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share a copy with others.
I think $5 to $10 AUD (Australian Dollars) or equivalent value in other currencies is fine,
especially after you have seen the results. I offer it cheap because this knowledge
needs to reach every man. I want to shut down those “Mystery method” SOB's/PUA's
before their system taints the dating community worse than that infamous book “the
Rules.”
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Table of Contents
Acknowledgments................................................................................................................3
Introduction..........................................................................................................................5
PART 1: The Philosophies of Dealing With Women..........................................................7
The Flaws of Conventional “Pick up Arts” Part 1.......................................................... 8
Reality Check: Rejection Will Happen!........................................................................12
You're A Natural, you just Don't know it yet................................................................ 13
WANTING = LACK ≠ HAVING................................................................................. 14
Just Be A Natural With Women....................................................................................15
You're Practically Risking Nothing!............................................................................. 17
Let Go Of Your Need For Validation........................................................................... 18
Looking Good............................................................................................................... 19
Preparing Yourself For Relationships........................................................................... 20
PART 2: The Techniques For Dealing With Women........................................................21
College Game: Short & Sweet...................................................................................... 22
Fake It Until You Make It............................................................................................. 25
Just Ask......................................................................................................................... 26
How To Give Out Your Number...................................................................................27
Inviting Attraction......................................................................................................... 29
Overcoming Your Nervousness.................................................................................... 31
BONUS: FORPLAY SECRET..........................................................................................32
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
I wish to thank everybody who has helped me in the write this.
First off my father & mother, who have raised me & then showed me
the destructive consequences of being in a relationship with an
overly independent woman.
Secondly, I wish to thank Izzy Dirkins, & Nick Rose, for allowing
me to bounce ideas off you both while writing this book. You
thought I was kidding when I started this book, but I've done it.
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INTRODUCTION
The original Book left too many details open for interpretation &
in keeping with my Biotechnology background, I've reformulated
this book, with a unique mix of ideas.
For those who don't know me... I am the Real Chad Manning, AKA
“The Paraplegic PUA”, & yes, I am really a T-5 paraplegic with a
speech impediment & average length penis.
I've learned how to play “The Game” & rack up a high score, while
enjoying life & the whole load of bad puns along the way. All of
you lads have demanded so much of my time to help you all that my
GPA have fallen as a result.
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Enough about me, I'm assuming that you want more success with
women. Otherwise you wouldn't have read this far. I want to give
you the mindset needed to be successful so the “techniques”
required for any situation are rather intuitive.
Just go out there & have fun! Women can choose whether to stay or
not. They know that I am going to do what & whom I please & won't
change my plans for any pretty face. She can take it or leave it
& if she doesn't like it, she can go please herself, (& send me
the recorded Blu-Ray Disc, I like to watch ;).
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Table of Contents
PART 1: The Philosophies of Dealing With Women..........................................................7
The Flaws of Conventional “Pick up Arts” Part 1.......................................................... 8
Reality Check: Rejection Will Happen!........................................................................11
You're A Natural, you just Don't know it yet................................................................ 12
WANTING = LACK ≠ HAVING................................................................................. 13
Just Be A Natural With Women....................................................................................14
You're Practically Risking Nothing!............................................................................. 16
Let Go Of Your Need For Validation........................................................................... 17
Looking Good............................................................................................................... 18
Preparing Yourself For Relationships........................................................................... 19
I'm not sure about your's, but I know my mother always told me
that I have to ask for everything politely.
“Say please.”
“Be nice.”
“Share your toys.”
“Say thank you for that cookie.”
Our mothers meant well, but try to forget her advice, because she
left out the important stuff. Mum didn’t tell you that, “the most
important person in any of your relationships is you because it’s
your life.”
Women don’t know what’s good for you, your mum doesn’t know
what’s good for you, & I don’t know what’s good for you (Who am I
kidding! Yeah I do, why else would I write an Book?)
I’m not saying that your mother did anything wrong. You’re
probably a very nice person. But you’re not nice to yourself,
you’re nice to other people.
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Why?
Bad Boys are upfront, honest & have self-respect. Even the
worlds leading pick up artists use this in one form or another.
Nice-guys have hidden their sexual interest behind the facade of
“Friendship.” They let her walk all over him, & will do her
bidding like a wreched slave hoping that someday he will earn his
freedom from “Blue Balls.”
