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by, Hasco Seymour Jr., BBA A man who has a women with a strong heart Knowing is to know a strong man is something
and mind. else these days.
The question is what makes a strong man? A
strong man is a pillar to his family. In other A man that takes no sh@# from nobody! One might ask oneself, what is the importance
words, he holds his family together. of having a strong man? So, in order to answer
A man who goes thru a lot for his women,
the question you have to know the man.
Whatever goes wrong, he will be there to especially his wife.
defend it with all of his might. With all his A strong man is also a man who has faith in the
mighty strength, he will have enough strength A man who sticks to his promises and never Supreme Being (GOD), if you know what I
to defend the world. With that said, a strong gives up when it comes to hell and high water! mean. And this is where faith comes into play;
man has a heavy heart. A man with a heavy A man who believes in himself. yes, in order to be a strong man, you definitely
heart is a man with a strong mind. have to have faith.
A man who takes care of his family no matter
So, what really defines a strong man? A strong what it takes. By knowing a strong man, I could also give you
man can be defining in many ways possible. I several who are well-known to the fact that
will gladly give you the ways: A man is a true caring individual. they gave their lives for us:
Jesus of Nazareth a.k.a. Jesus Christ Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. 1929- Mahatma Ghandi 1869-1948, he Malcolm X (Malcolm Little) 1925
(8–2 BC/BCE to 29–36 AD/CE), who 1968, he is a strong and vibrant became one of the pivotal figures, -1965, he was known to be
is the anointed one and the Messiah. soul who put his life on the line if not the main figure, in India's intelligent and articulate; by
for equality and justice for all. history in the Twentieth Century. being so, he (Malcolm) was
Along with Jinnah and Nehru, appointed as a minister and
Gandhi shaped India's history up national spokesman for the
I believe all four of these strong men have put their lives on the
to its independence in 1947. Nation of Islam. Elijah Muham-
lines for us so that we could continue on their legacy.
mad also charged him with es-
tablishing new mosques in cities
Now you know „what makes a strong man.‟ I have discussed and gave examples of a true strong man and such as Detroit, Michigan and
what it takes to be one. You may also find many books on what a strong man is. I will be gladly to tell you the Harlem, New York. Malcolm util-
names of them, and here they are: ized newspaper columns, as well
“Strong Men Armed: The United States Marines Against Japan”, by Robert Leckie as radio and television to com-
municate the NOI's message
“He-Motions: Even Strong Men Struggle”, by T.D. Jakes
across the United States. His
“The Strong Men”, by John Brick charisma, drive and conviction
attracted an astounding number
“Strong Men Keep Coming: The Book of African American Men”, by Tonya Bolden
of new members. Malcolm was
largely credited with increasing
I believe that you would enjoy these books, it will help you understand why men are strong and why they take membership in the NOI from
the things they do. HAPPY READINGS!!!!!!!! 500 in 1952 to 30,000 in
1963 .
A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him. ~Mae West
My theory is that men are no more liberated than women. ~Indira Gandhi
All men are not slimy warthogs. Some men are silly giraffes, some woebegone puppies, some insecure frogs. But if one is not careful, those slimy warthogs can ruin
it for all the others. ~Cynthia Heimel
If the world were a logical place, men would ride side saddle. ~Rita Mae Brown
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South Carolina’s first Lady “Marion Right now, we are working on a con- wrote my lyrics.
Westwood”, is still on her grind. You can struction business. We are also starting
catch her in all the banging clubs, in the a promotional company that will be Being the Co- CEO of the Lost Society
streets promoting, and in various stu- promoting parties, businesses, artists, and being a Black Woman that is a
dios mixing with Willie C, Junior G, TR and etc. In the future, I plan to start a Rapper, do you have any struggles?
Flow,N4RED, Lil’ Shuffle,A-1,Dj Goldie record pool. As for me being a woman not just a
and just about anybody that heavy on black woman, I have a lot more to prove
their ground in 2008. Since last being One thing about you and your camp,
The Lost Society, is that you promote to these club owners and promoters
featured in Geechee One, Marion has about me being a artist. I feel that I am
turned out various shows, put out 3 yourselves heavily in the streets. Who
else do you see that is on the same just not representing me, but I am also
more banging hits and is anticipating representing all females' rappers as a
the next release of her blazing album grind?
whole while I am out here doing my
“Diary of a Black Widow Part 2: Venge- As for other people on their grind, every- thing.
ance is Mine”, so you know we had to one has their own way to promote. TLS
recap and let those who didn’t get the chooses the heavy street promoting Dealing with the streets and so many
memo to know what’s really good with way, because we feel that's best for our people that you run across, do you
SC First Lady. company. I feel that's the only way our consider yourself a good judge of
What have you been up to since your artists can be well respected not only by character?
last interview? the streets but also by other companies I do. When I go out, I can tell what a
in higher positions. person wants and what they don't want.
