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你们是如何看待酒精、香烟和大麻的?
“Do you have friends that take drugs/drink alcohol
on a regular basis?”
你们是否有朋友吸毒、酗酒?
Teens On Substances
Conditionally Acceptable meant the respondents thought alcohol was acceptable under certain
conditions. 人们对此有条件式地接受意味着他们认为喝酒在某种条件下是被许可的。
What does this all mean? 这意味着什么?
这显示对这个问题的理解和看法, 父母们和青少年们
有着很大的差距。我们需要面对此一差距并且沟通两
代人的认知。
• Please talk to your teen about your views and make sure
that they understand what is and what is not appropriate!
Parents on Success: Our Survey 父母对成功的看法
• “What does it mean to you to be successful in
everyday life?” 你们对于每天都是成功的一天的定
义是什么?
Teens on Success: Our Survey 青少年对成功的看法
“What does it mean to you to be successful in everyday
life?” 你们对于每天都是成功的一天的定义是什么
?
What does this mean? 这意味着什么
?
• 100% of parent responses said that to be
successful for their children is for them to be
happy. 百分之百的父母回答他们孩子的成功
意味着孩子感到快乐和幸福。
What does this mean? 这意味着什
么?
• However, 24% of teens said that
grades/money mattered the most!
• Different priorities!
但是,百分
之二十四的青少年说他们的成
绩和金钱意味着一切。
Teenage Views on Success contd. 青少年对成功
的看法
• “What do parents think it means to be successful?”
父母们认为成功是什么?
What do teens think? 青少年又怎样想的
?
• Teens seem to think that their parents
OVERWHELMINGLY prefers grades/$money$ rather
than happiness. 青少年似乎认为他们的父母过于把
成绩和金钱放在了快乐和幸福之上。
• Overall agreement:
Not too much discussion on the topic
大多数:不大谈论这个话题
– Or one-sided 或者是一方的
• Parents say: no interference with school/studies!
父母说:别影响学业
– Teens agree somewhat 青少年某种程度上同意
• Parents say: someone who is good for you!
父母说:找个配得上你的!
Emily and Her Mother,
艾米莉和她的母亲
"When I was 16 years old, I had my first date with
a boy who I liked. But, in China, dating cannot be
in public to our parents, so when he wanted to see
me, the only thing we could do together would be
to study. Even then, the school and teachers found
out, and gave us a talk about dating.”
“Our parents ended up finding out, and tried to
stop us from dating, but couldn't. So what
happened, in the end, our studies dropped
dramatically and we both did not make it into our
first year in college. I had to redo my last year in
high school all over again and I promised myself
that I had to make it into college this time, so I
broke up with him. ”
“He didn't realize how much college meant, so he
kept dating around and still did not make it into the
second year of college, but I did.