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Apart from “the Dean's” & BadBoy's, all of these systems lack
flexibility.
For example, A good director will never give an actor too many
directions, & will never tell an actor exactly what they should
be doing or read an actor's lines the way he wants to hear them
read.
This is because a good director knows that the more honest &
individual a performance the actor gives, the better it will be.
Every time you listen to advice about dating that tells you to
say certain things or act a certain way, you undermine all
honesty, truth & respect in your advance. You become a fucking
telemarketer reading a sales script!
For this reason, I tell you what I would say so that we both have
the same idea of honesty. In the end, you must become an honest
you! Modify these materials to your vocabulary, while sticking to
the guidelines I set.
Anyway, the “Seduction Industry” will not tell you the whole
truth; The basic principles that the “Seductive Sciences” are
founded on are FLAWED!
How so? They started off with serious problems with women! They
then then scuttled off into their lairs & studied pick-up.
Let me put it to you this way, if you are a nerd & you walk over
to a attractive woman & she says "bug off," you're probably going
to turn around & walk away right? Then your going to come up with
strategies to make her pay attention. Now what if you were better
looking then Brad Pitt, had more money then Donald Trump, & she
said that. You would probably laugh. & she would respond
differently because you responded differently.
There in lies the problem. What your saying is that you have to
WORK for her ATTENTION. By thinking this, you PLAY into the role
of having less value... Do you want her to think that a HIGH
VALUE MAN like YOU have LESS VALUE then HER?
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Alright, let's get back to you learning how to deal with women.
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All right, let me be honest, no matter what you do, there are
some women on this earth who never will be attracted to you. No
matter what you change or improve about your looks, personality,
or level of career & financial success, there are a group of
women who will never, ever, ever find themselves interested in
dating you or having sex with you. Get over it. (Note, I said
Interested, but if forced... In the prehistoric times we could
just whack a woman over the head with the club & drag her back to
our cave. Ahh, good times, good times.)
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<GASP!>
From the moment you're pulled out of your mum's purr palace,
screaming & crying as you are forced to take a breath of the
cold, dry air, society has already pre-determined who you are
supposed to become. It's not your fault when you first start out
because you're just living into the role that's already been
chosen for you.
You've been told what to want & believe for so long that you're
surprised & confused when you find out that it's not true.
What Does this mean? Are your learned behaviors & attachments
really your natural state?
Just Do It;
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The 'WANTING' is the problem. When you focus on the 'WANTING' , you
are saying to yourself that you 'DESIRE' what you LACK HAVING in your
life. Therefore, you are by Implication focusing on the LACK of HAVING,
& continuing to fill your head with excuses for why you “can't HAVE it”.
Again, Why you are preoccupied with the WANT of something, you are
focusing on maintaining the pursuit, & keeping your goals out of reach
Would I rather WANT “sucess with women” or HAVE “sucess with women”?
If you would rather HAVE it, simply remove your focus from the 'WANTING'
Call off the long pursuits. Stop planning to go out & “Pick-Up women.”
When you HAVE good women in your life, would you still be trying to
find the "Pick-Up" holy grail? What would you use that time for instead?
Write a list of all the purely "Pick-up" orientated activities that you
do in a week, including the time spent on each.
When you HAVE good women in your life, what would you be doing with
that time? Write a list of all these other activities you would do.
When you HAVE good women in your life, & you decided to go out, you
would be planning to go out to “Chill Out” or “Party”. Basically, go
out & HAVE fun! When the women want to share the experience of you
HAVING fun, then by all means let them.
“But Chad, it can't be this simple. Maybe it works for you Chad, but
I'm not you”
You're actually RESISTING & moving even further from HAVING. Dis-belief
& resistance are a result of you focusing on the “WANTING” of “Being a
Natural with Women.”
I am going to give you some ways to HAVE women in your life in “Just Be
A Natural With Women”.
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Example:
It's the exact opposite of what you've been taught in the past. Once
you ARE, women will treat you like it instead of treating you like
someone who is becoming. No-one cares about what you are becoming, they
only care whom you are NOW
So now that you're already a Natural with women, what would you do? In
other words, what would you do if knowing that the only failures you
had were FOR YOUR OWN BENIFIT?
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This is the common PUA idea of “letting go of desire” & it will happen
unless you pull the pin. You can pull that pin & dive behind cover
whenever you wish.
