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• Nowadays, the term “significant others” is used to refer to all people who
are of sufficient importance in a person’s life to affect his or her emotions,
behavior, and sense of self. Parents, siblings, relatives, teachers,
community leaders, Friends.
Dealing with Significant Others
1. Genuinely respect other people.
If you want others to treat you with respect, you need to truly
respect them first. Respect, like love, is felt. Respect begets respect.
2. Never lose faith.
Have faith in the creator and the humanity He created. Indeed, some
people had chosen to become evil, contrary to what God wants. But
humanity is “like an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the
ocean does not become (necessarily) dirty.”
3. Remember that the other is a mystery.
Never think that you already really know someone completely. Do
not make assumptions. Don’t presuppose either that somebody
totally knows you – your thoughts, opinions, and conditions.
Dealing with Significant Others
4. Share your blessings.
Finding ways to give back is satisfying. When a person becomes happy
because of our selfless acts, we feel a sense of fulfilment. Sharing your
blessings is never meaningless.
5. Rebuild your self-esteem through friendship.
True and loving friendship can and does rebuild one’s self-esteem.
6. Eat with somebody you enjoy being with.
Amiable conversations with people dear to you can make mealtime pleasant.
Dealing with Significant Others
7. Nurture your friendship with good people.
Collect friends. But, at the end of the day, you have to keep the good ones and
avoid the bad influences. Friendship should gain it, keep it and maintain it, for
it is priceless.
8. Earn others’ respect.
Respect is not really that easy to earn. You should gain , keep it, and maintain
it, for it’s priceless.
9. Listen to someone who is speaking.
If you patiently listen, the one speaking will recognize your appreciation,
respect, concern and attention. Respect begets respect.
Dealing with Significant Others
10. Say “Please” and “Thank You.”
Treating other persons with respect is very important because everyone of us
wants to be respected also. Showing respect to others can be done in simple
ways like by saying, “Please” and “Thank you”.
11. Don’t talk about somebody behind his/her back.
If you are a back fighter who wants to downgrade others, then you don’t
deserve to be respected.
12. Don’t contain your anger all the time.
If somebody does or says something that makes you angry, then tell him/her in
a nice way. Holding back unhealthy emotions will only cause them to return
and haunt you later in life.
Dealing with Significant Others