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Attraction: The Force That Binds?
• Lesbians’ physical preferences:
– Prefer heavier women than men
– Reject excessive slenderness as attractive
• Nonphysical traits
– Perceived beauty may be enhanced by such traits
as familiarity, liking, respect, and sharing of values
and goals
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Attraction: The Force That Binds?
• Some facial features associated with beauty appear
to be the same across cultures.
• Gender-role expectations affect perceptions of
physical attractiveness.
– People who act consistent with gender-role expectations
typically are viewed as more attractive.
• People’s names affect perceptions of attractiveness.
– Matthew versus Sylvester
– Christine versus Gertrude
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Symmetry of Facial Features
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Attraction: The Force That Binds?
• Men report valuing the physical attractiveness of
prospective partners more than women do.
• Women report valuing the earning potential of
prospective partners more than men do.
– Although some evidence may support an evolutionary
explanation for attractiveness preferences, it does not fit all
the data.
• Both men and women report that personal characteristics (e.g.,
honesty) matter more than physical features do when considering
long-term partners.
• And many women also prefer physically attractive partners.
• Cultural influences can explain the findings, as well.
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Attraction: The Force That Binds?
• Attraction-Similarity Hypothesis
– People tend to develop romantic relationships
with people who are similar to themselves in
attractiveness and other traits.
• Exceptions to this hypothesis happen when a lack
of attractiveness is compensated for by other
factors.
– Matching can apply to similarity in ethnicity,
age, educational level, and religion.
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Attraction: The Force That Binds?
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What is Love?
Is it Biological?
– Bodily changes occur when we feel love:
• Chemicals in the brain’s pleasure system
• Hormones
• Increased nerve growth factor
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Romantic Love in
Contemporary Western Culture
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Love Vs Infatuation
Infatuation
– A state of intense absorption in or focus on another
person
– Usually involves sexual desire, elation, general
physiological arousal or excitement; passion
– If relationship develops, it typically is enforced by feelings
of attachment and caring.
– Often a passing fancy, but may develop into deeper
feelings and an enduring relationship
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Contemporary Models of Love
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Styles of love (Hendrick & Hendrick)
– Logical love (pragma)
• “I consider a lover’s potential in life before committing myself.”
– Possessive, excited love (mania)
• “When my lover ignores me, I get sick all over.”
– Selfless love (agape)
• “My lover’s needs and wishes are more important than my own.”
– Romantic love (eros)
• “My lover and I were attracted to each other immediately.”
– Game-playing love (ludus)
• “I get over love affairs pretty easily.”
– Friendship (storge, philia)
• “The best love grows out of an enduring friendship.”
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Sternberg’s triangular theory of love
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Love: “The Morning and the
Evening Star”?
• Sternberg’s triangular theory of love
Intimacy
Passion Commitment
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• Sternberg’s triangular theory of love
– Types of love
• Empty love
– Commitment is present.
– Passion and intimacy are absent.
• Romantic love
– Passion and intimacy are present.
– Commitment is absent.
• Companionate love
– Intimacy and commitment are present.
– Passion is absent.
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• Sternberg’s triangular theory of love
– Types of love
• Fatuous love
– Passion and commitment are present.
– Intimacy is absent.
• Consummate love
– Full or complete measure of love
– Combination of passion, intimacy, and commitment
– An ideal type of love
– Harder to maintain than to achieve
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Sternberg’s triangular theory of love
Liking
Intimacy
Romantic Companionate
Love Love
Consummate
Love
Passion Commitment
Infatuation Fatuous Empty Love
Love
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Study Guide
• Symmetry Ludus
• Physical features Sternberg’s Triangular Theory
• Wealth and power Intimacy
• Personality traits Passion
• Attraction-similarity hypothesis Committment
• Philia Empty love
• Storge Liking
• Eros Infatuation
• Agape Romantic love
• Romantic love Fatuous love
• Pragma Companionate love
• Mania