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6u.bject: SP: A Proposal--Let's Make Some ProgreEE Here

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okay,

of
Irm going

people
to try

here nioving forward

something

in
for

their
the next !'/eek or

sames, and a lot

so. I

just
see a ldt

treadrng

Fr earer, asking the same queslion ower and over' or, ewen worse, just

lr gather:ing malerial and not getting inlo the field

L SO:

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Fr Take a look at your g a m e . W H E R Ed o y o u s t a l l ? what is your STICKING

a N E w T H R E A Do n t h e Tactics/Techniques board
F| PoINT? Post it
preface ir with
under

the ]e!!ers SP: (Jusir as you preface field reports

with FR:). And then myself and olhers on the board will post ELACTLY

ohat you need to get pas! i!- r will spend a LoT of time doing this ln

the nex! veek (even sharing neu tactics/leclDiques) on oNE condilion'

tihen you receive the adwice, you MUST 90 oul, use it, and vrite up a

Ircst saylng how it !,en!. lf you can NoT do !hat, vou shouldn't be

Now, do NQT poet abour specific ItBs or sarges. Look at the BIC

is how I break lt
YoU are doing and hou SHE is responding.

Beyond that, ther.e are FOUR critical moments during a sarge (where

1. OPENER: Approachang an HB or a group.

2. R A F P O R T / V A L U:E B e i n g in!eresting/entertaining/charming/unusual

enough for them to wan! to keep ratking !o you afler rhe opener

3 . A T T R A C T I o N / C H E MSI T R Y : c e r r i n g her ro find you alrracrive (and

consider you as a bf, ONS, lower, whatever)

4. CLOSING: Once you hawe the interes!, succeEsfully gerrjng rhe #,

'o1,,
women, determine lhe one tool

o' .o you cn6 n-x srep,

Keep your post S H O R Ta n d S I M P I J E . L o o k a t

or- dr ,ight e spe--r. sdrge

'-. 9e. -o

Abrlity + confidence + Energy = PUA

(Note that I am s t i l I FAR from lhe

onry jusl begun.

StyLe wriEes,

Rer,9Pr .get Interrvptione

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r the set. So this is an inviiation

.r ln.lrrde
I the CB in it'. I LO\€ sets with a
-. .r t u- ._ .ke
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.. -.....n-ng n.s m-no q maglc
a ..,- I c *acr6-- . a,. i' i ,

t hawe !'e 9 oup. In-is rs NoT bad.

-et
Lh-n al^ and invtre you 'r v

!l hawe so much MATERIAL !ha! you can alHays out alpha them anyvay. So,

!l ^ n , ha dr^,,n rin ihpi '

ond sarge Your tdrqFr '

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=t 2. where the CBlobstacle is NOT talkrng lo you. This is bad. It means

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a . c_,a ,,.16-1., r e acte

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z b6-cus- tomnor fo\used on,ro\.n9 .o (II./ !o 1y or:,-.. tr _min.

a I'm in and who cares. I'11 save my rouLines for isolalion lith the

T target. If it's soneone irho wanls to lalk about themselves, lha!'s

cool roo. -- qeE !1 e w olF groLp -n on _r. dld o ay o.ord /uitt -!-
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1-_incr p. 6i- \69t

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l| - r s r l r yo o o 'o ie_p o--

+ird cF--rs ro burn out, r rhrow more wood on

1l by paying attenlion lo lhem. When the fire is going again, I turn

to someone else and stoke rheirs. llrhen they are all going, I am an

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Ilope this helps.

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su.bjecE: Re: sP: the l-ong last Etep I

game than before -as

Enjoying your posls no lhat vou are more rN the

a participant and not jusr an experl. Eas something changed an vour

ljfe? In your par! of the world, I Lnow il is a litlle more of a

numbers game lhan elsewhere as far as findrng women willing !o ctcse

quickly. I know some people who hawe lactics of always gettlng the

cLose fast, bu! for ME I want to do it in a wav tha! lhe HB does NoT

hawe buyer's remorse and vants to do it again

Out of curiosaty, are you using any of the actual ASF teclDaques Lo

battfe LMR? The way I see i!, there are fiwe taYs !o battle LMR, and

you can use lhem all in order (I do and MYslerY has)

1. Steal her frane: If you lhink shers getring worried/ slop

B E F O R EH E R , a n d s a y t h i n g s like, "You know, I'n gelting lhe feeling

we shoulal pause for a moment and taLktr or comnent on how ilrs alL
that

goins so fasl for You.

2. The classic, thal is in aLl the recent lav reports: Keep agreeang,
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t moving
bur fortu'ard and Iight/Ishouldntbe
t ul-bulloning your pants
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I 3. Riker, s Three Rules

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a of 'no hds bepl the bjqoesr lurn otl I lLsr _06- -.-.y-"rir9.
-t's

!.dIy rio proorer'-we car lusr De

t vo' grdde a friend
can rell a srory here abo, hon in six-n
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raughi you a L!.ck, ond /ou wenL to d 91r- ln class ano
:| can make your breashs move without touching them.' Then you bobbled

a
a _-_._ you ano Da"e1!s. so you

iea]Iy respect boudaries now, and vhen a girl says no, you assune
7t -\.
rL 1- 14 .l

a the way you are.

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- Nor, afler lhis, eiEher she \,ri11 come to 1ou and reinitiate or you can

z : rr, or -xdrpre.

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jt
I .r s s ary ro do rhis. but ar least rn Amerrca, o no

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5, I I { A \ ' E N O T U S E D T H I S O N E Y E T . 1 T I S N E W . F R O MC L I F F ' S FRIEND DAVID.

!a!Ir in he relarrorship. 'e a-ks E'e uB wler I4_ _ule a'^ he o-r s

. -9s,

pa q - j. .\-a
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-h6.
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HB: What?

.f w.,,f 7,,1F< Fiv lhem to me and Irll declde af I ran! to

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spontaneous. I though! you did rhat you wanted. were you lying ro me?'
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person/ and not dependent on family and friends for: decisions ;nd tha:

i- -r -\i- , r-eF I r. Yr 16 ;c

before LMR lo let her know rhat twe of guy you are/ so lhal iE wiLl

be congruenr vher vou oush ' i r he r :oh ro) . -o- n- lose. ro1

'dr. .ne passionare reldrlorsl -ps T ha\e e.- l-oo a | ,"o one rh-ng'n

common: they began passionately. My ]asr girlfriend, who I dated fo.

'\/4- --F-'c on he se.ond daLe, ei:c eE-.'

Milton Erickson discussed a grea! leclDique for seduction. I'laybe you

can read about it some$here, but basicaLly he was a perfect genLLeman,

' ' I ol mvserf thaL s iusL who I am e c

etc.r So he wouldn't hit on the blr at all, herd even do a small

ihF <arrpnfh dirc fhen the HB knew that when she was
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oorng o soe "'r for rhe -is dale. onc too --r:eadr roL-.ied EhaL
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something vas going !o happen.
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:l And, if you REALIY want it to happen fasr, nake yoursetf an experc tn

I I.r. - sexualirl ano I l-e remale bod1.

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,eE rher i ,ov rhar:

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already
is 1on9, and there,s

be aware of. If I
a lor

haven,t
of sruff

addressed
here, mosr of

rhe problem
which

direcrty,
you ndy

te!
r ne know and I'11 continue. But/ obwiously/ logic NEVER works. yo-

=r already know that, so discard it. Appeal ro enorions, desires, core

Fr personal values/ and the reward/punishment insrinc!.

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a This is easy, Unchaste. I find myself here sometimes. with rargets
z
z patterns, or can't imagine the cube, etc., YOU must change yOUR

tac!]cs lf you want !hem. They are going ro respond nor ro patterns or
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Ev, but to kino, laughter, and berng L E D b y a C O N F I D E N TM A N l e v e n a n
I asshole). Fuck ASF tactics, but renember Alpha racticsr make her your
t pet. Do lwo things instead, in addition to lhe C&F lhat you menrion:
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I Be a s o yre-_er. TelI rLlv, earer:Farn_ng sr ories. J.sr o- roratty

comfortable wirh her, aDd don,t care what she thinks. pu!
tl her under

Iour wing, lease her/ lead her, and don,t wait for or care abour ner
I responses. Talk, talk, talk, and soon she will get comfortable, and
|r rhen she is talking and laughing too, take her hand and you are on

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2. AIso have sone fun interacliwe routines that arenr! deep. Games,

tricks, kino things lhumb wres!Ling, play wresLling, !ick1ing, and

any go-e yo' n./ ha/e played .' secord gradA.

-h6c5 ' ' - _

r-r i'| -ad -h i.r r'ae k- vou cdn

recogntze Ehe_ p -rIr L $o r

gL,-^-r. rr you do o lo, h'm.
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lhere'snothing wrong !,ith beftiending them as a pivot and uorking their
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friends.
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style writes,

subject: Re: SP: Kino and kissing

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c---Liro., I t-qnrr a-q01e. wi. . re-- 1ou hou I oo o.-- - .
'l _f n_ new routines here too.

A few thlngs:

I modeled my alpha friends. I,lhenerer they are talking to someone, I

-F-. Lii it6 l-..L , r,4i- \and

(Lighlly) against chest to get their a!!en!ron. They make

points by a slight karale-chop (Lightlyl) on their arms. They are

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ir s ep one: touchiro "T.nd
snorlders

rl being a physical guy.

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Step tro, touching vai3t. Holding her
=t ' .aar< f--lrilo :t h,^, rrl r-rth ro
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t 6c i - --f 1!ive

a she mowes away or nor,

t '-t_qia

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.i 6 ,.,i | -j--6 _6 !6. rr.r rc | _ as]:

a for then. I will hold her hands and see if she squeezes back ol not-

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T all'

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il usualLy happens 15 25 ninutes into Lhe sarge. As se are talking, and

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roolproof. !'!-d. \o. can't lose, oec"us- TRYIN. 'ol

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 lalking about. If her signs were good/ rhen r kiss her abour a mlnute

2. My Evolution Phase-Shift Routine. Wzd, you will love rhis one. rt

is uhat you need to do to LILy PAD (s]owly, through yeses/ escatate

to where you want !o go). I'we shared it wirh people here before,

so here's the shorl wersion. A11 rhe white, as you do rhis/ ratk abour

animalE and ewolution and mating and how are bodres are wired to

respond lo rhese rhings: I

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--Smell her neck
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- Pu]1 her hair from lhe back
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Bite the rDderside of her elbo'6' (the crease where ir bends)
- -Bi!e her neck
!
--If she Ears I
turn back and repeat rhe requesr.

If she doesn't bile your neck we]], show her how ir,s done

by biting her neck.

Kiss (if appropriate)

Also, on a second meeting with an itB, if I,ve set the frane righr, I

vilt jusc A S S U I " I Et h a t she is my 9f and Eake her hand. presume tha!
-- c .r 1 d fl6 rL--rc _ o. ). fB does \- n ner.

t n. ^nd Lrcaird:,a 1r !-c

Talk soon. Posl results, manl

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Eulrject: SP: When to Ho1d, When to FoId
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tro- o | )rldoa or ot
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t rr^rr- ;n -\6i- I c. r -F---c E - Lin, ' - .me rhar

a _ ___ u .t ..4 ,.,i 1rr _ran ----6il . . 1 Lhe

next set/ probably would have come home wrlh me if I'd stayed in and
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't .he nexE leve_ . -h-n agd .n, a loE would \O- \"v'.
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i.cr:rr d:rp an.l i. id byir_ -\- ar' l - e,1FlL6'T holld

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move od and work another target. Ar:e lhere anY tests/qlesLions for
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I €ubject: Re: SPr u6ing some of the more eccentric gtuf f

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again, this is NoT a sticking point. It is a question you hawe about

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nelhods and seduclion. It will nol make your game better to knov I,rHosE

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 melhods to use. Whar witl improwe figuring our T4HERE
you
get stuck during rhe pRocRESs of d aronang our lhat
wrankle. (Bad meraphor aterr. )

Any\ray, the easy ans!{ei to your quesrlon 1s rhis:

A. Only use rhah you are congruent with and can perform confidenrly.
B- The best

1t work for
way to be congruenE and confidenr

you.
,irh nareriat is bo Eee I
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so, for me, I don't use lhe ELwis scripr. I don,r tike it, though r
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It rjork for orhers. That,s fine for rhem, not for ne. r do
use other Mysrery scriprs, rhough, and tove
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rhem. see vhat you ar:e
comforlable and congruent saying I

Thar said, the facr rhar he tooks a cerlaan t { a y h a s N O T H T N Gr o d o w i t h

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the effectiveness of his scripts. The fact rhar he uses magic
sometames does. Bur r do nor do magic (generalty) , and stitl use Lre

So, for you, scrap the Elvis scrrpc_ UnIike orhers here, at teasr you
TRIED it. And ir didn'r work for you. Cool. Do lou have anorher opener
that wo.ks? Use rhat one inslead. rf noL/ I can suggesr one.

Yes, it does hetp ro see orhers use rhem effecriwely. Tha s

learned mos! of my Ss and l4ys and orher scriprs. whar are lhe
scripts rhat are Eroubling you? r,11 rry ro hetp. And what is
TRUE sticking poinr?

StyLe writes t

Subjectt Rer gp - cetting Attraction From SEB,

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I it's not allracrion that vou need. IL is sonething BEFORE
okay,
at
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HOoIt them To stand out fron all lhe other guys u'no
= 1. You need to

are cocky and funny and good talkers. I always menlion DEMONSTRjqTTNG
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a 6 at 7, your personality and sense of humor are enough
e VAr-UE. With

walue. You don't need this with a reallv ho! girl, lhen you have 'o/

z after lhe opener, blow her mind r'rrTH:

z The cube (like you are doing)

Paln Reading, RDes, Hw Analvsis, something similar

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Hyper Empiric demo if it's not too bea1ry
t Some kind of cool

=t cdle ro .ealjze rhe or )er d"/ tha! itrs not lust alrour
\O : I
2 demonstratrng va1ue, il's also aboul setling yourself uP as an

a authorily on something )

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2. Are you negqing here? Are You iniroducing challenges into voilr
,
game? These things are designed for highlv desired women'
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= deslrover palterns? ("Beaulv is common' but
3. Are you using beauly

= whar,s rare is...,,). These are r.EY tool

4. trha! about your dress? If vou look regular, vou will atlract

grrls. Do noc be afraid to stand out lf vou trant the sHBs'

regular

you wiLl hawe to dress for SHBS. Peacock, but t{ilh taste and stvle'

wear teEelry and accoulernents etc.

have the altitude of a 10 Be hard !o get'

5. BE THE 1Ol IoW, you nust

A.1d at the same time, rDdersiand how hard it is for her to be so

lt's no! easv' Il's lonelv l get

desired, because you can relale.

lhese things, and I do not consider mvself an anv way

anay with saying

Lo be a good looking dude.

 6. I am going to write a posr laIeT enlilled YOURWING CAN GET YoU
I-AID. These are a 1o! of new i d e a s r / s e _ ' ha - o-ei work_ng
on, and they definitely apply Io enBs a d u-l. le-p yo Lnrbasurab_r

if you have a good !.ring.

?o me, there are the key elements to add to step up your game. It vilL
take you a while !o internalize them, but once you do/ you are goins
to be dangerous.

I,er ne knolr what happengt

SEyie writes t

subject: Re: SP: cetting chickE ineo deEired state

First of all, I,n impressed. you hawe made ir THIS far. Remember when
you were still lrying to figure ou! openers and shir? And lhar wasn,!
even TIIAT long ago. This is rhe home strerch, cB. you,ve realty come a
long'"ray, nan, fron your firsr posrs. "congrarutate yourself.tr

Okay, there are three ways to ger an HB turned on thar come ro

3. Wilh your body language (rhar includes EC)

Firs! step for you is to becone nore sexual. Now rha! you know your
roulines so we]l, next time you are detivering rhem on aulo pito!.
E7,AI{INE YoURSELF. Eow is your EC, how is lour body tanguage, how rs
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t myself. . . )

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Next _s ro nokc sure you are do ,q ..d es_alaring kino. | . o.e a post
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on rhls ea--ier -n he sP lhread.
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I you.
1. l,ean back when you are talking, and see if she leans lowards
t
t 'e ho o. Does she squeeze back o, .-. her hand ha19 L -re .-mp]/l

t .. s-e rf she lo,os direct Ec for longe' rdn hree s'conds

a a. (Learned from Badboy) At some poln!, slap the HB a high-fave when

t you agree wrth something. Keep your hands together, and bring lhem

your your fingers with hers. If

e dom. As they reach
'' - do-sn' . nrrhdraw dao locis
waist, interlock

ner ringere !oo. vou lN.

z ".e

z ,f_-- ,. mir rLes

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a demonstrated something, and you have !o look at your opening and

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t !!1d it IS possro.e o i:alk to -!c"r .rd ose , he gi1] by No .^ing

il ,-, ^n ac^a.i:111, i+ w-, a'F ri -_-L -E--r

I another- Study lhings now like Rio's SOI and 101 theories.

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I took on lhe frane that I was lrying so hard ro resisl her charms.

It's something I learned and modifled from a good friend and PUA named

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-^i,^ o me:

I'm talking aboul somelhing important here.'

D - -o arl- ii- -\6ca ^F].D -. t:..o|

comection, elc. A.nd be sincere and inlense and serious and confidenE
-, r6t;--of -1 .
! v. rha- . ^ boci

.rd ook dt your game and Lne.a, )or o ess. dc.. believe...
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r'n:llw T.l. r^r Lh.u v^' u,c .. r you, I
na - - L D A T 4 L N I Ap o r o E y o u .
liie nos- o' us, probablr . s- f L'a-
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you NEED lo change ro become nore successful vith women. I don,! knos
-his's.
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sld- My guesE \o..lo oe o- o udys grecr o- l
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inleractions instead of confident. An I getting warm?

growlng up: your mother or father?

SEyie writes

subject: Useful Queslion for Approach Machineg

. .6 a- ai,d ^.6.11.. admire.

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hawe somelhing in common. They are MACHINES They
t These guys all
-thev
E V E R Y T H T N GT I I A T M O V E S T h e v d o n ' ! think jusl go in
approach
I out a bar, whole sma1l tovn, in like lwo
They can stale
- ewervthing that moves And, as soon
hours because they've approached

z as lhey hear a new lactic or teclmique from soneone, thev lest it oul

z T M M E D T A T E L Ya- ] d , because of this, lhev are arl, gelling quile good at

gone from staling out or

t !his, doing amazing things. Theyrve all
*closes
getting rejected after an opener lo getting from verv abtractive
t women in bars. Amazing sluff.
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z So, my question for Devilhinself: WHAT IS YOUR PROCESS?

a
of vomen, wha! is it !ha! vou lhink chal enabLes
t When you see a group

you lo go in so quickly withou! thinking. why do vou have NO FEAR? Is

za it tha! you lhink of lt as a vldeo game and no! real, or whar?
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z And, wben you go in, ato you always have the sAIlE opener, do vou fagure

:l our which opener to use as vou walk in, or do vou lust throw vourself

in and figure out somelhing on lhe spoL?

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t More on your thought process would be interestlng.

ir
F And congrats. I bear you'we been rocking aE lhis lalelv RealLv

F
FT
impressawe. . . .

sEyTe writes:
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Eu.b Storytelling (fo! Manife€ti6)

a quick exanple of hov I lurn something mundane lnto

Hey, herers

slory

1. Slories

stories
for lhe

iust

!o get
field

to

the
Llke

antuse lhe

HB inlo
1said,

group
I have two ltpes

on opener AND

a desired slate
of storaes'

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2.

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This i€ an example of an anusing story A PUA on Lhis board
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Lris gives awav personal details)
his identity anonl4nous, srnce
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so, Nighilight 9 and I constfucted this'
a car. crash recentty

have happened Notice that we did

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to just IMAGINE holr it might

things to make the story worlhwhile in a sarge: F

1. We exaggerated for comic effect' =

2. we left spaces !,here we inleract r'eith the IIB

I
wlrY we re t e 1 1 i n g
3. we nade it

ir.
seem like it JUST happened' and that's

tq
aboul herself tha! she may noi kno! in
4. tre tel] her sonelhing

that is important H O Wy o u t e ] l lhe sLory- l,ols of blg

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Also, note
E
i!' make sure she is folloi{ing
mrme lhings, and as vou tel]
gestur:es,

and underslands and is enjoving it DRA]'i HER IN. - .

t
alons
I
nwe have to go soon a n d m e e t o u r friend Blane We were in an acciden! I
pickins up the car- We vere driving along
wiih hin Yesterday, and he's

like 95 percenl of car crashes on

the coast, and they told us thal

all lhe passengers l can t beliewe ue surviwed

this xoad are falal to

In fact, I can't believe lte even let BLane driwe

rithout a scratcn-

^her te rseo Eo be in-"re ''mY:n

You see, Blane w a s shot by snipers
'an only rse one of h-s
YJx. He walks wilrr a limp nor', and
a
!t
! vears a pink cot{boy hat Anywav, when
may have seen him: Ile always
s he's driwing, he uses one hand. when he goes to flip on lhe turn

I s 9ral -no l-".ds. -r's q very s otr exp':ence

I
And, do you know how most people can onLy hold seven pieces of
I
infornation in their conscious mind at one lime. Yes, 1t's Erue:
I digits. Anvvav, Blane was
lha!'s why lhey made phone numbers seten
- went in one side, and they look il
also shot in lhe head. The bullel

7 out lhe other. So not he can only hold like THREEpieces of

t information in his conscious mind at one lime.

-
So he was driving along lhe coas! Thatrs one thing in his mind And
t all of a sudden, Eminem comes on the radio, and he loves Eminem so he

= That's nov TWo things And tte're on our wal to

slarts singing along.

a vodice, so he slarts lookrng around lhe sear for the address of ihe

a place ve're staying there. That's now THREE things.

t a truck ln front
And ihat s all fine, but all of a sudden there is
za our path, so he decided to flip on the turn signaL and go
brocking
a around it. So now that's N O H A N D So n t b e wheel and FoUR THINGS on i]1s

= mind. so since he can only hold lhree thinqs, oNE THING has to 90, so

a bush'
il he forgets to driwe the car and goes right off the road into

I
Yeah, it was lerrible. The car llas literallv teelering on rhe edge of
!l guess after his experiences in the !'ar he
ower rhe sea. I

F
cliff

doesn'L like bushes very much-

F
F can only stay and lalk

he lries
for a couple

to driwe
more ninules-

his om car
Yeah, we

again

F
ga get Blane before "

AnywaY, atls lust regular old story. Nothing specral, and nothing

I'll probably use my sarges for nore than another wcek or tqo. Bu!

I?
Eh"E's ger e a .l ne pro ess Eh'ouq' thi n I turn somelhing mundane
_a-o soF-Ll- n9 I.n and engagiro. uoo- rh-s is he1pfu1.

li
StyTe wtiteg,

subject: Re: SP: Opening Solo/Developing Rapport

He]/ Alessandro, E

The post that head lhrs section isn't from me. Il's from a guy named
q
-
r"sor ova. usr reposc.d it fo' \in be . .s. i'
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section. Thal said, LOoK at the response again- The time conslra1nt

thing is KEY. I! puls a lot of chrck fears to rest. hrhen you sit dom q
at an HB's table, you say? "I can only slay for tuo minules. I hawe to q
rejoan my frrends over tbere." This

L6 Fr6re forewer,
wa/, she doesn't

because rhar,Ll
get r'rorraeo oh€r

distrac: IE
from your game. Then/ when you prowe how fucking cool you are, she
-
![11 now be vorried that you WILL ]eave and i!'s her job to be

6r r.-h lc-, w , -rlere E

r
Even tohen I'm going to

like a chick would to

a chack's

a guy sometines),
house, I

"I
sometimes still

can only stay

say

un!i1
(just

2:30 r
i
{
have a to! of work to do tomorrow. So ]e! me know when i!'s 2:30,

because I definilely have to leave lhen." It does lhe same thlnqr

neutralizes her ASD(he's coming over tust to sleep wirh me), makes

her have to EARN exlra time, and al]ows you to leave al any poanl

if you so desire.
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I
,
styLe writea,
=
Bubjec!: Re: SP: approaching SHBE / attracting HBe
=

-
LMR is last ninute resistance.
B
F And qha! you do naturally is exaclly vrhat you re supposed !o do: Take

F
F - -ove,lese
o e c l r o o n - 9 a m es o l r e s . TIIAT _s beiro. PJA.
F
h
1 .rr14--a h6. _,F .i. r ,o.

F <--p.n9 Lhe -onrrol,

your
lrke you did ro\.n9 her dleaming dbour you 6.e-,

for it. tt s exercising

, nigh! and knocking door do\,,n begging

h
I
self-conlrol, putting tbe w O r , l A Ni n the GUY'S frane
.
like

J6i I
that.

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Nice,

<.me

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F
F
SEyTe writes t

su.bj ec t Can'E Do Street PUa

.. Pace: Shov rhd! you drF a4dre n.yire trv_ q Lo ocl somerhere Bes

don- .r 10- STEALrhelr ''ane d sa) lhar you r/.ng ro get

"
somewhere. Do this with your \tords, and with your body language, until
 2. Be energetic, confidenr/ curious. Genuine curiosiry is a good
opener in these situations.

3. Trust the matexial (as r know y o u d o ) : ll \rorks. It works

everywhere_ r,m in Lq, r use rhe S A M E m a t e r i a l on celebs, and ir sritl
{orks. It works ever}There. Just b e a w a r e o f l h e surroundings and
lnco4)orare them into the game.

