. They just suck!
2) Seated Sets:
The next type of approach is girls who are seated. Girls who are sitting by
themselves are the best types of girls to approach.
First of all you know you’re going to have at least 5-10 minutes with a girl who’s
sitting down. Secondly, you will be able to join her at her table, bench, etc… and be in a
comfortable situation with her.
There are generally two common mistakes guys will make when they approach girls
who are seated. The first one is not sitting fast enough. You don’t want to stand above the
girl for too long, as it makes you look needy. The other mistake ironically enough is
3) Standing Sets:
Girls standing in various places provide you with the most options for how you are
going to approach. You can go direct, you can go indirect or you can use a pre-opener or
anything.
The key to making standing approaches work is to move the girl as much as possible.
For example if I meet a girl in clothing store and I have her walk around with me to
“find something for my niece’s birthday, and then ask her to join me for coffee she’s
going to be more likely to go.
The problem with standing approaches is that you can only stand there so long
before it starts to trigger the girl’s “This is a Pick Up Alarm.” You want to make sure
that you move the interaction past the standing point, ideally to a seated instant date!
OPENINGS
The next thing we need to talk about is opening during the day time. In the Day
Game Seminar I reveal four different ways to start a conversation during the day.
However, because we have to keep this report from becoming unwieldy, I’ll be focusing
here on how to open directly and using a pre-opener.
Opening Direct:
When you are opening direct, you are expressly stating your interest in meeting her
and finding out more about her.
When you open direct you want to be more powerful in your body language. You
want to make sure that you keep a very upright posture, standing tall and powerful. You
want to make sure that you move slowly and confidently; hold eye contact all the way
through the opener. You want to keep a cocky smirk on your face as well.
The direct opener that I have had the most success with goes something like this:
“Hey (Try not to touch the girl too much, but a shoulder tap may be helpful here) I
noticed you from across the (Wherever you are) and I thought you were adorable, so I
had to come meet you.”
One of the cool things about direct is that if done correctly, it can skip you ahead into
the comfort part of an interaction. It’s literally like taking a shortcut to comfort.
If you do this correctly, you can get a SOLID phone number in 30-90 seconds, very
consistently.
As I mentioned in the differences section, girls are not always in a “social mode” as
they are going about their day to day lives. So to get around this, we need to ask them a
social question. A question, they have probably been asked before, and they have an auto
pilot response for. I call these small social questions Pre-openers.
“Do you know if there’s a Chinese restaurant around here called Mr. Noodle?”
The idea is to get her to recognize that a social interaction is happening. Girls aren’t
always sure you’re talking to them during the day. Plus they’ve given directions or the
time to hundreds of people before. It’s socially comfortable for them.
After you open with a pre-opener, you want to turn the conversation fun and flirty as
quickly as you can. I do this through the use of role-plays and misinterpretations.
Let’s go through a real life example where I picked up a sexy brunette named Monica
at a Grocery store.
We were both browsing in the meats section when I grabbed a pack of Skirt steak
and said
Sinn: "You’re TOTALLY fired as my personal chef. And I’ve been meaning to tell
you this for awhile, but you’re Crème Brulee sucked! Actually since you’re here, I
need a girl’s opinion on something; would you be mad if a guy you were seeing had
another girl sleep over platonically?"
After the pre-opener, I want to immediately turn the conversation playful and flirty.
The best way to do this is by using a role play, making her my personal chef. Role plays
are great because they allow you to go outside of the present situation. This allows you
distance and objectivity to do things like tease her, give her commands etc…
Then after the role-play I want to use an opinion opener to buy myself some time and
get her committed to the conversation.
This is how you can use opinion openers during the day without coming off weird…
Let’s move on to the idea of “teasing”. During the day you are going to want to
tease a little bit especially around the opener. This is one of the easiest and fastest ways to
build attraction during the day.
Juggler once wrote the best description of teasing I have ever heard. He said
something like “Sarcasm is the art of saying something nice and meaning something
mean. Teasing is the art of saying something mean but meaning I like you. “
During the day you want to make sure that you don’t use teases that are too harsh or that
actually make the girls think that you actually don’t like them.
4 CATEGORIES OF TEASING
1) Role-Plays:
We briefly discussed role-plays earlier in the opening with pre-openers section.
Role-plays involve creating a funny fantasy situation involving you and the girl. Here
are some examples:
“You know what I’m gonna do with you? I’m going to adopt you as my little sister.
Then I’ll take you shopping with me and everyone will be soooo jealous of you.”
“Hey do you know how to cook this… OMG you are so my new personal chef?”
