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13093966
Building Relationships.
Building Breakthrough Teams.
OUTLINE
•Rules Setting
•Activity1(Temperaments)
•Lecturette (Part 1)
•Activity2 (Personal Plan)
•Lecturette (Part 2)
•Summary
• Use “I” Statements
• Seek to KNOW and EXPERIENCE
• TAKE OFF your SHOES
• Do NOT be AFRAID of SILENCE
• SMILE and have FUN learning!!!
What is awareness?
Knowing that something exists.
Internal awareness
External awareness
Fantasy
What is Self-Awareness?
Why A-W-A-R-E-N-E-S-S ?
Self - Confusion
Self –Understanding
Self - Denial
Self - Acceptance
Self - Rejection
Self - Responsibility
Psychological
Psychological
Death
Growth
INDIVIDUAL
Why A-W-A-R-E-N-E-S-S ?
Brings you . . .
- Self-confidence
- Realistic self-assessment
- Self-deprecating sense of humor
- Positive sense of self-worth
TEAM
Why A-W-A-R-E-N-E-S-S ?
Self -Awareness
Self –Management
Social Awareness
Relationship Management
(Post-industrial definition of LEADERSHIP)
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Why SELF A-W-A-R-E-N-E-S-S ?
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
- determines the ability of a person or
organization to manage emotions in
a way that cultivates trust, identity
and effectiveness.
Self –Aware Individual Self –Aware Team
~Socrates
ACTIVITY 1
What is my TEMPERAMENT?
LECTURE & DISCUSSION
The 4 TEMPERAMENTS
The 4 TEMPERAMENTS
PHLEGMATIC SANGUINE
• The INTROVERT • The EXTROVERT
• The WATCHER • The TALKER
• The PESSIMIST • The OPTIMIST
Recognizing Differences
At best in:
C jobs that require quick decisions
spots that need instant action and accomplishments
areas that demand strong control and authority
Margaret Thatcher
Michael Jordan
Bill Gates
MELANCHOLIC : a closer look
STRENGTHS WEAKNESSES
Painstaking
Analytical Aloof Perfectionist
Artistic Particular
Quietly Apprehensive Pessimistic
Careful
Cautious Passionate Brooding Reluctant
Choosy Persevering Cool Scrupulous
Planned
Conscientious Critical self-righteous
Deliberate Pondering
Precise Demanding Skeptical
Delicate
Discreet Prudent Distrusting Snooty
Detailed Reasoned Envious Standoffish
Reflective
Elegant Fearful Strict
Exacting Religious
Reserved Grudge-bearing Superior
Guarded
Idealistic Restrained Haughty Suspicious
Introspective Romantic Hypochondria Timid
Shy
Judicious Highbrow Uncommunicative
Lover of truth and Serious
beauty Sensitive Jealous Unsocial
Meticulous Studious Judgmental Undemonstrative
Noble Thorough Nitpicking Wary
Orderly Thoughtful
Famous
Melancholics
St. John, the Evangelist
Keanu Reeves
SANGUINE : a closer look
STRENGTHS WEAKNESSES
Active Fun-loving Attention-seeking Sensuality
Affectionate High spirited Changeable Smart-alecky
Affable Imaginative Chatty Superficial
Animated Joyful Distractible Prone to vanity
Ardent Light-hearted Disorganized Undisciplined
Carefree Lively Emotional
Compassionate Open Tendency to exaggerate
Cheerful Optimistic Faddish
Creative Outgoing Fickle
Docile Popular Flighty
Eager Responsive Frivolous
Enthusiastic Resilient Forgetful
Entertainer Sensitivity Gossipy
Expressive Sparkling Inconstancy
Generous Spontaneous Insincere
Fashionable Story-teller Lacking depth
Flexible Vivacious Scattered
Forgiving Warm-hearted
Funny
Famous
Sanguines
St. Peter
St. Francis de Sales
St. Philip Neri
Ronald Reagan Bill Clinton
Magic Johnson
Franklin Roosevelt
ACTIVITY 2
Let’s Make A Personal Plan
Assess Your Strengths
List 3 STRENGTHS you feel are the most
important in your relationships with others.
R
• Tone down your approach
• Stop arguing & causing
trouble
I 4. PCs are Right but • Let someone else be right
C
Unpopular • Learn to apologize
• Admit you have some
faults
PERSONALITY PLAN: Overcoming the Vices
SOLUTION
M
PROBLEM
• Realize no one likes gloomy
E are Easily Depressed.
1. Perfect Melancholies
people
• Don’t look for trouble
L • Don’t get hurt so easily
• Look for the positives
A
N 2. PMs Have Low Self- • Search out the source of your
insecurities
Images
C • Listen for evidence of “false
humility”
H 3. PMs Procrastinate • Get the “right things” before
O starting
• Don’t spend so much time
L planning
E
responsibilityfor your life
Don’t put off until tomorrow
G Motivate yourself
T 4. PPs Appear
Wishy-Washy
Practice making decisions
Learn to say no
I
C
PERSONALITY PLAN: Overcoming the Vices
SOLUTION
S
PROBLEM
• Talk half as much as before
A Too Much
1. Popular Sanguines Talk
• Watch for signs of boredom
• Condense your comments
N • Stop exaggerating
Minimize your
WEAKNESSES
Summary...
• We have a little of a lot of all four
relational styles
• Behavior is situational. How are you at
home and how are you at work?
• There is only one relational style we
“lean” toward the majority of the time
• People are unique so we need to try to
understand others
Summary...
• Use our strengths towards achieving
success for our organizations and for
ourselves
– In leading others in all our domains
(home, work, community ,etc.)
– In building harmonious/edifying
relationships with others
Summary...
• Over-extending our strengths
however can become our
weaknesses
• Balance = effectivity. For ourselves
and for our work
– Learn to balance your personal
profile
– Develop a balanced work profile
Summary...
Our reactions to others should move
from...
Judging
Understanding
Respecting
Appreciating
Valuing
Summary...
Different = Wrong
Different = Different
There is richness in
diversity!
Awareness
brings
effectiveness!!
THE END
Or is it The Beginning….