4. Fine, if they REAI,LY have ro somethere, lhen #close on a I

cliffhanger and conrinue tarer. the attrac! at lhe first meetjng.
I
5. There F,RE specific srreer openers lhar WrL! liork,
I
e1ren on HBs 9oa49 I
in the opposire direcrion. Irrs att about YOUR detivery. AtI rhose
I
lhings you menlion (E]vis, esp), they DO work in a casuat enwirortrLerL I
if you EXPECTthem ro vork. Maybe you jusr hawe ro come in inirially I
more casual, under the radar. pace, I
and rhen Lead.
I
Donrt have much tine righr now, bur r hope rhis helps a firlle. Let me
know if you need more, or openers for speciflc sirualions. There dre a
few thaE I 1owe. . .

Style wtites,

Eubject: Re: SPr cetling them into desired state

okay, Co1orfu1Bul1. I,ve been rhinking abour you. Ard here are my

You have a hunger for knowledge, and you are pulling in the work.
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t
I
like that. There is, however, sotrething I am worried about. I chink
.l
- . --.- --- your
.t rr A -^-d

:| 'icc-r'-/a.rrr-.i

I I - d- And

El a loi of them are GREATsEDucTIoNIsTs IN TI1EIR oWN HEp.Ds. Howewer,

they can t do shit in the reaL world. They just loJowwhat to do, but

P
r
il
!r j. dn oper

-,..rr . 6- E

,t il .E

. -nen. 90 o.- qno -se your

z, opener and add the gane/gamick/slory. As you do these things, you'11

, find thal Y O U R O W NN A T U R A L G A M E n i ] l come ou!. You 11 find your own

- 'our--e5, your own srories. y o u r o ' / u nq u i r l . s rhar make you atr.ocr-ve.

z And soon you,1] develop Y O U R O W NG A I ' 1 E ,a n d y o u w o n r l need any one

e l s e ' js r o u t i n e s or sl:ories.
Fr
F. \,.,,r mrFeFinn Thprp are four kinds of stories that I tell

F
I r. S o!--s Lhal enco rrage and b!-n9 o r Lhe ai cribuj:es Ehat I wanr

ll
hl -c .h

F expectations, aboul doing lhings for lhe now, abour how we are only

F aliwe for such a short time and any Lime you are lhinking about lhe

F
tr
- a so sr orios abou solp'hir9 rro t ros ooin9. o_d 4rr
E|
passionaLely. Listen, if you are a conputer programmer/ you CAN talk
h
b
a
,
 ' 'o., i,rrr-c I L

repairing a doorknob, and just hold court. Just talk and talk and

w_rh !ore1 energy. Fxci-enon cor-o sr-s.. oro pdss or . oro

"l\,
sre rs r1s(en1nq ano e--

ouE and go DDB, because she,ll just start {atching your lips move and

think about wanting to kiss you.

I c6-..-l c--,iac 1rr' .^1- ,i'^

'*om a fri.nd: r ^ds ^:rh d gr _ _ D r __ s . - a d u e w e n t t o a s e x s h o , - o -

I
d- - ,hirk'ng _de". '.1y
h o w w E ' , u e r eE o n , . s6xi-.. so ^- l"o
"r 9f asked
I
'rie rrdrager o4ay rr wL {-nr up on s-aga. we qrv6 soaeore our
I
o1-.a and venE up on sldge. ond tata.ll gcve r''c ljve sey slow in

f,-r_ ., _t _ -_i-t - ,.- ^rn h,. , ha.e

I
I
out each other's adwenlurous side and even surprise yourself with what

/ou're capable of . This is rh- snor-he s o y. ou' as I

- - 'e.ve
re-l iE. I maka srre sh- .dn 'e"l , im"9 dld tl e RICHT

iL n^ hhe om

. Ir nre(ap orrca! I

I
..ir -, , hc pnd Mwcrarv'< rc lr.a ,.r,

-l--.- u_l- -l c

-' -. -'ke /'

-i00 Per:cenr P--I. L Gir . or ne lvl.."r .d- s o y.
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n^Fc ihi c frr nt

StyTe writeB,

subject: Ending SP Threads Now

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!t cD 4iest'o. s -n abour hour ' I '. been a
"n
t --1.--- ' .al Lo \ s_L a lavori!e !LlP to- a
.t r^im^-ch<Flf

= and work on my oBn sticking poinis. I'n stil1 far from where I want !o

rl
Hr rhic hppn hFtn r,:q rhF ir4..-irr a. ' -rl..ar' IL s
"t)

hard lo re]l for ne. so nuch of lhis has become so internalized, lhar

I look at ul o- wro,e, s-.ms so OBv-oUs, ik' l! r-sms

Eone. If it has, let me know bere,

and I'11 come back and do this every now and !hen. It will be fun to

see how people have gotten past their o1,D slicking point and reached a

nev one (1ike lhat \,rho]e carrot in the ass dilemma) .

- n.-il- f". r' 1 {l e-e,,ant ro be. lios o he

: l-r Thpw', F -, rrr 6.F1 v a-o

unfulfilled. Al]d Ehis is because FU'ang ]s sril] NOT natural to them:
'r's so -Lh.n9 n-r do. IE'E noE vho r5-y are. 1r's sri_r D,r .ng on a

' -P i.. r- Ll- ijrr la oc he,r

r hcv -,c /idn, h:.' 5q!d - u,- dgd|r. r wdlr !! rr.-

this nalural for me. 1 want it Lo be par.! of uho r am. That is wha!
- 'h-
o6r

be in the mood. r want tha! MooD to be

So, before I leave:

HERE ARE SOME NOTES I'VE I"IADE FOR I4YSELF AFTER TIIE PAST FEli

MONTHS SELF_CRITICISMS AND POINTS TO ttORK ON. TIIEY MAY BE HELPFUT, FOR

OTHERS.(You']l see that some SPs rhat I've gotten past are similar Lo
Select a definile targel, and slick to lhat decision Don't iust keep

bouncinq around belveen HBs indecisivelv because thev seem easier or

Find a way to be incongruent: in olher words, shou an OPPOSITE side of

myself !o create dePth

When I get insecure, respond by slou_ 9 oowa insEedd o- spe6o-n9 u

Put out more sexual energy. Don'! hold i! back. rntensify itl SLow

do{n speech and mowements !o

Understand that a voman wANTs sex

set tbe frane clearly in the firs! five minutes, vith strong sor'

KINO, KINO, KINO. AND KINO WITII AUTHORITY

a Lot of line to lhink or find another EF

or Push-Pu]1 and

when you starE to gel physical attention, don't give in: still Plar"

women want to be dominated. Do it. Suck her into your worLd

i{now that

and your reality, anal make it be natural for her to be there- - so long

as she follows Your rules.

More intense eye contact and, !'hen readv, glances at her lips etc'
l.
F
l'r .. :. vou

ir worked/ that an HB 10 wants YOUI

F
F Trust the game and routine to work, in all situations

rne cargeE more

Be .o gruenr ulrh wharever I sa| ano ,o ontr sar ^hal - n congrLent

w-rl . -hre also means berng congl ranL ^rlh mr incongr*en.ie-.

when hin^:ng oJ rh- nex p.. - ol . .o.r in.. B, , a

F
tl
I
t Let your mantra 06: I Dese.ve -h- BFs or r.-.) ,ir9

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a
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a
t
StyLe writea.
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6u-bj ect I QueEtion for Tregwfiw
F
F
I
D6ti ''1e of yours and had queslions. Don'!

knor if lhey were answered in Ehe old

I
ll _,.r{ , .- rc tL-I; 1r so,nds

I
T
routine I heard. I'

t
 2. Ov,ay, I give up. Hon do you escape from rhe sharks? Somerhing ro do

w rh sur- l -h6
9 olound lcL ersl

r. OLdy. i olve up on p shovel dnd ^ o.Ey cnjng roo.

I may not use lhese in my sarges, bur rhey are fun. Here are some

more: http: // sanantonio - us. mensa. orslpuzzle. shlml

Ig
StyLe writeE t
E
Eubj ect: ASTr Photo6
ts
E
Hey David,

I
Djd you ewer make it

oldei-wonan

because ve went out

knew she wanted to

ex st.ipper
to

tonight,

cone up,
l,A? Anyway, an observation.

FB of

so I
mine just

lhen
left. p.nd ir

she dxove me back ro my place.

just asked. She said

An on-and-off

was funny,

she had ro work

I
I
F

I
just 'Aw, (nor very
early in the morning. I
lrwell/
said, come on,' pua, r
q
know), and she goes, I do bawe to go to tbe balhroom.' r found

it interesting that she stil1 n e e d e d a n E X C U S E! o come up/ and had ro

3
MANOFACTUREone herself . E

uope ro s-e yol soo. . AlwayE en oy .o_ki.g wlrh

SEyle writes:
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F subject: Re: FR: *closed a 10 ! (long but good info)
tt
I
.t n '' ddacer-oo skills.
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I
t ACT FAST. see her SOON. (Should have done ir the next day.) sbe IS a

P player.

buch of
She mirEwwhat she wanled

roadblocks and tests/

rhe whole

vhich
trme.

you passed thanks

she tust

to your
threw

ASF
up a

I 6qi ls. S o . v h a t y o u S H O U L DD O o. loo- L l) rdve done already rs

t7 s6en he. aoain

PRLSWE ard AC- AS Ir

RIGHT A!'iAY. And ^h-r

she -S ror!
you s6a I e

9...rriF.d.
aoei.r. you musE jrs,

lo!.i. ds soon as you see

t llamed for rhis, but I only discovered lhis when an HB recently did it

F non- supplicaling way I,11 post a r,R thar this got for ne recenrly).

I qlra -inF L.i. rt i .*-----r -- -!iNISd.

u This means: to TAKE AWAY your atlention whenever she misbehaves or

a _..... ,- .r - ,i,1

aa A L W A Y Sv o r k !o get your attenlion back. Do it two or three times, if

rr-ha.k -ri :l e^ rhA ^.c, ^ .)r -<s !n

2 - li'..^ir - .-
i6-!ri-,6^ I wjtl

l|
!l You must, here, slrike vhile the iron is hol, otherwise youire going

t to hawe to work rhis all over again from scratch-

F Posl an update I

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I style writeB.

t
t
subject: Training Pivots

I,ve been thinking lately. sure, il's fun sarging vith a group of ten

ASF'ers. Eut thy not UP the game a little And insread tr:ain a noman

!o be my PrvoT. After all, vhen vou are wrTH an HB, there is zERo

resistance !o opening sets and troTs of social proof Plus/ she can

talk you up !o other vomen. I don't know \',hy I wasn'! doing this

Or why anybody else here isn'! qith their female friends

before.

total I A
I
so, on Friday night, I am going io a partv wilh LOTS of

wanna-bes. I an taklns a girl I sarged in vegas who is sorgeous an a I

cheesy way: big

and loEs

pivols.
of

Then I
drama,
fake breasls

so I

explained
!o]d

lha!
qanna be actress

her

all
today

of my gfs
lhat

were in
she's just

e wourd be each olber's

olher
not

crlies,
too bright

and
i
I needed an ]a gf. So she'd help me find an I-A 9f, and I'd help her find

a BF. I,re agreed.. Now, r need to TRArN her' what do r do? l'lhat do r telL

her? What are qood NON-LYING (bui also NON SEIUAL) openers to use In

cases? What other ASF teclDiques can she use lo heLp me here?

I can jus! go sarge normallv wilh her. Howewer, lhis is

are RSLES for winging, and wavs lou can use vour ting to

laid. - Aild I'm sure there is a VERY efficienr: wav Lo work

Ways SEE can open sets for me (a.d me fo. herl

Need ideas fast.

StyLe writea,

aubj ect: LA GirIE are confusing the shit outta mel

In addition to FinalD's e:.cel]ent adwice, here is my thougbt. And this

,- ,,.: Yol

are using lhe N E W G l r y I N T O v i Na p p r o a c h . Now, aclresses and models etc.

in LA are very busy: lbey are obsessed n'ith their career and rheir phone

ila \-^r- D--. flor -^ r*F_- -:Eies

every night. Plus. rhey ore wo <ing h..d .lying Lo make money fol

ridiculous renl and food cosls and head shobs and \,rhatever else.

( rho rirr q -qre. -\6

around" approach will NoT qork. You need to come from a posilion of

S U P E R I O R I T Y .Y o u n u s t . ao - tl eve h.!e, b. excellenc. This neans

"a
that you need to VARY your !./ho1e rourine, your whoLe game. You need ro

giwe her a R E A S O Nt o W A N T t o call you. And if you are sarging sHBs,

ro. ur]l N E E Dt o a d d b e a u E y - d e s t ines o )oLr gdne.

You must also STEAI THEIR FRA}IE.You I,rUsT'BE TrlE 10.'rn high demand.

vou just moved to LA, you already know so many amazing people here,
'in6 Mi f. <ir-F cra I c -..--.--1\- seLf

ei^A n^ia EASY to diss. A chick should nol be

r._ ,_tja- , 6 ,_^-r ,\one

numlcer- You must AIWAYS call a chick on her bullshit. Newer in an

ri_-6 16. r c6 .or

d

chance. Bul NEVERE\,ER give her a third chance. Have rules, !el1 them

StyTe writea,

subject: Re: Traj.ning PivotE

 ilr this sortoithing '
I kno*'you'reexperienlced
Greatailvice,Cantactus.

*closes,but the)'bothcouid havebeenIcloses FIo\lever'

Here'sthe upshotof thenight:I gottwo

my own PivotCB'edme-

we wentout.I just openedall the setsmyself:very easyAnd

Shewasgoodfor socialproofwhen
;fshe sat\\ ith
I knervI hadanIOI whenanHB askedifPivot wasmy GF of ifPivot wouldnind

babysitting
us etc.I alsousedBadboy's mixedgroupsto babysitherwhile T\\ent
routine--asking

I
to the batluoom.Wasgold Soeasy,plustheguyslovedme fot it' But, sadly'whenever

retumed,Pivot\\ouldjustbesjtlingtherelookinghotandslupid'notreallyopeningupthegroltp.
I
I
Anyway,theproblemslvere:

L PivotwasNOTbright.Shecouldn'tholdhero\ln very well in a conrersation

lneedtolrainaNEWPivoionEVERY
Pivotwouldfollowuw.Useless
2. WhenI isolated,

aspectofihe gane.
#1 leli lhe club
3. This is there it REALLY fuckedup: logisticsl wasPivot'side SoKiss close

I hadto iake Pivothomefirst It wastoo

with us,bui shehadio d ve meto my carbecause
lny car'takingpi\'ol honrefirst-
I wasIN. but couldn'twork thelogistics--getting
complicateal.
a fuckingboo$ call
etc.Anyway,asI'm sittingin thecarwith Pivot,andKiss close#1 is making
maybeI couldhave
Shewouldn'thavehadto makethatifPivot *'asNOT there ln retrospect'
it was
thissituation.But in themoment,oncesherealizedPivotwascoming\l;th too'
finessed

overin hermind
party'Shewasdrunkand\'!itha guy she'dbeen
4- Kissclose#2 metus at a smallafter_hours
driveher homein
flirti g with all night.However,shesaidshedidnt likeh;m andwantedne to
shelikedto iuck (hotolderfake
hercar.Dude,thiswasSOon shewastalkingabouthow mLrch
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t
thin blonde).Shealsodid a super-sexy
breasted bitingeachother'snecks.I still
thing:we 1,!ere
al
havea bruisethis morning.Thenshegoes,"Do you know\lhat elseI 1o!eto do?"And shetakes
t
androtatesthem 180degrces
two fingers,spread-eagled, in my mouth,andthenrubsthe top of
2
my palette.(I rnuststealthismove.).I triedto workthe logisticsofthe cars,because
I uas still
I
with Pivotandhadto dropherhome(in oppositedirectionfirst),but it i'asjust ioo complicated
I

F
andkissclose#2 endedup havingotherguy driveher.I hatedlosingio an AFC \lhojust got

I shouldhaveblownhim out. I talkedto theblondedrenextday,who said

luckv;in retrospect,

F
that the guy drovehomeaftenvardanddidn't stay.Whatever.

t In retrospec!thePivotwasa fuckingCB. (ShekeptchasiDg

aftercelebstoo, like guyslrom

a 90210andAmericanPiewho wereat thisclub.)Nexi time,we haveto [avel independent]y

of

il eachother.Also,needsto bea brighterllB for sure.Thatsaid,openingwasa pieceofcakewith

a her.but afterthatshecouldn'tholdherown.

7
=a I wantto explorenore tmininga pivot.I thinl(babysittingintro,accomplishment
u introl\ightlightg"desiredguy" speech,
etcwouldreallybe go1d,especially
in LA.
z
a
!t
StyTe writee:
ir suljecE: IIBE who won't * in pu-blic
tI
p ''' - - -nL -n

I for rhe kiss. She wouldn't do it. But NOT because she \tasnrt

!t atlracled. She said she didn't kiss in public. Bu! she said she would

a to ry "roLs-. b. n9 d p-cnic. Drrng a movie

-F--L --L -

il
rr^..f i ,- n So iL

is ON, BUI it made me think aboul lhe whole Mo.

T
,
 In orher words, my club tyto is ro 90 for *close, rhen lry ro inslanr
date or, if not, ger lhe #. There is rhe whole 2o-minure from
mee!-lo kiss routine. Thar,s what I,m working. BUT, some HBs will NOT
kiss in public, even in a dark corner or sofa.

so, il's making me think rhar maybe some HBs r ejected were acluatLy
inlerested. Just NOT in pubtic. And ir woutd hawe been a mataer of
getting lo a car or a house.

so, first, I,m wondering: rs rhe whote "go for rhe kiss,,MO nor feasibte
watb some girls. And/ ar some poinr in rhe sarge, shoutd a quesrion be
asked aboul lheir wiews of public disptays of affecrion. rei{, she trdy
not be willing to * you in the ctub, bur she rnight be wiltjng ro
somewhere else. This should be screened.

qurious to hear others' rhoughts and experiences. _.

StyTe writ.eE t
I
subjectr Re: My First KisE closel But didnrt
I
#
cloEe...darunit! I
l

I
Nice shit, man. You are C O M T N GA L O N G . T h i s is rexlbook. UNTrL...you
get the IrB all hor for you and DoN'T fol1ow rhrough. Bur lhis is aLl
good. Part of lhe learning process. you should have rsoLqTED and
really *closed her. For next lime. Also, find ou! her car and livang
sltuation so you can see if a oNS uas possible. She vanled you, nan.
You did your work and it W O R K E D .N o w r e a p t h e rewards ful]y nexr tlmel
la
ET
t
!r MTlt -hi.- .-..v/r nn d^F<n'r .rL.n hp, c.

rl reLl

her ABOUT I]ERSELF instead of joking around abou! YOURSEI-F-

Cold reading type stuff would hawe worked well here.

SEyle writes:

subject: Re: Negging HB6 by giving them nickna$eg

Recently I vent out/ I mel lwo HBs named KeLly. so I named one KelLy I
' c.LF clir ch- r.r-w '-
aa ll-

'' 4 ..La-
l-F* e- T r - ro h- -)d cii.- iF6-

-i -- n. L.Y -l --d 'oo^

Iro Saras, so she is Sara 3. (NaluraLly she's jokangly upset about

_lo_ _. _
T .1- I F6* .. L '\, A

good I promole her Eo sara 2 and then Sara 1. If bad, I demole her to

cara 4. Fun and e'fe riv- .-^".o pLn-shmenr gane.

Sr!^lewfites:

Subject: New Tactics From Croatia

Justgoi backhom€frolnCroatia.We allhada blast,andgotto knoweachodrerverywell. Beautitul

beautifulgirls,beautitulcountry.My thoughtis thatifyou lvantto meetwomen,sarging\\ ith

seaside.
eight'hineguysis toomuch.But iflou wantto LEARN a lot, it\ greai.especially
sith deb.icfirgscvery

night.After $riting thispost,I will createa CroatiaalbLnn

wit| photosFonlthetdp andwritea FR of\!hat

mayhavebeenoneofny nosi nenorablecloseseverGinply because

theHBs did not speakaword of

Englishandwere$ith theirpar€nts,
butwouldsneakawayto b€comeNightlightgandm)'.girlfriendsfor

or performance
1.5hous everynight).Overall,ldidn'tfeellike my success therewassrea! bLriI hada

greattime andfinallyeot to meeiihe cool,crazyCroatianposseon thjsboard.

andractics\i,edeveloped.
Anyway,herearesomeofthe newiines,iechniques, Badboy,Vision,andothers.

on anythingpostedhere.
feelilee to addanynissingones or elaborate

a ljneis postedhercdoesn'tmeanI recommend

NOTE:Justbecause it. So e I thougltwerehighly

effective,othenjusttun,anda fewjust plainsilly.

TlleVisionI-Don't-Like-You
Opener:Tlis oneis GENIUS.A ma.riedwomantold it 10Visionat a brr- I
ApproachHB, say"Ijust wantto tell youthatI don'treallylike you at a11."
Thenwalk away.Sheis I
guaranteed
to tlink aboutyou,andfeelaUsonsofemolions.lfshe doesn'tappfoach
you iaterto ask$ hats

her.Say:"Donl thi* aboutit too much.I wasjustkjdding."[GetSomeuseda vcrsjonof

up,re-approach

thisthatgoes:"My friendsallthinkyoute br€aihtaking,

but ljust wantedto teil you tharI donl like )ou

verymuchat all." Fromhere.youcanhavehernamcthreequalitiesthar.|\'ouldconvinceyouto like hef.l

I
I
TheVisjonCetLeid Opener:Visionusedthisin combination
wi$ theabove.It is alsoa variationoithe
I
opener.He wor€a gaudyHawaiianlei. He walksup to an HB, tellsherhe !\afts to sce
Mys cowboy-hat
I
"uh- h" or ' mm-mmm.l don'tlike
whatshelookslike in it, ihenpausesandlooksa!her.Finally.he sa-vs

it" gently,andtakesit back.GREATNEGI [Visionthe! segues

thisintothe aboveopenerb) aslin_e

sonethinglike, "is it okayifpeopleheretelleacho$erwhai theythinkofthem...fof€xample.I

afterwards

don'l]ikeyou verymuch."Thenifrhey getmad,say,"lt wasjustanexample....lt

wasn'tabout

you...sheesh"l
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opener:
TheCompliment-Neg
q
PUA:You Looklike lmediocreor semi-atiractive
ce]ebrilyl
t
thatan insult?
HBr That'snot a complimentl/ls
=
PUA| Oh,what.youthinkyou'rebetterthanhere
I
I Opener:"l noticedthatwhenmy fiiendcameor'erhere
Getlnside-$e-Shield
TheNIGHTLIGHT9/StyIe

P to gethis drinl, he wasn'teventryingto pickyou up,andyou cuthim do$n.You'rejustlike Iny o1d

F
p
her in bals.Mind if I walchyou
girlliiend.Shehadrhebestculdo$ns for olherguyswho wouldapproach

you someofherbesldissesandlines."(stillawork in progress)

\ork for a while-l'11feed

F
, not surehow il will in thesrares
TheNightlightgStatenenrofAttitude:Tlis workedverywell oveNeas,

2 But at somepointin convo,say,"l don'tcarewhatotherpeoplelhink ofme. I just don'tgive a firck."Its

lr imptio sayfuckhere.Usuallythe HB will go DDB for a secandthenagreewilh you (no nattet ho$

a uptightsheis),whichis geat because

you canuseil latertofightLMR etc.

7
=a don'tlike thisopener.but El KabiijoandAtilla enjoyedusjnglhe "Do you like g1lyswith shofi
I pcrsonauy

il hairor ionghair"openersinceAtillas wasshavedandEl Kabiljo'swasn't.

z
GetSomeUK Hypno-Fluff:Ifshe askswhereyouarefrom.hesometimes "I comeliom theplace
answers,
il
(Nole:usuallyI dont saythjs,but useit asa quote.
ir in yourrnindwhereyou'rethemostsuggestjble."

talkingaboutmy "unusual"iiiendwho alwayshasano ginalanswerfor everything.)

F
F In additionto IOIS,we inventedlODs(indicators like whenan HB GetSomeis sarging
ofdisinterest,

F jumpsin herboyliiendslap);IOPS(indicators (indicators

ofprostitulion);lOFs of fear,aswhenGetSome

F
lr
frombehindwhileVisionscreeches
andAtilla arechasingagoup ofteenagers in frontofthem in his car.

The HBs respondhereby shriekingand scatrering)

tl
il
F
F
?
 Stlle EverJ-Other-cuy-in-the
ClubDestro)er: Justwhensheis iovingyou thenost (or evenbetter.betb.e
a takeaway),
say,"l will tellyou what.l willpersonaltyintroduceyoulo anyguy here.Justpick one.And I

canpromiseyourhatyouwili not find oneasfun or interesting

asus."Thenhaveherrookaroundthe club
with you at all theboringpeopie.(1somerimes
prefaceor follow thisby talkingaboura tbmatefriendof

mlne\rho goesout,seesa cureguy,worksup thegulsa[ nightto talk|o him, andu,hen

shetinary ooes
finds out he'storally boring.)