I have been doing a lot of marketing I can tell if a person is interested. I can
and promotion with new tracks that I How did you get labeled, South
Carolina 's First Lady? get a good feel of anyone that walks in
have already put out to the public. We my path.
have a lot of people mouth watering for A lot of people know I have been on my
my new mixtape , “Diary of the Black grind for a long time; the streets gave In your music, you do talk about being
Widow Part 2.” me the titled "SC first Lady. I was one of sexy and being hard. What type of
the first females in the area that was message are you sending out to the
Can you tell us more about your next grown and sexy that you would want
mixtape "Diary of the Black Widow Part doing it that big.
them to pick up?
2"? When is it going to be released? Your collaboration with N4RED, on
Who do you have collaborations with? "She Fat", what were you thinking when I want the grown and sexy to pick up
What can we expect from part 2? you wrote your verse? that I am going through the same issues
that every woman goes through. I feel
Diary of Volume 2 will be released in With the “SHE FAT” song, N4RED came that a lot of the ladies can relate
early March. Producers that we have on to me and said I was a good candidate because I am grown and sexy myself.
it are Shawn Dolby, Sean Cleazy, BB for the song. I wanted it to express how
Slim, and some other producers that us females be in the club, looking our As for your stage performance, I heard
will be a surprise to the public. We have best at our best, and guys be hollering you are looking for dancers. Are you still
hot Collaborations with TR Flow, at us. I wanted to put that all in one looking? and what type of females are
P.I.M.P., and many other surprise verse and show us representing our you looking for? strippers? hip-hop?
artists. Some of the differences that independence. I am looking for strippers and dancers.
people can expect from this album is
What is the basic reaction that you get It matters what track for what song.
that my writers skills matured and I am
when the song is played in the club? Right now we still have some
now endeavoring on a lot of topics that
auditioning going on.
male and females are going to feel.
I get a real good reaction. That's why the
dj constantly plays them. People hit me When are you going to start working on
Being that there are a lot of other
up on myspace about them. Women your first music video? Since its for the
female rappers in this area hitting the
shake their butts and guys throw up song "Put some Water on Me", are you
scenes, what makes you stand apart?
their sets. thinking of shooting it in Club Fantasy?
I am not just representing myself; I now
Your current track, "Pour some Water Yes, Club fantasy. We are still making
think a lot more about marketing and
on me?' with TR FLOW. Who wrote the decision on the video. Just stayed tuned
promotions. If I see an artist that is
lyrics for that? and wait for it to come up.
actually good, I think of a lot on how to
market and promote that artist. I just Do we get to see Marion Westwood
I wrote the lyrics for it. The reason why I
don't only see myself as an artist, I see come down a stripper pole? (joke)
could write that song is that I can under-
myself as a CEO of a company. That's
stand and relate to a stripper. I can No, I will have my dancers for that. If
what makes me different from other
relate to it because I am a hustler you see Marion Westwood come down a
female rappers.
myself. I have the same mentality stripper pole that will be a look alike.
What other business venues are you hustling cds in the streets and I was
apart of? also in the streets club and seen what As for us, Geechee One, you know you
the girls do. I toke that material and are getting a lot of nominations for
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Mixtape of the Year. Mister Blue still thinks that your Charleston area? Quick Questions
album is one of the best-produced albums of 2007.
How do you feel about that? I am doing some promoting in ATL with Jumping Jack a) What's IN for 2008?
Record Pool, Million Dollar Record Pool and BIG CITY
I feel good about that. I worked pretty hard to get it to record POOL. They are all playing my music as we Marion Westwood: “Talent Show in Augusta GA. Lion
the part. I thank everybody who has supported me to speak. In March, we are going to do a four state HEAD ENT (NC) us throwing a lot more parties and
get this far. premier city tour in SC, NC, FL, and GA.. kids events.
Music is business. Everyone is trying to get into this How do you feel about Charleston being considered b) What's OUT in 2008?
music game, are there any words of encouragements the Murder Capital of the South? In any of your music, Marion Westwood: “I no longer associate myself with
that you may have for the next Marion Westwood? can we find Marion Westwood shooting a gun? Lol people who don't seem real. I learned a lot about
The next Marion Westwood is my daughter. She SC has been the murder capital for the last 5 to 6 relationships.”
doesn't exist yet. To other female rappers doing their years. I have a song about it. I can understand the You can contact her at : myspace.com/
thing much love and respect. Just keep doing what loss of family members because I lost a cousin in marionwestwood www.myspace.com/thelostsociety 1
you are doing. 2000 due to guns. I can see how Charleston can be For booking 843-709-6717
the murder capital in the world. In my music, I am
Are you doing any type of promotions outside of the being realistic about me and my experiences.
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As a DJ that loves Southern Hip-Hop, when as well. You can download the record for free
you travel out of the South and even to other on djsmallz.com. The record is a catalyst for
countries how do they embrace southern the "Southern Smoke" album coming
music? Summer 2008. The "Southern Smoke"
album is crazy, I finished 6 records so far
and im going to leak the first single after
They love it. Hip hop is a universal language.
New Year's so look out for that. The south
I've seen people that speak no English sing
will never be the same once this album
words and lyrics and do the dance moves to drops!!! I've also been shopping tracks to a
popular southern hip hop music. Music is various major labels and artists, so be on the
truly amazing. It breaks barriers and joins all look out for a couple hits I produced to hit
races and cultures together. the airwaves shortly.
