The process of listening involves five stages : receiving ,
understanding , evaluating , responding , remembering • The receiving stage • This is the first stage in the process of listening which involves hearing and attending. • Hearing is the physiological process of registering sound waves • Attending is the process of accurately identifying particular sounds we hear as words • Attending also involves being able to discern breaks words • The responding stage • This is the fourth stage of listening where the speaker looks for responses from the listener • This is the stage where the listener indicates their involvement in the conversation either verbally or non-verbally • Non verbal signals includes different gestures such as nodding , making an eye contact or smiling whereas responding verbally may involve asking a question ,requesting additional information • The remembering stage • This is the fifth stage in the process of listening wherein the listener categorizes and retains information they are gathering from the speaker • Remembering all the pieces of information is crucial to moving forward in the conversation and with any future action • The understanding stage • This is the second stage in the process of listening during which we attempt to comprehend the meaning of the message • It is during this stage the message received by the listener can be misinterpreted • Asking questions to fill any information gaps is the best way to understand a message • The evaluating stage • This is the third stage in the process of listening where the listener assesses the information which the have gathered from the speaker both quantitatively and qualitatively • Evaluating allows the listener to form opinion of what they heard • The evaluating stage occurs most effectively once the listener fully understands what the speaker is trying to say