GirlfriendPresumption:
ThiswasaiJnosr
EsSENTIALin croatia.I wonderhow rr workshere.Basjcall],

beforephaseshifting,youjustrell herthatsheis goingio be yourCroatian(or whatever)

girlFiend_
There
aremanywaysto do this.You cando rheJugglergirltiieid tesr.Or. evenbener,wrir€oLLt
a contract(see

rhegirl by saying.,,Thisjs Ivana.cet usedto her.you,

below).Ifyour friendscomein rheset,inrroduce

beseeinga lot ofher_"

TlreCirlfriendConFact:Wlen shedoesposjtiverhings,re| hertharshecoutdalnosr yourgjrlfriend.

be
whichis a veryprestigious
honor.Burshehastofill oul an applicatjon
first.andyou wili getbacKro nerrn
five to ten business
days.Thentakea pieceofpaperandmakeentiesfor whatever
you want_This is $.hatl
I
"BrieJDescription
'placeofBirrh.
used:"Name""Age" "Occupation" "Ie,, "FavoriteMealro Cook,,,,Distinguishing
Marks.. I
ofBe&oom Fumiture""chirdhoodrrauma:yes/No""Girrfriendresr: passilair, Then.

whensheaskswhatthecirl&iendTestis, yougiveherJuggtetsgirlfriendtesr,thencirclepass
o. fait.and
tall! theresults.(Nore:I am suletharwe cancomeup withthe perfectgirlfriendcontracr.
Let,swork on
this.)

TheForeignPhrasebooki
Whentraveiing(especiall_v
otrthe bearenh.ack). tike,,Arerou
getphrases
hittingon me?"and"l dont thjnkrhjsretationship
is workingout.',and.How areyou?...Iamfuckrng
good"translated
intothe language.
A big hjt. ifused inmoderation.
Vision.canyou suggest
othe.USEFUL
phrases(l phasedout theoverlyobscene
phrases.
because
theyareenjoyed,but rhe) candisqualjfyyou
too.)Afterward,
yoLrcanhavethe setor targetwritedownotherplfasesfor you to learn.Theylovemrs
t
I
lt
rt
TheBadboyHish-FiveKino Test:At somepoint,slaptheHB ahigh-fivewhenyou agreewith something.
I
Keepyourhandstogether,
andbringthemdown.As theyreachyourwaist,interlockyourfnlgelswilhheIS.
il
Ifshe doesn'twithdrawandlocksher fingerstoo,youareIN.
T
F Tle El KabiljoIOI: Pressyourboneragajnsta girl. If shedoesn'tpull away,you cankissher.Ifyou are

F aheadykissingher,you cango muchfinther.(Thiswasrelatedto us by El Kabiljoin ail serjousness

his.um, Bloody-Mary!c]ose.)
after

TheTwo-SetIsolationiWheneverBadboy
andEl Kabiljosargeda t\r'o-set,
asi]reybroke01]inlo two

separate
conversations,
theywouldslowlymovetheirbodiesaroundto theoutsideon oppositesides.This
;

F
7
way,in orderto keeptalkingto them,thetwo HBs now haveto moveapartandtum thei. BACKSto cach

now theycan'tsee€achotherard it\ easierto gei kino and+closc.

other.Perfect,because

t # close:"I will giveyoumy cousin's

TheNightlightgcontusion number..and
ifyou call him, he will call

I my nom...andmy momwill call my friend.-.he'11

call me...and
thenI'll emajlyou."

il
t TheBadboyCarCrashStory:HBs iovedthis,usedearlyonjustto conveypersonality
andmakedrem

longandI'm tiredoftping, soremindme andI'll postit later.

eijoy our company.It's
I
t
TheNiehtiishtgBeauryIs ConlnonJokeAddendum:During
thisroutine,orjusr$'hilediscussing
I
Hollywood,you canadd"Wlen you go out with gjrlsin LA, youhaveto takethemto thedoctorfirstto
il find out whichpal1sarereal...Theyput h€rthrougba machine,
andyougeia printout al the end."
il
I
GetSome's3 Rules:Theseareto be saidto anHB to eliminaieLMR.
tl
L IfI go downonyou,you muslgo downon me.It'sonly fair.
I
2. F st I will go slow,andthenI will go fast.

t L Ifl'ou want,I willgive you moneyfor a cabridelome alleNards.

ta
,
 (l.,lote:
Someone
askedaboutRiker'sihreerules,andI saidtharrhese
weretherulesasajoke.GetSome

L[< took tlen seriouslyandACTUALLY saidthemro a girl he wasmakingour\r,ilh.Sothey,vebeenfield

tested...and
theydon'twork )

BadboyBF Destro],er:
Ifshe is wirh liiendsandtalksaboutherboyfriend,s
bedor roomor caror

whatever,askher Fiend,"Haveyou everbeenthere?"tfno, thenask.,'Do)ou wanrto?',Mostofthe rime,

fiiendwili say"no,"because
ro say"yes"meansrhatsheisjealousand$antsro steatrheboytiiend.The

resultis insiantPEERDISAPPROVALofrhe boyliiend.Badboydeve)oped

thislvhitesarging(and

#closing)Miss UnivcNeCroatiaandaskingaboutheridealvacationspor.Shesajd,,My bo),liicnd.s

bedroom."
Badboy,you should\l.riteup $e whotesargel

you iustdon'tshowi1."
Newneg:"l bet)ou havea realcutesidesomewhere.

Anotherneg:Whensheresponds
to something,
say,"Oh,soyoute oneofTHOSE..._"
(Aticn\ ards.) o,r

cansay"nowI seewhatI'.n dealingwift.,') Ifshe resjslsthisneg.usetheNighttighrgli.ei ,Oh. so$en

you areoneoftlose people\r'hodon'!likero be calegorized.,'

BadboyUnderwear
Saliva-Anc|oring:
lfyou cangeta pairofher paDties.
ljck ttem. This$a). nerp -"

partsareanchoredto
respondto andfeelcomfortwirh yoursaliva.(Um, for sjow€rpeopic
rcading_
this is a
joke.)

BadboySlarsCold-Reading
Isolationroutine:Badboycandescribe
thisin morcdetail.but he rooka IIB

do$'nto thebeachto readherstars.He hasherclosehereyes.andpoinrto a randomstar.Thenhe sals

whatconstellation
thestaris in. andwhatit saysabouther.Basicallya bunchofBS anda way to getto kjss

her.How doesihereslofthis go, Badboy?

kdboy Misper *Close:"l'd like to whispera secrerin ],ou.lips."(Canprefaceir with an inrerruptlike.

"I'rntiredoftalkingto you.")
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t

It
SryleRing Finger PattemThumbArchori I havetwo t]rin rings on my right thunb. WhenI do ihe ring
!l
paltem,l discuss
howthethunb represents thinkingforyourself,spontaneiry,
individualiry, not being
a affectedby what family/fiiends think, naturalwoman,etc.Then. later, I do dre Mystery "areyou 3lhief'
I
lineandgiveheroneofthe thumbrings.FirsrI pu! it on herlefthand.ThenI moveit to herrighthandand
I say,"Tlrat'sbetter.This waywe match."ThenI holdmy handup to herssoihatny thunb is overhers.It is

awesome,
because wlth me
whenevershelooksat thering aftersheleaves.shefeelsthatconnection

I amwearingit in the sameplacetoo...

because

usedthisclassicpatternbeforethetrip,but ljkedaddingthe
Insertion:Never
StvleIncredible-Connection

)ou hlo
line,"Haveyou evermetsoneonewhojustlit up alt yourbeing,sothatit fek asifihe 3ir behveen

!raselectricallycharged?"

F
I Ifyou arewoffiedaboutgettinga fakenumber,tell herearlierin thesargeabout
SBle#closeguarantee:

, yourlastgfand how,asshewasgivingyou h€rnumber,shehesitated

befo.ewritingrhelastdigit.Months

a thatshewastryingto decidewhetherto glle

later.asthetwo ofyouwerehappilyin bed,sheconlessed

- )'outhecor.ectnumberor not.Ifyou want,you canpatternon holvanazingit is thal]iftledecisions

like

= thatcanaffeclyourlife andhow shewassogladalierwards

thatshedid theriglt thing.

t
:r lo the
GetSonewouldopenanysetbyjust repeating
TheGetSomeUK SchoolofOpenen:Somehow,

include:"Do yorknow thatifyou rub aguy's

HB wlateverwe weretalkingaboutat thetim€.Examples
F wasprecededby
nibbles,theygethard"and"Do youknowwhata torsois." This lafteropener the:

F
rF| Get SomeflK Stones-ThrowOpener:Gether attentionby throwing a rock ai her. Make it a small one,like

him (we
a pebble.GetSonredid this,andit worked.Thegeniuspadwasthatwhenshecouldn'tund€rsland
:l
he groans."Oh God,now I haveiogetup," andthensitsdo\rnrightnextto her.When
wereon thebeach),
El
sheaskshim ifhe knowsItalian,hegoes"l onlyknowCiaoandCiao."Whenshesays."Comosta?"he

F
F
F
t
 io mishearit as"Comesta,v."
prelends ofyour sargesHenlxes SS
GetSome,youhavetopostrecordiDgs

(leamed)with GM (natural),andwhen he pefects it, it \rill be dangerous

or favorites
comments'
Thadksforreading.Iwill postmoreasI thinkofihem lfyou haveanycriticisms'

Style writes:

SubjectiNew TacticsFrom Croatia

Coodconex,Nighilightqandvision, thanks

PUA the
for thegreatest
Here'sthe Badboycarcrashstory'Told\r'ithCOMPLETEloveandaffection

Balkanshaveeverse€n:

with hiln vesterda!andhes

We haveto go soonandm€etour friendBadboyWe $ere in an accident
on thisroadarefatalto all the
pickingup ihe car.Theytold usthatlike 95 percentofcar crashes
ve
passengers.I we su ivedwjthouta scratchln fact'l can'tbelievewe evenlet Badbo]dn
can'tbelieve

useoneofhis anns So
You see.Badboywasshotduringthewar' He walkswith a linp, ard canonly
handsllt\ a very scar)
whenhe'sdriving,he usesonehand.Whenhe goeslo flip on the turnsiglal--no

mindat
intheir conscious
And, do you knowhow mosipeoplecanonly holdsevenpiecesof information

onetjme'Yes,it'strue:that,swbytheymadephonenumberss€vendigits'An}vay,Badboyw3salsoshot
a
I
:r in thehead.Tle bulletwentin oneside,andtheytookit outthe olher.Sono\r'hecanonly hold like
!r mind at onetime.
THRIE piecesofinfonnationirhis consciolLs
!
=
Eminemcomeson the
Sohe wasdrivingalongthe coast.That'sonethingin hisnind. And all ofa sudden-
I radio.andhe lovesEminen.Sohe stafissingingalong.That'snow TwO lhings And we'reon ourway to

F
-
Vodice,sohe startslookingaroundrheseatfor thead&essoftle placewe'restayinglhere Thatsnow

? THREE dlings.

P
F Anddat's all fine,but all ofa suddenthereis a truckin ftontblockingourpath.sohe decidedto flip on the

F tum signalandgo aroundit. Sonow thafsNo HANDSon thewheelandFOURTHINCSon hismind So

F sincehe canonly holdthreeth'ngs,ONE THINGhas1ogo.so he forgetsto drivethecarandgoesrighto1f

F theroadintoa bush.

F
? Yeah.it wasterrible.Thecarwastiterallyreeteingon lheedgeof a cliff overtre sea l guessafterhis

? e$eriencesin thewarhe doesn'tlike bushes

verynuch.

F
F
Fr Styl-e writee:

:l subject: Lay w/o worde (by Request)

I
I we were in Europe at the !ime, on tbe seaside, wandering the slrIp

ri,n -he resr ol na IO pr rou s s. he sEopped'or pop_orn a'd

rl on a
Nightlaght9 boughE a big bag. Nearby, we saw lwo HBs satting
!l curb, looking dejecled. Nighlight9 loves approachrng sad girls; I like

EI approaching fun girls. i{otewef, he was correct here.

il
plops them with his popcorn and asks,
ll Naghtligh!9 dosm nexl lo "Fov

ir are you doing?"

rhP
Turns

..,'.1
ouE they

w
don't speak EngLish at

w
all

'!l
e !r,v ihe

4i -!e_

ilT
,
Then we try a few olher languages. Nothing. To te1] the trulh, I

consider ejecting here. But theY areni! gtving negatave responsesi so

-- --- fakes -r
b o.oa) 1r . e o. h.r

.r^cen'f rNrdhiridhic here notes tha! when romen take food

fron hin in a situallon like this, they usualLy end up hooking up Nrth

hi-: l- s s ).e rs very tnreresLino. - s wery low-l' Ind'r !'e

radar, rapport - natchiog. He comes in VERY harmless and awerage guy )

_ 'r
.era and. facir g rl--1 , do a coupte o' .e . -sual

rricks. I do an arm-lwisling nagic trick for fun, and then I make one

of tbeir cigarettes disappear. I usually don'! do magic, but I vanled

to do something fun and non verbal. Then I sit nex! to lhe brun-ite

we fagure out thr:ough piclures and gesrures lhal they are Czech, l3

and 19/ and bere wilh their parents. I also do a magic tr:jck where I

guess lheir birthday. Nightlight9 offers popcorn again, and iris ilie

the brunetle takes some too.

an}nvay, what sAs vorked here is lhat they wele depressed before \.J

they're happy and enjoying themselwes. I think thal TIIIS was all it

look. l,le were already IN before the magic, just for brightening lhelr

day. Anlvay, we break into two couples and start wandering around,

kinoing. Tbey're very cule. The brunetLe is ran and leggy and than,

Anlvay, around 10:30, they gel sad and gesture tha! they have to go

l-al I h6ir p a r : e .t s . .k. oLf my nol-poo. and we d\e olans ro m-cl

r1 e nexl nignL at 8:)o o.-. Tnan Nigltl o ' o and I eacl oiva ger

closed-nouth kisses goodbye.

Afler lhe girls go, we agree that they are hot and fun l'ie decide lhe
|r
E
! jus! them AS IF they are our girlfriends on lhe
key mowe is to lreat
I next meeling. For the nett date we come up wilh a greal plan to take

!| lhem to top of a to!,,er, then for ice cream, then for a walk, all the

iine going from fu]1 GF treatmen! !o friendly distance and back. The
=
to make it seem like multiple dales.
I idea being to lry

I and r had picked up two sistefs on

Also, a fe\,, days ago, Nightligbt9

? the first meeling, we did lhe G I R L F R I E N D P R E S U M P T I O Nl h i n g Thev also

F happened !o bring us each a 1i!!1e present_-a souvenir glass baL]

t7
diorama with plastic fish inside--and when thev gave us the present,

it really fell nice. So nice that ve *closed them on lhe spot So/

with the two Czechs, we took a cue fr:om lhe sieters and brought the

czechs liny cheap necklaces. In the past I would have lhought il was

P
ra
t-
supplication, buL here it tas a VERY effective PU tactic i!'s an sor'

a so we meet up with the girls and start !o take them to tower. Thev

their parents are at the loqer

t start !o ge! upse! and "exp1ain" that

{this takes nuch translation). We lake their hands and sLart walking
7l
arm in arm: the blonde runs off and buys ice cream herself. So much
- give them lheir presenls {which
for our plan. We sit dovn wilh tbem,

2 we pul around lheir necks), and then tclose and make out. ll:ld, bv the

a way, lhe Czech girls also qave us pr.esenls--Czech candv and nusi' How

a
t Anyreay, it seems as if lhey have their ol^rN plan (Note: Alwavs HAVE a

il plan, but al,WAYS be prepared to abandon it if circumstances change )

? They make a rindmill novement vith lheir arms, and ve realize lhat

a they wanl lo 90 swimming. we say

'OK" and lhev lead us on We come

Eo a dark beach. They take off their dresses and their bras-
!l
Everything but their thongs and shoes. rt was so fucking sexv-
t looking at each olher like, is on1" We strap
Nighllight9 and I are "This
I doun to our boxers and etarE to go into lhe water, bul then thev start

p
I

I
t
gesturing nadly to us. seems rhev want us to put on our shoes- Thev

mime stepping on a sea urchin. So we puE our shoes back on and

manage to

mn afEer our girLs inLo the waler, and make out and do all sorls of

awesone sensual things. It was one of the sexier experiences of mv life

And all because we APPROACHEDand DIDN'T EJECT and WENT WITH TIIE FLow

By the way, through this a1l, lhe czech girls keep talking to each other

nonstop. I wish I recorded il: I'm dyang to know what they were saving

The vraler gets cold, so re ger out, change, and - in keepinq rith our

MO from the llro sisters te mel earlier -- we sneak onlo a boat and

starl going al it a liltle nore har.dcore. Bu! then some captain clinbs

onto the boat, and we freak ou! and sneak off lhe boat before we get

caught. And the girls have to go meet their parenls again We make

plans !o meet two nighls laier.

This time, Nightlightg and I ren! a ho!e] room righl next lo Lbe

beach. It,s prelly cheap ($40 or 950) . Then we get candles,

and fruit for lhe room. when we mee! up with rhe 9ir1s' te
chocolates,

just take lhem by the hand, walk dovn lhe boardwalk, and take rhem to

A little confusion, bu! no real resislance Every time te

Lhe hotel.

talk and say like 'what did you do today," they just make
try !o

gestures like lhey don'! understand us. So we give

girl
up trying

oui to lhe
!o

baLconij
I
I
comnunicale with words. Nightlightg takes his

I stay in lhe bedroom l,,ith nine

I
hrhen I was rrying to remove my girl's underwear, she kept resisting

and saying one of lhe 10 English words she knet/, "days." I realized:

oul to the balconl, where NIGHTIIGHT9 wa6 with his

ah, period. I ran

girl, and asked what !o do. rJust fuck her,' was his advice- Good
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Fromr*ding yourpost.sargingAT clubsdoesnot seemlike rheBESToptionfor vou Whv don't
theHBs
whatyou excelinr dalrine andstreetandbeachPUs.Theninstantdateandgo to lheclubsWITH
to befricnd'
Thisway,you caneithersargetheHBs vou3rewirh ORusethemaspivotstomeetothersTry
I oidon or
ifpossible,the stafl lei themknowyou arebringingwomenthere Tellthenvou own a clubh

in managenenlTHEN,you canaskthemail lbe quesliunc

andarecuriousabouithe differences
somethjng,

you wantto,likewhylhey tuck up thegameofguys like vou-

worriesSo.first,tell lhemihatvou likc

Oneotherthingyou haveto do is to DISARMtheHBs immediat€
jn LondonThatway thev$on't thjnkyou're
tbem.areON VACATIONfor a coupleweeksandlive

fron them-ln fact.you canuseasyouropenerthc facilhaL)ou area

promoting3 clubor wantsomething

theythink ) ou arelro morInI someclub

peoplenrn a$a) because
tourist,but r henyou askfor direclions,
I
It's so funny, but so liustraling Etc Etc

but nolhi.g thatcanl b'

I \r,illthink aboulthismoreandaddmore.Everyplaceis anew challenge,

Hopethishelps

Anonlmous tgriles:

oneitis's
By theway,thatdaywhenyou guys\r'entto thewaterfalls'you blewit for me bv askingmy
thatI wasway out ofoneitiss
aboutlne l wastryingto givean impression
girlfijendall thosequestions

like thatblewmv game

leagueandcomments
SrJ^lewrites:

Subject: New Tactics From Croatia

Cone on. now.Your oneitisKNOWS'!hat is up andthatshehastle power.And don'tyourhinl(YOU

blewit morevhen you toldthemyou weregoingto hangout wilh usonenight.And then$h€n theywere

goingto go outwidroutyou,you got allpissedolland weit homein a hufil

Do you havetheAl1 of Seduction? theseducer

I can'trenemberwhatchapterit is,but ilr oneseduction, rs

just ON thegirl allthe time,showering Sheis enjoyingit andplayingwith him. BUT

herwith aitention.

THEN,h€justTAKES IT ALL AWAY. And shesuddenlystartswondedng$hy andgetlingall bothered

andfindingh€rselfattracted its beena long-termsarge.

to him. Your oneilisrequiresAos-slvle,because

So.ifyouhaven'tdonethattrip with her,SHOWERherwilh attentionbeforeihe trip.Let HER thnrkftat

YOU will nT to nake a bigmoveon thetrip. EVEN giveherapresent beforeanddrophints.

or something

THEN,on thetrip, SHUTHEROUT.Go out W]THOUIher (bebrave)andPU someone

elsehot.At the

very least,iakepicturesofyourselfwithattractive
\yomenandshowthemto her-Ifnot ihat,PRETEND

like you keepgoingoutto spendthenightat a gfs. Shewill betearingherhairout whenyou don'treturnto

aboutit. And SEEhow sheresponds,

theroomuntil noonthenextday.Be happy,be unapologetic because

sheWILL slart conpeting fbr you.

That'smy suggestion.
at least...

Sq)lewritesi

Subject:Training Pivots
 opener(orno
Q: Do you knowhow you canwalkup to anygirl or anvsetin theroom,useanvnon-sexual

andnearlyalwaysgetinstantacceptance?
opener),

A: Whentherearegirls in your group.

*hen 1'm\vith my fenalejiiends,andthereis an HB nearbv,I willjust leanoverandsa).

Nowadays,

ifyou'd iike rojoin us."Ii ahvavsworks l leamedthisfiornmv

conversation,
"We'rehavingan interestjng

NaturalPuAFiend.who usedthatlineall lhe time With Mys' No 9, andmv MLTR lastlveek,I leaned

overto a nearbytableandtoldthem:"We'replayingspinthecellphone.andwe knoweachotherloo well

question
theTRUTHaboutan,"_
Comejoinus?"And evenlhoughit meanttellingtotalsirangers you ask'it

$'asOL-AY, becausetherewas a femaleat our table

on trainingpivots?
So.firstoff, aretbereanypostsin thearchives
I
"Le1'sgo out and) ou canhelp
My thoughtis thatI havesomefemalefiiends And all I havero do is sa-v,

me find a newgirlfiiend,"andthey'dcomeout with me ll's a non-slimy\{a'v1()pur ii But THE\ $har'

I
WhataregoodNON-LYNG (buralso\O\
How canyou usethemto yourbestadvantage?

openeBto usein thesecases?

SE\r '\Ll

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or two anddo uch better. E

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For thetull kiss.it'sbestwith a wing.He hasto watchtheway she'sresponding

F cheekup againsiyours for the photos,and doesn'tflinch or hesitatefor the cheekkiss, thenyou go for the

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lip kiss.You do it witb a slighttease/neg: on,gi\rehim a realkiss..."
"That'snot a realkiss...come

I crimble doesa simjlarthing:wherehe sals,"You'renot sexy,areyou?I tlink you'dbe sexierifyou... "

Nicejob,Leftcoast, yourGF andherroonmate.

on sarginglatelysomeotherHBs besides

Slyle w les:

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Subject: Okay, let's stop teasing the guys in nASF

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to be SECRET.No oneqas
Listen.Whenwemov€dthe lounge,theoriglnalplanwaslhatit wassupposed

postedin ASFabouthow
to knowit existedunlesstheywerea member.But eversinceMaddash
supposed
1l
he spends havebeenopened.w€ shouldNOT be posting
mostofhis time in theLouge, thefloodgates
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aboutthe Lomge there.Everyonethinhs that all the puasare in here,exchangingtheir beststuff. andnot
t givins ANYTHING to rASF. (And that is in part true.)
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orevenmakethen thinklhatthe Loungedoesnot exist?
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GoodadviceZanandDeepblu€.

MysteryhasNO planto sellvorkshopstopeoplelopingto gel in thelounge)

(DeepbllLe,

ASF Wten I foundil it $as like a

I cameintothisworld,likemostofus bere,th-rough
Thisis my reason:

godsend.
So:

A. Jftherewereguysparadingaroruld,sayingthatall thegoodpattemswereprivaieandall ihe PIiAs were

ltjust isn'tfair to thenewbies'

then, I wouldhavebeenfrustrated.
in theloungeexchanging

Peopleljke to savi1's
B. Sjncen SFhasn'tbeenasgoodlately,lheLoungehasbecomea scapegoat

thegoodstuffther€ Sothe Loungeis blame'lfor $e

laklngawayal1ihe goodPLrAs,who only excbange

poorqualityofnASF.

It reallvdoesacconplishnorhinguseful Mvslery's
C. Whats thepointin holdingit overtheirheads?

originalinlentionwasthatno oneshouldkno\rthisexists

andC Is
it: A. Isn'tFairto FornhandleandtheguvsthereandB lncursrcsentment
So,in summary,

Style vrites:

Subject:two id€nticalnecklaces

ofyours.Bul ii is far toohardcorefor someone

I like the IDEA ofthe routine:leavingherwirh something

youjustmet,IMO. So,either:
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romanticlove-sentimental
story.Then,at theendofthe night.ask

(M),sterystyle),"You'renot a thiet ar€you?"Thenput necklace

arou,1d
herneck,comein close

asyou do this,say"thisis something

to renemberour conversation
by. Itrsstill mine.I wantit

backnexttime I seeyou" in her ear,*close(or makeoutmoreif ) ou'vealread)beenmakingout).

S$le wfites:
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Subject:Help Nightlightg- when/whatto say
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I My droughtis thatshelikesyou but is bumedouton thewholeguy dalingihing.And all wasgood,but

:l \lhen you askedfor number,it sounded

like dating.Whenyouaskedto go to coffee.it stillsoundeda little

i| rheclosertheygetto
like dating.Shelikesyou.But shehasa negativeattitudelouardsthings.Especially

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Ia not in themoodandjust doesn'twantio do it.