How did you come up with the nickname Mr. Last words:
Southern Smoke?
“Once again don't forget to check out the
The name is based off my popular mixtape official website DJSmallz.com. I love
series "Southern Smoke." breaking new artists and new music. If you
need a CD hosted or you need me to DJ your
Where are you located right now? party or event, please send me a message
through DJSmallz.com. Big shout to
GeeChee One for holding me down always!!!”
I just landed in Dallas, Texas for a New
Year's eve party. When I’m not on the road
though, I’m in my studio in Tampa, Florida.
How do you feel about the music scene and artist of first. Since you went to school with Vick, how do you feel
South Carolina? about his situation with his family turning on him?
The music industry has truly become a business with
A couple of them are doing their thing and a lot of most artists having other ventures, do you want to Family isn’t anything but a word. Sometimes family
them are not. venture off into other things? will turn on you quicker than a friend.
What do you think of the T.I. situation? Yeah, movies, books, magazines, clothing lines and That‟s all the questions that I have. Do you have
clubs, among other things. anything else you want to say?
I think a lot more wrapped vans are going to be
searched. Where can people find and get you music? Shout out to the whole South Cack (South Carolina),
Lil Boosie, Young Turk and Haitian Fresh. I can be
Do you have any regrets, in life or what you‟ve done in Myspace.com, carloscartel843@yahoo.com and reached at (843) 532-1564.
the music industry so far? causehell843@yahoo.com.
I’ve got them, but everything happens for a reason. What motivates you to do what you do?
What‟s your ultimate goal? I came up with Three Six Mafia back when they was
selling CDs out the trunk of their car and they were
I want to be a legend in the rap game. just local artist. Now they’re getting Oscars. I went to
You‟ve stated in a few interviews that you have school with Michael Vick and then he was making
people coming after you, do you fear that they‟ll get to millions. I watched Boosie and Buck grow. I knew
you before you accomplish this goal? Buck before he was rolling with G-Unit and 50. I
pretty much watched a lot of people around me grow
Yeah, in a way, but I also fear that I might get to them and make money.
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What is Dirty Dollar Entertainment? were all some of the first artist on Grind Out We will work with anyone that has their head this time and will be opened to the public
Records in 2001/2002. on right and serious about what they do. after we have completed our projects.
Dirty Dollar Entertainment is an independent
record label, promotional company and rap What makes your company and rap group What are your goals for the Dirty Dollar What is your key to success?
group. We also sell beats , hooks and rhymes different from everyone else's? Company/group?
lyrics. Hard work, Drive, Motivation, and
We give the public music from the perspective Our Main goal is to be heard by as many Humbleness
What are the names and the positions of the from what we see and what touches us. We people as possible by getting a label deal, a
members of the Dirty Dollar organization? don't rap about the same things as others do. distribution deal or production deal. Just as Do you have any words of encouragement to
We bring a variety of ideas from different long as them deals is real! other groups coming up in SC?
Dirty Dave (CEO), Lil Blac (Artist), Delly D, areas of this state. We feel that we are the
(Producer), Slim Bubba (Artist), Dru Money, best at what we do, and we are ready to What is currently going on with Dirty Dollar as Grind hard and be real, try to keep a level
(Artist), L.O.C (Artist) and Tone Tizzo, (Artist) break the mold. far as completed projects and upcoming head at all times, be about what you talk
projects? about, and respect the next man's hustle! We
How long have you guys been working As far as collaborations go, who have you also would like to give a shout out to
together? done work with? We have released "Makin' Moves Da everybody doing their thing.
Compilation" in 2004. Currently we are
The Group has been together for 11 years We have done recordings in Memphis, Tenn. working on Makin' Moves part Two , to be
with Skinny Pimp, DJ Sqeeky, we have done released in summer of 2008. Also working on
What have been some your Contact information:
work with Lil Pete and Blak from the rap "Untouched Raw Da Lost CD" and "Grind Out
accomplishments?
group D.S.G.B, Shorty P, a producer on Lil For Dirty Dollars" which are both mixtapes. As Dirty Dave - 843-557-5921 or
Dirty Dave, Dru Money, Tone Tizzo, and L.O.C Flip's label, and Get Cool, A producer in ATL. far as our studio, we are putting it together at www.myspace.com/dirtydollarentertainment
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Who is the Man Behind the Mask we call Carminski: Besides the album, will Carminski: What inspires Pachino
Pachino Dino? Being one of the most popular there be a video, tour, or anything like that Dino? Is it the songs you write, the flow you
street rappers straight out of the Chuck- when the album drops? got, tell us what influences you?
