quickly! You are so something quickly, I'm smart” not smart” ● “You're so brilliant, you ● “I'd better quit studying got an A without even or they won't think I'm studying” brilliant” Praise the Child's learning process “Hey Tina, I like the way you tried all kinds of strategies on the math problem until you finally got it, you thought of a lot of different ways to do it and found the one that worked!”
“I liked the effort you put in, let's work together
some more and figure out what it is you don't understand” I can grow my brain The power of yet “Why waste time looking smart when I could be getting smarter”