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go pick up XXXXX" andI'd nake whateverX)OaX was nearwhereshelives. Th€nhaveher accompany
I
you on fie erand (now,thatis definjtel),
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thestory.
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andtotallycasualYou MUST geta meering
Thalsaid,yournextmovehasto be s\'1ft.unexpected'
a major
aboutit andbackout Shesoundslike shecouldbe
away.andyounust NOT gi\,ehertimeto think
l wishl
pastthatinitialbarier andgetreallyIN' shes )ours
flake.But, it alsosoundslike ifyou canbreak

knew more abouitbe sargeitsell

("1'mrunningoutthedoor'but I promised1d call' or

An)a{ay,cal1,givevourselfa tjme constmint
haveheraccompan)
something cool(liketh€ Cube)'leaveon a cliflhanger'and
like that),do somerhing
can
possibleafteron sometotall) trivial erand (mavbeshe
you eitherrjghtthen(ifshe'stiee)or assoonas
impress
a v/oman\opinion)(low' voute not lryingto
helpyou pick oul apair ofjeansbecausevouneed

or darehet.

k' o$ s hat
andhavea goodinstinctfor lhis stull Let me
Justmy thoughtsYou knowthe situationbetter

you *ink.

SOle writes:
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Subject:BadboY:Aguilera story?

Hey Man,

you nentjonedlhe ChristinaAguilerastory'Wlat is that?

I waslookingat an old postofyours

when
timewritingolrtandfil] in fte detailsLike'
Also. dude,yourposisandstoriesrock But rakevour
AIL tbos€detailsandruST $ hatyou said
youtold ustheMissUniversePU storyin Vodice'hearing

madeitsoamazingandaltfu]'Sodon\Sklmponihedetailswhenyoupost'becausealotofpeop]ehere
own sryleout oftheroulineshere-
couldprobablylearnliom thewav you'vedevelopedyour
welcom€back,nan. Thantsfor asoodtime.

Slyle wites:

Subject:StickingPoint: Isolatingthe target

Funnythatyous|ouldpostthis.Lastnight,lwentout with an HB I'd fooledaroundwith before.But,l

myself,andfoundmyselfblowingup a sevenser fburg!ys, thrcegi.]s.within 15minutes.

couldn'trepress

allthrcegirlsweresittingarcundme on the couch.Hjlarious.And abeautifulAsiangirlwas TOTALLY

intonre.Shedidn\ wanther frlendsto leave.(Oh.anda tunnythingis tharshewoulddo TAKEAWAYS

to me:she'dgo sit with anotherguyfor like five minutes,burshe'dALWAYS retum.Itwasniceto be on

the othersideofa takeawayandseewhat it was like.)

Anyway.thepointisr I didn'tfuckingisolateeither.And whenler iiends pulledler awayto leave,I didnt

cone downto a CRUCIAI point,lvhereyou cantjp the

tellhertojust sta],andl'd driveherhome-Sarges

balancein yourfavoror loseit altogether.

And youknowWHAT to do whenthatmomenicomesln ) our

mind(sometimes though)andHOw to do it. Theproblemis: havingdreBALLS to do it

not consciously

(andnotbe aftaidofpossiblepublicrejection,whichprobablywon'thappenan}lva-v).

So,a suggestion:ln lefs starta tuead on ISOLATION.This is REALLY kel for

thePU Encyclopedia,

whatwe do-And it wouldbeniceio havea list ofoptions.There'stheMysteryNightlightg

line in dljs

ilrcad. There'ssuggesting the clublounge.There'slookingfbr youriiends. There'sdoingthe

e)rploring

Cube.whichrc oneelsecanhear.There'stherunes.Lets starta threadon thisin lhe PU Enc),clopedia.

it wasso luckingON)t lostthegirl I

I failedoutheretoo: losttheIiB (still kickingmyselfbecause
Because

*as witht andendedup sleeping (who'sbeentryingto hookup with ne

with someHB belowmy standards

for a year)just to salvagedle night. It didn't salvaseitl

Stlle writes:
Responders
SubjectlDealingWith Polarify

js andmpportbuilding'
thistypeol LIB But sincesomuchof mv game cold-reading
Okay,I canrecognize
themeffectivelyAny suggestions?
I haveNOIDEA how to handle

andi madea h ueconlmc :

at the car I
wash' wasn'ieventryingto PU A womanlalkedto me'
Today,
do for $ ork"
andatlentronlo detail I bet'rou'regoodat \\hatever]ou
"You seemto havea lot of focus

AndSbestartedtogooffonthecommentandreaclagainstii'solpojntedoutlhalsheNaSapolar$
ln 3
polanly shedisagreed
responder' with rhisanddidn'tlike bernqlur
And. ofcourse, being a
responder'
who doesn\like bein-qlutin a bo\"
used ournew line' so' you'reibe typeofperson
box.0\ightlightg.l
sh'
llke everythingIsaid tlo$e\er'
she didnt getjr') An)^vay'she\lasprett'vpslcho:she entoffon
bul
sr\ thrs r ou

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when her carwas she
oone' wassiill there'saying"Ho\r caf )ou
didn'tuantto leave E\'en
$hen }txr
said it 'Howcan'voujudgeme You {ere cond'cending
just meln€ .Yousmiled when )ou
lne of'6ing \LP lineo'sitn
comment impliessuperiority Andihen'gelthis sheaccused
saidii...Your
ha ha) B$ical!)- e\en
responder- 0 rold her I didn'tevenknowNhatNLP was'
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rcsponseshemadejustSbowedmoreandmorewhatapolarityrespondershewas-andho$laefie|5t
it $ou]djSi setherolTfurihe.'
to pojntit out.because
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commentl madeaboutherwas.
WITII A POLARITY
but HOW DO YOU GAIN RAPPORI
Now, thisHB in parricularlS Psycho'

RESPoNDER?wlratdoyousay?(Doiheyenjoytheconfrontation'ordo)oujusttalkabouithincsother

thanthenselves?)

SEIet fites:
a Hustler
Subiect:What I LearnedFrom
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for thefirsttime everbya HUSTLERwhousedOURPU/Cold-
Nearmy housetoday,l $'asapproached
!r
Theyevenuseda lot ofmenralism.
readingteclniques.It wasamazing.
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washere,we weniup anddownVeniceBeachto getour palmsrcadsothalwe couldleam
WhenMaddash

But we werebetterthanmostofthe palm-readers

cold-reading. Thesegu)s
there-ln fac!,theysucked.

howeverwerePUAS:onlytheirobjectivewasmoney.not love/sex.Ifanyoneis aroundSantaMonica

today,let ne know:you shouldexperience

this.

in a turbanandrobe.Thefirst approached
Therewereiwo. BothIndianiooking,dressed rightawaycold'

reaoLlg:

FAKIR l: "You area happypositiveperson.Your forehead

tellsme so.Rightthere.You arehealthyon the

outsideandyou haveagoodheart.Butlou haveonebadhabit."

Thenhe offeredto readny palmandtell memy badhabit(greattakeaway),

bul I nlovedon.Thenthe

andsaidbasicallythesame$ing. He added:"Youthinkioo much.Thisis not

secondfaklr approached,

Thenhe saidthe otherguy\{ashis student.

good.You shouldnot wony so much.I seeit in yourfor€head."

BeforeI couldrespond. on a ball of paper,rolledit up,andput it in ny hand,.

hewrotesomedring

FAKIR 2: "WI]aIis yourfavorilecolor?"

I toldhim blue.

FAKIR2:Blue is good.It represenls

success. cometo you soon.
You will havesuccess

Thenhehadrneunrollihe paperin ny handandit said"Blue"on it. This is thetrick fron theBig Bookof

MentalisnthatINloSE posted.

FAKIR2:Whatis yourwish?what do you wantin your life...Al, you wanthappiness.

(Hewritesit dowlr.)

You will havesuccess, (Hewritesit downagain.)|NOTEFROMSTYLE,

Fomrow until September2005.
 2005lS THE DATE THE GAME wAS RELEASED.INow, q'riledo$n
2006:ODDLY SEPTEMBER.

yourfavorilefruit.

On theolhersideofthe paper,he coversup thecomerwjth his thumb Thenhehas

I '\rite down"banana."

nreput my thumbthere.He coversmy thunbswith his,asksmeto blow on thethumbsthreetimes.I

removemy fingerandthewordbananais therein pen.in bishandwriiingHOW DID HE DO THISONE?

I $'asnlwatchingcloselyenough.ANYONE KNOW THIS?

I'm stumped.

'l
Thenhe sayshe'llreadmy palm.I tell him I baveno noney.Bur.beingpslchic.he says. kro$')ou have

a pieceofplasricin yourpocketthatwill work in thatnachinerightthere"

fiorn]rim.)He picksup rny palnl He sa]sI'llli!e 1obc

I go to gethim $20.(I thoughlI'd learnsomething

at home.thatsom.one
87.Thenhe writesthenumberon my hand.Thenhe saysthatI amnot comfortable

diedthereanalis not makingit easyfor methere.But I havea lot ofgoodkamrx.so rr is possible

lo

neutralizethe spirit. He saysthat I get angrysomeiimes,and canhavea badremper He e) s dtar I loot

healthyon theoutside,but I amnot healthyon theinside.Heasksif I e\er ha\ea p3inin El |5dc,

WlenIsayno,heasksifmylowerbackbur1s.Thenhesalstlattherearet\ogitlsqt|oh^tEe-

olderandoneis younger.Oneis goodfor ne, theotherisjealous.Hc sa)s therearEr$o gu!: h dt E:'

oneis a friendbut theotherisjealousandwishesharmto nrc He sa)sthathe \\illtellme thenameoftl* I

goodgirl. He asksifl knowwhichgirl it is.I tell hin it'stheyounge'.Hc sals he $ illluess he. nameHe

Thenhehasnlcwritedo$nhernAmeI
I
writesitinaballofpaperandputsitinmyhand.Iholdontoit

wriie it down.Tten he talksaboutGod,andasksme whenI pmy.He sarsthatGod!\atchesoverme Then

!t
he wriiesdownGodon a pieceofpaperandrolls it up. Tlrenheputsthatpieceolpaperin m,vh,nd Hehas

me dropbothpi€cesofpaperintoanotherhandandthen,sureerough,onesays"God"andlhe othersa]s

thegirl'sname.

so I call him on il gently lnterestinglv,

I knewhow ihis wasdone(easyswitches/sleiglts), he s$'ears
to

thathe'duseGod'snamein savingthisobviouslie
Godthathispowersarereal.I foundit interesting
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rI Anywa),,he doessomemorestuff (I musttry to remember'lotsofgood cold'reading).
thenhe writes
!|
elsein a ballandcrumplesit up andputsit in my hand.
something
it Fakir2:Namea flower.

Faklr2:Ah. thesun.Thisis good-Thesunis beautifulandgiveswamrlh.Nameanotherflower.

MerA dai$,.

Fakir2:And another1]ower.

Fakir2rNow,therose,thisis yourluckyflo\ver.Unrollthepaper.

And.of(our.e.aRerllxeegues.c.:tdoe.sa)Ro,e.1K"rdofl-lethe'oJe'principle.l

F Thenhe givesme a cheapring,wiih a little coloredstoneon it. He sayslhatir is for love.Heputsit on his
|.
, finger,with thestonesidefacingdown.Thenle sayswlen I seethegirl I love,I shouldhugherandpress

EI the sroneon her shoulderasI do.Thiswillbrins goodluckin love.Thenhe sivesit to me.

a
z An).way,dis wasa GREATsargeanda GRIAT hustle.lt uas so tuckingsimilarto\rhatwe do.He talked

so fasthe didn'tgiveme a chanceto speakor denyhim;he did greatmagic;andhe did cold-reading

that
I
And he got my money.l'm surehe doeslheexactsameroutineto everyone
keptmy interest. too.Ary'lvay.
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nentalisn/cold-reading
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stufffor us here.Bur,to note,I knewhewantedmoney.so my guardwasUP.I'm surethatsometimes
whai
I
we domusiputtheHB\ guardup whenwe cone on with TOOnuch TOO fast.
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Funnily, aftertha! I went to rhe car wash.And ihe guy there,asusual,pointedout nicks andscrapesand
t
stainsin my car,t),ing to talkme into gettingthetull car-cleaning
package
lor S40.Tten be loweredit io
FT
why I wasstupidto stickto theregular$10wash.I heldny ground,but
$30,andtoldme all thereasons

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Subject:Oxytocinpattem to work on

themhere l'n thinkingofushg tlis pattemas

posted.sndsummarized
I readabunchofarticlessomeone

attaction Belowisjust a summall'oftheartrcle

kino,andcreatehardcore
a $'ayto phaseshift,escalate

Let'swork ihis into a solidpattemhereandpostil in thedictionary:

rhatthereis d big scienritic

" I wasreadingan articlein theSciencesectionofthe Times.andit seerns
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tiendsinresearchingwhycuddlingfeelssogoodlttumsoutthathumansha\et\rodifferentjersotndes: I
And rhenano$erslo$d
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a motheis caressor a lo\ cr s embnce -{nd tl|6
setof nervesthatyouuseto distinguish
responding
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nervesarcsensitive
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pinches. 1()guidehunansto$ardspeople$rth \thonrthe) arecomfonable
And theyexist.evolutionadly, E
andsafe The) did a studyon a wornan\rbo hadlosi
thatthetouchis non-barmtul
andto giveihe message I
herlouchsense-youcouldhltherwith a hanmerandshewolLldni feelit- buiwhentheyslo{l}- brushed r
sensationlOF COURSE.EVERYTIMF YOIj
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codcx.the same
contextofthe touching,andthatsetofnenes is hookedintothe 1ionl partofthe insuLar I

And whenthesenervesare
by visuallyevokedromanticloveor sexualarousal'
areathat;sactivated I
triggered, a chemicalcalledOxytocin,whichmakesusfeelgodabouiihe personwho causes
lheyreleases

huggingand
crealingabondbetqeenthet$o peopleThis is whv' chemicallv,
theoDtocin to release.
II
nentalprocesses
ox)1ocinactuallydecreases
touchingis thebestway to endan argunlent; 3ndimpairs

resultin greater
i
memory.(lt's why nake up sexis alwaysso good) Also.higherievelsofox-vtocin I

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testosleroneandesirogen.So womenthey sayare far more afTectedby touch thanmenbecausethey have
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higherlevelsofesirogen.fhey alsorespondto the sametouchdifferentlyat differenttimesoflhe month.
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is high duringovulationevena slighttouchcansendshiversup anddownher.And
andwhenesrrogen
I whiletestosterone the sexdrivein bothmenandwomen,whenthat s coupledwith estogen,it
increases
t actuallycreatesan actualdesireto be penetraled.Thar's*'hy womenneedmoretouchand foreplayto get to
t for thatafterglolv
oxytocin,whichis responsible
theoxyioc;n.An orgasmalsoreleases
thesex,to release

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feellng.Sothe,vsaidihatwhenpeoplecomplainthattheyneverfeellike havingsex,it's because
theyare

stuckin arut. Havingsex,evenwhenyoudon'thavethedriveto do it. will actuallygiveyouchemicallya

geatersexdrive,whichis wh)rmanywomenastbeygetolderftndthatthemoresextheyhave.themore

I for \r'omen
society.especially
theywani-Thepointofall this,theysaid,is thatwe live in a iouch-siarved

I witldrawn
And a womanwho is notreceivingenougltouchbecomes
theyhavemorcestrogen.
because

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And, for everyone,
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in thissituation.
otherwords,youNEEDEDa ride.You NEEDEDa placeto stay.Ifyou weren't"helpless"
t
Takea cab
)'ouwouldn'thavegottento spendthenightwithher.Sowe needto CREATEthesesituations.
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to thebarsothatyouneeda ridehome.Or PRETENDlike yourfiicndsleftwithoutyou andpickup vour

7 carin themorning.

F
7 ll yo- rail ro ger he .p to you' o.a e afre_ rhis b.t Lnow _t s on,
:r lhen P R E T E N Dl i k e you locked yourself out, and hawe to vait unEir the

E r:nrll^rr! rn lhese nake-or-break situatlons,

t especially when you're lhis 'strategized helplessness" can

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styie writeB t

subject: When HBa go GM

Every nor and then, you approach an HB, she gets sexual

.righE aw"/ ^-rh !"'. Noc rrv"9 or go kino, but simPIY

belng very open and frank and ioking about sex. I don't know if I need

to give exat\ples, but r,re've all met them: right avay/ thel start

re_u ,9 dirry or s h o w l l o o L ' h e 1 * o s s o r b e ; a o super frank abou! sex.

And, this does NOT mean jusl that :!'s what

lhey do, somelines even own prrdisf4ess.

Alway, the question is !his: Ilo'1l do YoU respond when ine:{3 s:a:::s

sexuaL talking right away. Because, {ith THESE t}rpes cf ione', ii des

NoT nean you're in AT ALL. Because right now thev']I ialk the !alk,

but not !,alk the walk. The two responses are:

1. You conrinue the sexual talk. But lhis means lhat vou are playing

HER gane, and ii: seems like you are gerting ExcrTED bv it, so

inmediately you're eiected in her mind as anoi:her hornv AFc Loser'

2 . You shu! it do'rn or ignore it. Bu! this is bad too, because lhen

are shoving a lotal lack of sexualitv. You are dry, boring, sLale,

not sexual- You've killed the d)'namic and rapport.

Other options are:

1. cold-reading. rn other words, you point out to her holr she does

this, anal say that a 1ot of people who say lhis are usuallv the least

sexual, while lhe girls who seem totally prudish and shv are the mosE'
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what are the observations of olhers here o n women who go GM on YOU

wonen do you think they are? turd ho!' do you

usually handle it?

StyTe wtieeg t

Eubject: when She Brings a Friend

/ja fr o od

po Sin e

'16- cla'c h6o- ^'t ..n t.r .11i 16 Use

r__'d rr- -r'oh ''r:r seemed

N^^ c}jF cm-ilc ^rd q^wc ehFie

hrrn-jnn r fricn.l r m clre thle is because her ol'!n anxielies are

kr.k,rd ir--she doesn t knou me and hasnrt seen me for t\{o i{eeks. {ls
'n-q F I M ? w h a r d o - s F l f . 1s _ a n d f o r ' . f e r a - e -so1-rh-ng r4echanisn: B L.

c i< }\r^,,dh ,n | 'h nli a ihF/F

hasn'r been a clear SOI {jusl a presumed one)/ you canrl really shut
2. Obviously, it's easy to go along, vrin the friend's approval etc

But, because she is busy and I am busy, I vant there !o be some tl?e

of physical closing tonight. How do you deaL qith the friend's

presence here? I vould jusE bring another PUA, but can't thlnk of rhe

.gnl perso- w'o can do lasr " u'lrgn now

styLe add' t

crea! Lesponses, and so varied. Anyuay, a fetr notes of clarlfica!ton

first: since !/as her sussesrion and her idea (she did all
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Ehe ol on Lp aEter n-er -n9 d'd no hawe tl e oo ion of be'ao
ir - --.rd. -r 's
., r, rh...r | l6 llane I hou_dn r ha.e

let her have i!, but o! the olher hand il's nice for her !o have the

perception that she is chasing me and asking me ou!- shels Korean, but

pre!!y much vestern-minded. Very oulgoing and flirtatious. But mavbe,

as advised here, email was too I M P E R S O N A Lt o be making plans on. Good

I use i- wr'n -L s

I also vish I read lhe posts on sarging others while I'm wilh them

have been frm, and made lhem vaLue lhe conpanv more Plus jr
would

would have been so easY.

Like Alessandro says/ lhe friend was ro check me ou! T! neant I was

in, but it i,ras also for safety/ I think. My nistake here mavbe was

STOpPING the sarge once she vtas trying !o cfose me on a da!e/ so that

I didn't sor or build more confort/rapporl elc on the olher hand, I

discowered that she just got divorced (older rhan she looks-3Q) and
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t .d .qF lhF f, rcnrl ic : <h , , cs

I unavoidable and work within that constraint.

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All wenl &'e11. The friend clicked lvith ne, of course. And ir rorked

-_r- I L....' 'r ldr_n9 q. en roa co the

friend. And after: 9oin9 out, we all \rent back to my house. Here's

vhere I wasnrt prepared. Lots of kino, sone drinking, bur every time
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d try ro 9- s a_r together on d ger up Lo

do soierhing o! 90 snoke o clg. r .cl k- a lhreesore /"s possibte.

buL I didn L know how to slrlng ir. I didn'r know how ro TLANSTTTON
'ato it. I fel . l I'e r' s uaE rh^i, ni9 our on a ^ork 9"rr even ,
and something COULD llAvE happened if I knev ho\,r to work it. r was in

control, I upped rhe romance vibe, I kino,ed the hel] our of borh of

them (witb no negalive lesponse), buE tust couldn't fagure ou! rhe

lransiEion steps into threesone. It also sucks because, if the friend

hadnrt been lhere, it would have been a full close for sure.

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lrho ni]l lowe nre. I'm at a
z danqerous tipping point here: beEween

I f ---c..-r-

I ncYts tsi mo

a ,!le v11I th-s game rvrP be ?asrer:ed? co man/ I -rle piec--.

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a subject: Re: Earged beach, coffeehouEes. bar (1ong day FR)
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Some quick thoughls:

gol beltef as you went. Nice job on the approaches and the
Your sarges

from reading this is that ir is time for vcu to CEANGE vour

r4y lhought
You hawe a lot of material' vou hawe a lot of
rearning process cool.

you hawe games anal slories Now, stop memorizing' and starl:
lines,

on some big chunks From lhe sound of this' vou ar'e not
!,orking

\,/omen right IoW, if you asked for the nunJtrer TEAT

CALIBRATING the

you should have gotten it a! leasl a FEW tlmes When you

nany times,
*c]ose, she shouldn'! have been SO surprised so/ before
went for the

*close, and escaLating kino? More lmportanc an

the were you kino'ing

general, are You looking for IOIS?

a se!, I l(Now uhen a woman i3 going to give

For example, vhen I'm in

if I'm pulled out of a set' I kno{ wher'e I am: if

me her number. and,

it's time fot a #close, a *close, or even if I n e e d T W Om o r e n l n u i e s

anal rapport tha! i! would take for a # Speakinq

II
!o build

of this,
the comforl

hos are your r{APPoRTskills? Are vou getting rapport tjth a

these girls? I

i! sounds to ne, that thev enjoy vour companvr like some

II
Righ! no{,
seelng
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funny guy vou meet a! a bar' And you nighl enlov
randon unusual

hrm again !,'henever you go !o the bar, because he makes it fun ano I
personality But you Nouldn't leave him in vour house arone'
gives ir

lesbian 9ir1 sounds l i k e a miseed opportunilv. For what

BTw, that
Irm not sure -hawen't s a r g e d l e s b i a n s There as a subrexL
exactly,
but thev were
there that 1 can'l Pack uP on b e c a u s e I w a s n t t h e r e /
A. Betler read their

B. Be a guy who they would trus! alone in f hpi r }j^r'eF

StyTe writes t

Subject: The Paradox of Sarging

For me/ lhe best way lo ge! laid and get *closes when I ga

seem like ir) rhan PU chicks. otherwise, you seem sliny

s o w h a t a r e T E C H N I Q U E Sf o r this: to 90 oul to PU but not look like

you're TRYING lo or e v e n W A l i l TT O p U . L i k e it's an afterthought, an

acciden!, or tbe HB turned out io be so special that it l]arsT EAPPENED.

.- Fv^mnl p Trl I ral I dr rl < rh:, I c^. ! . -. guvs

..hF -,,i oY Trll }j:w6

me a drink or talk to me. what are ways ro ENTER a bar or club and nor

scan for HBs/ but hawe something MORE II"IPORTANT or MORE FLrN !o do?
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..each

and

c, /rr ' r-t rxclLed

<-,i. - ..r r. il- ' 6,-

there to talk with the DJ? what are oLher equivalents of this in rhe

StyTe write€:

subjecE: OMG: Grey PubeB, wTF? E

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old. But lrhen I ven! down on her, she had GREY PUBES. I sreat: i.-:i t€:e
I
like dark at the rools, bul lhen went into these rispy ?rel r-r-s h:t?
' l .'Ess :::at

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dq!:r:n- ri... and d bre-.r 'ob
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someone I'd met before, so rhere uas really nothing that anyone wouLd
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occh
- - goiro fo s a. -ea.-ng my collecr_o or w:o dnd
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StyTe writes:

Subjec!: Routineg with your Ex

I'lhatever they are TRYING !o be, r always say r had an ex who made them

pale in comparison.

Example. vent out with a girl wirh tarEoos and a lip piercing. I Eold
her nr F! h-d f^,,r hi6,.iroe ^n ha, two on the upper/ two on the

F
a
lover.

9uy6 think
This made her

it's exoticr
suddenly

for
s e e m N O T S O E X T R E M Ef o r

me, i|s tame and sedate.

me. I'm

Not wild
sure most

and

a coun!er-culture enough.

a This works in any siluation: she's a srripper, rhen you had an ex {ho
I was fenale and actually nanaged a reat cool srrip club in Ny.

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Also,

how hard
T always use lhis

it was for
for

a beautiful
beaury

girl
destroyers.

r dared,
Discussing

ho!./ norhing
(rhis

came easy,
is truer

hov
people would give her stuff for free and lhen expecr somerhing in relurn
F and rhen rl"ey drdn g-1 it. rher o oe nean to h-. . Erc.

F
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' 016 rnlArcs
if they ever
.q
ask why you and the

ro you _s lhv you bot n.otuected

girl broke up, say lhat

and d" ed for

lrhar is
qo .ong,

a and discuss the good things instead. I learned this from Sreve p

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Subject: smu stop being a pllEEY

I,11 respond more in delail, but, m a n , you hawe lo go ou!

or myself or NighLlight9 or Maddash or IN1oSE or Grimble

I want you to sEE hou the game uorks. To really know lhat r'romen DO !'ant

ib.