Pachino Dino- has made a name not only for
Pachino: We have a lot of good Pachino: Everything around me
himself but also is playing a big part in putting
things coming out in the near future that influences me.
the rap game in Charleston on the map. Not
Pachino will be going hard with.
only with his street rep of rapping about the Carminski: When you work on your
ups and downs of living in the south but from Carminski: Since your latest album music is there anything that you want your
rumors of guns, drugs, and lies. Pachino Dino that came out a few years ago, "Dumming fans to get from you, like a certain feeling or
has a true story to tell. Out", is their a major change form the old inspiration?
album compared to the new album? I know
Carminski: The main attraction is Pachino: No. They get whatever
there is going to be growth, but are you still
Pachino Dino. How you doing today Brother? feeling that they want to get.
rapping about the same things?
Pachino: Chillin. Chillin. Carminski: You just signed a major
Pachino: There is always going to be
contract, Lil Ru just got signed too, Did
Carminski: This is your 1st interview growth every time your record a song, I just
anyone else you know get signed from SC? Do
with Geechee One Magazine. A lot of people stick to the script. I go with what's working for
you feel that things are going to start
have wanted you in the magazine since it first me. I stick to reality. I rap a little about this
happening in SC?
started. What did it take to get you to be apart and a little bit of that. I rap a little about every-
of the magazine? thing. Pachino: I know on my end I am
going to push.
Pachino: It didn't take too much. Carminski: The way music is going and
Just someone reaching their hand out and how the industry is changing, what does Carminski: Is there any other artistic
showing some love. Pachino have that is going to set the things that we can look forward from you in
president back to the way its supposed to be? the future?
Carminski: For those who don't know,
how long have you been rapping? Pachino: Pachino Dino has every- Pachino: Acting for one, and maybe
thing the game is lacking. Straight up reality doing some writing for people.
Pachino: I have been rapping since I
and the realness. That's all you going to get
was 6 years old. Almost my whole life. Carminksi: One last question that
from Pachino.
many people wanted to know, where did the
Carminski: A lot of people don't want
Carminski: I was a witness at the name Pachino Dino come from?
to say that they are #1 or that they are the
Ozone Awards, when you pretty much took
best of one category. How do you feel about a
over the floor. When you spoke up to Fable, Pachino: The Hood!
lot of people saying that you are one of the
what came over you? What made you say "Let
best MC's in SC?
me do this"?
Pachino: As long as they say I am “Thanks everybody in the game for keeping
Pachino: I don't know. I saw the time the game going".
one of the best, I'm good. I am not going to
to shine and I just took the opportunity.
dispute who's the best and this and that. I do
me and they do them. Carminski: Since Ozone, what kind of
feedback did you get because everyone is Check out Pachino Dino at:
Carminski: How many albums do you
talking about it?
have out? www.pachinodino.com
Pachino: I have been getting a lot of
Pachino: This would be my fourth www.myspace.com/pachinodino
positive feedback. We taking that and adding
album, "Hustling and Head Bussing", dropping
it to the package. He is also featured on Voices of the South
in February.
Carminski: On the new album, is there directed by Carminski.
Carminski: What label are you
any other artists working on the album, or is it
currently signed with?
the same artists as before?
Pachino: I got a label deal with my
Pachino: Yea, I got Fat Boy, Crossa,
HARD HEAD record label with Sony Red.
Lil Keno, and we got some of the old names
Carminski: Can you tell is how that and new names mixed up in there.
happened?
Carminski: Is Twin D the main
Pachino: The hookup that I got from producer?
my man Shahid, the A&R from Warlock
Pachino: I got some other
Entertainment. They came down here and
productions from some other cats on there
checked me out. They been feeling the vibe
but Twin is the main producer.
and did a check up on my numbers, and put it
together. So that's what's up.
Her Inspirations:
Her Quote:
Quote:
Located at
1750 Remount Road
North Charleston, South Carolina
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delusion that you will make it to the NBA or
Hollywood until it is too late. By the time that
you realize that you won't make it you will
already be enmeshed in a life of petty crimes
and senseless violence. At this point you
should develop a misplaced and delusional
break down how the a culture succeeds in sense of rage toward all white people. After all
"keeping it real" in the hopes that greater it's whiteys fault that you are where you are.
cultural sensitivity will be achieved by whitey Under no circumstance should you take any
who seems to be oblivious to this cultural personal responsibility. This would be mature
phenomenon in his pursuit of success and and therefore white. Stay angry and keep it
Opening One Mind at a real. Know just enough about history to know
affluence. Black people are above all things
Time Through Thought that you had an ancestor that may have been a
interested in "keeping it real". It is difficult to
Provoking Articles That May slave. Blame all whites for this. Never mind
define this term but I will cite examples of
Upset and Offend, But Offer that it happened hundreds of years ago.
essential behavior, fashions and cultural
the Truth in the End...
