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What about those who know Jesus when they are old?
•Pro 22:6 Train up a child in the
way he should go: and when he is
old, he will not depart from it.
• The curse of God will surely rest upon unfaithful
parents. Not only are they planting thorns which
will wound them here, but they must meet their
own unfaithfulness when the judgment shall sit.
Many children will rise up in judgment and
condemn their parents for not restraining them,
and charge upon them their destruction. The false
sympathy and blind love of parents causes them to
excuse the faults of their children and pass them
by without correction, and their children are lost in
consequence, and the blood of their souls will rest
upon the unfaithful parents. {1T 219.1}
•Children who are thus brought up
undisciplined, have everything to learn
when they profess to be Christ's followers.
Their whole religious experience is
affected by their bringing up in childhood.
The same self-will often appears; there is
the same lack of self-denial, the same
impatience under reproof, the same love of
self and unwillingness to seek counsel of
others, or to be influenced by others'
judgment, the same indolence, shunning of
burdens, lack of bearing responsibilities.
•All this is seen in their relation to the
church. It is possible for such to overcome;
but how hard the battle! how severe the
conflict! How hard to pass through the
course of thorough discipline which is
necessary for them to reach the elevation of
Christian character! Yet if they overcome at
last, they will be permitted to see, before
they are translated, how near the precipice
of eternal destruction they came, because of
the lack of right training in youth, the
failure to learn submission in childhood.
• No work ever undertaken by man requires
greater care and skill than the proper
training and education of youth and
children. There are no influences so
potent as those which surround us in our
early years. Says the wise man, "Train up
a child in the way he should go: and when
he is old, he will not depart from it."
The nature of man is threefold, and the
training enjoined by Solomon comprehends
the right development of the physical,
intellectual, and moral powers.
• To perform this work aright, parents
and teachers must themselves
understand "the way the child should
go." This embraces more than a
knowledge of books or the learning of
the schools. It comprehends the
practice of temperance, brotherly
kindness, and godliness; the discharge
of our duty to ourselves, to our
neighbors, and to God. {FE 57.1}
• I was shown some of the dangers of the
young. Satan is controlling the minds of the
youth and leading their inexperienced feet
astray. They are ignorant of his devices,
and in these perilous times parents should
be awake and work with perseverance and
industry to shut out the first approach of
the foe. They should instruct their children
when they go out and when they come in, when
they rise up, and when they sit down, giving
line upon line, precept upon precept, here a
little and there a little. {1T 390.1}
•The entire religious experience of the
children is influenced by the
instructions given, and the character
formed, in childhood. If the will is
not then subdued and made to yield to
the will of the parents, it will be a
difficult task to learn the lesson in
after years. What a severe struggle,
what a conflict, to yield that will
which never was subdued, to the
requirements of God! {1T 390.2}
To grow and develop
with the character of
God must be intentional
•Satan tempts children to be reserved with their
parents and to choose as their confidants their
young and inexperienced companions, such as
cannot help them, but will give them bad advice.
Girls and boys get together and chat, and laugh,
and joke, and drive Christ out of their hearts,
and angels from their presence, by their foolish
nonsense. Unprofitable conversation upon the
acts of others, small talk about this young man
or that girl, withers noble, devotional thoughts
and feelings, and drives good and holy desires
from the heart, leaving it cold and destitute of
true love for God and His truth. {1T 391.3}
• Children would be saved from many evils if they would
be more familiar with their parents. Parents should
encourage in their children a disposition to be open
and frank with them, to come to them with their
difficulties, and when they are perplexed as to what
course is right, to lay the matter just as they view it
before the parents and ask their advice. Who are so
well calculated to see and point out their dangers as
godly parents? Who can understand the peculiar
temperaments of their own children as well as they? The
mother who has watched every turn of the mind from
infancy, and is thus acquainted with the natural
disposition, is best prepared to counsel her children.
Who can tell as well what traits of character to check
and restrain, as the mother, aided by the father? {1T
392.1}
Habits build our
character
•The whole of their future life will
be shaped by the habits and
practices of their childhood. {CG
107.1}
•Gal 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not
mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth,
that shall he also reap.
{FLB 287.7}
• It is possible to be a formal, partial believer, and
yet be found wanting, and lose eternal life. It is
possible to practice some of the Bible injunctions,
and be regarded as a Christian, and yet perish because
you are lacking in essential qualifications that
constitute Christian character. If the warnings which
God has given are neglected or regarded with
indifference, if you cherish or excuse sin, you are
sealing your soul's destiny; you will be weighed in
the balances and found wanting. Grace, peace, and
pardon will be withdrawn forever; Jesus will have
passed by, never again to come within the reach of
your prayers and entreaties. While mercy still
lingers, while Jesus is making intercession for us,
let us make thorough work for eternity. {HM, November
1, 1893 par. 17}
The influence of friends is more
subtle and powerful than any
other
• Amos 3:3
Watch for tale-tale signs of a bad
character