That said, before even reading your posl (which is more aboul

to close) , have a bigger problem:

Yo,r make girls LIKE you, bu! not wAliT vou Do you end up being f iends

wilh ]o!s of girls, but pul in the gay friend categorv whiLe Lhev teLl

you aboul olher guys? I N O T E F R O I 4S T Y L E , 2 0 ! 6 : T H I S P A R T I C U L A RP o S T F F I

SUBSEQUENTLYLEFT MYSTERY'S LOUNGE AND CAME OUT CF IIIE CIOSETI
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To blo\t thp ;\":':'
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You have to NOT BE AFFAID !o make a girl NOT IIKE voL.

THING when you phase shift/go caveman/go fo. it. iI

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Finally,

(clearLy
always

these
a s s u m e E V E R Y T H I N Gi s

girls did) , and proceed

an IoI

accordinglv
and rhat sj]: ices ;::__ t:'
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styTe vftites,
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Su.bject: Badboy on competition for Mlss cloatia 2002.'" I
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Nice, dude. Fucking golden You are so po{erful since tha! Miss croatia

universe sarge. You knot vhy? Because fou loiow you can do it no You

are NoT intinidated. Beauly is a SHTT TEST: rf vou Let it intinidate I

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P you, lhen you failed and don,t ge! Ehe prize. I rhink thar wha! worked

l. for you more than anyrhing, is NoT BEING FAZED ar aLt by atL rhese

l. beautiful women around. By being the pRrzE yoursetf, by being the mosr

F rnteres!ing/

your
by grear

badboy lriEh your

neggjng,

spirirual
by having

side.
grear vatue, and by conrrasring

fhis rs qha- rhe gamc is Bt__T for. _ didn r gel y o u r BF DESTROYER.

Could you post the complere version, untess r skipped ower 1t an text.

?he fact that you were there reading a plalboy in rhe

walked by? that,s hilarious.

are laking this game to a new tewel: naking me rhink abour r,A, and
all the similar environmenas tha! one coutd be raking advanlage of.

F
? Here's the main questlon: r be! lhar the approwal of SoMEONE one of lhe

tt 9ir1s, one of the guys gor you inro rhls gisanlic ser and gave you

a VALIDATION early

they bring you in

on. Who was rhat person,

a s A P P R O V E D ?D o e s r h i 6
if thexe was one, and hor, did

nake sense?
:-

z StyLe writes.
a Subjectr In Responge to Style's SeLf-CriEicism
a
I I went ou! ro a small house parly ronigh!. And r btet ir up. The rhang I

? realized is Ehis: i4hen I use the marerial rhar |we tearned here, peopte

t are blovm away and I become rhe center

obey the princrples and fundamental ideas

of rhe parry_

and arritudes
When I jusr

a pUA, bur
Lry Eo

I of do
NOT focus on maEer:ia]/ I do nor do as wett. perhaps r am impalien! to
I ge! to the finish line. And, at the same !ime, r wonder if the finish
t line is a realistic goal/ because I rruty haven'! mer anyone !,ho is

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StyTe wtites:

subject: FR: A hilarious blunder fucks up the nighE

_Ib]e -nd - have

w h o l e M U L T T P L EA P P R O A C H
-ook:ng purpose
are sPEclF-CALLY fo'iwo-s' s of HBs, lhe

insran! date before) .

I 'm sure that afler a

while we'_l b- dD-e co do Ehis eve y olnER ime

q^ r:er nid}ji frrer u. h:\/F ,l,nner \,"i!h Ross,f at a hotel nearby.

-
Really inreips .n9 conrelsaElor T dve a orand 'ret ooir o. op'

want to lest out, so l use tha! !o o p e n a B L n i C Ho f groups ALl gooo a:

my warm up set/ I even give lwo girls Jugglerrs gf rest, and the:/:a-rt

pass- So I suggest a trcommitted lhree way relaLionship' Ther- -!a'ei: cc-

up with a BF lest for me. The queslions are: lrsexy moiheriuck€:, sr.!P.r

badass cool, or supercatifragilisrr.ce4)ialadcclous,':L:h:, ::a::a.o c

Mexican" and "sexy dancing, phone sex, or extra glt1 .or.ec: asrei.

are: sea_ymf, sushi, sexy dancing I gel en all)- Anytay, Grirble aod I

stay in lhe set too long_-no! really exlraclable because thev're elih

other people, and one is a major obstacle rhen 'e + close and leave

After, we come up with a code: "Should we go fand L--- (l,arrv, lance,

erc),,means I E A V Er , ' s h o u l d w e g o f l n d s (sam, stan, etc) ' (means

slay--just making our lime more precious to them)

Then we qo to our new favorite sarging bar' !!e approach a three se! Nith

glys, and joke around. A11 good. we run a nice set. Anywav, ve exit. Bad

move. Because we didn't realize how IN i're were and how TIPSY thef were,
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mtil tbey leave and grab us to say goodbye. Next time, foLlowing

cunwitch's rule ro push it.

ir af -r we seE. cmal. do op.nion opaner . dno .an pd

"lk.
- ' 1 1 m b 1 e'
s

is married with children. So t./hat? This, we realize, is OUR lwo se!.

T-lkind ah. 'r l^ a '

L:-6Qil6--- rrt ,.6 - c 'a. r:a- h:h,t rL. c

"h^

sp-':' ."1 'v dad Dsvcr ic sEufr and he or . c.irLble is massag_ng n:s 9.

and talking dirty, I rhink. I m nor SURE if |n in for a ONS wirh my

9r!r. !u, wr- l]s grrr. sne .tcans on

my arm. When sbe does this, all of a sudden, both Crirdrle and I realize:

It is on. so here's what ve do.

when it comes time to leave, they ask us to ualk rhem Lo Lhelr cax. We

a say, hoLd on, se have to find our friends flrs!. Then we confer around

t the corner on a plan to ge! them to ny house. So this is THE NEW PLAN:

a h- e-l Ehem our frrends -.11, .r d ov ue "reed a rid. ho1-. Ecs1.

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a We r'ralk them to our car, each arrn in arm with our om 9ir1. ryiy taige!

a says/ I'wow/ it's flnny how we paired off into couples.', I lake that as

7 an IoI, and realize i!'s on with mine too. It's a convertrble, and we

a
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r roc^eL

a f^r nw kFwe

a hw<al f ^6.^ . ... r 9_-

inro my IL.l:n9 holse. H-'- | or searching lor r1 l-1s ^:rl 5e o6-Lseo

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mean, she is pregnant--oh my god/ this FR is dark in a weird day.) So I

'iv- he! nome, dnd rhe|om'ba L Eo -ke

-
okoy oro goL -n. r^nen rhel leave. b -.< .n o m1 house tr'l'

crimble wails for her downstairs. she returns.

q^ ehF rcirrrnq hrrr ehF h:e l-ct state roo and doesn't want lo come

| | I a_.1-,--ir d .r \-.-. rr r. beceuse

I wasn't there. )

n .F Fnd n. , p-l

because we did

styLe ttiEes
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subject: David D'6 FriendE ga$bit

There's one David D tactic I'm confused about. He suggests closrng i:i {
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e-vin. sha'.i m:Lp - dlpal -r-d
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makes her wonder why you're no! allracted to her. In my mind, Lhis could

i-rir
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To ne/ using the friends thing would uork best onLy as a push-pull o.

confusion technique. For example, totally hitring on her or goang GM,

lhen suggestang meeting as frlends- or, there's lhe line he uses, "1e!'s

meeL for tea. If nothing else, you seem like you'd make a grear friend "

Tha!'s a little better because lhe "if nothing else" is a little bil of

an sol
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StyLe writes t

Su.bject: A Short Routine of David'E: Can We Improve It?

-h-s -s . rour. e lat Mysrely ano I edI ed from Ci__r,s J. er o, Dov d.

Hts srr-e .s Lo dsk ce*!arn que6Lio.s eorly _-r a rela -onsn.p. Ll -

"ro
r.:. hF, :n 6 hF, anquplc li'./
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spontaneous. If she says ye6, then laler, when she doesn,t want to do

F somelhing (like go home wilh himr, he gets upseE at her for lying. It

F goes hand in hand wilh the folloving routine. Mys and I have used it,

F
a
but there is something vrong with it lha! te can improve. First, here it

a DU8: Whar do yoL .n:nk are rhe three mosl imoo rar r rbings in a
a 7F l:r ,.hc. in /a.lil

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- go- ^ ou- or r_ree r_gn, .

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F -hen te]] chem rhal lhe co recr Hones.) 1 usL o d Despecr.

il 'rose
!l -rh.n -.lk .bour rhemes. and no4 .- rney 'e d_l presenr. evelyrhrng

!o-10^s.
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 For some reason, I tike !his. Mys and I BOTH used it lrith lro sarges,
and they remembered ir and broughr i! up later, so it

I also think iys good tife advlce in generat. r s nace ro get sone
quality relationship advice from Lxls comrnunrry.

StyLe trites,

Subj ect: lures

Perfect opporruiry for the cotogne opener

co to store, put rvo (I u s e H u g o B o s s a n d i l a p p y ) o n

each {risr. Use
opener in street around s c o r e / asking HBs t o smell ir rc see shlch:s
betlei. Then pu! a ma.k o n l h e v , r i s r rhey Like each r ime.
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Then keep the winner on one wrisr, and rry a ne? cotogre cn :be ciber- E
Until you find

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rhe rr.!TIMATE CoLOGNE FoR YoU thar will nake rhe i|Bs seal
at the knees. I|s fuMy, I nolice coar about s percenr
actually ger weak ar
of the girts
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lhe knees smetlinq the colognes somerimes.
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SXyJe writes, I

Subject: Troubleshooting: ,tuggting & Car Culture =

1. Juggllng: I hawe tike FBs alt over the vortd.

I
r atso have girts I am
sarglng all over lhe wor:td. There are tike maybe a dozen FBs. Then rhere
are probably like 40 !o s0 sarges aroud rhe tl.or]d lhar l,ve tefr hali-
finished. rhen, rhis ieeekend, r 9or like slx (a11 vilhour
numbers me
using anythinq but PURE ATTTTTTDF- it was fun) . And Ar,L are of quarlry
 women- But I have NO line !o call all these, to stay in loucb wilh alL
''--- i- F1 r I r 1 -1 o
t-v I io'- f fl.s!

rh-no Io. sore HBs o'd I jusc lel p- t-cl .1good so.ges and HBs

d q-.nc-1 l^,w rhF L':vcidA

car!1n9 a!r rne !croses/sars-s rr

1 Th a br iroe mF l. mv cc..n.l

try for same day closes. And I ,ras on fire this weekend as far as

F, M, A, and #/*close. ilowever, lhis is LA. It,s a huge car

cullure. If I'm in Santa Uonica and the EB is fron SiLverlake, we

_:vo
r lcrs, ') TIIAT

At the same time, people a r e A L W A Y Si n groups with designated

l-iv..F Ar. i 'e v-.v hr,,i -- r -6.1 ' r -. .-w is

r\ic
-ives -
easr,: evFrvore neaIbl, ano ev6r/o iook o cab subrdy. e d

r.- a house for 5 ninures to show an HB some

'rIe rino
sar:ging in car cultures a huge diffrculry compar:edto waLking
cities? Suggestions for i,A'

t
,

a
? 9ty7e writeg t

il Eubject: To Ge! To LIe! llouse

t
:l Made up on the spot lhis aeekend (a variation on a line I read

EI 5one^ha.e i he ..chives'. Wor]'ed \e,t, so ood:ng iL o ry gone.

I
a Anlvay, in bar, on a good night, and one girl Is giving me all rhe

t
,
 when 1'm w1'n other IlBs she's the best in the
IOIS and watching

thin, white dress, white 9o go boots says she s

place: dark skinned,

I come with, an'I iust for the hell of at' say:

getling a drink,

"If I let you take me home lonight, il] You feed n€

look. BuL my 'onfidence }s

she just backs off and giwes me a funny

high. I say, "l'rhat do you hawe lo eat?"

She says, "ReallY? "

I say, trReally. n

she says, spinach, cheerios, rice krispaes

"Chicken,

than other lines ("tiill vou

Now I knov I am lN This w o r k s M U C Hb e t t e r

archives), because nov yourre Lalking abo'rt

keep ne" I think is in the

because she's just feeding your after alL

FOOD- Disarms ASD loglc,
eat, waiting for the
I
Then when you ask what she has to vourre

Io]/response. (You also have a c/f

ea!
out: if

with
she says she lust

me; vhal were YOU tbtnklns

mer vou'
!I
you can sav, "so i!'s too soon to

of?')

A half hour laler, I suggested leaving She

Anrray, it

my goodltrves (rounding up three +s) then

warLed upstairs vhile T said

house. She fed me (chicken and spinach) and just WATCHED

went to her

ne eat- Afler, she goes, "Are vou done?r'

And we get into her bed lt was so nrce

Then she says,
going to happen and being able to lake MY tame
jusr knowing it's

sEyfe writeg t

subjectr Re: To Get To Her HouEe

rl
!r
il
!l
F vou should kaow rhese.
w I do. Larely, I juEr s-99-s s^-L'h-ng bare.
-\6' <r-r,r-r 1..r. r- - ^1F ,i'^ '

F- - Lnd.

. -ol' r.a / rr ;f !-ir -. 14 -- rE T drd.

F -l --Lc ac t-h- !.
-,r -.. h6:r- .,-_,.. , _ .^ i

F
a
a
a
StyTe writes:
a
eubject: The Logic of Sarging
z
t
.-----K1nq aDour
t -Dr A - r, ,' I o. r. d e
"]a
a
il s6r s ho ore o
"l
y ro h_-. Bu! borr r'-es. he ,{c_oses o_

?
t n. -\ -"f

' . -^od
I a- Wha is

a ... ^L- h616 -r -- - I-'hra Eo Eravel ro poland and flnd a

ir difrrriard w.,,r firqi d:v ]-hFrF which he could have done. That is rhat

t
a
,
so, i! leads me !o the question: !o sarge or no! lo sarge. The model

here seems to be lo make as many approaches as possible. But, IMHo'

lhat model was creaied for those who tanted to LIIARN: to use openers,

to get confortable ivilh approaching women/ etc But lhe fac! rs' once

you have some skills (or maybe ewen if you don't), vou can ge! laid

from your first apProach.

vrhen I go ou! tith sone sargers/ we just stare out a bar or club an an

Fvpfw.nF There'1s also the wibe of walklng rnLo

a bar and just looking like despetale hmters t!'ho will only feel

if rhal, iilL f. '-m.n ( 1 d o L I K E a n d R E C Q M M E NpDh a t Sievre

PUA does: when talking lo his wing, he doesn't look around' 1s'.'erv

animated/ is very alpha, having a good rime, intense, not neecv, aci

eyeballing every passing llB---\ERY I I 4 P o R T A N Tb e c a u s e v o u a r e . € : : E

warched at all tines) .

Last night, I went out with a net PUA (noL online, b!: :3lealtrl4

some very important stuff fron him tha! I sl]L post o. ie rerot (E

!ri!h the express purpose of NOT talking !o anyone but ToTi-LLY

observing group/couple behavior. Try i! some Lime: see {hat is Lorxirrg

and !,,hat isn't, and see who is successful and vho 1sn'r, and see 'here

you fa1] in this. We walched two AFC losers ge! laid slnplv bv

cornering two qirls at the bar, getting then drunk, and talkirg their

ears off for hours. By the end of the night, wha! {as golng Lo

happen was just inewitable. AnaI even lhough one couple was hitting il

off and the other vasn'!, they're both going to get laid because

thatrs jusl the 1,'aYil qorks.

so I guess lhe point of lhis long ranibling posl is to question the

Logic of sarging, of naking so many approaches. The nex! lewel, I|"]HO,

is to be comfortable, enjoy yourself wheneve. you go out, lalk to

E
p
F
t
''---- --'- '-
d d

\., d art +- -e- - d - e-t ^ nir.,-6 ..r d aii

Pusn r( as rar as you .. , .s you

iE and creace Lhe atLracL-on necessary\ be duse yol o F - oy.r9

yourself and you Io{Ow you are going to get laid tonighc with her. And

chances are thal your chances will be good as 1on9 as you have lhe

F
7 transirion lrom Dar c- rb nner6ve, o yor'
'm r oL exd
ho sc ho al lhdrav-

F
!l
I

But,
rnink I

basically,
m rarbl:n9

I tust
h-.-

dor't
"rd
really like lhe
y

frame of
ry po:i is.

S A R G I N Ga n l m o r e -

c-r"-- 'i - tpcc raqh6Y -6

a o" beconing - TRUE PUA /and I onty leel like I m halfval rhere sEillr.
t qrrrc iira arirl : n|mharc.;mA but some of those numbers are on a

I
T
-

F StyTe writes:
il Eubject: Re: The Logic of Sarging
,

I
nore examples I
rl
t l-. Oul wirh a blrnch of

t
I
,
 leave and qo to anotber bar
meet every HB Thev vanl to
IlBs ioo' lrut nov it is tine
l've approached tons of
are ou! of targets
so they go, I slay and go
ro sTAy and REAp rhe re1,,ards.

sarged and her friends' a couple ASFrers meet us'

2. Meet a girl I
uant !o go elsewhere. we Leave the
There aren't any taigets, so they
qo none alone. why not iust spend
girls and go to other clubs' lhen

first place - r'ihy bother looking

the original glrls a! the
line wilh
song: "When a lreasure as Your:s/
MORE largets? To quote a countrv
for

no need lo steal one "

and a ]ifestyle (and

you really want 1]o mare this an ar!
I think if
to do is CHOOSE a
your queslion' Ozvald) ' lrhat You want
lhis answers
and befriend bouncers and I
(or, a lounge) Take yout time
bar belter,
I
barten.Iersandnanagerselc.!{aweyouxfriendsmeetyouthele'A]i{ays
all the g:irls
have a good time lhere Afways Enou and neet and tease
valks ln'
Olin rt' And everY time a new girl
there. Be THE MAN lhere
in your group' because you have cne
she sees you and lrants lo be

sTATus'Thenyoutakesoneonexomeevelynight-Thisisno!.'sar:qing,

but it is being successful'

Direc! responses:
thoughLs r enjov vour posrs
looking foriTard to hearing vour
Spirit:
qoing ou's':th
-ole 9u c BAD- mor is
Ozta,d: Tl no
ou! and not scannins tcr
bul enjoving vourserf when vourre
three),
PU is !o look as if you
said here: the bes! way to
HBs. I've alwavs

betler to do than PU-

have something
maKing it part of your li'fe' vour
Tl)Iuces: Agreed. It's about
jus! with the idea of going
al\{ays MY issue is
identity, vho vou are
each wrin a
clubs and making 12 approaches
oul and bum-r.ushing three
the learn !o approach stage
bunch of guys uhen you re pasL
F
F
F
ir
Its styLe wtiteE:

subj ecE: l,R x 3

THREE LAYS (LONG POSTI)

1^6 irr | _ne

F f 66. d. -r che

'_l -L1iic

a r/ r'4{D s assass 9 llF si ,or'or: rorl.ng or body 1-ng--9e. ^archlng

,
ni.i c---,.. e, | ..r, an HB
,

a home from rhe bar. Now, SErawberry EleLds didn't get him laid, but iL

I
a | goL -nl o hi6 omm-n-Lr ago. and then T srd'red

t remaking nyself. Now, I,ve b e e n R E I N T E G R A T I N Gp a r t s of my OLD self

t BACK inlo my NE,r self. I've also been dewiating from the tried and

a true

at
game/ taking

times, and tbey

more chances,

are working.
and trying

Her:e are
lhings

lhree recenl
tha! alnost

experiences/
seen AFC

alL

t
t
a
t
attention from the ladies. I sarr a redhead surrounded by guys and vent
E -
la-. cF .r , '- I - soc,al
t ^....- -^i^Fed to one of his friends and said,
I
z
t
"He's a player. He used to date her-' So, considering mvself a plaver

too, l decided to go for her' I started talking to her with lhe Albino

cary Coleman opener. It's something Grin$]e and I made up. I'we

posted it before, bu! if you NEED it, I can repost. Anlaay, I used

lhis to elici! her crileria for men, funny and confident. So I lust

poured on cocky/funny. We threw jokes back and forth

While we were lalking, an FB came up behind me and {anled to

leawe. l used her for social proof uith some ALpha Klno. she was

behind me, so I wrapped my arms behind my back and around her/ and

bent ower, lifting her into the air on my back l knew I hadn'! gotien

enough rapport with EBRed to exchange phone nunbers yel, buL decjded

to 90 for it anlaay. So I just said, "1 enjoved taLking to vou

"tP
should conrinue this." She was into eichanging nun!.ers, so I did m/

favorire #close: I pulled ou! ny business card, ripped ii in hali'

vrote my nunlcer, handed her the olher haLf, and thea' a::..:'_e:r":'

it, handed her ny nunber. Then, to nake up for lhe;a::i:r' : :si:::

nDo you liwe -':: :::

said, in xxxx (my neighborhood)?' No' s:' sa:i

bad, I'm looking for people to hang out in xaII a:'a:s: : :is: Efld

lhere." Sbe kind of looked durLbfounded' lhen -rok.i -':: :a'?:tg lg

number back. I dial the oLd "Kiss goodbie ..e:l{ !:::_: a:i exit'd-

Anrqay, here's where lhe art comes :n: I a.::a::_r"'i_is_ri: F1D9 to

call her during lhe week because Lhere {asn t enouga rapDoli, t:__ I
decided that this was an opporlunitv for an actuaL challenging

SEDUCTIoN. I cal1ed and made a plan for: Fridav

Nov, check this oul: on Fridav, I made plans (ith ttro hoi piv'ts

t{o frrends, who

I
Then I calLed HBRed and lold her lhat I'd be tith

were driwing- Before we arrived at ihe house' I !o1d the pivoLs ihat, I
salr, ' l " r - en e e d t o
a! the end of the night, \then dr:opping HBRed off, !o

slop by xl(L{x on the way home. rt mav take a couple hours ' T don't

know if you want !o wait atorDal or not " Then, if I was interesLed in

HBReal, Ild say, rrwetl, r have to work tonorrow r'11 just Lake a 'ab

home from HBRed's house-" Very important: advance plannang'

a
It

FT 4-'1rna| we p-_k her Lp, go lo d.nner, dnd h.n go lo a parry ac

fl . .r- c i r I u: | -oe-, - - r .c ..,i Lhen

F begin my PU. I4e talk, gather commonalities, and I elicit walues. While

Fr !e re Ealking/ I feel the attraction building aDd tbe window opening.

(HBs Eend Lo
! she does too, and says we should go to meet my friends.

F fractionale

qL. i
lhemselves

ond, as we'rc
ahen rension

wal<:ag dowa a co.__doi.

gets loo high.)

w'-er
I need !o

l-
think

d.

l facing

Then I
me, as I

trail off
say something

and kiss her.

lrke,

She's
"Before

super
we frnd

responsive:
lhem,

her
".our
lre should...

hands are
"

I? uorks smoolhly,
__

and ue go up to HBRed's apar:tment.

1r.,, 11

and deliver
<Fc
--4e

lhe line
-!qz).

I
I lold

figure
so r

lhem.

ir
--gure

s on
It

Fr
7
? tu)vay. 1on9 srory shorr is Lhar nochlng mor- happenq because I

a, dropped my game, and stopped playing nd.rd ro gal onc6 - go, rhe

a hardcoxe

l.
make out

^ed -n .nd she d-

session.

ided Ll
I vas IN, but I

L tro.
E X P E C T E Di t ,

o 9iv- i
and her ASD

I p so ."s.1,.
"_ "he d:dr
-
rl-., f. ,_ pD so I
- decide to do this for our second meeting. so T inwite her over, lell

=l
a salad), and then we'll check out a ner bar.

So she comes over but, because I'm so lazy, r don't make it to

t
the grocery store and my refrigerator is bare. So we get some take out
tl - -- ---. 'v
!r house and concentrate on showing her stuff that fits the hobbies shers

u '' '
\oLL
:|
'r. .d. - i..rr '^ \6' rj al a1i-- rnove in a-d noLe ou!, T wi ee- h-
rl
inside lhe house, and againsl lhe wa]l, and our hands are all ower
it each other. Tben r take her to the bed, and rhere s no resisrance all
I
z
,
the way to lhe end.

Afterward (and I hope you al1 do this), I interview her' I ask

wanted !o kiss me, and she savs when we sat dom at

vhen she first

cafe party and slarteal clicking mentallv' She also said she was
that

and intimidated bY the women I brought {Of coursel) She

surprrsed

that she didn'l plan on sleeping with me at my house' nur

also said

was so surprised by my ^sizer (because I'm not lhat taLl) tha! she

qent the way. So now I'm trying !o figure ou! wavs !o allude Lo
all

my size in a PU vilhout appearing like I'm bragging or showing off'

since it actually natters to HBs (despite uhat thev often say)

2 . HBNewave

keep lhis one shorL. l net her in a group of friends' ard rbea
I'11

her. TheY were talking for 20 minures aboui '.-a!

inEtantly isolated
just !o her, 'This is atr_o't:'_9 1'€! 5 F
bar !o go lo nexl, and I said

and there's a line c!'side- r'e

find an adventu]:e. " we go to a club

tell hin we're engaged l l€:: :b€ gruf I

meet a guy behinal us and I

ordain him as a preacner so tha! she can marrl' us :I'we us'd

!li1]

once before GoLD ) when he savs "Ycu lrray rs Lit'

chis marriage thing

we nake out (after havinq met just five minutes ago)_ r'e
the bride,'

hang out, make lots of husband and wife iokes, and then I take rrer I
my holel room. she sleeps over, but/ again' r DoN'T sleep
back lo

wilh her because ir's {ha! I EllPEcT' Same problem as above again

a town near hers lasL week' caLled hei

Antvay, I went to visit

a party. I Eas a13o ioined bv t{o olher girls I

up, and tnvited her to

pretiv lale, I isolaled one of the O T H E RH B s

had sargeal. we hung oul

her, and lhen look EBNewave back to lhe house I was

anal made out vith

at. She saial she was exhausted and vranted lo go to sleep,

slaying

me because I vras tired too l also suspected fiom

which was fine with

(because she wasn't all over me, LoL) that she had a bf-
her behawior

the night, r \take up and for some reason iust find

Anlsay, during
 l6i _ri/..,l h-. . ..