values that constitute "keeping it real". The Pay no attention to the fact that a small elite of
ultimate goal of "keeping it real" seems to be wealthy whites and other Africans maintained
not "acting white". the slave trade. Ignore the fact that it was the
Language is the key element to "keeping it bloodshed of thousands of poor whites that
real'. Your language must be generally incom- bought your freedom during the Civil War. After
prehensible and heavily embellished with you convert to Islam in prison, be sure to
profanity. Mumbling will help greatly in maintain a healthy hatred of Jews. Never mind
achieving this effect. The goal is to become so the fact that Jews were at the forefront of all
enmeshed with this slang and profanity that the civil rights initiatives during the 60's. Just
you cannot communicate in any other way. This hate them and keep it real. Act offended by all
will ensure that you will never get a job of any old time caricatures of Negroes like Step and
kind, which is a huge element of keeping it Fetch it, Amos and Andy and Hambo-Sambo. At
real. This inability to communicate will also the same time continue to perpetuate negative
cause you great frustration in resolving conflict, stereotypes and create new equally ridiculous
which will require you to use frequent and self caricatures of the stupid, violent and
meaningless violence. Disregard all things obnoxious negro like Martin Lawrence, Chris
"white" and see no value in what white people Rock, Snoop Doggy Dogg, Flavor Flav, and New
have and continue to accomplish. If you're not York. Never dress appropriately. If you must
sure whether the endeavor is white just look where a suit make sure that it is purple or red
around your housing development and see and has sixteen buttons. In other word dress
what other Blacks are doing. For example you like a circus clown. Wear silly hats and other
heard the key to knowledge is reading but are odd articles that draw unnecessary attention to
suspect that it may be "white". Upon examina- yourself. Attempt to get a corporate job looking
tion of the residents of your complex you notice like this and get all offended when no one
an utter lack of books and/or newspapers. You takes you seriously. It's whiteys fault that he
can therefore conclude that reading is indeed doesn't appreciate your attempt to keep it real
white and you need not worry yourself with through your clothing.
reading. Stay on top of and religiously follow Ignore the fact that many, many Blacks have
the latest Black trend. Look toward the leading succeeded and landed position of power like
Blacks when mindlessly following trends. Colin Powell. Accuse then of selling out, being
For example, 50 Cent wears a doo rag and a white, being house ni&&as or being Uncle
baseball hat sideways. You should do the Toms. Accuse them of not keeping it real and
same so you can keep it real. Keep close discourage your own children from following
watch on how these important trends change. the path that these winners have followed.
Lace your sneakers only if other leading Blacks Stress the importance of keeping it real even if
Through my educational pursuits, I was under also lace sneakers and keep them unlaced it means a life of financial and cultural poverty.
the impression that Blacks did poorly in our when they do so as well. It would be a major Use and abuse the welfare system and become
society because they chose not to succeed. faux paux to mess up on proper decorum. Do hopelessly dependent on the system. At the
After much thought, I have come to realize that not under any circumstances excel in school. same time rail against whitey for being selfish
that Blacks are more interested in "keeping it You will be chastised by other ni&&as and you and how you don't need anything from the
real" than in succeeding. Now, this concept is will be labeled "white". Place all of your energy white man even though he feeds you, educates
rather confusing to your average white guy, into sports, the latest dance moves and the you, houses you and pays for your health care
after all it is a "Black thing". I will attempt to current form of Urban music. Maintain this through his tax dollars. Never appreciate this
and never believe the fact that in most of the
They say that BLACK is the absence of color, but if you mix all the colors
in the crayon box, you have black. What colors do you mix to make
white? Just something to think about… why do they hate us??
Sex is today's society has become a casual Either way, as shown in the Bible, pre-marital fornicators and adulterers God will judge
topic and act. Many young people are sex is a very big deal for God and it should be a (Hebrews 13:4)
pressured in to having sex as a result of big deal for you as well because it is written:
I suppose some people might not understand
influences from T.V, magazines, movies and 'Stay away from sexual sins (fornication). Other
why it's a big deal. But the truth is sexual sin is
peer group persuasions. The days when sins that people commit don't affect their
one of the key things that is causing problems
virginity was something to be cherished and bodies the same way sexual sins do. People
in many cultures and societies today.
celebrated are long over. In fact, most virgins who sin sexually sin against their own
today are ridiculed or laughed at when they are bodies' (1 Corinthians 6:18). This passage Fornication or pre-marital sex constantly leads
found to be so. As a result, a lot of people who further add to the significance of sexual sin to things like diseases like STDs which can be
are virgins often feel ashamed to admit to it. I also called 'fornication' in the Bible. In fact, it is life-threatening and can be passed down
personally feel that this whole scenario is a perhaps suggesting that sexual sin is one of generations, murders, cheating, jealousy,
rather sad one because pre-marital/extra- the most serious sins, if not the most serious. divorce, dysfunctional families, child abuse,
marital sex is actually a very serious matter. It There are other passages relating to fornica- rape, depravity and the list goes on. So, in fact,
has been argued by some Christians, that it tion as seen below: sexual sin does always eventually ruin lives
was in fact the 'first sin' in the Bible. They ar- whether in the present or way down in the
Deuteronomy 23: 17: There shall be no whore
gue that the biblical 'tree of life' which God future. Sexual sin also has spiritual
of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite
commanded Adam and Eve not to eat from repercussions because demons and spirits
was actually a metaphor for sex. 1 Thess.4: 3: For this is the will of God, even pass from people to people and merge with
your sanctification, that ye should abstain from people through sexual sin. Many of demons
Regardless of whether you believe this or not,
fornication. are those that cause sicknesses in the body
you will have to agree that most of the sinful,
like epilepsy amongst others. The bottom line
criminal and immoral acts done in today's 1 Cor. 6: 9: Know ye not that the unrighteous
is: stay aware from pre-marital sex and every
society are linked to or motivated by sex in one shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not
other sexual act outside marriage for it brings
way or the other. Sexuality is perhaps the most deceived: neither fornicators, nor
harm to you and other people around you in
powerful force in today's society. This is clear
the end.
