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Strokes
Strokes
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the behavior which is
stroked.
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stroking, we willtogoour need
ahead
and seek out fornegative
strokes.
• Quality and intensity
of strokes are important.
Stroke Filter / Discount
• Be in groups of four.
• Exercise is on asking strokes.
• A person “It” takes three minutes to ask the
others for strokes.
• Strokers responding by giving the strokes
asked for if they are genuinely willing to give
it. If not, say “I am not willing to give you the
• It stroke right now.”
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Activity
• Write down at least five positive strokes
you want but don’t usually ask for.
• In the following month, ask at least one
person for each of these strokes.
• If you get the stroke, thank the stroker.
• If you do not, it is ok to ask for adult
information about why the other person
did not want to give the stroke asked
for.
• Homework is over when you have asked
for the strokes whether or not you got
all of them. When you have asked for all
the strokes on your list, give yourself a
stroke for doing the exercise.