“You are so fired as my personal assistant. It’s bad enough when you wear those
short skirts to the office but this is WAY too much…”
“You know what? I think you would make a nice new GF. We are going to call you
Wednesday.
(You are going to have to be careful though because when Tuesday and Thursday are
over on Tuesday’s and Thursday’s… you can’t call because they get really jealous.”
[If she says yes a lot] “What are you like my own personal "yes" man? Ok this is
awesome. This is going to boost my self esteem. I’m going to take you everywhere
with me and you are going to say yes to everything I say."
2) Push/Pulls:
Push/Pulls are defined by having a statement that tells the girl you like her,
immediately followed by a statement that teases her. This is the key to what is
commonly called calibration. Lots of times guys will overdo teasing and offend girls. If
you do this simply apologize and compliment her. Here are some examples of
push/pulls:
“You are the coolest girl I’ve met. On the street corner in the last 5 minutes.”
“I can already tell you are trouble, and I kinda like trouble…”
“I hate you! It is way too sexy when you smile like that.”
“What am I going to do with you? I mean I have ideas but they’re inappropriate,
for now.”
3) Name Calling:
Name calling is another fun form of teasing. Obviously you don’t want to go too
harsh here. Here are some examples of fun/playful nicknames:
Brat
Dork
Nerd
Tiger
Sport
Silly
Crazy
4) Challenging:
Challenging is a great way to tease women. Women love being challenged because it
allows her a chance to show you who she is. You can use challenges to bait women into
compliance and sexuality.
“I don’t know who your last BF was but he did not spank you enough.”
“Don’t make me come down there little girl, I eat little girls like you for breakfast.”
“Krystal huh? Ok, you are Krystal # 3. If you promise to be a good girl you might
one day move up to # 2… but # 1 is grandfathered in so don’t get any ideas, you don’t
have a chance.”
In the Day Game Course I reveal some frames that also help you when it comes to
teasing and escalating things sexually.
Ok guys, the next thing I’m gonna share with you is one of my PERSONAL gems. In
fact I can’t believe that I let my manager talk me into revealing this. In fact, this secret
alone can double your ability to get SOLID phone numbers during the day.
QUALIFICATION PINGING
If a girl is willing to qualify herself during the day you can get a solid phone number.
So you want to ping for qualification as quickly as possible.
Often at times during the day, the mere act of approaching (especially if it’s direct)
will be enough to get attraction. However most students I’ve taught still spend way too
much time trying to build attraction that is already there.
Instead I recommend you attempt to qualify right off your opener. Think about it like
you’re checking a map.
Let’s go back to my example from earlier where I was picking up Monica at the
supermarket.
I’ve just asked her for her opinion and she’s given it.
S: "Hmm, you don’t strike me as a Monica, my ex was named Monica and she
didn’t believe in Dinosaurs. You believe in Dinosaurs right? Cause otherwise it
completely invalidates your opinion."
S: "Ok that’s a positive; it took a while though... I’m not sure about you now…I
gotta check you out. Why is Monica special?"
S: "Really? I tried Pilates once and was sore for a month, I must be able to bounce
quarters off your core. I love girls who actually like working out. I also love sushi
but, how on Earth do you make your own? That’s awesome… ".
I start off with a small funny hoop. By asking her if she believes in Dinosaurs. Any
sane girl is going to answer yes, but she’s started complying with my qualification
attempts. Now by doing that I can establish my frame as the selector, which I do by
saying, “I’m not sure about you now…I gotta check you out.” Which allows me to build
momentum going forward into my large qualifying question: “Why is Monica special?”
Then when I get a good answer, I demonstrate actual interest. Most guys make the
mistake of just saying something non-committal like, “That’s cool” or “Nice.” Then I go
for a rapport question. This was the only flaw in the old way of teaching qualifications
like Mystery’s bait, Hook, Reel, and Release. By asking a rapport question, I show that I
am actually interested and not merely trying to reward her or be a "yes" man. I also do
my best to relate as much as possible to her answers.
Here are some good questions to ping for qualification early on in the interaction
To fully understand why touching is so different during the day. Let’s examine some
common situations that occur in different contexts.
Shelly is out with her friends at a bar on Friday night. She’s having a few drinks,
grinding with her friends and random guys on the dance floor, and it’s around midnight
when you start talking to her. This is a situation where you could be making out with her
within 15 minutes and taking her home within 2 hours.
Now let’s look at Shelly on a Tuesday afternoon. She’s by herself; she’s on her way
home from a hard day at work when she decides to stop for a quick coffee, before
changing and having dinner with a friend, when you start a conversation with her. In this
situation it would be very strange to try to make out with her in 15 minutes and she will
be leaving alone to go to dinner with her friend.