from what we see everywhere on billboards, Galatians 5: 19: Now the works of the flesh are
magazines, movies...just everywhere. manifest, which are these; Adultery,
Furthermore, there is also the unmistakable fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
fact that sexual sin is perhaps the most (homosexual) of the sons of Israel. idolaters,
common sin mentioned in the Bible. Whenever nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of
God was describing the unfaithfulness of the themselves with mankind.
people Israel, he always used words like Acts 15: 20: But that we write unto them, that
'prostitution', 'adultery' and 'whoredom'. These they abstain from pollutions of idols, and from
terms sometimes had literal meanings and fornication, and from things strangled, and
other times, they were euphemisms for just from blood.
general unfaithfulness and disloyalty. The
reason for this is because ritual sex and sex in The Bible makes it clear that God will judge all
the worship of false gods or demons was fornicators both in this world and on the last
something that was common during biblical day. This is a sure thing for it is written:
times. With all this in mind, it's not irrational to
Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and
believe that the first sin was in fact sex. Next Issue: Gays and Lesbians… The Other Story
the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for
See if he remembers your name first, and don't 2) Don't ask him "how you were" last night.
ask what his is. It will make you look bad. Chances are, he probably doesn't remember.
And if he does, he will say something about it.
8) Don't attempt to engage him in 1) Don't get on your cell phone while you get
conversation. Not all guys are morning people, dressed in front of him and tell your sorority
Chances are, you've been in this situation. Or, if sister that you're "in some random guy's room
and having a conversation with a stranger you
you're too goody-goody to admit it, you've had a and can't remember how crazy last night was."
just woke up next to can be one of the
"friend" who was in the same situation. It's Save the gossip for when you have left and are
strangest and most uncomfortable
nothing to be ashamed of, either way. It's not well under way.
experiences. If you find that he's answering you
something you want to share at the Thanksgiv-
in mono-syllables, that's your indicator right Follow the list of guidelines and you'll ease out
ing dinner table with all your relatives either,
there that he just doesn't want to talk. And if of any sticky one-night stand situation with
but at one point or another, the majority of us
you feel that you just must chat with him, don't finesse!!
have had a one-night stand. Whether it be a
mention the hook-up, the future, or anything
drunken blur from a fraternity party or a
touchy in that aspect. You'll only make him that Learn to Love
flirtation from across the bar that went a bit too
much more eager to have you leave.
far, and you wake up to find yourself next to a Learn to love the challenges, and you will
guy that looked a lot more like Leonardo 7) Don't offer to leave your number or ask him grow stronger. Learn to love putting forth
DiCaprio ten shots ago, you find yourself in the to call you. When men want something, they effort, and you'll find yourself becoming more
ultimate of awkward situations. Don't lose your will get it themselves. If he has any intention of capable and effective.
cool, whatever you do, and just follow the calling you, he will ask that you write down your
Learn to love making a positive contribution,
following set of guidelines which will help you number before you leave. Obviously if you say
and your life will grow richer. Learn to love
get through this moment. to him, "Do you want my number?" he's going to
being around people who are different than
feel bad if he says no, so any male would feel
Don't ask for a "morning cuddle" session. the safer choice would be to have you write you, and you'll gain many valuable new
perspectives.
down your digits, and then they just go straight
10) Don't give him the whole "I've never done
into the trashcan. And you will be waiting by the Learn to love discovering what you do not
this before" routine. That will just make him
phone for a call that will never come! know, and your knowledge will greatly expand.
more likely to think of this as a repeat
Learn to love truly listening, and your wisdom
occurrence for you. You don't need to prove 6) If possible, try to leave before he wakes up.
will increase.
yourself to anyone. You know in your heart It will make you that much more mysterious.
whether or not this is in your nature, and it can And if he really likes you, he'll attempt to find Learn to love giving, and your life will be
be your little secret. No one needs to know how you. He'll ask around, maybe go again to the blessed. Learn to love being thankful, and
many strangers you've gone home with on same fraternity house or bar that you met at, you'll know real abundance.
multiple occasions. You should feel free to and he'll look for you. Guys will go to great
forget that number too, if you like. And if the lengths for a girl they really view as worth the Learn to love the ordinary moments, and
guy asks you if you've done this before, simply effort. you'll find each day filled with warm golden
say, "It's not normally my nature," give him a treasures. Learn to love simply being, and
smile, and change the subject. Enough said. 5) If he does invite you for breakfast or to hang you'll rise to a whole new level of awareness.
out, even if you really want to, thank him but
9) Don't overstay your welcome. You wake up, turn down the offer. If he has any real interest Learn to love something about each day, and
look at the clock, and you should already be in you, he will try to set up a future date with your days will bring rich fulfillment. Learn to
glancing around the room, eyeing your you. Besides, do you really want to sit across love, and you'll know how to live.
