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Listening and Emotional Intelligence
Listening and Emotional Intelligence
Intelligence
“Courage is what it takes to stand up and
speak; courage is also what it takes to sit
down and listen.”
Winston Churchill
Communication Process
Sender
Receiver
Feedback
Interference
Channels of Communication
Face-to-face
Telephonic
Email, text messaging, internet
Memos, letters
Formal reports
Message Receiving Process
Listening
Analyzing
Checking understanding
Listen
From Webster’s Dictionary
To pay attention to sound
To hear with thoughtful attention
To be alert and catch an expected sound
Types of Listening
Active
“listening with a purpose” (Barker, 1971)
Empathic
Listening to understand the other person
Critical listening
To determine accuracy
Listening for enjoyment
Active Listening
Make time
Act interested in speaker
Good eye contact
Repeat key phrases
Ask questions
Concentrate on what is being said
Listening
Pay attention
Avoid distractions
Do not assume or interrupt
Watch nonverbal clues
Ask questions
Take notes
Provide feedback
Ten Keys to Effective
Listening
Keys Poor Listener Good Listener
1. Listen actively Is passive, laid back Asks questions;
paraphrases what is said
2. Find areas of interest Tunes out dry subjects Looks for opportunities,
new learning
Self Management
Self control
Integrity
Adaptable to change
Initiative
Elements of Emotional
Intelligence- Kolp and Rea
Social Awareness
Empathy and service orientation
Awareness of organization realities
Social Skills
Leading change
Creation of shared vision and sense of team
Communication and conflict resolution
Relationship building
Emotional Families
Anger
Sadness
Fear
Enjoyment
Love
Surprise
Disgust
Shame
Goleman on Salovey’s Definition
Components of Emotional Intelligence
Knowing one’s emotions
Managing emotions
Motivating oneself
Recognizing emotions in others
Handling relationships
References
Richard L. Daft, The Leadership Experience, (Thomson Publishing,
Ohio) p. 143
Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence,
(Bantam International, New York)
Robert Lussier and Christopher Achua, (Thomson Publishing, Ohio)
p. 204
Craig E. Runde and Tim A. Flanagan, Becoming a Conflict
Competent Leader, (Jossey Bass Publisher, California) p. 11-15
Barker, L.L. (1971) Listening Behavior, Englewood Cliffs, NJ:
Prentice-Hall
Robyn Walker, Strategic Business Communication, Thomson
Publishing, Ohio) pp. 198-201
Alan Kolp and Peter Rea, Leading with Integrity, (Atomic Dog
Publishing, Cincinnati) p. 199.
Webster Dictionary
The International Listening Association