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Children reach
important
For tips and milestones in the
development of
ideas on their emotions,
supporting and in their
abilities to relate
children's to others around
social and them. Child care
providers are in
emotional an important
developme position to
nt in child support and
promote positive
care social and
emotional
development:
The different forms of sibling rivalry
breaking
challenging a simply looking at something that
arguing, tattling,
belief, each other, belongs to the
other one,
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
Remove a toy Separate Enforce logical Help children to Use time-outs, Give older Help older Make tattling
children are children when consequences. express their not to punish children children learn to unrewarding.
fighting over. they are fighting For example, if feelings and to but to calm privileges as ignore
or teasing one they are fighting understand and down and re- well as provocative
another. For over who has empathize with group. responsibilities. behavior of
example, have control of the the feelings of younger
them go to remote for the their siblings. siblings.
opposite sides TV, the
of the room. television gets
turned off.
• Parents typically imagine their children would:
• be loving,
• not fight,
• be fair to each other,
Parents’ • share and want to play nicely with each other,
Expectations • not seem to enjoy hurting each other,
vs. the • work together with kindness and consideration
when they have conflicts,
Reality • not want to annoy their parents,
• not try to kill each other if left alone with each
other.
Encourage Healthy Sibling
Relationships. Helpful attitudes
Encourage
Healthy Sibling Come up with a list of basic rules.
Think about your family values.
Examples of basic rules are “no
Relationships.
Don’t look for someone to blame
hitting” or “no foul language”. Tell
or punish.
your children that things can’t
Your children will learn more by
always be done the way they want
Helpful
working out the problem with each
and that they can think and feel at
other.
the same time: “When you are
angry at Ruby, you can still tell her
health benefits. Creativity also Help Help your kids activate their senses.
helps kids be more confident,
develop social skills, and learn Discuss Discuss creativity.