- n-\ -La c.--c ra--r."- 1., 1

_'r9
no e o oolr 11 -n. '-L- ---- ---- ------- .-

and calls to te]l hin, trI,11 talk Lo you tonor:row.,, Thar is fucked

up.

NOTE: IS THIS POST OF Aliry USE AT ALL? FOR SOME REASON, ITiS IiARD TO

WRITE. ] THINK I IIAVE INTERNA],IZED SO MUCH STUFF TITAT I DON]T REALIZE

DLACTLY WIIAT I'M DOING ANYI'4QRE.ALSO, THIS IS I,ONC SO MAYBE I'M

CETTING I,AZY ABOUT THE WRITING. LET ME KNOW IF YOU WANT EIABORATION

ANY\^IHERE.

3 . HBHo!sisler

,ry

place a couple days ago, and one was dropped off by his sister. His

i-r6',i - .i n- i.-r ''r /r.-i *--"r-i..ed

hair and cute body). she was also a totaf smart aes no bullshil chick,

the kind I would have failed with before asF and c/F stuff. I showed

her around the house, and we even had a ]i!l]e moment (that building
'orue-l in9) o, he .drous oa!cony. I -hink uhaE se--ed !re

deal was when I couldn't think of a response to one of her jokes. She

Me: You two are going to have lo leave my house if you're going to

talk about that.

uc. -r'cr _iL6 1r' v^. -^m, ,in Loo much abouE
--- iia' 46nin- -!.r -i. _,- rta .- ..- --
".- " d
 snile creeps across face)
Me: (look at her in eve, nod head slowlv'

I need to think of sonething qui'k- I

Allyway, as she's about to leave,

front of her brother' so I suggesr rnaL we

canr! jusr *ctose her in

Ehat nigh! Perfect' The brother stavs

all go to a party I'm going to

me her nunber on lhe wav orrt l

ower longer and is lired, so he gives

her:' we talk' build lots ol rapporl:

am lired too, and call

(commonallties, fluff); I te]1 her I'm too tired !o go out tonight;

me !o a dinner party the next nlgnc'

and she inviles

it for me at dinner lvas using group enterla1n1ng

what did

friends. I made her friends li'ke me and made the

routines on her
a litlle bit of non cheesy magic' bodv
conversaiion inleresling wilh

and challenglng questions that were fun

language discussion,

Quest.ions like:

: "If someone said to you, eat this Mcchicken

(for vegetarians)

I'm going to ki]l a chicken? i'rhat would You do?"

sandwich or else

guvs all have the sane ans er): "rf soneone

(for women, because all
the ugliest guv in the vorld or
sard, you either have to tlave sex wilh
(Yourll be surprised: one in four {omen
die, !,hich would vou choose'n

is a GREAT sex-screening queslion so you

noulal raEher diel BTw, lhis

of person dealing with )

can know what kind vou're

€topplng bv mv house to lislen to some

Anrqay, after, I suggested
stop by her house to ge'
nusic. On lhe l'av, she said she vranted to

she gawe ne a touf' and l sat down on

sone money. so we stopped lhere,
doing the cube' r felt
a couch l{ith her to do lhe culce - once we vere

her cube' I kept pausing and

r h e W I N D O I {o p e n . so, as I interpreted

Then 1 said' oYou donrl know how

losing track of what r was saying

you rlght no!' '

hard it is NOT to kiss
 . _, r s_ r ,Ls

- rool- ''
rf_s eos_er: o b-dnker o' d pur ove' \e l -.d s":d,
".d
I did the Incredible Connection pattern. Then/ after

a lillLe 'r'ore cube, I tust leaned in and we slarred making out. she

Las ar1 rosponslve, which I 10va.

r f c-fF qFtf 6vr6,-1 -..L -l .6e

'/'nl,icc-^...-...-""....for

that. Dudes, this Eook three hours--kiss, taLk, shirt off, talk, nowe

attack each other with lust and have sex within ts minutes, but to

qhoe-er Uas clrcrcrzed in Ehar lR. I hope you're readrng th1s.

, ts: Arrcr rre Lay, sn-

'Men
mastered the art of visualizalion. " !'\,bat do you mean? I asked.
.--,i..rt I --- r. - ,,
cha c1ii T .L. L

ny whole body and face/ and twisted my torso like this so you could

In lhe baEh tl e nevl doy, sr e dsr-d, iA -

)ou d nonan--er:

I said, 'A womanizer is someone \rho uses qomen for soneihing. I

don't use romen. "

''o- d sL-d?'

I said, 'a stud s a ro se wlo s h:'-d o. .o 9.1 Iemale

Artddy, s'e's ,6dl y ar dw-som- 9:r -. 9. e nF ne usual

interview after. She said she felt electricity on my balcony, rhen ]n

T r.d ll-- ^ '-,-

and kiss her because mosc auys wouldn,t. (Fuck, I wouldn,t hare had it

six months ago.) She also said I was the only guy she met l,Jhoqas

A'terr"rar:dq.a 9i!l ^ho ik-s ne t._ed Eo rL k -r rp: s,6 'o d r\e

sister Lhat I taughr guys how to Pu vonen, and told me a]] kinds of bs

about her. Evil. But, thanks to AsF, I nov know lhar all rhis does as

Thal's it for now. Next time, I am golng ro try to keep betier

detailed LRs like Fomhandle, Maniac High, and TokyoPUA do. I kno{ I

hrd i l^, ^, .^^^ -/ c,,!ff . -.t'

,, -\ rr - -La fl. ir ic ., I pmpmhp Afrefu:fd<

ie - .- 1ar-i,d ,i- 6Yn6i --6,r

I,ESS approaches and scoring #s and *s wilh far less conslstenc) bur

aclual1y ending up with MoRE HBs

What nost of you \",ho arenrt having success here need lo learn 1s: tlotr

ro oe! conforcablF exp!.ss:ng sexualr'1...

styLe writes:

subjec!: My New Flalne: Oversexed

Afrer the first tvo women I decided to add

something new to my game, deal wilh lhe ],MR I got

situations. (Isn't iE funny hov, even afler a successful lclose, r

still look back over i! !o see what I could have improved and done

betrer and pushed furlher?) Anyvay, the point is: r4Y NEW FFAME rs

T I L A T I A M O V E R S E X E D .F i r s ! off, it's been true lately Second, it lust

wor.ks for mer if I am oversexed, and act from lhac perspective (even

, i- 6.f i'a

'he's just tryins to gel in my pants/use me for sex'r objection lt's

something new I've been experimenlins with Al]d it's also a good i1'ay

i^n: Y1 _L_!

As part of lhis frame, I'm spending less lime sarqing/ and more

time on I'dales" and following up with girls 1've *ctosed just from

daily life. As I said in the LRs, I feel like Irm hilling a nice new

level, where lhe sluff is really being internalized into who I am

. ery day. -"re ooa- here is !o lino and nurru-4 vo r o/IN sexual'Lv .r d

seductiwe energy, and bring that oul in a way tha! works sociaLly. So

as you do the patterns/ginni cks /roul ines, you should be focusing on

!!ose scDr _11JE QUALI-lLs )ou already Doss'ss and briao_ o

so lhat lhey become you.

Anway, a qulck example of the new frane. I was wilh a super-chaste

<:id ehF ic ''_- er had

. 9u I Ly deuu!

sex in less than six nonths wilh a bf. We wen! back to her house, and

I said. trrl'm oversexed, so I never put pressure on anyone. I bawe no

problem at all !,/ith wailing six monlhs make love !o you. I'm just

going to be sleeping wtrh other girls on lhe side, of course." rt

didn't gel me the close, but I enjoyed having lhe bafls !o sav at.

After all, it vas true.

SxyTe wtites,

Eubject: When talking to a maEied woma!!...

...always at some point early on, use the phrase "one of mv

girlfriends.,' They usually ask about it, and rhen you can gel anto

pallerns, natural woman/ ho\,, healthy tbis is, and Major Mark's

slatistic. (Ask what percenlage of narried women said they'd hawe a

passionale one nigh! affair if there rere no consequences and no one

knew aboul it. Answer. 100 percenl.)

Anyway, did this accidentally a fe!, rimes, and made for a great

lead in inlo PU material. "one of ny girlfriends...." I'm sure others

here do this already. -.

style writee t I
subject: The Den:al Floss OPene! I
I
I
Basically, the way I do openers no!'r, is I iust ask ri3s abcu: ri-n:evei

is on my mind. This one is so ridiculous Lhai it's been nc::k:::g:

Hey guys, I need to gel your opinion on something. It's very lmportant, {

and ve need perspective. 1!'s a matter of life and dealh. I

ETc (bis build up) .. -

Flossingl Are you supposed to floss before or afler vou brush vour

teeth? (They usually act surprised; and/ in a big set, there wil-

opinion. I"Ihen there is, sav, osee. It's a

usually be a difference of

conrroverslal issue.") Then you can neg a little: hawe lhem smrle, and

check out their teeth !o see whose opinion you should lake Then sav,

abour very interesling things." Ard ihen

"My friends and I talk 90

inlo your normal PU routine.

silly, yes, but field-tested, and it never fails {so long as vou have
a
a
rl
somewhere !o go afterwards)
at
t
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Style writeB:

Eubjects: Re: The Dental Floss OPener

, r i I.F-r

_os-
yo, ,se. -L s how you ome in. E^ample: v4dk'. o - '-' hangi' o

! n an AFC Rafc-uda "o-\ scdr _d Lo s' onr of rhe

h --i.' en-. t'-s"'d,

'''. 116 n- L \d d-a. - , F_.1 lundreds

., . -4 j :, - - -.-'l
6- ic \-.... i \in

:nv rir. fhF arrbidest lrre rn the world, and l'd use it. He said,

then use, 'Nice lreather we're having, isn I it?" I,ie were in a ctly

vhere it happened !o be snowing. I walked up !o a four set and sald,

''Nrce wealher we re hawtng, isn't it? I canrr beliewe it's snowing.

errrf,rd i..law F'rf r likF fhc snolr here. It's beauljful when it's not

'. ., it) D,.h.h-..

you have the C O N F I D E N C E ,a n y t h i n g wilL work. Same, CB, walh groups.

You nust ralk to all of then, be interestingi tease all of them, be

f^7 cwc'wn.F rr1_- L_-q -l oI

Styl-e writee,

subject: Rer Solo Club Night: Part II'. 'Irm a Magician

BreakbeaE gdve vo. sole gooo adw e

In reading your FR, I have tvuo lhoughts:

tOW, it sorrds like you are staling out sets

1. Learn to calibrate.

jusr deliwering hollow malerial tha! means nothlng lo vou'

You are
jusl because it js magical saY
expecting it !o work autonaticallY

things that mean something to lou, be sincere, and ESCALATE Move

It sounds to ne like vou're lalking 'IJST to KEEp them there

forward.

you're doing this right, they s h o u L d W P ' N Tt o slaY rhere and

If

lhe convo. You bawe the Find and Meet part down; NOW rdork on
conlinue

ATTIIACT.

the purpose of something is (puLl mr- finqer

2. If you have to ask vhat

aloing it right Ralher lhan memcrize the llaes

neg), then you are no!

and ginmicks and patterns, vou should menorize the INTEN! b'hi'd i'-:- I
with no inlent, You have no PU "I

I can elaborate

interesling,
on this.

and on believing
But I

in
lhink vou geL ii

what vou re dolnl

'riorK 'n

a:d
'e:::9

:r' gerlitg

ycu doatrg
crtl
I
I
I
YoUR head and lnto THEIRS- llhen I read this' I can siE
of

this stuff in lhe club and I can ZERO IN on qhat's For'king dd sbai's I
not, so 1et' me know if you wanl elaboralion' I
I
I
styTe writeB: I
subj ect: Re: Seeviers ExPerimenE

.ndl d, 11aL,ons.
have alcohol? Is belter than this.

(. -.. rla-r--. r - d a.For- c--c 4,.- 1r h-

S T A T E a n d C O N F I D E N C E .N o t l h e beer.

w^' o-rl r^ dFr TNTa :-r -

r l- - I-n.\ I r n- - l) v a

StyTe writes,

subject: Re: (FR) Toecutter-ized Ernail seduction. (pt3)

This 1s not an emarl sarge, il's an emaiL stale- IMHO. An email sarge

seduc!ion? Good stuff.

an/ady, sne sounds lil,e I like her. and lhe w"v s -

.^ , , cl6'e <r - .- r'r.'. --kes
, r f.r.

you. Bul noq you've had a whole relarionship via email: you we ewen

l^wc s oi.L n. 1 ,rlF -ri_ -c -' -'

")rk here is the I N C O N G R U E N C ET. n l h e

cLF t -Lac r o( .

Bu! wl ea you doesn'! wo'k. vo, b"ck ofl. Aad _ou p'ote

ro be tl e opDosl L o/ no -akino r\e ii i _dl

roLlg-lf

neeting whlch SHE so desperately i { a n E s . S h e W A N T St o get together wlrh

 bait. she vants i! Lo be safe, like breakfasl,
you, dude. Take lhe

afraid of H E R S E L Fb e l n g alone ,,vith You at NIGHT, as sne

because she's

actually B L O W Nl h i s bv making il so
My though! is lhal vou'we
sales ma:im that Maddash llkes to use:
C O M P L I c A T E D -T h e r e ' s an old

conni! to, Lhe more likelv lhey are ro

the less they have to

buy. Use lhat for wha! it's !/orth'

You're trving too hard to

The fact is: SEE her a n d S E D U C Eh e r -

and that is causing you to I'OSE ii Because'

MAINTAIN the upPer hand,

dude, you EAD it.

.
and her response' Afler lhat, I would
I did like the 100 bill lhing,
r
have senl her Bishop's Warn Fuzz!'
E
E
gtyTe wtiEes t
E
R e l F R : Madison, wisconsin Pu E
6ubj ect:
E
I
Dude,
E
Nice fr. But: LEARN ABouT NEGGING You are
just INsul'TING Lhe grrls
I
Don't sav' ''vie caLl those frr'(-
vou blovn out
No! cool, and ti1l get
I
just going lo force her Lo put up her defenses
ne boots.'r You're
l saw some people {earinE ihem
I
Betier, say, "I like those bools

and was wondering where lhey got them r This is subtle: on

yesterday,
but beneath you're saving that it's
the surface it''s a complimen!,
naslered the game and
unoriginal and eweryone nas Enem Until vou've

wilh negs l like thal you have the

calibrating, don'l go so far vour

omen and whal thev t/i]l respond to and when'

balls; now learn about
You seem like yourre AS(ING lo ge! blown out sometimes. Bur Eha!,s
6-a. Eirr
)y ni
"...
il works. Then come back !o me and

*r'*To HERE***

StyTe errites:

subject: R e : t h e e s s e n c e o f m y game - c&f fra.nes (kooper)

a-6, q --
I!

or you rooKlnq

One nore (obwious) frame I'we used is lo walk around lrith lhe HB I

''_a 6;-\6y -\6n rh-- - ..^.r fl -L -,-t. ,r -.a), /when

1ct'

.4-' t f --A rl ^ - \'l r'6-,r rFc 4- | .1' rhem

.-^.. 1_.r-.....L1i r- ,t- .-. -". .-.."1-k

' -,, 1. aa 1-r -.,y-- l-- ..--: rhe rhreshold.

Styfe writeB t

Eubject: Re: greaE ge! together, bring her home, but no luck
 coffee and then back to vour place Prd'
how to 9e! any girl over for

s!ep. when You feel Lhai ihe

here, I'n going to gave You the nex!

energy is righl, just say:

'I so hard NOT to kiss vou righ! now "

m trying

she reacts' fluff (or do Ic

You canrt lose this nav Just see ho{

was good' go for the kiss l thrnk i]1rs

pattern), and !hen, if sign

also because i!'s an SOI Ii leis her

works no! just as a tes!, bu!

mind and prepares her- And lhe frame that volr'r_^

know vhat's on vour
sexY' somelimes rrll lell her:
trying so hard to coNTRol, YouRsELF ls

'Whatever you are doing, sToP ill I'n lalking about someihang

important here. "

to me? I m
I
Ewen after: I kiss, I keep up the frame: "l'lhat are vou doing

NEVER like this. " t

I
Enjoy, and report bacK

I!
I
StyTe wtiteE I I
AFC Night
subject: FR: IntenLional I
I
parlv last night l"ie
r ent \,./iih Grinble to a house christnas

'rav there we woulD NOT SARGE No' nc nalter ho!

decided on the !ha!

seLect tarsets or dc routrnes ot

many hotties !{ere lhere, we woulrtnrt

ourselves and pu4oselv noL hrt on

anything- We'd just relax an't enioy

to do becalrse the party was aLL very allracllve,

It was a hard lhing

- won'n J .st ny 1)?e And since I kne{ some People

assy. snar-
to walk oulside and see

r'r' -. .J-n-r ,qi a- -nro sna I

groups and nake boring co vo. Ano rnen lhey tdlt o 4oran. iE's
"

Anyway, ihere actually WAS a girl there I ltked. Just my tx)e: sweel

feminine blonde with a ligh! purple lop througb vhich !'ras sonevhat

,e! a..l ,,h r:lkird c-mFh.^ '

.'.-616Y-|}A'r.'.L..Jd

there's a seat next to her. I ask if she minds if I sil dom (total

ner and her fr'e ds. 1l'n -

totally do fLuff. we talk aboul how lhey know the hosr of lhe party,

uheie they are fron, shere they wen! !o schooL, ho{ they knon each
i\ ..- -aorFl
r,4-- f. ul/ ir

t{ords, all the BORING sluff. I R E F T d A I Nf r o m d e m o n s i r a t i n g any value or

-n. r,w.lrff ,lr

In fact vhen they wanted a drink, I TOTALLY SUPFI,ICATED and

4r 7aay. IaEer. .s 0 1l a a v r n S , I er -no says. 'You srou d sal

goodlye to EB." (So obviously HB is interested in me or her frlend

thinks she should be. )

So I go !o say goodbye and do a total AFC *close. I just say, "We

snoLld exchelge phone nrmbers dr d o-r rogerher:

w- Er hangF.Es. Afr -rrorcls, I wan! !o do n, rsral player lov_ dno

 'kiss goodbve. " rnslead, I just awkvrardly
point lo mY cheek and say

$awe and say I'll call her laler.

go out, because \,,hen she is going to be blo n

I can' ! wail until

with the amazing STYIE instead of Lhe

avray when she ends up g o i n g out

to me is lhat since r'1'e been ln the comnunlrv'

what is so inleresting

Irve wondered how AFCS ge! laid. The fact is, vou can be tolalLv

and sTrL! get lhe *close r nean' if r DiD

boring and a$kward and nice
SAME result: I +closed mv target r
gane I s!i]1 would hawe had the

lried to do this like I woutd have pre ASF II was So

really

inleresting- Is there a lesson !o be learned here?

StyTe writeg t

Eu-bject: Re: FR: Inlentionat AFC Nighl

bere: Eumces, srrperslicka, unchaste' etc _: :':Fle

creat responses

whoewer said it was looks, it sure aIn t' I'1re NEVERhad a girl say

or handsome BEFQREs l e e p i n g wilh me So Le-"'s

that T'm good looking

rationalization. Holiever, lhis was a SAFE wa,r' to do 1l

get rial of !ha!

the parly (lnus sone sociaL proof) as oppose.l

because r knev people al

to doing a cold approach at a bar'

internalized the at!itudes and beliefs. But, nor:e

It MAY be !ha! I've

back lo the ray I used to +close before I

than that, I lhink I ven!

just tatked and tried to make a plan. lJrd il DID worL

had game. I

and it does work nov. Maybe' though, since HBs are very
before,
hawe lo ask Grimlcle, who was there with me-

it on. tu]d the

response was much dlfferenl.

-se dnd

made a mark, r'ha! would your husband lhink? Would he think some suy

gawe you a hickey?

r'tB: r d lrsc was a oo9.

v.. t1.. r--d --n6 Larb -\6r rcr-r- -\-<ir- LF+ -v...ir '..--h --e

HB: Ha ha stop etc.

Ye: vou \'ou. why rse ce longs, one .g o b're l6 n6-t1.

I --. walh

- Lne pa!_y

and go to a bar to start alL over from scratch. If I was still an AFC,

. .t,-n9

to chase more.

F , r-9..o-ng lchcarsad na er-al: Yes, che -deal i_ _o hawe 7-DO

"1.1,

FQG .AP | - - e nor sarSing subculture lrfe and carry these .r!; !udes

rno ocl els o o.no ^--h you !.LR1hd-R! as who you are. Al]d.11 o'.
.!,r t6! 6.-6..,-Lin- t -r -' -fLS1 HAppa]\ qs ,ne NE^ \O is

inreracrirg dr wo \. ,iLh ri- os dno in.r- wo lo.

SEyle wrixes,

subject: Re: CBull and the le6bians

Quick thoughl: she DID want you. She WOUI,D rLAlrE kissed you. But you

re 'he firsr 1_k' o k-'s -e

. otr )oL.r 9a1e alLer

discussion. IOw, she wAS attracled to you. I beliewe she rould have

even slept with you. BUT, you made too big of a deal ou! of the klss

Persisted so much for the kiss and for getting physicaL You should

have punished, played c&f, played hard to get, and kept turnang , er

on--push pul1, hot cold. Fron what I read, when you first isolaLe.1

-osr -nd chat's wl ) she said she's

Seco d ine, she .ndl

only kissed one guy and didn'l like ii e!c. The FrRsT l i n e , she sald
jus-
s'c woLld krss yo- oL she vas "_rd.o ror d wcn m o r e . Y Ur F r o : e :

youxself to be the kind of g u y w h o W O U L Dw a n t m o r e , so

Do you know abou! cat string theory? Be lhe string: aLwavs lus:

dangling out of her reach, teasing, eLc

Style writea,

su.bj ect: My SP: Flakiness

Reading Breakbeat I s pas! week/ I reaLized mY

SP:

r am a llake and disorganrzed

In o-h-r lords. .61 co many sorgas sliD

 o (F7r.,,clv

Also I trawel a bi!, so when I get back, I feel like it's been so long

since I've talked to a new sB that I don'l bolher to call her.

Example: closed a cool girl Lwo weeks ago. Called her up ro hang out,

called back and lhen invited me ou!. I was busy that night, lhen left

toUn. Came home and havenrt called her. Don't knoit why.

- don'r P F A IL Y r h , t < . . 6 ] a u t r e s s o_

di sorgani za! ion. That rs a factor. Bu! maybe there is and I11 adnit
- --e
i _ 6, r-,t \ Lo

start from scratch. Maybe Irm just loo lazy to call her, pick her up,

dno spend a whole r iqlr ou. ' /ing Lo sedu e r-r o, l o --sk

in Fh. Fnd

In the last week, I feel like I've broken up vith more vromen lhan I'we

-r cpri...cl., ,lh-.
rre:

HB1: cule 19 year o]d. Paps qave her a 10. Whalever' Broke up because

sh. liwed loo o oway and iE was 'us' rprdc ical Eo keeo l ' as my

hr^r<F In uiih hpf h.cause A. I found oul she did rricks rn

the back room (nasty, huh) and B. she asked ne my income seven days

after !,,e slarled dating, and \then I wouldn't tell- her, she pressed lhe

po n To me. rl ar s in.dsi\. and i) oor i" e.

"pp

HBRedhead: broke up wilh her yesterday because we had plans and she

blev,, them off !o 90 Lo a parly. And didn't inviEe me !o ihe partl'

which means it's with someone else she's having sex with l donll mind

lhat ehe's sleeping vith other guys--I expect it but I Do mind if she

breaks our plans to go out with someone else. I'm iust assuming this,
but eilher waY lrm ower her'

HBolderwonan:Youkno\dwha!,Ican'!savpubliclytu'hvlbrokeupdrth
though l lust l<epr
her. It's f o r a v e r Y S E A L L O Wc o s m e t i c r e a s o n
and it starle'l lo qross
about this litlle veird lmperfection
lhinking
storv in shallow IlaI' LOL
me out, sort of tike Jason Alexander's

in the slabte, and feel llke

I've just gor a couple women lef!
So no

over from scratch And Irwe q o E TONS of Phone numlers

i'm starting
lack of inercia ro Pick uP rne
sitting here. I lhink t haae a certain
on the phone It annovs
phone, because I hate rhe phone and talkinq

ne. I like Hul'lAN contact '

to do vith: being not mor-i"-aLed

so Mink mv sp mlght have soneLhing
bls1 to h: : t : l:'e
I
a Pl'lJI But belng too
to CAIL soneone wilhoul
s tl v u' :
-
I
a p-AN fo. ev'r\ n'gnr'
or!
1: ::: ::3: s ::_
'1
HBs out wlEn me There' I fi3!1ree
invite like lhree

I
Thoughts? Can anyone xead the subtext here 3rd frg:::

*
StyTe wxixes I

subjectt Re: sirducer goe6 to stlipperg

fucked up an easl onaHBIreaLly

Bad night for me tonigh!:
ls: only as good as
liked. That's lhe game The funnY tl]lng

your last sarge.

