about yourself. It is who you believe you are. • It involves self-image, self-value, and many other attitudes that you will build about yourself throughout your lifetime. • Self-esteem is one of the most important psychological needs in your life. • Self-esteem is a matter of experiencing different feelings, and knowing that you are competent for living in your reality, and that you deserve happiness. • True self-esteem is not something that depends on the approval of those around you. Of course, it is natural to want other people to have good opinions of you. However, this is not the real deciding factor for building self-esteem. Only you can give yourself self-esteem. WHERE DOES SELF-ESTEEM COME FROM? It is based on many different elements in your life. These include: • The value you believe you have as a person • Your achievements • Your purpose in life • The job you have in your life • The way you believe others see you • Your situation in life • Your strengths and weaknesses • Your social status and relations with others IMPORTANCE OF SELF-ESTEEM
Self-esteem is important because it heavily
influences people's choices and decisions. In other words, self-esteem serves a motivational function by making it more or less likely that people will take care of themselves and explore their full potential. HOW TO BUILD YOUR SELF-ESTEEM • Master a new skill • Replace negative with positive thinking • Take an inventory of your personal qualities • Acknowledge successes • Stop worrying about what others think. • Stop comparing yourself to others • Welcome failure as part of growth • Practice self-care