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The Importance Of Building Relationships

HOW ARE YOU GOING TO DEVELOP AN EXCELLENT YOU

1. You Must Continue Working At Your Potential. Potential. 2. You Must Cultivate Positive Attitude Regarding Yourself. Relationships. 3. You Must Build Great Relationships.

Relationships are more important than imp our accomplishments

How Do You Build Great Relationships?


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Aim to always bring the best out of people.

If you will help somebody else become successful, God will make sure that you are successful.

1 Corinthians 13:4b (TNIV)

love is kind

Love looks for a way of being constructive.

That means love looks for ways help imp to help improve somebody else s life.

There s no greater investment in life than in being a people builder.

How Do You That? Believe in them. Make sure they know that you really believe in them. Don t focus on what they are now. now. become. Focus on what they can become. Challenge them to rise higher. Be a cheer leader for them.

How Do You Build Great Relationships?


1)

Aim to always bring the best out of people. 2) Keep the strife out of your life.

Romans 12:16-21 (NIV)


Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. 17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
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Romans 12:16-21 (NIV)


Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. 20 On the contrary: "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head." 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
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It takes maturity to get along with somebody who is different than you are.

How Do You That?

Understand people are not perfect, so give allowances for their weaknesses.

1 Corinthians 13:5d (NIV)

it [love] keeps no record of wrongs.

As long as you are bringing up pain from the past, you are going to have strife in your present. resent.

How Do You That?

Understand people are not perfect, so give allowances for their weaknesses.

Be a peacemaker

How Do You Build Great Relationships?


1)

Aim to always bring the best out of people.


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eep the strife out of your life. Invest in your relationships

3)

How do you invest in your


relationships?

By intentionally making frequent deposit into the Emotional Bank Account with every person with whom you have relationship.

How to make a deposit?

Use the 30Second Rule

Within the first thirty seconds of a conversation, say something encouraging to a person.

How to make a deposit?

Use the 30-Second Rule

Be consistent in being good to them.

John Bunyan You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.

How to make a deposit?


Be consistent in being good to them.

Use the 30-Second Rule

Be forgiving and be a covering.

Six Major Deposits that build the Emotional Bank Account by Stephen R. Covey

1. Understanding the individual 2. Attending to the little things such as little kindness and courtesy are so important

Six Major Deposits that build the Emotional Bank Account

Six Major Deposits that build the Emotional Bank Account

3. Keeping commitments 4. Clarifying Expectations 5. Showing Personal Integrity

Six Major Deposits that build the Emotional Bank Account Honesty is telling the truth - in other words , conforming our words to reality Integrity is conforming reality to our words.

Six Major Deposits that build the Emotional Bank Account

There can be no friendship without confidence , and no confidence without integrity . Samuel Johnson

Six Major Deposits that build the Emotional Bank Account

6. Apologizing sincerely when you make withdrawal

The Laws of Love

& the Laws of Life

Effective relationship requires that we need to learn to live the primary laws of love first so that we can encourage others to live the primary laws of life.

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