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Who Is Podcast Guest Turned Star Andrew Huberman
Who Is Podcast Guest Turned Star Andrew Huberman
25, 2024
Andrew Huberman’s
Mechanisms of Control The
private and public seductions
of the world’s biggest pop
neuroscientist.
By Kerry Howley, a features writer for New
York Magazine since 2021.
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F
or the past three years, one of the biggest
podcasters on the planet has told a story to
millions of listeners across half a dozen shows:
There was a little boy, and the boy’s family was happy,
until one day, the boy’s family fell apart. The boy was
sent away. He foundered, he found therapy, he found
science, he found exercise. And he became strong.
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ome of Andrew’s earliest Instagram posts are of
his lab. We see smiling undergraduates “slicing,
staining, and prepping brains” and a wall of
framed science publications in which Huberman-
authored papers appear: Nature, Cell Reports, The
Journal of Neuroscience. In 2019, under the handle
@hubermanlab, Andrew began posting
straightforward educational videos in which he talks
directly into the camera about subjects such as the
organizational logic of the brain stem. Sometimes he
would talk over a simple anatomical sketch on lined
paper; the impression was, as it is now, of a fast-
talking teacher in conversation with an intelligent
student. The videos amassed a fan base, and Andrew
was, in 2020, invited on some of the biggest podcasts
in the world. On Lex Fridman Podcast, he talked
about experiments his lab was conducting by inducing
fear in people. On The Rich Roll Podcast, the
relationship between breathing and motivation. On
The Joe Rogan Experience, experiments his lab was
conducting on mice.
A
ndrew Huberman declined to be interviewed
for this story. Through a spokesman,
Huberman says he did not become exclusive
with Sarah until late 2021, that he was not doted on,
that tasks between him and Sarah were shared “based
on mutual agreement and proficiency,” that their
Thanksgiving plans were tentative, and that he
“maintains a very busy schedule and shows up to the
vast majority of his commitments.”
B
y 2022, Andrew was legitimately famous.
Typical headlines read “I tried a Stanford
professor’s top productivity routine” and
“Google CEO Uses ‘Nonsleep Deep Rest’ to Relax.”
Reese Witherspoon told the world that she was sure to
get ten minutes of sunlight in the morning and tagged
Andrew. When he was not on his own podcast,
Andrew was on someone else’s. He kept the place in
Topanga, but he and Sarah began splitting rent in
Berkeley. In June 2022, they fully combined lives;
Sarah relocated her family to Malibu to be with him.
I
think it’s important to recognize that we might
have a model of who someone is,” says Dossett,
“or a model of how someone should conduct
themselves. And if they do something that is out of
sync with that model, it’s like, well, that might not
necessarily be on that person. Maybe it’s on us. Our
model was just off.”
W
henever Sarah had suspicions about
Andrew’s interactions with another woman,
he had a particular way of talking about the
woman in question. She says he said the women were
stalkers, alcoholics, and compulsive liars. He told her
that one woman tore out her hair with chunks of flesh
attached to it. He told her a story about a woman who
fabricated a story about a dead baby to “entrap” him.
(A spokesperson for Huberman denies the account of
the denigration of women and the dead-baby story
and says the hair story was taken out of context.) Most
of the time, Sarah believed him; the women probably
were crazy. He was a celebrity. He had to be careful.
O
n January 11, a woman we’ll call Alex began
liking all of Sarah’s Instagram posts, seven of
them in a minute. Sarah messaged her: “I
think you’re friends with my ex, Andrew Huberman.
Are you one of the woman he cheated on me with?”
Alex is an intense, direct, highly educated woman who
lives in New York; she was sleeping with Andrew; and
she had no idea there had been a girlfriend. “Fuck,” she
said. “I think we should talk.” Over the following
weeks, Sarah and Alex never stopped texting. “She
helped me hold my boundary against him,” says Sarah,
“keep him blocked. She said, ‘You need to let go of the
idea of him.’” Instead of texting Andrew, Sarah texted
Alex. Sometimes they just talked about their days and
not about Andrew at all. Sarah still thought beautiful
Eve, on the other hand, “might be crazy,” but they
talked some more and brought her into the group
chat. Soon there were others. There was Mary: a
dreamy, charismatic Texan he had been seeing for
years. Her friends called Andrew “bread crumbs,”
given his tendency to disappear. There was a fifth
woman in L.A., funny and fast-talking. Alex had been
apprehensive; she felt foolish for believing Andrew’s
lies and worried that the other women would seem
foolish, therefore compounding her shame. Foolish
women were not, however, what she found. Each of
the five was assertive and successful and educated and
sharp-witted; there had been a type, and they were
diverse expressions of that type. “I can’t believe how
crazy I thought you were,” Mary told Sarah. No one
struck anyone else as a stalker. No one had made up a
story about a dead baby or torn out hair with chunks
in it. “I haven’t slept with anyone but him for six
years,” Sarah told the group. “If it makes you feel any
better,” Alex joked, “according to the CDC,” they had all
slept with one another.
W
hile Huberman has been criticized for
having too few women guests on his
podcast, he is solicitous and deferential
W
toward those he interviews. In a January 2023
episode, Dr. Sara Gottfried argues that “patriarchal
messaging” and white supremacy contribute to the
deterioration of women’s health, and Andrew responds
with a story about how his beloved trans mentor, Ben
Barres, had experienced “intense
suppression/oppression” at MIT before transitioning.
“Psychology is influencing biology,” he says with
concern. “And you’re saying these power dynamics …
are impacting it.”
T
ell us about the dark triad,” he had said to Buss
in November on the trip in which he slept with
Mary.
A
ndrew grew up in Palo Alto just before the
dawn of the internet, a lost city. He gives some
version of his origin story on The Rich Roll
Podcast; he repeats it for Tim Ferriss and Peter Attia.
He tells Time magazine and Stanford magazine. “Take
the list of all the things a parent shouldn’t do in a
divorce,” he recently told Christian bowhunter
Cameron Hanes. “They did them all.” “You had,” says
Wendy Zukerman in her bright Aussie accent, “a
wayward childhood.” “I think it’s very easy for people
listening to folks with a bio like yours,” says Tim
Ferriss, “to sort of assume a certain trajectory, right?
To assume that it has always come easy.” His father
and mother agree that “after our divorce was an
incredibly hard time for Andrew,” though they “do not
agree” with some of his characterization of his past;
few parents want to be accused of “pure neglect.”
I
have never,” says Amit, “met a man more
interested in personal growth.” Andrew’s
relationship to therapy remains intriguing. “We
were at dinner once,” says Eve, “and he told me
something personal, and I suggested he talk to his
therapist. He laughed it off like that wasn’t ever going
to happen, so I asked him if he lied to his therapist. He
told me he did all the time.” (A spokesperson for
Huberman denies this.)
“It could have been sad or bitter,” says Eve. “We didn’t
jump in as besties, but real friendships have been
built. It has been, in a strange and unlikely way, quite a
beautiful experience.”
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