In this article written for Genre in 1997, I explore the dynamics of looking for the gay soul through gay sexuality and how the gay soul can be discovered through dialogue with the mesmerizing and tantalizing personality behind the sexual fantasies, which entails a sincere and ongoing transformational encounter with painful and unresolved feelings from childhood. I hope this paper can also have resonances for anyone wishes to own the "projections" of lust and romantic love on an outer figure in order to have a more whole relationship with the inner soul figure and with others.
In this article written for Genre in 1997, I explore the dynamics of looking for the gay soul through gay sexuality and how the gay soul can be discovered through dialogue with the mesmerizing and tantalizing personality behind the sexual fantasies, which entails a sincere and ongoing transformational encounter with painful and unresolved feelings from childhood. I hope this paper can also have resonances for anyone wishes to own the "projections" of lust and romantic love on an outer figure in order to have a more whole relationship with the inner soul figure and with others.
In this article written for Genre in 1997, I explore the dynamics of looking for the gay soul through gay sexuality and how the gay soul can be discovered through dialogue with the mesmerizing and tantalizing personality behind the sexual fantasies, which entails a sincere and ongoing transformational encounter with painful and unresolved feelings from childhood. I hope this paper can also have resonances for anyone wishes to own the "projections" of lust and romantic love on an outer figure in order to have a more whole relationship with the inner soul figure and with others.