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29 ways to humiliate your husband

Oh, the delightful thrill of dominance and submission! It’s a dance that tests
boundaries, forges deeper connections, and satisfies the most complex desires.
One such tantalizing flavour in this mix is consensual humiliation. Now, before

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your eyebrows shoot up in surprise, let’s clear the air. Consensual humiliation is
not about disrespect or abuse. It’s about exploring power dynamics, pushing
comfort zones, and indulging in the heady intoxication of dominance and
submission.

Engaging in consensual humiliation as part of a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)

can be a powerful and exciting aspect of the dynamic, especially at levels 3 or 4,
where there’s a deeper, more established understanding of each other’s limits and
desires.

So, dear ladies, let’s dive into ways a wife can use consensual humiliation to assert
her authority in a Female-led Relationship (FLR).

1. Chastity Play: Require him to wear a chastity device, giving you complete
control over his sexual release.
2. Pet Names: Use specific pet names for him that play into the humiliation
aspect, only within the agreed-upon context.
3. Clothing Control: Dictate what he wears, possibly choosing outfits that are
slightly embarrassing or not his usual style.
4. Public Tasks: Give him subtle tasks to perform in public that are slightly
embarrassing but not overly conspicuous.
5. Service Oriented: Assign him menial tasks around the house, like cleaning or
serving you, emphasising your control.
6. Orgasm Control/Denial: Exercise control over his orgasms, deciding when or if
he’s allowed release.
7. Sissyfication: Dress him in feminine clothing or lingerie if this aligns with
your mutual kinks.
8. Mockery Play: Gently mock or tease him about specific things, keeping it light
and within agreed boundaries.
9. Restrictive Bondage: Use bondage in a way that makes him feel exposed or
vulnerable.
10. Posture Collars or Leashes: Use posture collars or leashes to control his
movement and posture.
11. Foot Worship: Have him worship your feet, emphasising his subservience.

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12. Speech Restrictions: Limit how and when he can speak, or create rules around
how he addresses you.
13. Cuckolding Scenarios: Explore cuckolding fantasies where you describe or
enact scenes with other partners.
14. Eating and Drinking Control: Control aspects of his diet or manner of
eating/drinking, possibly in a way that’s mildly embarrassing.
15. Erotic Photography: Take compromising or submissive photos of him (with
consent) to reinforce the dynamic.
16. Role Reversal Scenarios: Have him take on roles traditionally considered
‘feminine’ or ‘submissive’ in the household, like serving you dinner dressed as
a maid or doing the laundry, and praise him for his obedience and diligence.
17. Language Games: Create a game where he must speak in a certain way, like
referring to himself in the third person or only using certain phrases when
addressing you. This can be both a playful and a subtle form of humiliation.
18. Creative Writing Tasks: Assign him to write essays or poems about his
submission, fantasies, or feelings about being in a FLR, and then have him read
them aloud to you.
19. Restrictive Clothing: Have him wear restrictive or slightly uncomfortable
clothing around the house, such as tight shorts or a shirt with a tight collar, as
a constant reminder of his submission.
20. Ceremonial Rituals: Develop small rituals that emphasise his submission, like
kneeling and kissing your feet when you arrive home or presenting himself for
inspection.
21. Creative Punishments: For playful misdemeanours, invent creative
punishments, like standing in the corner, writing lines, or performing an
embarrassing dance for you.
22. Sensory Deprivation: Use blindfolds or earmuffs to deprive him of sight or
hearing for a period, heightening his other senses and making him more aware
of his vulnerability.
23. Objectification: Treat him as an object, like a footstool or a piece of furniture,
for a short period, emphasising your control and his objectification. See also
https://femaleled.info/objectification-ten-ways-to-treat-your-husband-
like-an-object-to-increase-humility-and-obedience/
24. Mock Competitions: Create light-hearted competitions where he’s set up to

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fail amusingly, like a baking contest where he has to use an unfamiliar recipe.
25. Guided Public Outings: Take him on a ‘guided’ shopping trip where you choose
items for him to try on, subtly pushing his comfort zone in a safe environment.
26. Performance Tasks: Have him perform tasks that are slightly embarrassing
but harmless, like singing a silly song or performing a skit you wrote.
27. Diary Keeping: Require him to keep a diary of his submissive thoughts and
feelings to be shared and discussed with you.
28. Service Auctions: In a private setting with consenting friends, ‘auction’ off his
services, like foot massages or serving drinks.
29. Selective Silence: Institute periods where he is not permitted to speak unless
spoken to or can only respond in a pre-determined manner.

humiliate your husband with gentle public play

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Remember, the essence of consensual humiliation is ‘consensual’. Always discuss

limits, use safe words, and constantly check in with your partner’s emotional
state. Respect his boundaries, and remember, the aim is to assert your authority
and enhance pleasure, not to hurt or degrade your partner genuinely.

