L|ements that Inf|uence k|ds' ersona||ty

Lvery Llme Clna walked down Lhe lane where she llved some nelghbor or Lhe
oLher would remark LhaL 1he 8raL was off Lo some place 1he slxyearold was
Lhe only chlld of her parenLs and Lhey had spollL her LoLally Lven when she was a
small chlld her parenLs had never refused her anyLhlng And she ln Lurn always
made sure LhaL she goL whaL she wanLed Per moLher CayaLrl noLlced Lhls
CayaLrl reallzed LhaL lL was all her faulL LhaL Clna developed such a snobblsh
characLer 1hough everyone admlLLed LhaL Clna was a very lnLelllgenL glrl even
Lhan she had no frlends unLll 8lLa [olned Lhe class new Lo Lhe clLy and Loo shy Lo
make any frlends 8lLa dld noL mlnd belng Laken under Clnas wlng 1hough she
knew Clna was more of a boss around! AL leasL she had someone Lo play wlLh
Cne day Lhe Leacher scolded 8lLa for dolng her sums wlLhouL Lhlnklng Clna Lold
her mom abouL Lhls lncldenL LhaL had happened Lo 8lLa Clna's mom Lold her Lo
help 8lLa her wlLh her sums and make 8lLa undersLand why she should help AfLer
Clna explalned how Lhe sums were Lo be done Lo 8lLa Lhe nexL day 8lLa solved all
Lhe sums on her own 1he Leacher and Lhe whole class appreclaLed 8lLa on her
achlevemenL 8uL 8lLa honesLly dlsclosed LhaL lL was Clna who made Lhe Lough
sums easy Lo her Lveryone was shocked Lo see how a snobblsh glrl llke Clna
could help anyone ouL 8uL Lhls acknowledgemenL from 8lLa's slde worked


maglcally Cradually Clna developed Lhe sklll of pollLeness and afLer some days
Lhe whole class became her frlend
ersonallLy ln slmple words means dlsLlncLlve personal quallLles whlch helps one
Lo esLabllsh ones ldenLlLy 1o some exLenL a chlld lnherlLs lLs responslblllLy from
lLs parenLs lL ls noL [usL one elemenL LhaL conLrlbuLes Lowards developlng our
personallLy buL mulLlple facLors work on LhaL LxperLs use Lhese dlmenslons ln
caLegorlzlng a chlld as easy challenglng or slow Lo warm up undersLandlng Lhe
psyche and behavlor of Lhe chlld ls mosL lmporLanL Lo prepare Lhe chlld for Lhls
compeLlLlve world Pere are some facLors Lo conslder as a parenL
O ct|v|ty Leve| A chlld aL Lhe hlgh end of Lhe specLrum races around Lhe
park a chlld aL Lhe low end prefers Lo be pushed on a swlng
O hythm|c|ty A chlld aL Lhe hlgh end of Lhe conLlnuum ls llkely Lo Lake a
nap aL Lhe same Llme every day a lowend youngsLer may noL nap every
day and seldom follows a rouLlne
O roach A hlghend chlld greeLs new foods wlLh eager curloslLy a chlld aL
Lhe low end heslLaLes even Lo paL a nelghbors famlllar dog
O datab|||ty A hlghly adapLable chlld falls asleep easlly aL any known
persons house a lowend chlld may sleep well only ln hls own bed
O ;ua||ty of Mood A chlld aL Lhe hlgh end wlll be dellghLed Lo see you afLer a
day of work a lowend youngsLer may cry
O ers|stence A chlld wlLh a hlgh level of perslsLence sLlcks wlLh a game long
afLer youre ready Lo qulL a lowlevel chlld ls more llkely Lo Lhrow a
LanLrum as a response Lo frusLraLlon
Lvery slngle lndlvldual has a unlque characLerlsLlc of Lhelr one As parenLs we
should noL Lry Lo change our klds buL should respecL Lhelr slngular personallLy 8y
showlng Lhe klds LhaL Lhey are [usL Lhe same LhaL parenLs wanLed parenLs wlll
help Lhem grow up Lo be proud of Lhe unlque lndlvldual Lhey are