First when Shelly goes out on Friday night she’s out for the entire night with her
friends. She’s not on her way to other plans. There are no legitimate time constraints, and
it is possible to take the interaction all the way to the bed room.
Second when she’s out at night she’s drinking alcohol. This means she is in a
different state of mind, and her inhibitions are lower. During the day if you meet a girl
whose drunk you might wanna run away…
At night she’s been grinding with her friends and random guys on the dance floor.
No matter what girls say grinding of any type gets them turned on because the physical
sensations to those regions are impossible to ignore. During the day she hasn’t been
doing a lot of touching, so she won’t be as comfortable touching or being touched.
A good general rule for touching during the day is to not touch the girl in any way
that you would be uncomfortable touching your boss. That means keep it very platonic.
The only exception happens if you take her on an instant date to a different location.
Speaking of which…
An instant Date refers to meeting a girl in one situation (let’s say a bookstore) and
moving her somewhere else (let’s say to a coffee shop).
These are important because they change the entire dynamic of the interaction.
When you are meeting a girl during the day time there is a specific dynamic. This
dynamic is guy picking up girl. You are both strangers who came to the place you met
separately. This is obviously not the most helpful dynamic.
However, when you have met a girl and moved her to a second location (Even if it’s
just the coffee shop part of the bookstore) the dynamic changes. All of a sudden you guys
are there together. This is why we call them instant dates, because the dynamic of the
interaction changes from one of a pick up, to one of a date.
The first key to getting instant dates is to start going for them. The next time that you
are talking to a girl during the day and she seems interested, suggest going for coffee
across the street.
The second key to getting instant dates is planning. You want to know where you are
going to be suggesting an instant date to go to.
When I used to live in San Diego I did a lot of approaches in a strip mall in Mission
Valley. The reason was that it was perfectly suited to instant dates. In this strip mall was
a Borders bookstore where I could meet girls. Inside the Borders was a coffee shop where
I could move girls I met in the bookstore.
Across the parking lot, was a Coffee Bean and across from there was a Baja Fresh. So
I could meet girls in the bookstore and suggest they have coffee with me at one of two
different coffee shops within a hundred yards. I could meet girls in line for burritos and
invite them to help me grab a book across the parking lot, etc
Now the point is not that you have to find the exact same set up or move to San Diego
(Though it does have the best weather in the world). Instead it shows the importance of
setting up your own Day Game Environment. The more you can have easy options for
instant dates and movement the better.
Now it can seem like getting girls to agree to go on an instant date with you is very
difficult. In reality it isn’t nearly as hard as it seems. You want to make sure that you get
into the habit of trying to move every woman you approach. In the DVD course I talk
about how to use movement to escalate the interaction before going on the instant date.
But we don’t have time to get into that here.
It’s really important to commit to the process of getting better with women. One of
the best ways to commit is to put together an action plan.
Right now, we are going to talk about preparing a day game plan. The thing about
Day Game is that there are multiple levels that one can build on. For example you should
be coordinating activities you enjoy into your day game locations. If you like yoga, you
are going to have more in common with the girl you meet in a yoga class, than the one
you meet at Starbucks.
Exercise # 1:
Pick out three places you are going to do Day Game and write down three times you
are going to go there in your planner or cell phone. Be sure to experiment with the times
and days to see if there is a specific time or day that particularly beautiful women are
there.
Ok, let’s get back on track here as we’re almost finished giving you guys a jump start
on meeting, attracting and seducing beautiful women during the day.
One of the things I always say is that Day Game will test your ability to be a normal,
interesting person. That means it’s going to be a very “comfort heavy” conversation.
Once you get the girl to answer a large qualifying question (something like: “What’s your
best quality?”) you are definitively in comfort.
This means you no longer need to worry about keeping the attraction super high all
the time. Instead, you want to focus on building commonalities, conspiracy, rapport,
etc… Ultimately you want to lead this conversation into setting up a date.
So let’s dive into what defines comfort and how we can quickly establish
unbelievable levels of it!
When I first took my Mystery Method seminar in 2004, Mystery taught comfort as
the idea of babysitting. All you had to do was continue to interact with her and escalate
touching until the magical seven hour rule kicked in and then you could get laid.
I’ve also heard other companies teach comfort as unnecessary, preferring instead to
rely on a mixture of attraction and sexual escalation. These techniques can be extremely
useful in a bar or club, but is an ineffective strategy during the day time, due to the
differences that I explained in the first chapter of this report.
I want to address both of these ideas as I attempt to shed some light on how to
quickly establish comfort during the day.
