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TO FAIL
The development of a low sense of ability to cope with failure once again comes from our
social editors and messages we receive via our archetypal conditioning. Fear of failure
comes from messages such as “you will never amount to anything”, “you're not as smart or
talented as your sister” or “ if you aim too high, you will just be disappointed”.
Fear of failure is a very common code that we download without even realising. We may
dream small, procrastinate or give up easily, but we do not realise that these are all
avoidance behaviours associated with the fear of failure. These behaviours are functional
because they protect us in the short-term from feeling like a failure, but they are equally
unhelpful because they also prohibit us from achieving success. Fear of failure can develop
from being brought up in a very successful family where there were high standards of
achievement and lots of negative comparisons. It can be also be downloaded from being
criticised, devalued, compared to others, and ridiculed by your parents or social editors such
as teachers, if you struggled to learn at the same pace as your peers or did not achieve
success in areas deemed important by them. We download and internalise these messages
and they become part of our subconscious mind and they play over and over in the
background like the hard drive on your computer.
Basically, if the message from your social editors is that you are inadequate, fall short, are
not as smart or talented as other people, these beliefs can permeate across all domains of
your life and affect your relationships, career, finances and your life in general. It’s definitely
worth putting the work in and healing this fear of failure and activating the WILLINGNESS TO
FAIL on the path to activating the Confidence code.
WILLINGNESS
TO FAIL
Behaviours and feelings you might display if you have low WILLINGNESS TO FAIL
include:
When you activate WILLINGNESS TO FAIL in your life, you will learn to realise that in
everything we do there is a chance we will make errors and fall short. If we
understand this and embrace this on the path towards mastery, we will achieve
more of our hopes and dreams and live a fuller and more rewarding life.
WILLINGNESS
TO FAIL