Anyway, you NEED to read:

Mystery' s stripper Rules

F
F
F
F ,- Ef6i 6, + -. 1 .-*-- ctub.

1, Next !ime, TAIK !o lhe DJ. Ask hol he got his job. Get hiE name. Do

the research first.

your selr gct manrp . 90

a E rrpPer i,,cr r n - r h .a .1- - _ h^1nv guy.

r1-l- rhFn v.rriya -

irr<f :r^rhay h^yr v guv
Don't llsten to her talk abou! how she's saving money for

- -- - e . y o u
rs p l a , c d i r Q t D g o m - L l e w lo l e E i m e . P a r ! o f r h e r r g a m er s a s k l n g

3.

F
L
4 PF:d ]-ha r,rlFe r i.rd w^,, :h^ut. You must understand the mind of a
-

a ^o,k:n9, d-de. Don go o o c-ub or a r_' o* rar i'91 t or peak rine,

a when lhey could be making nore cash.

u
.. vou -
- "..
mrsl ]ea-n'he !ules -or'lF.s Ie d. Ar'you d_d was 90 _' o s r p
- . _ ... .^ lri, -
-jl-6 -. _\-.-
I d , in.6.q r... I m

a
a ),i.4..1

I
how ewery girl game in by going
a d s.r:p lub ujrh
is vorking

a sl rjpae.
their

d'd_d
a club.

hovirg rer
I

exp-ail
learned

tl e psyc\o oqv
to

t of the whole game. They are PUAS: bur rheir goaL is nor sex, i! s

F
F
?
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rl-i" r' a . rr-- olr

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BTli. S_1duce , -nq-- me. I ui-l be 'r ,o.!

StyTe writeE,

subject: FR: I Am a MaIe slut (or, sarging in Hicktown)

B-ro - | o.gin a qu'ck s o y: I ras dolro -n my n-n

I
j
"D"
and saw an older

sonething and not

woman who I

very atlractive:
talk to in

A very
lhe

sveet,
elevatoi.

smart
She is

lady
50-

vho has let

!I
tea. I said I couldrl't, bul I came r:

for a second and/ as I \tent to sit do&n, she said, 'Sit on the couch

lLrs more comfortable.r' And then she sat nex! !o me I hate learned tb3:

I have a SIXTII sENsE that

felE at tangling,

.{r rhF
so t knew she vanted

i rla^
picks up on sexual

ne. I
alrraction

actually
And suddenlv

C O N S I D E R E D1 !
.lder
I
I

I
won\en who hawen't felt lhe rush of passionate sex and desire far vea!:s,

ewen decades. It's the good Samaritan in me Anyway, I say lhls b..alse

j bears on w oL .oppens tn rhis.....

HICKTOWN FR

ro go co rh_s s_d I ro^11in sou aosr arn ceo'o'" rh _ Heele d

So r'ad

oNE ridhi i- cnand rhere. I went out to a bar/concert harl

with a couple guys from the !om. At first, lhe only targets tere these

trdo lrashy wonen/ but they were sitting uilh a ToTAL shilkicker hi.k so
a
F
I '' ' k-n o apploa n. h.! n rhrs k_'d only wav
-

t Ff6- e' -1 \ ')sral ar d so

F
F rgon!

-ney're both married, aad bo!' _' r\e_ r l-r e 40s. '{hile ralL_ o I

pD-a jrt., .6t -. j..e --L,ae

)t tEnr/6 rt i r-a lF-id6 n

doing cunwilch's sexual slale thing. so r think about jus! lolally

p.eosu--n9 ralk. for fun. Anyw"v. h-n s-e a rhree set o e

9.y, ' ^o 9rrL qno J--r- .rr-r0, os< ! e I y ooo.' -ne

ne i'aE in one of the bards r'at p-dyeo ano sr dr alking

he's NoT with. AfEer about one minure, the wrNDotl opens. I feel i! (!he

-iral_-f _-d qLF -' -l -

.l rv-< < a 1a 1 . EUT. h"ve r

F
F
disappearing trrck, erc. Bur as l do !his, lhe windov CI,OSES. I also

F
il
WLIAT DO YOU DO IN A GROUP SET WI{EN YOUR WINDOW OPENS RIGHT AWAY BEFORE

YOU EVEN I]AVE RAPPORT?

I
!l ie M\ m cr:LF Th.,r,q -

,
Anlnqay, so I return to HBTooOldForMe and we go upscairs and have some
-
ca-j.ha1lA.].1.'w.!'onolsetalmulEh]0ro.s.s.sh.has

I .-4 Jrc -r.a r_ r,ll - ,dp I'm

t tusr mixing beang insaghtful and smart r,/ith being cocky/funny and

a accusing her of hilting on me and trying to see my ass etc. No routines

a or gimmicks or patlerns, because then I'll ovelqualify nyself he.. I

a noriced

because it
rhat

will
r have ro ToTl.r,LY hold

make me TOO lreird. I

back all

already
the

stand
stuff

our.
I can do here,

And of course,
t il's lhe bible belt, so I canrt do anything that appeare un Christaan.
so, anyway, the windov opens here. My sixth sense goes off, and when ue

talk to each other, our faces get real close and our cheeks just rest

againsl each other. l can'! kiss her in the bar, because then her

relatives will talk. And, real]y, I shouldn't be doing lhis anyravs'

Then, all of a sudden, her NIECE comes in And her niece is fucking

B E A U T I F U I - a n a t S W E E Ta n d t o t a l MLTR malerial. So I ioke around tith all

lhree of !hen. The niece, rho is very shv too, savs abour me: "He's

cu!e...- I mean/ because of his personalitv "

(It's a great neg, 1o1. But it lells me that !o her Ilm NoT cule

physically, but have such a great personality lhat chicks love ne rhis

is true. Now, to be wery serious for a nonent: Is there someone T 'an

see, like an image consultan!, who can nake mv appearance W O R KF o R M E I

mean, without plastic surgery chicks don't telL me rrm sexv l'lNTrL they l
are in bed with ne. Really ) I
and carling her a lush because s:e
I
Laler, because I'n busling her balls

thinks her dri.nk is loo weak, she savs T remind her of her ex bf beca:se I
i,m always teasing her. (In some ways, general ball-busting has rakef,

the place of negs in ny game). Arlyvav, I am plsSED because, aLthouglr !

could easily gel HBNiece (she's jLrst mv t}?e), itrs too Lare, because

she sees the betlreen me and her auni:. Fuck. so I decide what
"chemislry"

the hell and, inspired by rNloSE's recent lav report' tell the arrnr vho

is like 46 (or 4s, I can't r e m e r n b e r _o h , t h i s is so t'onqi Lhal I folgor

my money in my car and have to go get ir. so I ask if she lL keep me

company. We walk to ny car and I use sone sLeight of hand !o make it

getling a wad of cash out of the glove conpartment (I

look like I'm

knew those magic tricks haai a practical use.) Then I brush her hair

aside and i,re start klssing. 1! gets passionate, so I sav tha! I'm

!rcrried people I open up the back door of the car ard

gesture for her lo go jnsiale She DoES So then we make out She savs
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F she hasn t done this in years. I tell her tha! nelther have I (and

F -ike
we re

F both 16 and worried werre going to get caughl by her par:ents.,' She loves

F 'I

like
s. Ire lake

kids.
our,

She says she's

rol.ch

never done this

eve ),shere. qr1-d

since being
againsE each oEher

narxied. Anti-slut

commen lo- mv ber efi , so T jusc agrec. she i r9 - s- .",'L

.,ir- -jLa rpi_L_ ,.,.. r, .w_sls,

]t's tus- /ora d ne,

" boy and a
grrl and rd o s rp o I

wri ;n9. bu- T rhoughr iE was 6T-! . dl lhe in-.

Fl1Fa). - wroig ro have saf, ^-rh h-. ,er- so dor'- go al_

the ray. She says she vishes \\,e were in a bed in a room. And her moves

rF '

s.ch
_ov-

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worFi.)

good salar
cr- irvi

_raij
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and s-nce I n.o

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p ot-ss'o
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boy

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it rhere be_aLse h-. s sre 's Now, unforcuna .11, rh-!e a r e I 4 A ,1\
9oin9.
a cute young girls lhere. And once I start talking to a set (just openang

a in. ^n rha.^ n e l

a
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a ot h e f r l - a/ - I LLIe l.ids. rAnd al no.gn,her .oo< o -s. ord
t clean. their MoMs are like ragged and worn out and krnd of gross wj]l

a -l .- r '-nFr -^ f*4r' c i ,-, -c - 4. --i1 I14.

I smitten with this precious swee! cule ]iltle skinny drunk funny blonde
/c,6ia I tr lv \io'-tiolro -ra h,. h--a-se i,
I wouLd be nean lo sBToooldForMe who is standing behind me watching ne
ir tease the ladies.
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 a differen! who lust has the best complexion and disposition'
Wilh 9ir1,

r tell her lhal she is so cute and tha! r tu'ant her to be my little

that she should be my pet' so all night' she's

sister. Then I decide

eweryone she's mv pel anat calling me master' I lel] her' "Mv

lelling
' Anvwav' she keeps
se!:vants call me master; nv PETS call

me and I'm petting her (God' I love small tomsl

coming up and nuzzling

oul how ro close this (And for some reason |m not

BUT, I canr! figure

her to do sluff like lick my f'ce and

being creative enough and te11in9

naybe because l don't want to seen like I'm deneaninq her')

play fetch,

do lhis not jusl because of HBToooldForMe' but also because

A.1d I can'!

lransMon ou! of c&F Franes inlo making out r

r don't know holt to

I am used to needing R A P P O R Tf i r s t ' a'd uhen

think it might be because
hit on her' Any adwice from
t
il's noE lhere YET i! doesn't feel RIGHT lo

people vho do STP3IGHT ,loKING vith NoTHING E]-SE and end up accidentallv
I
building attxaclion in ninutes? I
I
her nlece to grab some
Prlaray, ewenlual]y HBTooOldForMe goes off vith
I
local Euddle House (a deep south chain) she's gone an
food from the
info' but am
I
hour, so l just gel tired and split l go! the niece's

disappointeal lhat I blew it s'i!h her' she's such a titrle

I
really

treasure: thin, sofl skin, shv, sweel personality, verv funnv 'i perfec! I
height, thin, apple breasts, straight shimmering broun haar' tan I
I
and teelh jus! a LITTLE lvisled to give her lhat sligh!
complexion,

that ' s so sexy-

imperfection
II
it's like beins in some kind of werrd
Anrvev. I love r'_s' sno l rorrlc: I
.ro_dn_e no eI And, man, you hawe lo llol,D BACK on lhe
southe ' n adv-nlu'e

. i l 0 h of it and You ARE the man. ZERO

9om6. a I you n.ed s 1'\e

lhis night, bd.aus- rhe ' we'e no snrrk' kers

CoMPETITION. At least
bv son'one mqle
lhere. also, to do this, You NEED r o o e s o _ - d l Prool'd
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Thanks for

!,ltricisms,
reading.

asrdes,
Ansvers

or trenchan!
on any of

lif e
ihe abowe ques!ions, dilemmas,

StyTe wrltee:

Subject. DAMN IIEAR DOUBLE LR - virgin and ruleE girl

ch4ach I!'s not HER fault. r! is YouRs. ThaL

7 said, you did an awesome job and she r'fiJsTlike you, because orheruse

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z Th:frq ir' ii'e ^]rp^dv qFr f^r next time. Coffee and sex. Be NoN-sexual

p rcyi timF diwF hiyFd <idn:r c iease. Make her vonder for a little

tr
a
F moves IF he's playing against another novice, who nakes a mistake. BUT a

F chess |VIASTER
will wrn lhe game EVERY time if he wails 11 or 12 moves.

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EI Subject: hrbrace the Dark Side.....
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 a GREAT thread l notice thar where ' on AsF,
This is a GREAT posl an'l
the trend ls belng a c/F nessing
the lrend is going caveman' ower here
greal Doc' I have ius! one
Anylqay' your stuff is
funny seducer bastard

for anYone lrying this:

thought

thro{ her off her gane'

neg her, to tease her' to
It i.s or.AY to
far here Your mistake lcas 'nac
SHBS so You did NOT go too
Especially
was in YOUR courl You
The ball
you didn't REEL HER BACK IN afterward
you had to do was lo saY
and intriqued so' all
had hen poverless
a variatj'on of a great Ross J piece:
like, and tbis rs
somelhing

that's true about you Because you'te

you sonelhing else
a challenge' $'ho's also
lor vou !o find a man !rho/s
pretly, it's so hard
easy being pretlv-so manv
And it's not
kjnd and cares fox your: feerugs

They don't even trea! you like vou re a

people in tbe world baLe vou
to n'ork ttice as hard for
ever do' you have
human being. Ewerything vou
They don't under:stand-rou
people hol'l your looks against vou
because

have dreans, vou have wishes'

and 'you're no! really happv You've

girl
been

tho
I
girl inside' Lhal lit!]e
But {ha! if that 1ltt]e
settling.
tha! mavbe lust mavDe-
r'rhal if you could understand
stil1 believes,
care' slrong enough to calt Yolr on
someone who's kind enough to
there's
!o not onlv e>'plore i{bo vou
and e:{peraenced enough
aLl your bullshit,

arebulloexplorethatperson,thatpalEofyou,vho,sbeenlonqlngso

much to be set free "

diss, etc Bu! I

don't forget: is OrAY Lo neg, t e a s e ,
so, in general,
her bacK with somethang of VALUE - Otherwise
afler, You MUST reel

ewerYlhing You've saj'd before

SEyTe wtiXes,
(or, Sarging in Hicktow! )
subj ect: I Am a Mate Slut
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Badboy: you understand.

rrgh-: the ansre.r is

Your posl

Lo lane :l
NAILED rny new experience.

o Lne NEXT ]evel. TFI]

And you are

her Ehe s 9o|q

r_t.4.- ||6 r+-6rds

"don't we look good together.n Then say we have a friend in lhe club
, i-.. -6. r r. . .A -eE
\in rrr

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.. ._i{. , .-d then

v
.ar' \- . ._ ir-' 1-lir ' a-.!a

tattooesl And you're right about lhe pET girl, I could have been with

t _,i. i rr - f- ale.

7
- AnonJ,nous write3:

a subject: Re: FR: I Arn A Male slut {or, sarging in Eicktsown)

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Now that it has been proven that you can get laid anytine,
I
anywhere ... what's next? I get tshe inpressiod that hunting
,
bunny rabbits isn't aL!. that satisfying for you, what about the
a big game? when a.n I going tso read about you seducing the woman of
t your drea&s?
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1' You are RIGET- This IS the next step

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ir
- style wtiteE,

z
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Subj ect: I Am a Male Slut (or, sarging in Hj.ektown)

' - _ che'r < for rhe Style Style (tm)... Got

f --Il'- rl^v Elo- hr NIECE, rhe sweet/ cule MLTR

material girl \rho Mought I had fucked

her late 40 somelhing aunt-..So happy...and I don t even think I gave

hex my lnfo. . .

She wrote me today.

- JrsE wanEed !o 9 .e yoL my emqj_ oodrFss. I en_oyed

_o go by too
ldsr ca-urday i'ohl...a.lhough rr se-rad I
i^ mFc v^', T 1p^llw
I
\drsh thar you co..d h a v e w e rt to h ddl' House
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ordn ^anc Eo d's-urb you...trell
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n going not I
Hope to talk soonl I
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Reads Like an IOI to me...
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My p l a n : srow enail sarge, culminating wilh
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So I'm back in.

wisit ne. Joy I I

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style wrices:

S u b je c t : T h e P L E D G E( r e v i s i t e d )

sMU: Here is a better pledge ! o work on the issue of Your:

+c.roses. uon t srop

 11 be fun.
irhile...it's fun. And ir's i n YOUR

styTe wtites:

Su.bj ect: Rethinking Some technj.ques

some of our techniques A S S U M Ef a i l u r e . Because of Lhis, I don,t use

.-F-c io f-^r .' -.-tr David

lr.dFta ---L-- ! .n tr6 i,.. n-a_-a , -s[ed ro

ask her what the chances are lhat she von't show up, and lhen to tell

'.., ' -r-- -' 1.,

n- r i< la trr \et

lateness or flakiness could end lhe friendship before it even starts.

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..^ ^ir n. i r"a
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do'r
. rr back,'

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s r e w A N . r s- o d o ) 4 / rt ,'4c4 _t,-_... ,.c, In
a orber words, if yoL'e oone cso\ B F F o P Ep o p - /. sew No- rrd<e
a ind ^1 rho

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If you are getting flakes or rude phone behawior, then vou haven'i done

lhe lead up rork properly enough, Il'1Ho. Irnr against anv tactrcs rhar

eilher assume alefea! or bring up negaiiwe outcomeE in her mind Expec!

lhe best (but be mentally prepared for the vrorst) and vou're gold

StyLe writes t

Su-bject: LR: PU from Party

Three choices. But whateve]: you do, i!'s a tes! Donl! plav

don'! be a jerk and hurt her either- choose one of these:

1. Jus! be cocky funny, joke around, and avoid it Joke around about

naking her your Trlesday booty call, in tbe earlv rotalion 'and if she s

very gooat after three months she can work her vav up to lridav

2. This is what I use N O T E : D O N T D o T H I S W O R DF O R

W O R D , l T S ! ] U S T T H E G E N E R A LI D E A O F I T ' It',S AdAPlEd fICN

a book I read by a guy named.toel Kramer: "The best {av !o have a

successful relationship, and tto peopLe lalking is a reLa!ionship' is

to hawe no expectations for it. To let it go uhere il goes naturaLlv

People always have to pu! things in a box: is lhis a friendship, are

we dating, are we going !o get married But that's socieLv's ruLes-

tha! hunan intexacrions are fluid, from one extrene rd

The truth is

the othex. And the course of anv relationship is sel from the moment

you lneet someone, and it unfolds nalurally lo vhere it is supposed to

As soon as you try !o define it, then you are creating

90.

expeclalions that of course \ron't be met because tha! is no! realicy

For instance, if a girl meets a guv and shers looking for marriagei in

lhe firs! week, she's going to be looking at evervthing he's doing and
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rime ro geL
'Can T lrwF

o kiow eacn
f6- rhF 'ccr .f mv lifc l

epend more Line roger'e-. and

err.v F:.h .rhpr' e .^hh:n

okdy. 'ce
loo non. Jusr don'c ak- Hfo lrd1e. Make yo.!s.

StyLe writee,

Subj ect: Could,ve F- cloEed?

On.e volr dFr rhc TOTq :nd eh6'< 1f^1i h66/i l^

n^h l- d,^n :l l i,^r, ^.ha /whi-li } i 5o r. f! 6 !l i 6--e n

LU gu I eL

? h-d to go !.o Lhe oachroon, you should have said, 'So do .|

2 | 'l l tua lk v^,, rh.y. :nd n,^i-a-i- ,.,haro'o, _ Tli.ih'

7a - ! : h har u?h1l- L'rrt n^ F^r rha

uLd^f r19 eu L
u bathroom, or just gone in the bathroom with her if 1t's a
z locked-door s ituat ion.
z
,

a StyLe write, t
t
Subj ecl r BonuE Technique
z
7'
z into kissing. Badboy Now, I do

EI iE like this:

ll
HB: veah, - d".ed him 'or a year. rhree monlbs ago.
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 probablv because vou're a bad kisser'
Me: Yeab, tha!'s
about? You don't
EB: What? Wbat are you talking
You hold a lot of iension
by lookang at your mouth
lle: No, I can te]1
lbe outer ring of her lips ) A qood
here (if good rapport' Llace
right
so tha! lhe kisses ar:e
, ere on the outer ring
kisser relaxes the nuscles
a good kisser works lhe
BuE aL lhe same line'
very sof! and sensuous
(trace on vour llps or hers a circle lust
here on the inner ring
nusctes
can vary the tension and
of the lips) so that lhev
on lhe outsrde

kissing or go inlo lhe other "secreL

go into
From here, vou can elther
that it's the first and
paltern abouE oow vou imagine
of good kissing
wilh and get kino golng' or
plav
last kiss. Fnlaiay, the idea is fun to
I
ar vour lips Enlov"
set her loohing
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SxyTe wriEes: I
jusE now
Subject: weirded ouE I
are vith a girl and lbe
I
Mys. And this is it: When lou
r,ve been ther:e,
you lust think "This sucks why do l bolher?" I
sex and connecEion is bad'

md(es You long for

Datri ''' I
And :t
l
and the connectjon is
a girl and the sex is anazing
When you ate with
lhing in lhe nrorld lt
'roh my god This is the best
intense, you think,
lf I could jusl freeze tr!1s
worrh E \ T E R Y T H I N GI p u ! 1n Eo qet here
is
that You are not 1n
etc tr And it makes vou grateful
monent forever...etc
'
a monogamous felationship
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No su - ' T rorally Du1 nis

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., J a- lv. r q)
bur srn e ir rs, popp-o ii -o

-ne ^ordn toL orc wr't.

F qo 90 0L

oh,
and ger

do you knov/ that

a good

burlesque dance troupe The Pussycat

...---.-,---r
Dolls? I

.lnn9
bhink

Lunch al lhe Standard: I was very funny and they loved me. Bu!, and I

swear to you, there were just tvo of them and they \!ere not artracrive

ln any way...pefcepllon vs reality...

F Style \drit.es:

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Subject:

anpu!
ATTN myEtery, style, oEhers: celebrity party, need

u
aa Kooper, yes, your idea of reverse franes I d O U L Dw o r k . I basically conrbine

tt Myslery group theory with slripper rules for ceLebs. so I'd sugges!
,p-dind. h /c'c e'.i. ,,!lac
t
badboy's trriss croatia sarge for the attitudes.
t
t You must treat a celeb like an 11. You must not discuss her ceLeljrlty,

t
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a mF.r

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F lvystery will s a-l -nle- oining the set ne\L Lo h-., oe riag b-9

I reactions and applause. Then, he will grab a boLtle off the CELEE,s

Lable (this gers rheir attention W I T I I O U Tp a y i n g allenrion ro rhem) . Then

I
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 hers entertaining This will altract the
he wilL levitar:e it for lhe set

how did you do thal?" Then he negs ner:'

celeb, who will go, "oh mv god,
until he has the celeb DYING for his
bul turns to her se! to do sluff,

in Hrs frame she's forgotten that she as rne

attenEion. Frd now sHE ]s

celeb and a cenler of attention Nrce' huh?

some celebs will be wirh bodvguards who will no! let vou ewen ln
A1so,

h Lhis case, you have to befriend soneone in lhe

the vicinity.
group, then return to lhe group wirh them
entourage then thev leave the

I will pos! a whole Mo and theories But' Eo me' ONCE I have a formaL

of theits who talks me up' then

inlroduction to a celeb from a friend

ne or mv group' then Irm IN rike

I'm tN. OR, if lhe celeb approaches

trv anvthing new- UsE your qame

vrsion said, lhe G A M Ed o e s w o r k Don't

is finding the proper way to meeL-

The only NEW thing you have to master
'r'ihar
(see figure SMU-A) so lhat s h e w A t i r T St o Listen !o vou
the celeb
ginmicks and lhe c/f stuff lhat she til] be
we do is so differenl--the

I"ERY into it rF you can gel her isolated altenlaon

assunes weering an IlB savs is an

P.s- Do you know how a good PUA iusl
s h e A S S U M E Se w e r v t b i n g you sav as
1OI, rvell a celeb does the same

get her autograph' wrile about her rn Lne

because you want to meet her,
is innocent in her eves That's thl vcu
Naaional Enquirer, etc Nothing

at first Lo get HER interested so I

MUST neg and sho!, LTTTLE interest
her' then tu'ninE and
like lhe idea of opening a PAWNEDgroup near lust

'riolal this" rouline with the next-door

saying to her !,hile vou do vour

to sav' "Do you want lhis back?'F'nd

group. Then WAIT tor her

neg her' blov up her se!' and

THEN go into your routine Thank her'

hawe her interest, jilsL do vour NORl"lAl' routrne

!hen, when you

...TO BE CONTINUED".
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F style writes:

E Subject.: here'E Eomething to try out.

