FROM THE FIRST EPISTLE OF ST. PAUL, THE APOSTLE TO THE CORINTHIANS 1. Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become a sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. 2. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so I could move the mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing. 3. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing. 4. Charity suffereth long, and is kind, charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up. 5. Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil. 6. Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in truth. 7. Beareth all things, believeth all things, endureth all things. 8. Charity, never faileth; but where there be prophecies, they shall fail, whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. 9. For we know in part, and prophesy in part. 10. But when that which is performed is come, then that which is in part shall be done away. 11. When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child, but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12. For now we see through a glass darkly but then face to face; I know in part but then shall I know even as I am known. 13. And now abideth faith, hope, and charity, and greatest of these is charity. Love as described in 1 Corinthians 13 is best understood as a way of life, lived in imitation of Jesus Christ, that is focused not on oneself but on the “other” and his or her good.
Love is about action, how a person lives for the
Lord and obeys him and how a person lives for others and serves them. Yet it is also about being. This is because its foundation is in God who is love, and in Christ who shows that love. The sense that this is about more than simply how people behave is seen in passages like Paul’s prayer of Ephesians 3:14–19, particularly as he prays that Christians will be “rooted and grounded in love.” To “know the love of Christ” is to experience his presence “through faith” in their “hearts.” God’s people are to look and become more and more like Christ, and it is this for which Paul prays here. It is because being and actions are so closely tied together in God and in Christ, first, but then also in his people, that Paul calls love a “more excellent way” (12:31b). It is the way of the new age that has been ushered in with the appearance of the Messiah, who has shown it in his life, passion, and death, but who has also exhibited it in his being. Love is the way of existence in the heavenlies. As this breaks into the present in Christ, his people, filled with the Spirit of Christ, are to take on this way of existence and develop a life where love guides their approach to all things. Of course, this will immediately be seen in how they live and speak and think. Even so, when all that is mentioned here is done, the meaning of love for the believer is by no means exhausted! LOVE IS COUNTERCULTURAL Paul’s description of the action and behavior produced by love is distinctly countercultural. It speaks against the envy, pride, and self- centeredness of the Corinthian Christians, and in doing so speaks clearly to our own generation as well. Christ has to remain the example. The envy, boasting, rudeness, arrogance, and anger of normal life will be turned upside down. Instead, patience and love and a rejoicing in truth are to mark out God’s people. In line with the way Christ forgave our sin and no longer holds it against us, so our love is to hold no record of evil. LOVE IS NOT SOFT
Many see love as little more than an attitude of
“niceness” to everyone. This means that any dispute, any strong speaking over important matters, and any firm spiritual discipling or disciplining of another is to be regarded as unloving. In some churches this has even led to a watered-down Christian faith being preached with little emphasis on holiness lest some should feel condemned or unloved. One of the modern myths so prevalent in our society
is that love will tolerate all things, promote all things,
and deny nothing. In Scripture love is beautiful and
well defined for us in that God is love, and Jesus
demonstrated this perfectly to us all.
Certainly, love is not soft. It will always seek to build
up the other, but that does not mean turning a blind
eye to sin or not calling out evil in another person. “It
does not rejoice at evil” (1 Corinthians 13:6).ll.
LOVE IS CHRIST-LIKE
Love is a way of being as a person, a way of
thinking, acting, and living. It is, in fact, being Christ-like. He also tells the Corinthians to “be imitators of me.” Love is the way of being that is so all invasive that it affects the whole of the way life is conducted. BUT WHAT IS LOVE? The idea of “love,” in contrast with “knowledge” and grace-gifts, is introduced earlier in the letter, in 1 Corinthians 8: “We know that ‘We all possess knowledge.’ But knowledge puffs up while love builds up.” The argument in 8:1 that “love builds up” reminds the reader that when Paul speaks of “building up” the church or the body he thinks of love in action in the community. The focus of love here is thus predominantly the believer or the church—the understood object of “to build up.” THE LOVE OF GOD POURED OUT BY THE HOLY SPIRIT Love for God was seen to rest in God’s prior work
through his Spirit. Paul’s understanding of the process
involved here is most clearly expressed in Romans 5:5:
“The love of God has been poured into our hearts by the
Holy Spirit which has been given to us”.
This close relationship between love and the work of the
Spirit no doubt provides a partial explanation for why in
Paul, and in the early church more generally, love is
seen as the authenticator or marker of a Christian.
IMITATING CHRIST’S LOVE Christ stands as the supreme example of love through the whole of his life, but specially in his death. In 1 Corinthians 1 the death of Christ was at the center of Paul’s understanding of God’s wisdom (his plan) to save his people. It was the “word of the cross” that was the power of God to those “being saved” (1:18). Supremely in Christ’s death the love of God and of Christ was shown. The link is explicit in Romans 5:8: “God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us”. It is also clear in Ephesians 5:2: “Walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God”