To be fed up with life

The girl puts 3 Pots with hot water

The three objects was in the water for 20 minutes
 It got softened by touching hot water
In a situation of danger, you feel the fear

Its texture was hard

You can be calm, but in the suffering you
become immune.

Its texture was smooth

 No matter the situation, you stay
calm all the time

The coffee gives a good flavor to the water