6) The Kids Are Still Up - This is only a problem if your trying to pursue
something other than a booty call. Wanting to spend time with you, but
not wanting to bring strange men around her kids, you find yourself only
seeing this female after 10 or 11PM. You want to move forward, but
she has to make sure you are the "one." This could take months. I
suggest dealing with women that are readily available to hang out.
7) Double Heart Break - You are with the woman, then everything falls
apart. Not only do you have to deal with losing the woman, but you've
formed a bond with the lil‟ one‟s. You and lil‟ man play XBOX together,
watch the Miami Heat hoop it up, go to the Battery, and things dads do
with their sons or daughters. On top of maybe missing the woman, you
miss her children.
I'm angry that the image of Black men in Lawrence's drag queen gig "Big Mama's House, Everyone from grandmothers to college girls
America is once again, under attack. There has II," during the same time period. has the Madea DVD collection, but the most
been one new stereotype added to the list over significant and scary portion of Perry‟s
Even the most popular comedian today, Dave
the past few decades, and that is the Black audience is Black males.
Chappelle recoiled when they came at him with
man in drag, currently re-emerging, headed by
the dress, which he acknowledges is always a The fact that Black men have lined up to see a
filmmaker/actor Tyler Perry.
part of the plan for Black men in self-castrated Negro clown is evidence of
The Black man in drag is one of the new coons. entertainment. something else I'll be writing about soon--the
It‟s hip and chic and the stereotype is comfort- effeminization of the Black man. And let's be
Jamie Foxx wore the dress as Wanda long
able for all who may have fear a strong Black very clear: This is not about bashing gays, but
before Oscar consideration. And Martin
man. For white people, the stereotype purely about the diminishing and effeminiza-
Lawrence first played "dress up" on his very
presents a non-threatening Black male who tion of the Black male.
own sitcom, playing an ugly, ignorant woman
won't stand up to racism or start a revolution.
that Black women should have beaten him for. While some may cheer for Perry‟s success,
No one has to oppress him, because he‟s self-
making claims of what it may portend for other
castrated. But no one will beat him or Tyler Perry, and
Black films, I weep for what it portends for the
really, more people will be angry with me for
The stereotype is also comfortable for women Black male image.
writing this than will even take issue with the
who have had nothing good come from
celebration of Black men in drag on the silver At the end of the Civil Rights Movement, the
relationships with Black men because a
screen. new push was for Black women by Black
castrated clown won‟t tell them what to do,
women to end their own oppression, but what
won't beat them and will sit down with them as It's not that I expect every Black film to contain
of the Black male, relegated to specific
nearly one of them. Perhaps they find comfort images the likes of Malcolm X or Muhammad
extremes of hyper masculinity or emasculiza-
in this new role of the sensitive male gone too Ali, or for Denzel Washington, Lawrence
tion near eunuch status? What of the Black
far, so far that he has become the woman. Fishburne, Will Smith and Mos Def to star in
boys who are taught by Black women to hate/
Literally. everything, but since we are spending the
despise their fathers? What of our new culture
dollars to make the difference, we should at
It‟s a bad knockoff of Flip Wilson‟s Geraldine, of Black male effeminization? Perhaps it's time
least expect something more dignified than
which was an anomaly during a period when at for Black men to take up a movement of our
what we have been getting.
least we attempted to protect our own image. own, specifically to define ourselves and to
But currently, no one is protecting anything. The excuse for any film company is always that protect our community.
We offer up our women to be degraded in different stories and different characters won‟t
The pursuit of such a movement would not be
garbage over beats called Rap music, and we do the same numbers. That has only become
juxtaposed to Black women's dance with
offer ourselves up in any available vehicle. true because the nation, including the Black
feminism, as both the male and female
portion has come to expect something
Tyler Perry aint killing nobody and his work aint psyches in the race have been harmed from
simplistic and non-threatening to deal with
as bad as other material, but is not ground sexual misidentification and oppression. Some
when it comes to our images on film.
breaking culturally revolutionary material. of our sisters are shouting from the rooftops
Let's call it what it is: This is a grown man And the super-irrelevant NAACP looks foolish that strong Black women are a threat, even if
running around dressed as a woman. each year slinging so-called "Image Awards" to only to Black men, but the simple truth is that
people who are crapping on our image. strong Black men have always been a threat to
And, dig, if you will the release of Martin
many people in this nation, including some of
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our own people who would rather embrace the
likes of Madea than Martin Luther King, Jr. or
Malcolm X.