You can also create a whole story in your head. Be a Natural with women
& just act it out.
My story:
Right now there are 7 of these women who are “friends with benefits”.
These women are all possess model-like looks & bodies. I'm having to
avoid going out alone in public. I can't even go to the local
supermarket without every attractive woman wanting me. They can't help
themselves but to go out-of-their way to chat me up, “help me” or
asking for my phone number even while their boyfriends are watching...
No-one really believes what my life is like. When I post a mASF Lay
Report or try & tell the lads what been happening I am called a
fibber.... But I just do who I have to do, Live life as it comes,
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In other words, your stock is rising. Why do you act like its
falling?
Try this:
Be picky & make the above things rewards for a particular type of
positive behavior from them.
If you still think they have higher status then, consider how it is
for a attractive woman:
I want to be clear that I'm not putting women down in any way. All
I'm doing is pointing out some reasons that you should be more
confident when dealing with women.
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But there is a surreal sense of calm that overcomes you after letting
go of your need for attention.
Your need for excessive attention is that ego-centered part of you that
says, "Look at me. I'm special. My story is more interesting than
yours."
Your Ego is the part of you whom wants to be seen, heard, respected, &
considered special; often at the expense of someone else.
Rather than jumping right in & saying, "Once I did the same thing" or
“Guess what I did today?" bite your tongue & notice what happens. Just
say, "That's great," or "Congratulations," & leave it at that.
The person you're speaking to will have so much more fun &, because
you're "present," because you're listening so carefully, they won't
feel in competition with you.
The result will be that the person will feel more relaxed around you,
allowing them to be even more confident & interesting. You'll feel more
relaxed because you won't be on the edge of your seat, waiting your
turn.
When you surrender your need to get all the credit, the attention you
used to need from other people is replaced by a quiet inner confidence
that is derived from letting others have it.
By the way, your ego will find that this will get more people flocking
around you, all fighting for your attention.
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LOOKING GOOD
I'll be brief; GROOMING IS EVERYTHING!
They pay attention to visuals TOGETHER with words. See, your "visuals"
should have a hypnotic effect & make her feel excited & take a second
look at you - depending on what you want to accomplish, really.
Women always claim that looks aren't that all important, it couldn't be
further from the truth... they are using your appearance to evaluate
the many traits & virtues you posses.
Now, just in case you don't look like a Greek God, IT'S OK.
I'm not asking you to go under the knife to modify your looks
completely. It's not something you can change but you can
always change the way you PRESENT yourself.
If you ever get the opportunity to come work with me, I will personally
help you find your own individual Style of Clothing. I don’t know
whether you are young or old, rich or poor, creative or traditional,
so, to get the perfect look, you need this kind of personal advice.
Talk to women & look at lads who have the identity you want to convey &
copy what they are doing until you develop your own sense of personal
style. (Working out wouldn't hurt either...)
Hopefully, after getting a new wardrobe, you'll feel like a new man. If
you are still feeling insecure, we'll examine why in 'Just Be A Natural
With Women'.
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When you start at university/ college, most people don’t know anybody,
so sooner or later they will need to make friends or join an already
established group. Usually it takes a few weeks for those friendship
circles to be formed.
In the first 7-10 days those first few days social circles will be
created. The goal is to create a social circle of 6-10 attractive
woman, keep them as friends, & establish yourself as a leader of the
group. Imagine the respect & admiration you will receive with a group
of 6+ attractive woman on-campus or at the club?
Soon you will find yourself living your life surrounded with attractive
woman. That’s the lifestyle I am talking about. So let me teach you how
to do it…
During the first & second week on campus people will be extremely
friendly, because they will be nervous & anxious in the new
environment, the new context in their life. Some of them will look
lost, like sheep that have wandered from the flock. They will feel
lonely & they will have an incredible urge to meet new people & make
friends in order to remove the unpleasant feeling of loneliness. You
can use this knowledge to make a difference in your own life.
Don’t be shy; be the shepherd, don't seduce them or anything like that.
It’s just about being friendly, cool & normal & getting to know the
people that you may spend the next few years with. That said, don’t
talk about your obsessive computer gaming habit & addiction to Internet
porn, unless you want to turn them off or end up with no friends. You
still want to seem like a cool person.(even if you think you're lamer
than a horse with a broken leg.)
