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Done in short-hand, which gets really pronounced at the end there. I'm posting this here in
case my computer wipes or something.
Lover/Provider
1% Sharper = Success
Friendship First
Love -> Tactics (Dn Supp) -> Player -> Natural -> Love
Mass Confusion
Value = Magnet!
IMPORTANT QUALITIES
- Decisive
- Resourceful
- Dominant
- Fearless
- Dictates Reality
Sub-Communication
Cues in Behavior
Cues in How Others React to Me
Eye Contact
Vocal Tonality
Body Language
Sense of Individuality
Playfulness
Comfort Environment
Boundaries
Control Over Emotions
Confidence to Say on Mind
Grasp of Own Standards
Sense of Entitlement
Types of Things You Say
Attraction is Straight-Forward
Attraction Happens Within Seconds
Spectatorism
Living In Reaction
- Survival
- Reproduction
- Makes Feel Good
Backwards Rationalization
Social Alliances
Longevity of a Relationship
- Dictated By The Value of It!
Focus on:
- Value
- Threats
Accept The World Owes You Nothing, Expect That In The Long Run, You'll Get Nothing
More Than What You Should
Situational Confidence
Reactiveness
- In Any Social Situation, One Person is Reacting More Than The Other
- Heightened Emotional Response Based on Physical Contact
- She's Analyzing How She's Taking Up My Space & Time
Reacting is:
- Handing Your Power Away!
Love Is A Self-Hypnosis
Don't Assume
Don't Make Judgements
You Don't Know Someone Yet
-6
Identity
Principles = Signposts
Identity Relates You To & Separates You From Your Social Environment
We're Always Processing The World Through That Little Seed In Our Mind That Is Our
Identity
Identity Can Help You Very Deeply ("I Know Who I Am")
- Or It Can Hold You Back
If The Idea Goes Beyond Constraints Of What People Think They're Capable Of, The Idea Is
Nixed
Madonna Versatility
When You Know You Deserve It, Attraction is SIMPLE! & Auto!
GO OUT!
Start GOING OUT!
GET OUT OF YOUR FUCKING HOUSE!
- Clubs
-- Shitload of Girls
-- They Won't Remember You
- Any Social Gathering
Build Momentum
Get Talkative
Just go out!
Do it tonight!
3 Tools
- Storytelling (Drunk Bar Guy)
- Cold-Reading (Gu Girl Face, Bad Girl Mannerisms, Dom Frd, You're Like Nancy Drew,
You're Quiet, etc.)
- Misinterpretation (Trust, Comfort, Connection...hitting)
- Role-Playing (Straw Ring)
Bond / Bozo
Drink By Side
Keep My VOICE
Unconscious Incompetence
Conscious Incompetence
Conscious Competence
Unconscious Competence
Try HARD
- The Let It Go
Cycle of Internalization
90/10 Rule
- Keep Talking
- 10% Her Illusionary Input
Illusionary Input
- Basic, Yes/No, No-Thinking
Spitting
Review
- GO OUT!!!
- Eye Contact
- Higher Value
- Looks FOR YOU
- Internal Attribution
- Build State In
- Open/90-10/Vibe/Playful
- Isolate
- Pull Home
Dare
- Roll Up on a Make-Out!
Go Right In
1) Go to Gym
2) Get Cool Clothes
3) Identity-Level Change
4) Teasing/Playful
Eye Contact
Voice
Body Language
Cold Reading
-Inspiration
-Feedback
-Approaches
Life-Changing OR WASTE!!!
---- ^ Audio
Be CERTAIN!
Go 20% FARTHER!
Imprints
Go First
State / Nimbus
- Give Self Permission to Be Who You Are
State = Confidence+
- Completeness
- Surge of Steadiness
- Everything Clicks
- YOU are the Source of Gu Emotions i l Environment
- Total Abundance
- Nothing Can Go Wrong
- Dn Care
Out of State
- Other People Source of Gu
- Worried V Might Bother G
- V Q Care
Resistence E An EMOTION!!!
- Wish Reality Were Different
Meditation - Static
Happiness Rules
Identity/Entitlement Criterion
--- 7^
Chode Crystal
Competencies
Role-Play
- Leaders
- Followers
- Work/Teaching
- Dom/Non-Dom
Roles Constantly Exchanging
RSDNation.com
CORE VALUE
- Rule for Allowing State
Authenticity is a Competency
Core Confidence
- Unshakable Conviction of Who You Are & What You're Entitled To
- Allows You To Take A Charismatic Attitude That Gets People Reacting To You
- Makes You A Person Who Can't Be Categorized, Having a Flexible Identity
- Know What You've Been Through & Trust Yourself to Get By No Matter What
- Value Own Opinion of Self More Than Value of Others
- Acceptance in Any Situation Not a Threat to Well-Being
- Know What Your Best Qualities Are, & Even If Others Don't Acknowledge Them, You
Know They Exist
- Know You Offer Real Value
- Believe Life, Perspective, & Energy Have an Inherent Value, Whether Other People See It
Or Not
Conflicting Realities
Reality Bubble!
Stronger Reality, More 1st-Hd
--- 8^
Who is Changing The Way They Normally Talk in Order to Keep Up, & Who is Setting the
Tone of the Conversation?
Self-Amused Individual
Independence
Be Self-Possessed
You Take a Woman Out, You Take HER Into YOUR Reality!!! C/I!
- Take Her Shopping For You!
-- & Making Chocolate Strawbs!