Communicating with your girlfriend is "I'm really busy." "I love spending time with you."
necessary if you're planning on keeping those
What she hears: "I'm really too busy… For you." What she hears: "I'm not ready to say I love
smack sessions going. Unfortunately, your
you."
styles of speaking and listening might not Why she hears it: Women hear this and will
always match up. Men tend to keep things immediately notice that you still have time for Why she hears it: Because you aren't assigning
simple and say the bare minimum when forced basketball with the guys, football on Sundays your love to her in particular, but rather some-
to express themselves, while women tend to and plenty of other non-vital activities, which thing about her or your relationship, she'll get
play interpreter, reading between the lines to leads her to believe that your lack of time is the impression that you are avoiding taking the
fill in the holes in what she's hearing. The only related to her. plunge. Try not to use the word "love" to
ultimate consequence? describe something in your relationship unless
What you should have said: If you aren't saying
it's followed by "I" and ends with "you."
Not only does she hear the words you actually this before you break it off with her, you need
do say, but she also catalogs all of the things to make sure that your girlfriend isn't left What you should have said: Never tell her you
you chose not to say, even if you didn't mean to feeling like you don‟t have time for her. Make love her if you don't actually mean it, but don't
say them. You've probably been involved in dates with her in advance when you can, and overuse this type of phrase or you'll come off
more than a few arguments that were a result make sure you keep them. sounding insincere or commitment phobic.
of something you said that was twisted into
something else and you were like what the hell "Who's that ni&&a?" "It got late, so I didn't call."
was that about… Here‟s lesson 13, straight What she hears: "Have you ever had sex with What she hears: "By the time I remembered..."
from the mouth of the mack. him?"
Why she hears it: Even though you think
"Your friend is really nice." Why she hears it: Questions like this often feel mentioning that you didn't want to wake her by
What she hears: "I'm interested in her, and I'm territorial; she may feel like you've already calling late is a good thing, it just lets her know
wondering if she'd sleep with me." made up your mind regardless of her actual that there was a huge expanse of time where
response, and she could object to your she was the last thing on your mind. She wants
Why she hears it: Men aren't known for random possessiveness. Not every man she speaks to to know that she's the first thing you think
compliments, so she might be jealous of the has had sex with her, or wants to have sex with about in the morning and the last thing you
attention you're suddenly giving to her friend. her, regardless of what you might think. think about at night before you drift off to
sleep. She may also interpret your missed call
What you should have said: If you are going to What you should have said: Don't mention her
as too much distraction on your end, at the end
compliment her female friends, be specific to male friends first. Wait until she brings them up
of the night.
avoid looking like you're interested. and fills you in on the details. If you run into a
guy on the street with her and she doesn't What you should have said: Very simply: you
introduce you, feel free to question her then. should have called when you promised you
6. Clothing: Commercial
casual. No hats, dark glasses,
costumes, etc. They are here
to see you. Make sure they
can.
The mixtape is a product of Shod B, Pistol Pete and K. Ward. They are holding it
down in the Metro and shows the rest of South Carolina how to bring that heat on
this southeast mixtape circuit. Charlemagne the God hosts this one, so you know
its coming correct. He does not sign on to anything that is not official, unlike many
others who do so by how much monetary gain that they can pocket… they know
who they are.
I smoke to this mixtape, I smoke smoke smoke… and no, not at a gas station. I get
high, I don‟t get stupid.
DJ Yuneek is the first female DJ in South Carolina to drop a mixtape and it‟s titled
IN THE CLUB VOLUME 1. It is featuring tracks such as Hit the Dancefloor by DJ
Unk, Chop Me Up by Justin Timberlake, They Know by Shawty Low, and slows it
down with tracks from Ashanti, Mario, Keshia Cole, and more.
The unique thing about this mixtape is that it is professionally blended and mixed
unlike a lot of other mixtapes that are out here in the Lowcountry. There were no
voicetags from other DJ‟s, no website plugs like I heard on some other mixtapes,
no exclusive jacking from other mixtapes, and no evidence of limewiring, kazaaing,
or napstering. DJ Yuneek is a breath of fresh air to this stagnant mixtape game
here in the area. The last couple of mixtapes I copped were not mixed well and
not beat matched properly. The last one, which I received for free at Walmart by a
local rapper by the way, had songs with voice tags, website advertisers such as
AOL Radio, and was just track after track lined up… not blended at all. DJ Yuneek
mixes a unique mix. Download at www.datpiff.com for free…
The Return of the Body Snatchers, a mixtape mixed by the official DJ of G-Unit… DJ
Whoo Kid, is good enough to be the next G-unit album. G-Unit came correct on this
one, they put 100% behind this project and it pays off well. Yayo, 50, and Banks
bring some real heat on this mixtape, but Young buck is noticeably absent on this
one, though not officially off G-Unit, news of his release will be out real soon. Some
cats are saying that he is looking at signing back up with Cash Money. After he
said he banged Lil Wayne‟s woman, Trina…. yeah right, picture that.
G-Unit comes smooth on Like a Dog and gully on The Mechanic. My favorite track
is I’m Leaving… that track bangs hard with a nice bass sample that rides hard in
the truck, and the flow 50 spits is hot. Yayo trying to come correct… he brought a
lil heat on this one, though the hardest, as always was Banks.
Make Me Feel Good originally had Buck closing it out, but they 86ed that ni**a on
this mixtape. Why do „em like that… he the hottest out of all of them anyway, he
join the right team, it‟s a done deal!