Naturally during these first few days there will be many events,
introductory sessions, initial lectures & so on. Information is
normally advertised clearly on campus so you should get there early &
make sure you know what’s going on. When you go to one of these events
make sure you try to sit next to a attractive woman that you want to
befriend. Start a conversation, exchange some basic facts about
yourselves. Where you’re from, your hobbies, your family; get them into
some kind of conversation. Tell her you are looking for cool people to
hang out with & she fits the bill.
Exchange numbers, hang-out with her after the class or lecture, go for
coffee or a drink. Just be friendly & try to make new friends. Don’t
try to pick them up! Not yet, anyway... You can meet them in class, in
the hallway, inside dorms. Wherever.
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The next day or at the next class, do the same thing with a new
attractive woman. Sit down next to her in the class, talk for 20-30
minutes, build rapport, hang out with her afterwards, but this time
invite the woman from before to join you. Or more of them if possible.
You will see as soon as you sit down with two woman that they will
start to connect. They are extremely good at bonding & creating rapport
with each other if they have a reason to. Especially attractive women,
because they have so many things in common that no one else
understands. So, all you need to do is isolate two or more girls
somewhere & let them connect by themselves.
You shouldn't hit on or try to seduce women during the first few weeks.
The social status you create for yourself by hanging out with these
women will get you tons of other girls. This is all about creating a
lifestyle that will perpetually bring you women by itself.
The other women will not help you find women since you are “taken” or
the woman you sleep with can spread rumors about you & destroy your
reputation if you dump her. It’s better to keep the two activities
separate.
So over the course of 5-7 days, you should recruit 6-10 women into your
social circle. Get them together at regular intervals. Once they get
together, & know each other (which should take one or two meetings)
they will become good friends. They will exchange phone numbers, emails
& keep in contact.
You will see how they will later plan to study together, to exchange
books, scripts & papers for class.
After 10 days, try to get them together from time to time to go out
together partying. The more things you all do together, the better
friends they will become. Try to create events that will bond them
together even more.
Naturally the more experiences the group has together, the more things
they will have to talk about tomorrow & the more reason they will have
to hang out the day after that. In this way it becomes perpetual cycle
so the more you can arrange to go out as a group, the better.
Start organizing house parties & let your new attractive friends invite
their girlfriends to the party. You can also take them to clubs. Have
fun with them. Hug them & lead them around. Other women in the club
will notice this & trust me, they will start hitting on you.
You can easily get to the point where you don’t need to pick up Women
at all, instead, they will be around you & you just need to choose
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which one you want. Maybe this all sounds a bit complicated at the
moment, but it’s much easier to set up than you might imagine.
So if you organize everything & make decisions for the group, you
practically think for them. They will see you as the alpha male & they
will naturally follow you. Next year, if you want to, you can either
keep the social circle from last year & expand it, or leave that social
circle to form another one. Usually from the circle a new person comes
forward that will becomes its leader & starts deciding everything for
the group. Then you can move between groups to give yourself an even
greater variety.
Happy Days.
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But in reality, many of these people I've never seen before in my life!
So how am I able to pull it off? Four words, 'Great to see you again'
or "It's been a while."
I pretend I know them, just like I pretend to know you now. I assume
that we will have a "Rapport" & thus it is so. Seems too simple,
doesn't it? Just saying 'Great to see you again' as you making your way
through a crowd. Don't wait for a reply, just keep moving & let them
seek you out. When you do wait for a response you will usually get,
'you too' Sometimes I'll throw in, 'How have you been?' or 'What have
you been up to?'
I know what you're thinking: What if they say, "Do I know you?" Just
say something along the lines of, "I can't believe you don't remember
someone as unique as me. Even though the lighting was low & we HAD one
too many... (If you really want to make it believable, talk about
something embarrasing they said or did.)" or "It was years ago...
(mention an event.)"
If they have this confused look on their face like they still don't get
it say, 'Does the name "(your name)" ring any bells?.'
Why does it work? Because the process of 'getting to know each other'
is rather tedious at best, & it is so much easier to have fun with "old
friends" then people you meet by chance.
Have you ever had one of those times when you had forgotten someone's
name? They don't want you to think they've "forgotten your name," so
they'll pretend that they do to save themselves the embarrasment.
Furthermore, because they are already supposed to know you, they will
no longer see you as a threat because they "recognize" you, so their
defenses come down.
