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Interpersonal Relationships
Part 1 of 3
Frieda Fromm Reichman
` Describe the advantages and disadvantages of interpersonal
relationships and assess your own relationships in light of
these
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1. My relationships help to lessen my loneliness
2. My relationships help me gain in self-knowledge and in self-
esteem
3. My relationships help enhance my physical and emotional health
4. My relationships maximize my pleasures and minimize my pains
5. My relationships help me to secure stimulation (intellectual,
physical, and emotional)
6. My relationships put uncomfortable pressure on me to expose
my vulnerabilities
7. My relationships increase my obligations
8. My relationships prevent me from developing other
relationships
9. My relationships scare me because they may be difficult to
dissolve
10. My relationships hurt me
` stimulate ideas
` enhance self-esteem
` minimize pain
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Brainstorm . . . What are the disadvantages of
interpersonal relationships?
` expose weaknesses
` can involve obligations of time, money, emotion,
and behaviour
` can affect other relationships
` can be difficult to terminate
` can involve the potential for hurt
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` Culture influences heterosexual relationships by
assigningg genderr roles
s in
n a relationship
` Culture influences
s the
e acceptance
e and
d the
e rights
s in
society of same sex relationships
` The quality of social relationships depends on the length of
the relationship and on the topics and activities that are
shared
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e havee bothh collectivistt and
d individualistic
c values
s
and
d orientations
s butt to
o varyingg degrees
` What is the definition of a family?
` Describe a family. . . .
` Emotional Jealousy
◦ Feelings
s youu have
e when you see your partner behaving
intimately or demonstrating affection for a rival
` Behavioural Jealousy
◦ Whatt you
u actually
y do
o in response to the jealous feelings
and emotions
` Rather than responding with anger or
negativity, try to work things out using
“iintegrative
e communication”” skills:
◦ Disclosing your feelings
◦ Being honest
◦ Practising effective conflict management
◦ Listening actively
` Abusive acts repeatedly
y committed
d by one person (or
group) against another
` Cyberbullying
` Ethically . . . Bullying
g destroyss a person’ss rightt to
o
personall dignityy and an environment free from
intimidation
` Be sure to clearly stipulate what behaviour
constitutes bullying
◦ Physical abuse
◦ Verbal or emotional abuse
◦ Sexual abuse
◦ Economic abuse
` A variety of serious consequences
` Physical
◦ Range from scratches and bruises to broken bones, wounds
and damage to the central nervous system
` Psychological
◦ Include depression, anxiety, fear of intimacy and low self-
esteem
` Economic
◦ Include financial hardship, indebtedness, and inability to
support oneself
Non-Violent Violent Positive
e Outcomee using
g Non-
Violentt Approach
Fairness Emotional Abuse Look for resolutions to
conflict that will be fair to
both parties
Communication Control & Isolation Partners feel safe and
comfortable expressing
themselves
Mutual Respect Intimidation Valuing of each partner
Mutual Affirmation
Iff you
u are
e a violentt partner:
` Realize that you too are not alone
` Know that you can change
` Own your own behaviour; take responsibility
Iff you
u are
e a friend
d off someone
e who
o has
s a violentt partner:
` Remember that it may take many occasions before your friend is ready
to leave
` Be nonjudgmental. Don’t blame your friend for staying
` Always be there for your friend
For both parties:
` Seek professional help