So, ladies, if you and your partner are intrigued by this captivating element of
power play, go forth, explore and revel in it. It’s your world, your rules. Make him
dance to your tantalising tune of dominance. And to the gentlemen, your
willingness to submit and please is indeed commendable. Always remember, your
submission is not a sign of weakness but a testament to your courage and respect
for the power of the feminine.

Which one is your favourite? Let me know in the comments.

Author: Cat Boulder

Meet Cat Boulder: a sassy blogger unapologetically championing Female Supremacy with
a cheeky grin and a sharp pen. She's not just preaching women's strength and leadership
– she's a live wire sparking a gender-role rebellion. For Cat, women are more than
leaders; they're queens to be served joyfully by men, weaving bonds of strength and
sisterhood in every aspect of life. Through her zesty prose, she empowers women to own
their dominance while guiding men to embrace humble servitude with gusto. Forget
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Cat Boulder December 18, 2023 5. Practices Dominance and Submission, humiliation,
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6 thoughts on “29 ways to humiliate your husband”

mike

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December 18, 2023 at 4:42 am

I do love when my mistress/keyholder exerts her dominance in public. I embrace

the opportunity to show her how much I love her through submission.

john
December 18, 2023 at 11:47 pm

I certainly appreciate your POV as a dominant woman – offering advice to other

women interested in leading their relationships with worthy, deferentially-
oriented men. And I have long understood women in charge is the natural order:
it’s simply smart. That said, I have come to realize that certain words can be off-
putting to women who might ordinarily prefer to be a relationship leader.
Surprisingly, one of them is “submissive.” I cannot tell you how many women
just have an issue the word as it applies to a man and his status; the other,
unfortunately, is “humiliation.” I have long heard strong women say that they
may lead their relationship, but they do not want to “humiliate” their partner. It
just doesn’t fit their DNA and it is topic and ideology they are uncomfortable with.
Even if you say the humiliation is “consensual” I tend to think it is off-putting to
a fairly high number of women who might otherwise be comfortable leading their
man. Just a thought.

– john

Suzanne Petty
December 19, 2023 at 3:18 am

I love your blog, and sincerely hope that it encourages young women to consider
the possibility and considerable personal advantages of establishing a lasting flr.
You have written before about levels of control, and as an addendum to this post I
have to say that non consensual humiliation may well have a place for some. I am
profoundly excited by the humiliation of my husband, and whilst he dreads

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humiliation and embarrassment more than physical pain there is also a level at
which he craves precisely those feelings. We are complex beings, and must all
develop a relationship which satisfies both partners however strange the result
may appear to others. Your list of 29 possibilities is a great idea. It makes the
point that in fact the possibilities are endless. Thanks for all your hard work.

david
December 19, 2023 at 9:55 am

Public tasks, certainly, with the understanding that if performance is not up to

standard, more extreme public humiliation is in store!

vito submale
December 20, 2023 at 8:06 am

Genuinely longing for real loving connection with a dominant female partner I
have to admit that my cravings round humiliation may sometimes at least appear
to be a so called kink obsession. These fantasies are as old as my memories and
are not caused by abuse or anything close to that, so somehow they simply define
my masculine sexual nature. Out of the 29 ways you mention ‘Ceremonial Rituals’
is the best way to categorize them. All celebrations of Female Triumph and male
defeat make me extremely vulnerable, meek, ashamed, embaressed, intimidated,
and…. yesss, I have to admit it….. horny! When I was born almost 65 years ago the
world as whole was a partiarchy. During my life girls and women have become
empowered and almost every day science proves the superiority of women on
again another field that we assumed men were born for to be the champion. In
that respect the fantasies from my youth become reality nowadays. These are
indeed interesting times to live in as a dominant woman and as a submissive man.
Thank you Madam for your support of Female Supremacy. It helps me to be who I
have always been.

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Mistress Scarlet
December 20, 2023 at 10:22 pm

Hi Cat, I adore your art.

I am trying to increase the number of FLRs by finding ways to attract vanilla
women to the cause. I have been studying this issue for over two decades. I
wonder if you would read a recent post of mine, and if you find it aligns with your
views, possibly include the label, uxo, and the following definition, in a future
work of art. (I consider your comic strip pieces works of art!)

An uxo can only be totally content if they feel helplessly in the power of a
dominant woman with a bit of a mean streak.

I have listed the post URL as my website address.

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