They will make us all feel comfortable, like we've known each other for
a while. This is one of the reasons I can accomplish things in minutes
that most men spend hours, weeks & months trying to do.
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JUST ASK
So women are starting to respond well to your "Natural Game." You
experience things that blow your mind. You're still inexperienced & the
memories of your failures are still fresh in your mind.
In the emotional "white noise," you still find it hard to tell when
women hit on you. You feel insecurity start to creep up from within the
darkest recesses of your mind... Fear not, for the way to find out is
decievingly simple:
Just say, 'No worries, Come let me know when you are.'
Actually, you can use these questions in response to anything women say
to you; even if it's obvious that she's not hitting on you.
She said "Goodbye"? You say "Are you asking me to come home with you?"
The entertainment value alone from those lines is worth the price of
this book. Ahhh good times...
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What have you got to lose by doing this? Failure? Most of you
aren't successful with numbers you currently have so what's
the difference?
By the way, whatever you do, don't take her phone & put your
number in. The act of her putting it in makes it real & you
also don't want to give her the idea that you're pursuing her,
because she isn't that lucky. Also Don't keep saying,'Ok, so
call me' over & over. You'll be confusing her; she won't be
able to tell if you're powerful or not.
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3. Don't debate it
She might object by saying, 'I don't call men' or 'You take MY
number' or something like that. She thinks you'll be easily
swayed with one objection just most men. Don't give up so
easily. What I'm about tell you will separate you the masses.
Calm down & do the following without missing a beat.
Put her number in your phone & text her the following message:
'Hey (hername), its (yourname) from (place). Keep in touch.'
You've just taken all the power back that you gave away by
putting her number in your phone. &, because you have
initiated contact, she will be less resistance when pursuing
you. You must now forget that you have it & don't reach out to
her again.
The idea here is to get your number to her before you leave
the place that you met her. Don't wait until you get to the
next place or get home; do it right away. If she still happens
to say, 'Ok, call me' (which has happened to me a few times)
just smile & agree by saying, 'Ok, great. Nice meeting you.'
Move on & don't call her. If she's interested she'll contact
YOU.
(combine this with what I mentioned in “Fake It Until You Make It”)
Sometimes, they often play along & give me Brownie Points for
trying something different.
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INVITING ATTRACTION
A little bit of psychology here, please bear with me. “Leap Frog
Theory.” is the theory that there are two ways to get to the “top”
in any area of life. You either Work your way up the ladder OR
decree that you are the "King of the Mountain" & you then are while
your claim remains unchallenged.
So if you wan't to become the social elite, get the Lads together,
form an Exclusive Group with you as leader, & have all events as
"Members Only – Guests by Invitation only." Still, you need to know
how to distribute the event details.
Whether it's the happy hour you're hosting next week for your
Exclusive Group or the HAPPY, happy hour you want to host tonight
for that woman you just met;the way you distribute the information
will detirmine the event's success or failure.
Or
What's wrong with the above? There's too much wanting involved. As
we discussed in "WANTING = LACK ≠ HAVING", Wanting is bad.
Examples:
● I'm chilling out at home & watching some movies, You can come
over if you wish.
● I'm doing some housework later, & you can come help.
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If you are planning any outing, you are welcome to invite people to
come along & to be amazed by the difference in the turn out.
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● A sober PUA.
METHOD
3. Now again imagine something that scares you, but keep every
muscle relaxed. How long the emotion last after you stopped
focusing on the thing that pisses you off? What emotion
replaced it? How do you feel?
DISCUSSION
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Or worse yet, she may be too shy to tell you she wants a little
more tenderness, instead of you pounding her like a gym punching
bag! Let's solve both problems Now!
You need a 3-5 min hourglass, (you can buy from any Kitchenware
boutique. I strongly object to using a "dial" timer. I've tried it,
& it killed the mood when it went "Buzzzzzzzzzzt!”)
Tell her that you would like her to do whatever she wants to you
for three minutes, & that you're going to do the exact same thing to
her for the next three minutes.
Start the timer. Pay attention to what she's doing to you & exactly
how she's doing it. If she pleasures you orally, is she doing it
hard or soft? If she massages you, where & with how much intensity
is she doing it?
Make mental notes of all of these things for the next three
minutes. Then, when it's your turn, try to duplicate what she did
as precisely as you can.
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