What Makes a Good Friend

Assalamu alikum wa rahmathullahi wabarakathuhu.

Today, I want to talk about something that matters a lot to all of us: friendship. We all
have friends, but what makes a good friend? Is it someone who shares their snacks with
you? Or maybe someone who always picks you for their team? Well, I think being a good
friend is about much more than that.

First, a good friend is someone who listens. They don’t just wait for their turn to talk—
they actually hear what you’re saying. Whether you're talking about your favorite video
game or something that’s worrying you, a good friend pays attention and cares about
what you’re feeling.

Second, a good friend is honest. They tell you the truth, even if it’s hard to hear. For
example, if your joke wasn’t that funny, they might say, “Hey, maybe try a different one
next time,” but they do it kindly. Honesty builds trust, and trust is super important in any
friendship.

Third, a good friend supports you. They cheer you on when you’re trying something new,
like learning how to skateboard or auditioning for a play. Even if you mess up, they’re the
ones saying, “You’ve got this! Try again!” A good friend believes in you even when you
doubt yourself.

Fourth, a good friend is kind. They don’t make fun of you or leave you out. Instead, they
include you, stand up for you, and make you feel like you belong. Kindness is what
makes a friend feel like family.

Lastly, a good friend accepts you for who you are. They don’t care if you’re the fastest
runner or the funniest in the group. They like you for being you. That’s what makes a
friendship real.

So, what makes a good friend? Listening, honesty, support, kindness, and acceptance.
These are the things that turn an ordinary friendship into something special. If you want
to have good friends, start by being one yourself.

Thank you.