Before I start to define comfort I want to break this idea of a comfort phase, into 3
separate types of comfort. This is important so that you know what kind of comfort to use
at different points of the interaction.
The first type of comfort is actually the starting point of every social interaction. This
is what I call Social Comfort. Social Comfort needs to be established right away. In fact
you cannot even be attracted to someone until you are comfortable with them socially.
The second type of comfort is what is traditionally taught by other guys in the SUISC.
This is rapport based comfort. Rapport based comfort involves answering all of the
questions girls need to ask to go from meeting you to having a sexual interaction. You
also get a chance to establish trust, conspiracy, and all other elements of traditional
comfort. This is what people outside of the community call “getting to know each other”.
The last type of comfort is sexual comfort. Sexual comfort is the most interesting of
the types of comfort. This is because it can occur at any time and happens on multiple
channels of communication.
A girl can show she’s sexually comfortable with you through what she says, through
the level of physical escalation she’s initiating and allowing, and through the different
places she’s comfortable with you in. A girl who follows you into the bathroom at a bar is
much more sexually comfortable with you than a girl who is willing to meet you for a
drink at a bar.
So now that we understand that there are 3 types of comfort we have to understand
which of these comforts we need to establish during the day.
The hardest part of this for new guys is delivery, so I want to quickly review the
basics of delivery here.
BASICS OF DELIVERY
Make sure you are projecting from your diaphragm instead of your chest. This is
important because it not only lowers your voice to make it sound sexier it also allows you
to project your voice further. Learning how to do this will ensure you are always heard. If
needed it may be worth it to do a few sessions with a vocal coach. A quick Google search
can get you a list of names.
Speak one person behind whomever you are talking to; this will make sure that your
voice carries. It will also keep you from being too loud while projecting your voice.
Try to eliminate ums and ahs from your speaking, replace them with pauses. By
making this correction alone, you will instantly sound more alpha and decisive. It can
take practice but the more you weed out unnecessary words from your speech, the more
clearly you will be displaying your attractive qualities.
Pauses are very important as they build response attentiveness. You should pause for
no reason every couple of minutes to build some intrigue into what you are saying.
People start paying attention when you pause.
Do not speak too fast. I cannot overstate this as someone who formerly spoke like an
Olympic sprinter. The faster you speak, the more it looks like you are nervous, or worried
that the people you are speaking to are going to stop listening. This telegraphs a ton of
insecurity. Don’t worry they are not going to leave if you slow down and take a second to
collect yourself.
Don’t be afraid to waste the girl's time. If you lose track of what you were saying or
doing a second ago, take a second to collect your thoughts. Make her wait a second too
long before you answer her questions. Don’t appear so eager and happy to simply be
speaking to a girl.
Make statements, don’t ask questions. Asking questions is like withdrawing money
from the bank. There’s only so much in there and after it’s gone the withdrawal fee is the
girl walking away. A great simple conversational trick is to turn any boring question into
a statement. For example if I want to ask what a girl does, I can ask the chodlicious
question “What do you do?” Or I can say “You look like a nurse.” If she is a nurse, she’ll
be amazed, if she isn’t she will wonder why I thought that and tell me what she actually
does. Avoid questions like the plague until you are into comfort.
Ok, so once you’ve established Social Comfort and gotten a girl to answer a large
qualifying question, then it’s time to build rapport based comfort.
I obviously can’t explain comfort in text the same way I explain it during the 3 hours
of seminar during a bootcamp. But I want to break it down into 5 basic concepts for you
guys to get started right now!
3) Demonstrating that you understand women and her specifically. Demonstrating that
you understand women is key to building an amazing amount of rapport. I even go so
far as to call it speaking Womanese. When you can convey to a girl that you
understand the way women think, and feel, you will be able to communicate with her
on an entirely different level. It’s also important to show her that you understand her
as a person. This is where cold reading and framing really comes into play. By
knowing some basic truisms about women and relationships, you can demonstrate a
deep understanding of her reality.
4) Making your intentions clear. This is where I differ from almost all major pick up
gurus. I tell girls explicitly that I am hitting on them, trying to get in their pants, etc.
The reason I do this is because it forces a woman to make a choice about how she is
interested in me. I want her to be interested in me as a woman is interested in a man.
CONCLUSION
Ok, let’s wrap up by discussing how to set up dates and get phone numbers.
