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● When the counselor provide their clients with unconditional positive regard, they do so
without any conditions or judgments, regardless of the clients' actions.
● It simply mean that the counselor cares for the client, but not in a possessive way or in
such a way to simply satisfy the therapist’s own needs...It means that the client is cared for
as a separate person, with permission to have his own feelings, his own experiences.
● All of us have biases and can't always fully separate our feelings and judgments. Also we
may be more appreciative of certain client actions than others, however positive regard
remains constant and unwavering..
● The practice of unconditional positive regard also prohibits therapists from judging
their clients, judgment makes clients defensive and inhibits psychological development.
● If a client brings up subjects that are socially taboo or controversial, the therapist, instead
of showing discomfort or avoidance, will provide a safe space for open dialogue and will
validate the client's experience. Attending skills - faciak
Unconditional Positive Regard
Cont’d
● Regard - there is a close relationship and that the therapist sees the
client as an important person
● Positive - that the direction of the relationship is toward warm and
caring feelings
● Unconditional - the positive regard is no longer dependent on
specific client behaviors and does not have to be continually earned.
Empathetic Listening
● Empathy exists when therapists accurately sense the feelings of
their clients and are able to communicate these perceptions so that
clients know that another person has entered their world of feelings
without prejudice, projection, or evaluation.
The third necessary and sufficient condition of psychological growth is empathic listening
with empathic listening it is vital to listen carefully, enter the world of the client, and
communicate that we understand the client’s world as the client sees and
experiences it. So basically as a counsellor it is Putting yourself “in another person’s
shoes” or viewing the world “through someone else’s eyes and ears”. He used skill
such as paraphrase, reflection of meaning and
● You only listen and say back what the client have said. You never put into it; any
of your own ideas and never say anything that the person did not express. . . .
Empathy is effective because it enables clients to listen to themselves and, in effect, become
their own therapists
● Empathy should not be confused with sympathy
● The latter term suggests a feeling for a client, whereas empathy connotes a feeling with a
client. Sympathy is never therapeutic,
Empathetic Listening Cont’d
● Client-centered therapists do not take empathy for granted;
they check the accuracy of their sensings by trying them out
on the client.
● Empathic listening is a powerful tool, which along with
genuineness and caring, facilitates personal growth within the
client.
Empathetic Listening Cont’d
● Empathy does not mean that a therapist has the same feelings as the
client. You fo not get frustrated, angry or sad as the client is experiencing them . That would make the experience a bit weird
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A therapist does not take ownership of a client’s experiences but is
able to convey to the client an understanding of what it means to be
the client at that particular moment (Rogers, 1961)
Stages of Therapeutic Change
● Stage 1- is characterized by an unwillingness to communicate
anything about oneself.
● Stage 2- clients become slightly less rigid
● Stage 3- they more freely talk about self, although still as an
object.
The process of constructive personality change can be placed on a continuum from most defensive to
most integrated. Rogers
● People at this stage ordinarily do not seek help, but if for some reason they come to therapy, they
are extremely rigid and resistant to change. They do not recognize any problems and refuse to
own any personal feelings or emotions. Most likely they didn’t come voluntarily for counselling
● They talk about other people and the outside world, but they still deny or, are unable to identify
their own emotions. This clients might say things like ‘It’s not my fault; it’s theirs – isn’t it
● Clients avoid discussing their current feelings and instead speak about their experiences in the
past or future tense. They deny personal responsibility for the majority of their judgments, they
reject accepting their emotions.. This client migh say ‘I felt angry, but then everyone does,
don’t they?’ They also tend to do a lot of generalization
Stages of Therapeutic Change
Cont’d
● Stage 4- Clients begin to talk of deep feelings but not ones
presently felt.
● Stage 5- Stage 5, they have begun to undergo significant change
and growth. They can express feelings in the present.
● Stage 6- Stage 6 experience dramatic growth and an irreversible
movement toward becoming fully functioning or self-actualizing.
So as we progress clients are opening up more
● However if they do express present feelings, they are usually surprised by this
expression and they deny or distort experiences, they start to see the incongruence
between their perceived self and their organismic experience. They accept more
freedom and responsibility than they did in Stage 3 and. They start to build trust with
the counsellor
● They also start to take ownership of their decisions and start making their own
judgments.
● They freely allow into awareness those experiences that they had previously denied
or distorted. They no longer evaluate their own behavior from an external viewpoint
but rely on their organismic self as the criterion for evaluating experiences.
Stages of Therapeutic Change
Cont’d
● Stage 7- Clients become fully functioning “persons of tomorrow”