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November 2008
November Birthdays and Anniversaries Dear SHUMC Friends,
I suspect that Ruth in the Old Testament might have been one of the first of the
Birthdays
“Sandwich Generation”—you know those folks who have the burdens of caring for
Nov. 3 Liz Sandford White Nov. 12Hanna Saxon their children and their parents at the same time. I certainly know that many folks in our
Nov. 4 Julie Bedingfield Nov. 14 Mark Spear church are experiencing the layers of those caring burdens. Yes, we know it’s family,
Nov. 6 Deni Blankenship Nov. 15 William Boon but when will we get some relief?
Nov. 7 Ken Park Nov. 18 Nancy Fatic Do you remember the Ruth story? Her husband died and she left her home and family
Margie Shelor Nov. 19 Conor Dobbs to move with her mother-in-law to Bethlehem (as a “stranger in a strange land”). There
Nov. 8 Greg Kime Nov. 26 Tom Culberson in the threshing fields as she gleaned for leftover wheat, she met her future husband,
Karen Vondruska Nov. 29 Raymond Yager, Jr and together they became the parents of Obed—the grandfather of King David. Ruth,
Nov. 9 Frances Riddick Nov. 30 Joy Tompkins sandwiched between mother-in-law and child, was certainly blessed by God. And
Nov. 12Patricia Betz family is such a blessing … but oh, it hurts when they hurt.
So being one of the sandwich generation is nothing new to our world and culture, but as
Anniversaries many of you know, the presence and/or help of extended family, friends and neighbors,
even clues or resources from our culture seems so distant or simply impossible.
Nov. 16 Vincent & Cheryl Cavaliere The result—lots of “angst”— a feeling of anxiety, apprehension, or insecurity. Maybe
Nov. 28 Tom & Lisa Culberson we should switch the sandwich generation to the angst generation. I certainly know I
Nov. 30 Matthew & Miranda Heitz feel it.
Today, my mom and I (and with long distance discussions with my brother and sister)
had to make the decision to move my dad out of their home to an “assisted living
We Extend Sympathy to: facility” which specializes in dementia care. My mom (typically not the emotional type)
Mrs. Marilyn Jones and family on the death of her mother, Marjorie Eckstein, on was full of tears in making this decision—so please keep them in prayer.
September 24. During these weeks, Gaye and I have also had the angst of trying to assist our son,
The Jones family and the Carr family on the death of Arthur Carr on September Clark to rediscover the potential for his life as he faces federal or state prosecution for a
30. “limewire” violation of federal law with minimum sentences ranging in the 8-12 years
Matthew Heitz and family on the death of his uncle on October 20. range. As a “civil rights/justice oriented lawyer” with a public defender background, I
resent what I perceive was a severe “entrapment” and violation of his constitutional
rights (of course, federal law sees it quite differently and I am certainly biased as
Clark’s dad). Please respect our privacy on the details of this matter, as our attorney has
November Flowers suggested that we share nothing about this situation.
November 23 - Given by Allen Harvester in loving memory of Martha for their 35th I know that being sandwiched is not new, and is certainly not new to many of you. But
wedding anniversary. somehow, I miss the days of grandparents and aunts and uncles, and cousins and long-
November 30 - Given by Mary Ann and Jim Shirbach in honor of their wedding time neighbors and friends all being around and connected to hold our hands, bring
anniversary and in honor of Mary Ann’s mother’s birthday. comfort and relief, and share our burdens. Don’t you?
Faithfully,
Pastor Glenn
Memorials
HOLIDAY BAZAAR (Through October 20)
United Methodist Women--are you remembering to drop a little After dinner on Wednesday, November 12th at 6:45 p.m. you will have the
change in your World Thank Offering jar every time you have an opportunity to hear Frances Christensen talk about his mission in China. He is
extra blessing in your life? We will be collecting the Thank part of Youth With A Mission and the son of long-time member Marium
Offering money at our General Meeting on November 9th. All Christensen.
ladies of the church are invited to join us for this annual special
meeting. Sunday, November 30th, Pastor Pedro Castillo from Methodist church in
Santiago de Cuba will preach to our congregation. There will be a combined
service at 10:30 a.m. with lunch following the service.
Charge Conference is scheduled for Tuesday, November 11 at 7:00 p.m. Rev. Please support these missionaries by attending. You will be humbled and
Clark Edwards will be the presiding elder. At this meeting we will elect our church amazed at their courage and commitment to Christ.
council officers for next year and report on activities of this past year and
expectations for the coming year. All members of the Church Council should plan Love in Christ
to attend and all of our church family are welcome to attend. Missions Committee