Dogs and cats show affection in different ways, but it boils down to two main reasons:

● Evolution and Biology: Both dogs and cats release oxytocin, often called the "love
hormone," when they interact with their humans. Studies suggest dogs produce
significantly more oxytocin than cats, which might explain their more demonstrative
affection [1]. Dogs evolved from pack animals, so they crave social connection and see
their humans as part of their pack [2]. Cats, on the other hand, are descended from
solitary hunters, but they still form bonds with humans [4].
● Learning and Communication: Cats and dogs learn what kind of behavior gets them
attention and positive reinforcement from their humans. A purring cat or a tail-wagging
dog might be associating those actions with getting petted or receiving treats [1]. They
also communicate affection through body language, like slow blinks in cats or cuddling
behavior in dogs [3].
In short, it's a combination of biology that predisposes them to bond with us, and their ability to
learn how to show affection in ways we respond to.