The first thing you need to understand about phone numbers is that they no longer
mean anything on their own. As Mystery is fond of saying they’re not worth the paper
they’re written on. In today’s day and age EVERYONE has caller id. Girls will
sometimes even program in your phone number as “Don’t answer.” I’ve even been
known to do that myself. ☺
So instead of placing a lot of importance on getting the phone number, you want to
instead focus on setting up a date. Furthermore you want to set up a date for a specific
time at a specific place. This tactic alone should cut down your flake rate by 80%. Here’s
why- first of all it will weed out the girls who are likely to flake right away. If you try to
set up a date for a particular time and place and the girl says something like “Call me
later in the week”, you know she’s likely to flake. If she tells you she’s busy and doesn’t
suggest another time or place to hang out, you know you’re likely dealing with a flake.
Plus by getting her to commit to a specific time and place you invoke the psychological
principle of commitment and consistency.
The first part of setting up a date is called seeding. Seeding is extremely important
because it introduces the place you’re going to be inviting her to, without actually
inviting her.
Here’s a story my wing Captain Jack came up with that I used to use when I lived in
Dallas.
“You ever smoke the hookah?” - This is a small hoop to gain compliance and make it
look like you are not asking her out.
Whether she says yes or no, you start the next part.
"It’s my favorite Hookah Bar in Dallas, it’s awesome! They have a completely
decked out set up where everyone sits on pillows and it’s just got a really chilled vibe.
My friends and I always go there on Wednesday nights to get through the week."
"In fact I was there last week with my ex-girlfriend. Last week, she had to go to work
at eleven, she danced over at X strip club. She was looking through my phone for
what seemed like forever. I didn’t really think much of it until the next day, when I
looked through my phone and noticed she had deleted every female number in my
phone - even my grandma and niece!"
This qualifier tacked on to the end moves us out of the story, very nicely and lets us
move back into comfort before we ask her out.
Now one of the key components to seeding is that you do not ask her out. If she asks
you to take her there, just say “cool” and change the subject. Then after you’ve seeded
the date and created some interest in her you want to officially ask her out.
If you think you are going to be interrupted you can always wait a minute or so and
then use a false time constraint and go for the date. I like to add a body rock out and an
excuse like this:
“Hey I actually do have to go in a second, but so far you seem really cool. You should
join me and some friends for Hookah next Wednesday. We usually get there around
8ish. Give me your number and we’ll figure out driving and everything.”
Then keep talking to her for as long as you can. You always want to aim to stay in the
conversation for at least 5 minutes after you get her number. But don’t stress it if you
only stay in for one or two. The overall idea is to avoid being the guy who gets her phone
number and immediately takes off.
When I first started working for Mystery Method, I recorded over 100 of my day
time approaches and noticed that almost all of my phone numbers that I got between 18
and 25 minutes lead to actual dates.
Now when it’s time to go for the phone number and date you want to be as direct as
possible. You don’t want to leave a lot of ambiguity or flakiness. The worst possible way
in the world to get a phone number is to say “Give me your number, we should hang out
sometime.”
Instead you want to start with a compliment and then pin down an exact time and
place. Always remember the phone number itself is not the goal. Getting her to agree to
go out with you is.
“You know, I meet a ton of people but it’s really rare that I meet someone I think is
actually interesting. We’re gonna be heading over to The Gypsy Tea Room on
Wednesday. I’d like to take you with me.”
That last little phrase is a really good one. I used to subscribe to the usual community
doctrine of inviting girls to “tag along” with me. Then I noticed that a friend of mine,
who had amazing success at getting girls out on dates, always phrased the proposal of a
date like this. So I decided to try it out for myself. And I noticed a big decrease in my
flake ratio. You might want to try it out for yourself and see how it works for you.
That wraps up the Day Game Report. Before we get you out of here I want to
quickly re-cap everything we’ve learned.
We started off by defining Day Game as anything outside of a bar or club. Then we
went over the differences between Night and Day game. As a quick refresher they were:
1) Body Language
2) Talking To Strangers
3) Touching
4) Relentless Positivity
5) Teasing
We went over the differences between seated, standing and moving approaches,
taught you a bunch of different ways to start conversations, as well as teaching you the 4
categories of teasing and how to use them.
Then we talked about the idea of qualification pinging and how it can accelerate your
Day Game success. We covered touching during the day and the art of the instant date.
Finally I revealed the five keys to creating massive amounts of comfort quickly and
how to set up dates where the girl will actually show up.
I know we gave you a lot of information in this report (And trust me this is just the tip
of the iceberg) so I want to make sure to leave you guys with a reminder to review this
report every ninety days.
If you feel as though you’re ready to take your Day Game a step further, my
Complete Day Game from A to Z Mastery Program that I’m going to be releasing later
this month contains literally EVERYTHING I know about Day Game. (Much more than I
could cover in this small report.)
I’ll be releasing a lot more details about the Mastery Program in the coming days and
weeks. In the meantime, get out there and start meeting some women during the day!
-Sinn
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