Just Start Talking!
--- 9 ^
The Older You Are, The More Bullshit You Have Seen
--- 10 ^
Masculine Polarity
Congruence Tests
- Strong
- At Ease with Everyday Interaction with the World
- Can Trust Him if Situation is Hectic
- Can Have a Good Time When He's Around
Two Things
- Feel Strength d Your Reality
- See You're Capable of Asserting Yourself Z U Man
Being Cranky/Tantrumming
Stay Positive, Stay Upbeat, and Act Through Your Own Intentions
Programming? NO!
RSD? NO!
Neediness/Lack? NO!
Be Authentic
Letting the Energy of the Environment Flow Through Her, Dancing for Hours on the Same
Spot & Playing Mock-Bisexual With Her Friends
Only Being Moved by the Energy She Likes the Most -> Better than What She's
Experiencing
-- 11 ^
Be Conscious, N Self-Conscious
Alter Vi Physiology
Coolidge Effect
- People Are Known a Get Sick d Having Sex M L Same Girl Over & Over
- I L Long Term, V Can't Draw State Fr Her
- It's An OUTPOURING D Energy
- U Way a Cut Loose & Go Nuts
Everyone E An Equal
At Some Point She R Withdraw Al d Her IOI's a Pull Everything Out, & Crashes Vi State!
"How Am J Even Talking a V Right Now?! Go! Go, Get Out D Here! Wait...No...Come
Here..."
--- 12 ^
Man = Action
Woman = Reaction
TRUST
Challenge Her
- Let Her Play At Holding Vi Attention & Where Vi Boundaries Are
*Dn Judge G
*Dn Interpret G
*Dn Compare G
*Dn Label G
--- 13 ^
Faculties
Focus Them!!!
TRUST!!!
Trust Viself!
L Flow R Be There
TRUST VISELF!!!
Be L Intermediary
Dn Stretch F An Outcome
BE HAPPY!
*Ayn Rand
- L Fountainhead
- Atlas Shrugged
V P H Fun No Matter W
J Dn H A Follow Along
V Dn H A! V P Just Be U Guy!
Internalization
Success Barrier
1) Doubts V Can't Q T
2) L Nauseous Feeling V Are Going Backwards I Vi Understanding D L World
3) Instinct K People Might N Accept L New V
--- ^ 14
Delusional Confidence -> Blindspots Allow State to Keep Up, Pull Her Into Reality
The "THIRD" Guy -> Can Vu L Negative Feedback, B T Dn Matter or Affect Vi State:
Blend D Both
"Be Water"
L Map E N L Territory
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10 Approaches, 2 Gu Ones
*Focus O L Positives
- Positive Feedback
--- ^ 15
Q J Like Myself?
X J Saw U Guy Like Me M U Really Attractive Girl, How Would J Feel About K?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
Dn Be Ethan Hawke!
L Gu Ones Should N Be Treated Specially!
Girls Put Up Fronts BECAUSe Guys Are Stupidly Judgemental & Full D Double-Standards!
Jealousy / Insecurity E Giving Vi Power Away - "He Thinks I'm Doing T Anyway..."
--- 16 ^
Doubting Viself
Offering Value
When V Are Calling K Girl Over, V Are Doing So A Offer Value A Her
Be Pure D Heart
V Q T Naturally
V Are I L Moment
T's N U Bomb!
V Dn Kn K V PN Be U Big Pimp
Newbie's Paradox
- Contact Lenses, Flinching
- Keep Doing T Every Day, T Gets Much, Much Easier
He'll Initially Get Negative Feedback: Eye Explodes Like L Death Star
Understanding, N U Belief
Stifled A Unstifled
1) Get I L Nightclub
2) Cross L Indifference Threshold
Nerd:Goth :: Me:Champion!
(~12-18 Months...2 Yrs A Fill I L Gaps, Keep Going Out)
--- 17 ^
Cartoon Retarded Imitation Game: Lion, Crocodile, Toaster, Rooster, Rhinocerous, T-Rex,
Tornado, Cow, Hippo, Elephant,
Quickly Unstifle
Main Goal: Q Something Out D Character & Expand Out L Energy Time & Space V Are
Taking Up
Pre-Unstifle
Gains Lordship
Guys Learn About Being Social, Then Get U G/F & STOP! Bad!
Memory E State-Access-Dependent
L Thoughts ARISE
V Dn H A Qualify Viself
T Just Happens
Drop Chode Friends, Gain Pickup Friends, Drop Some Pickup Friends To Regain Depth
When V Are Pissed Off & Unhappy, V P Change Vi Conditions Or Change Vi Focus
One D L Things People Q E Create An Identity, & People Like V BECAUSE D K Identity
So, Vi Unconscious Mind Says "X J Des A Get Love, J Need A Keep Playing These Power
Games & Stuff"
When People Admire V F L Quality D Getting Better & Better, T Starves Real Self-Esteem
By Feeding L Ego Completely
V're N Doing Something Because V're Acting Through Vi Own Intentions, V NEED A Q T -
K Gives Vi Power Away
--- 18 ^
*Happiness E NOW
L Result E Anti-Climactic!
Whenever V Are Operating Through L Ego & Self-Seeking U Reaction, K E Taking Value
Presence E Contagious
When V Stop Looking At L Surface Level D People, When V P Look Past K, V Become
Comfortable I Vi Own Skin
M Self-Esteem, Vi Flaws Are Just Endearing Quirks, They Make V Cool & Awesome