Let me elaborate for a momen! on Dkonstruct,s idea:

He will go out on a date with a woman he met on lhe personals. Ar some

po-nt d'.inq 'r'ope

o. before the ddle, h-'.1 s"), you don'L mino .'.s.
ya:l p,r parso-
b]'i h nl w^,, d nrLF : . |, ie.rl ' '_-__-

u ,dvrr9 run, bur I lus

you ,rL ,d u r"- way oer_ver_ng

some polite rejeclion here: I reaLly enjoy your company and I don,t qant

o -ess iE up b) 9e.r in9 o"rvsicdl. So ler's b. - ' i-nos. as-eed?' or

F
? As a beauliful woman dating through the personals, she haE NEVERheard
7
Lhis- EVERY guy wants ro get with her. It ualt only make her like

F
!l
Dkonslruct MOREas a challenge. Bu! since she is beautiful and in Miami

Beach, no doubt she has olher beauliful friends. She tefls THEM what

il happened, and then they know rhat Dave is NOT lake the other guys. So

=a hFh hA mFcl

a a .1.61r- la rvar:.i ra- | ..e I--

a becdu_e ot Lhe__ -,,eno s

a B. Know lh". DkorsL_ucL 's not IiLe a-l rhe o d ju,t trying

- to have sex with every \roman he meets.

a c. And now he can {ork through a few of her friends before returnang to

4
EI Makes sense to me. Do it, D, and post a FR during itt It's fun, and lhis
I usually ONLY happens when the LEADER likes and approves and is attracted

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St) le terile.t:
New Opener
Subject:FR: Fun with RJ ptus

week'andhave
nightout with RossJefferieslast
Hadan interesting
I ge1into it' a iew thingsi
beenmeaningto posta FR Before

conmunity ARdI feellike a lot

1. I havemeta lot of Ss'ersin this
to
jr-rstmy oWN opinion'andhasnothing
ofthem don'tgetit. This is
WhenRJ works' he is fun and
do with Rossor SSparty line
I seeworking'aresneakyand
flirtatious.A lot ofss'ers who
he is offeringthem
He is never"tricking"theHBs'
snake-like.
His approaches
something interestingandusefulantlnewin a iun tay

PLAYFUL all aiong ModelTLIATI

andthrlrlay he getsinto SSare

goodfortuneto haDgoutwith a lot

2. For somereason,I havehadthe
Ho$'ever'I amnot affiliated
ofreally greatpeoplein this community
I wing N4ystery'slorkshops$hen I
with anyoneofthem For example'
peopieano
can.I do thisbecause I enjoythe gameandI enjoyhelping
jn
I can(didn'tgetto do this LA'
showingoff for theboyswheD
sorryboys).But I do NOT makeANY moneyftom anyoftheseworkshops

etc.,soI wantto clarifythat.

3. Rossdid wantme to postthis because

he sayspeopledon'tthinkhe

opens.Veryweird:I've neverseenanyonesaythat,andI've neverbeen

out with him andNOT seenhim openingat everyopportunit]. So.okay.

onward...

Met up with RJ to go to movie premiere,andthenparty. To tell the

truth,I wasexhausted
anddid not openanysets--okay,
maybeone.

As soonaswe getthere,RI seesa two setby the foodtable.He goes

intothenewPICKPOCKITOPENER(whichI believemayhavebeen

improvisedon thespot):

zu: Hi, I'm Ross,andthis is my apprentice,

Style.

HB: Hi OR ApFentice?

RI: Yes,I am a masterpickpocket,

andI amteachinghim thetrade.

Rightnow,for example,yourpurseis hangingoverbehindyour left

(To me):Now, see,thatis an easyone.

shoulder.

Me: So,while you'redistuacting

her,I shouldjustreachin andtake

herwallet.

RJ:Yes,you arelearningfast.
Anyway,not unlikeKooper'sftames'thisbecamea runningjoke all

A fun opener.andobviouslydonewith a smile

throughthesarges.

Not theexact
(theyneveractualiythoughtthis wastrue).o\trOTE:

wording.I'm doingit from memory.Rossmay antto cla ry')

Firstsetwasa great$amup l talkedto a rockerchickwhilc he

sargedan Asian girl. Unfortunately,I couldn'thearmuch of it, but

while I fluffed-thoughshedid like me-he got into somefun mind

gameswith her.Thenextsetwastltee youngergirls Sameopener'then

he addedsomegreatintuitionaboutthem.andthendid a little

tranceworkon oneon the spot.Again,thiswasa weekago l wjsh I

hadpostedfresh.

Fromthere,his pickpocketopenerworkedon a single$'oman$ho \\as

doing*ine tasting.We chattedfor a little while' andthensau'atuo

setsittingdown.Bam sameopener.We sit dotn Iith them'and'again'

justjoke around.with RJ goingintopatteming{'heneverthe

itself l #closedoneof thegirls'thoughto

opportunitypresenled

tell thetruthI think theywerebothdatingeachother'

who opened'but the

After that,we sawa threeset.I can'tremember

HBs kino'edusright away.OneAsianonehada big scarlon, soI

stokedit, andsaidI wantedto keepit asa blanl<et.
Soshethreu'it

aroundmetoo,andftom here.I couldtell it wason.Thethreesaid

thatI remindedthemofa gayfriendoftheirs.And I said,"How

luck)-?Because
I'm straight,andnow you canfuIfi11yourrepressed

fantasiesof sleepingwith him."

I told theAsianHB thatshesmelledgood,andthenwentintomy

evolutionphaseshift.I've postedthisbefore,bul first I pulledher

hail ftom theback(erotically),andthenI bit the insideofher arm.

Sheevenremovedher sweatersothatI coulddo this (ifthat'snot an

lOI, I don'tknowwhatis).ThenI askedherto bit my neck.Shedid.

andthenI saidshecoulddo it better,andshedid again.ThenI told

her I'd showherhow it'sdone,andI bit herneck.

ThenI stoodthere,lookingat herlips (notstaring-suggestive)

and

shesaid,"Maybewe shouldkissnow."So,in front ofher friends\\'e

just startedmakingout.Whenwe'redone,shesays,"I'm manied-l've

neverdonethisbeforc."

I lookeddownat herhand,aDdsureenough,shewas.In my mind,

*hethertrueor not (probablyASD),her "first time"

commentmeansshewantsfun TONIGHT.SoI takehe. handandjustsay,

"Followme."
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I
Well, it turnsout a secu ty guardstopsus.
And then,whathappens?
I
And it turnsout thesecurityguardknowsher,andhasprobablybeen
I
watchingthe\a.hole
thing,sol'm CB'ed.Grr.
I
Ii
SoI talk to securityguard,friendly,andthen$e walk awayand
I
retumto hergroup.I pretendlike I've iostmy ridehome,andask
I
who livesnearme.ll tumsout anotherHB in the grouplivescloser,
t
somy planis foiled.Beside,they'reall goingoutto eatandI'm too E
tiredto really*ant to sit though that. E
t

I startto feellike I'm just hangingoutwaitinglike an AFC, soI E

I
ejectandsayI'11call my ftiendto comebackandpick me up.

I
Now, afterthefact.I realizewhatI shouldhavedoneis givenmy

cell # to theAsiangirl, andtold herto blow off dimer andcall me,

andI'd pick herup andwe'll takea drivetogether. t

I
I
I wastiredandnot opening
Anyway,not a badnightconsidering

withoutbreakinganyofthe ten
anyone.And, alterail, I escaped

commandments...
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Subject: Dudes, Get a Clue: Being Mean ys Being playful

I don'tthinl a lot ofpostershereunderstand

CockyandFumy.

Readingsomeinterminable
tanscriptsofonline "seductions,'
(it'snot

a seduction
ifyou don't sleeptogether.
makeout,or at thevery leastguys

getherf-ing pltonenumber),I seethere'sa distinctionto be made

betweeD:

BEINGMEAN andBEINGPLAYFUL

t BEINGA JERKandTEASINGHER

7
t
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It is NOT Cocky,Tunny
to sayshelooksshitty,blatantlyinsulther,

orjust in generalbe an ass.It IS goodto structurechallenges.

be
=
t hardto get,be unimpressed
whenshetriesto impressyou. call heron

, her bs,andteaseher like an olderbrotherwould.Or like the guy she

II likedin sixthgradedid.But a lot ofyou guysareonly conveying

7 TOTAL IMMATURITY here.Maq I hateto seea lot ofguys gettinglead

? down the wrong path hereby MISLINDERSTANDINGC/F andby

I MISL IDERSTANDING"male theho sayno." I'm surefor someof you (let's
t
f be honest),this stuffis makingyou WORSEwirh womanthannen. yeah,

I you cantalk with themlongerandbe lessself-conscious

andbe in
I
T
I
control,goodfor you,but areyou gettingtlle closes?

Anyway,to clarif], thisis cockybutNOT funny:

Sarger: calmdownretard

HB : sbutup

Sarger: nah,I like the soundofmy own voice

HB: areyor.ralwaYslike this??????????

Sarger: yr.rp2417

$hat
Thisis not beingableto backup $'hatyotl'resayingandcontinue

you start.Whenyou'rec/f, she'llthow it backat you' andyou trave

to havea betteranswerreadY.

Anyway,this,IMIJO.is Playlul:

your neckwith these

Style(with icetongsin rny hand):II I squeezed
he think some
andmadea mark,what would your husbandthink? Would

guy gaveyou a hickeY?

HB: I'djust tell him it wasa dog

with ice
Style:Okay,goodcomeherethen (Stadchasingheraround

tongs.)

HB: Ha ha stopetc.
(tying to biteher
Style:You know,why useice tongs?Comehere
F
F
T
necK).

F You dont $'antto INSULT her flat out:youwantto giveher comments

that are ambiguousandgive you the upperhand.Like the Powerpuff

girl line. Or like the totally arrogantthing my GM friend taughtme. "You

linsertcompliment
here].Congratulate
yourself."

It's HARD to get awaywith online what you canin real life. After I

saysomething
totallyobnoxious-
I'll do it with a smileandafter

say,"Did I just saythatout ioud?" or something

to thatefTect.

7 Like theposterhere(forgotwho, sorry)who told anHB, "Don'ttell

a meyourwit is deserting
you now,you wouldn'twantto haveto survive
z on yourlooksalone."Thatworksif SAID with the ght attitudeand
z
smilein thefield.But a guywho doesn'tgetit rvilljust endup
a
soundinglike an insecurejerk.
F
F
f, IMHO, theIDEAL way to be is: pushpull usingC/F.In otherwords,

F aln'ayskeepthemguessirlg.
Firstpretendlike they'rehitlingon you,

F andTHEN pretendlike they'rerejectingyou.First,teasethemabout

I something
they'rewearing,andthenwhentheydo it backsaythey're
? meanandhavereallyoffendedyou.Do lotsofthingswhereyou
I
qualift andthendisqualify her. Make a relationship,then sayit's
rl
ir not workingoul Getengaged,
thenbreakup.Neverlet themknowwhere

I
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n
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you or lhey stand.I LOVE a goods*ordfightwith anHB. esp$'henyou
a
bothfall in lovewith eachotherby theend. E
E
Also.for somegirls,C/Fis enoughin itself,butnot for theREAL I
prizeHBs.IMHO, thezuGHTway to do this is to be cockyandfunny I
I
value.
WHILE demonslrating
E
E
is thatsomeguysaresimplyidolizingfrequent
TheproblemlN THIS newsgroup I

postersandtryingto model*hat they\\'rite.You do NOT knowthatthey E

arereallyaltracting*omen. You do NOT krow ifthey aregoodPlJAs.You do 5
l
NOT knowifyou'd evenenjoysittingacrossa tablefrom them.A11) ou

in thefield.ThereIS goldto belbund

knowis whatYOU experience
s
E
in theseposts,but a lot aretotalCRAP SoYOU haveto see$hat reallygetsyou

but RESULTS.You NEEDto be ableto see,understand,

RESULTS.Not conversations,

andrespondto SOCIALDINAMICS You needto calibrate'to watchand

readthepersonyou aretalkingto. LOOK AT HER,WATCH HER' SEEHER

REACTION.Don'tbe STUCKin your headtryingto think ofwhat -

theprocessof
MATEzuAL youjust readonlinewill work. Yes,sometimes
E
I
andyou areREMAKTNCa lot olyour
CAN be counter-intuitive
seduction
I
old behaviorsanddoingthingsyou neverthoughtofbefore lt's hard
I
to do this alone.
t
Sowhatis thesolution:TESTwhateveryou \ant, thenseeWHAT gets
F
il
F
I thelolshesults,arrdkeepwhatworksandTHROWOUT nhat your FALSE

F
IDOLStell you theyaredoing.Sometimes
I'11actuallyPHYSICALLYdo

anIOI testafterI'm curiousif my materialis working.I'll say,

"Givemeyour hands."ThenI holdrnyha.nds

in air at shoulderlevel.

Sheputsher handsin mine.I squeeze

gently.Doesshesqueeze
back?I

let go but keepherhandson mine,thenslowlylou'ermy hands.Do her

halds follow mine?WhenI'm done,sometimes

theHBs ask."Wlat was

that?"I'll say,"An IOI test."LOL. Whocares...

Thereis somuchmoreI wantto sayhere.somanymoreexamples

I want

u to give,but in general:be THE man,be confident,not a little boy.

a Seduce
her,don'tannoyher.Be cockyAND funn),AND playful,don'tbe
z mean(unlessit'spartofa pushpull strategy).
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z
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F Stylewdtes:

7 Subject:Dealingwith ObjectionrNot ReadyForNew Relationship?

r
I Anonymousn/r'lesrHBl, after havingsexwith me, saidshedoesn't\r,antto seeme

I for a while while shegetsover her last boyfriend.

7
!
! It's bs.Eithershejustusedyou for reboundsex,or you did something
or didn'tprovide

!l something
sheneedsor boredher,sosheis dumpingyoupolitely."lt's notyou.it's me..."

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s
c
E
in the middle of a divorce,tums down a I
Anonymouscot lirlesi Then HB2, who's
-
guy but she'snot readyto get involved I
coffeedate,sayingthat I seemlike a nice
E
with anyone."Bad timing," shesays' I
II
My
They like you' so they are beingpolite
Again. You aredoing somethingwong here I
D's email
guessfiom theseexcuses:maybeyou aretoo nice HaveyoureadDavid I

dnaccusalion
lour:elt Justa guessnol
on de-wl.Issilling
ne$slener: I

I
boyfriend after he spentthe night with his E
Anonymouscottlirres: HB3 dumpedher
I
atril then shebegsme to leaveher house
ex-wi{e.SoI go out rvith hei' we make out'
I
sheregrets'I figure it's in the bag' so
becnuseotherwiseshe'sgoingto do something I
she
and seta datefor the weekend'Tben
I leavewithout pushingit' We talk after
sayingshe'snot readyfor ad!thing
totally doesan about-faceand leavesa message I

and shedoesn'twant to seeme everagarn'

I
on thefirst
situation'shouldhavepressed
1
Thismay beherebluning.Again,with this
andunderstanding'
date.But otherwise'areyoubeingtoo Dice

she
first attemptto gettogetherby saying
Anonymouscoltilles: HB4 rejectsmy
her imagineus havinga greattinre
just got over a rough break-up'I pressby haviDg
datefor
we're both really busy' sowe setthe
together'sowe schedulea coffeedate'
and I don't know il she'sgoingto
the followingweek.Now the date'stomorrow'
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F
i
showup or, like the others,flake sorne$,here

over her breakuD.

alongthe way becauseshe'sstill gettilg

Don't evendealwith theobjection.Justrespondin a c/fway. Say,,'yeah,I understand.

My petrabbitdiedwhenI wastwelve,soi'm still gettingoverthatandam not reaoyto

attachmyselftoanythingthatcandieyet.No, seriously.
I do understand
whereyou're

comingliom. I don'tmeanto belittleit. Theysaythattheamountof time it takesto get

oversomeone
is half aslongasthetime it tookto datethem.So,since),oudatedhim for

four years,you shouldbe goodto go in abouttwo years.Call me then.I'll remember

you

by thewayyou _ (\a,iatever)."
thenifyou wantto be a realasshole,
actually

, leave.Oddsarethatshe'Ilcall.
a
7 Alother guess:areyou listeningto theirproblems?
Dont.
tt
ln general,something
t just pretending
tellsme tl.utyou eitherarentalpha(theman)enough,or you are

I to be andinsecurities
areshowingthough.

I
I Anonymouscozlirtes: I just don't get it. I mean,the best$ay to get over someoneN

I to be with someoneelse,to distractyou and makeyou forget aboutyour problems,

I
I Truebut don't tell themthat.Teasemercilessly
instead.Makethefiwant yo\r!
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Style//itus: I
Subject:Pushing& Pulling:
qualifyingand challengingrevisited
II
on top of a caron
Wishyou werehere'man Australiais beautifulHad sex
Hey Grimbie:
with a young
Sydney with
street an older woman And spentlast night
a semi-busy

Fun'
backpacker.

But'
Yes' it's when
best ircoryoratedinto punishment'irervard'
Anyway,pushing/pulling
punishment/re$'ard
to theory'
behavioral what works BEST is an inconsistent
according
thetime Soyou don't
They arerewaded and punishedMOST (butnot all) of
system.

haveto be too strict aboutthis'

Rio's101theory'
Othergoodpoststo readareabout

But,generally,lamALWAYSthroughoutthePUtryingtopush/pull'Tellingheltogo
Or
me' then puuing her back in andaskingrhere she'sgoing
awayaodstoppesteing
a GM stylecornment
her sheremindsme ofone ofmy sisters'andthenmaking
telling
Things
Zan' doing thrngs where you qualify andthen disquaiiryher'
Or, like Badboyand
workingout Getengaged' thenbreakup
then say it's not
like makinga rclationship'

shoulder
it occurson a subtleleve1too suddenl)lookingoverher
This is sokey And
Thesethings-
as ifshe'sbormg you Leaningback Sloppingthekino
{hen she'stalking'
T

I -push-pull-arein my mind an elen'lcnt thegoodftom the grcat.Theyreally

thatseparates

lbr somercasonfire theattractionsignals.

I'm a little rushed:catchingup on lotsofemail andposts.You guysrock.Missinghome,

whateveremailyou told Mys you sentme I never

but lovingAusl.alia.And Dkonstruct,

got...

St) le n/ites:

Subject:Locking In Your Target

t
? It's sostupid.I loggedin todayandcaughtup on thefomm because
I

7 $'antedto posta gold technique

thatI don'tthink anyone's
mentioned
t before(I couldbe wrong),but it is something
Mysterydoesand
3
there'ssucha crMy backlash
hererightnow thatI almostjustdidn't
,

I do it sothatI wouldn'tgetflamedor something.

But fuck it.

t
7 (Forwhatlitde it is worth,I amupsetto seeall thesegripes

? againstpeople'sFRsfrom his workshop,maybeit'sjustbecause

I kno$

7 them andspenttime with them andreally like them and sawtheir game
P theygetpushedintomoreapproaches
change.Besides, thantheyever
I haveon thesenightsout,soit'swortha FR--it's in the field.But
,

t I do agreewith thecontention
thatthePOINTofFRs is to LEARN from

t
t
P
 So a FR saying"a nightout with Mystery
else'sexperience.
someone

my life" andnothingelseis the sameasall theothelrepods

changed

saying"I openeda gi.l in a bar andgot laid lastnight"withoutthe

details.So what'smy poilt? I guessmy point is that' for me, my

"comingout" on this forumwasthrougha MysteryMethodworkshopfield

rcport that I wrote. lt led to me meetingGdmble andzu and so many

at thetime I'd
othergreatpeople,andif suchpostswerediscouraged

beMILES behindin my gameandprobablylurkingtoo )

Okay,rantover....

thetargetand
groupsets'andignore/neg
A lot ofpeoplewho approach

thetarget
andCBshavethisproblem:Sometimes
focuson the obstacles

wandersoff andleaves.

Thisdoesnothaveto happen

hats,
Here'sthesolution:WEAR PROPS.Thesecanbe sunglasses'
the group,
featherboas,Hawaiianlays,whatever.when you approach

you simplyput a propon thetarget (Ifyou want'say,"Let'ssee

to hold TheD
whatthatlookslike on you.")Or you giveher something

she'sstuckthere,andyou canignoreheraslong asyou want lt's

like puttinga BOOKMARKon a girl. asifto say,"l'll getto you

I

II you wantto her

later."Thenyou canconveyall thepersonality

friends,andshe'llbe aroundto hearit. And ifshe'sa SHByou can

F etc.
neg,shuther out liom her own groupwith your bodylanguage,

andshe'sstuckthere.

Justdon'tforgetto collectyourpropat theend,LOLI

Style t /iles:

t Subject:Re: Help for Newbies- mp3sofopeners

7
2a
A couplequickthoughts.I listenedto thesemp3sa while back.so

7 they'renot freshin my mind.

?
It
First,I wasshowinganFB of minepbotoson the computer,andshe
F stoppedat theoneyou emailedmeandasked,"Who'sthatgoodlooking
F dude
guy?"Socongrats,

Now, KNOW that you are goodlooking insideandtrust your natural

charm.I thinli that pattemingTOO quickly in a bar chitchatis

actuallyDETRIMENTAL to your sargesl really savepatterningfor

her in me l got a feeling

isolation,afterI've alreadyinterested

thatyouwerenoi beingINTERACTIVEenough
from someofthe recordings
 L{STENINGto youbut not ALL
with the HBs.ln other\!orcls'meywere

THERE,

dayandI canshowyou how I I'ork'

Hopefullywe canwing togetherone
HOOK thewoman
very consciously
Earlyon. evenDURINGthe opener'I
commentsabouther' ln a bar
into what I am saying l makespecific
(A new grossgeneralization
situation,peoplearethereto haveFLN
to havefun' ovef30 to have
for me is thatwomenunder30 arethere
ToO I\ITENSELYandTOO EARLY
sex.)I think droppingpattemlanguage

canhavenegativeeffects'

this' but in a different\\'ay In

I have sargedwith RossJ He DOES do
jnteractiveat first l could
a firn, playful way. He'svery funny and
at dinner'nherehe flirted
posta sampledialoguehe hadonenight
andartfully transitionedftom
with somegirls *'ho u'ereeatingdesert
coolor not l'll
into kissing'but don'tknowifthafs
chocolate

leavethat uPto zu

but I sensea SPfor you And

Anyway,dont kno if this makessense'
reliedon OTHERtoolsas\&elland
I thinkyou couldgetfurtherifyou
PUs
iesson the structweofmagicin bar/club
I

Sq le ,/rles:

Subject:The Hook Point

I wantedto starta discussion

on something. peopleandgroups,
WhenI approach

anywhere,
thereis a make-or-break
moment.It occursanywherefiom themomentI

$'alkup to 15minutesinto it, andthis is whentheyareHOOKED.

Sone setsyou canwalk up to, andthey'resohappyto havea freshfaceandne*

thatyou areIN already.Others,youhaveto demonstrate

conversation. some

valuefirst. Others.you haveto find a commonality.

Others,it'sjust enough

3 to be differentfrom all the otherguyswho approach.

And otherstakea lot of
v \\,orkandmaneuvering.
And still others,you cantalk to for a while,but can't
t hook.Theylisten,but theydon'tBITE.
I
tr
Somy questionis: for otherguyswho sarge,areyou AWARE ofthis hookpoint.
P
F To me,thegamecan'treall),startuntil you areIN. And it's a greatfeeling.lt's

F whatI do it for. And you neverknow whenyou approach

wherethathookpoint

? wili be:instantor never.

F
F
I thint my point is thatin my experience,
this is themostdifflcult partofa

PU. Openingis easy.And closingis easy,because

you havethetacticshereto
II getpasttheroadblocks.
It's this dangerous
borderbet*eenbeingon the
I

I OUTSIDEandtheINSIDEthatmakesor breaksa PU for me.

I
I
T
 I
T
or thoughtson this?It's a newideafor me'
Doesanyoneelsehaveexpelience t
soI'm probablystatingit poorly But I'd like to flesh
it out fufher to fmd I
for it'
Il
someclarityon it andtechniques
I
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Subject: Rel The Ilook Point I

I
this' andhalfdon't Ilike I
I think halfofyou understand
I
I
madesense'
Braid-ged'scomments--really
I

to 15people)o?ENS
There'sthepointwheretheset(any$herel'rom1
theirconversalion'
In otherwords,you aretalking,tbeybavestopped

andthey are listeningandresponding'

This meansthat you

Thenthere'sthe point wherethe setis HOOKED

arelN. Braid Gedexplainsit as:

'TheHookPoint'is wheneveryoneis in geneml

>Perhaps
cool stateandlar
>agreementthat statec (the stateyou gavethem) is a very

>superiorto stateb (their initial state)'

I

I And.to add,theyWANT youaround.Theydo NOT wantyou to leave.From

there,you canbeginthegameandathact,seduce,
close,etc.

I
I Formhandle
anda few othenherediscussintemalbeliefs.IMHO, this

hasNOTHINGto do with this.It is a separate

thingentirely.IOW. you

nay approach
a girl w'hois *aiting for her fiancd.She\r'ill listento

you,but not gettoo INTO whatyou aresayingbecar.rse

sheis waiting

for her fiancd anddoesn'twant to appearlike shemay be talking with

or fliding with anothern'lan.Here,no matterwhatyourbeliefis,she

h
canbe OPENEDbut not HOOKED.
)

P I can'tthink ofany other*ay to describeit, but Ijust palpably

F FEELthatmomentwhenthe sargetumsaround.And insteadofme trying

P to stayin theset,theyaretryingto KEEPmethere.Thepursuer
F
F becomes
thepursued.

F
II I guessI amthinkingaboutthehookpointbecause
it is thepartof

thesargethatis theMOST out ofmy control.IOW, openingisjust an

intemalthing-it's a matterofconfidence.LMR too is a matterof

F
I
playingthegameright.But thehookpoirt is random.We all know it:

we approacha setnot knowing whetherthey'regoing to be totally

I closedoffto strangers
or boredshitlesswaitingfor a nan theycan

I
II
I
 but still not everyone'
pounceon.A goodPUA canhookMORE sets'

pointI
to be awareofbecauseBEFOREthehook
I think it's something
AITER the book point'
usedifferent game(ust demonstratingvalue)

phasecanbegin'
the attractiorl,/seduction

l'il postmoreoncel've
Thanksfor helpingme thinkthisthrough

betterfornulated this .'