we have to be the ones who are spiritual cz we the ones as women who influences in our homes so if we not spiritual what kind of influence will pass to our families and children’s,we need to understand also as women I must respect myself cz I’m the carrier of a human being on earth,women are the ones who brings balance on earth,as we are carriers of a human being we must appreciate that gift of bringing a human being on earth.We must know our worth as a women we must be proud to be Intombi yesambulo,even if you single be patient to get a right one ,a spiritual person doesn’t go for looks in the partner but you look for what you want in life ,when you spiritual you matured the way of doing things shows that you spiritual.Women are the influences of life everywhere we go ,imagine in life the was no part of Women life would have been dead or boring ,we are the influences in good and bad things.the power we have as women let’s not abuse it ,as we see it outside the institution how they use their influence in a wrong way,learn to do something proper and move on with your life,imagine your grandchildren ask you what were you doing while you were young and let’s say ungu Zodwa wabantu,But today uli Sosha you can tell them many stories of being iSosha today Intombi yekhaya,as a person you need to look at what you do in life cz it will follow you in the end.when you loose work why are you crying bcz you don’t have shares there you where only working there so why are crying,learn to do proper things and do those things in your place where you living,as we growing older some of us are stills finding themselves,Imboni stated as a women we don’t understand which side I’m falling I need to stop and look at myself as a women what must I do and who am I not seeing a women wants a relationship with a gal but you a gal to.Who are you ?respect yourself don’t just do anything with your body !! The next generation that is coming from ama Sosha must be different from ama 2000 coz we are spiritual that is how important it is to be a woman who’s spiritual.let them say you boring in your work place than doing thongs that you left in your earlier life ,as Sosha we must understand why is cleansing spiritual .don’t force a guy to do things for you cz he’ll leave you with a child who has no child.Learn to respect and keep yourself cleansed