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1. FATHER
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2010, The Village. At that time I was 6 years old. Father
earned a living as The Village imam. He was small in stature,
and had brown skin. His hair was short, his moustache thick.
Usually when he went to the small mosque, he would wear a
Malay top of pale yellow, with a red and white keffiyeh around
his neck, a sarong of the Sitting Elephant brand, and a pair of
expensive sandals that he had bought while performing his mini
haj in Mecca. He was 51.
Father had a habit that I found strange. Each night after
dinner or before sleep, Father would iron his clothes with care.
He would continue to iron in the living room as long as there
was even the slightest crumple or imperfection. Father would
sometimes take hours to ensure that all his clothes were in
immaculate condition. Because the shaft of the florescent light
would penetrate the bedroom, I would find it difficult to sleep.
This ... is something I will always remember.
Father would spend more time at the small mosque than at
home. It could be said that in an average day, aside from ironing
his clothes before sleeping at home, he would spend hours and
hours at the small mosque. He would be there before dawn to
perform the pre-dawn prayer. Then he would wait for the
afternoon prayer close by, at Opah's coffee place. I knew this
because I always accompanied him when I was 6 years old.
"Father, I want to come along," I would say.
"You're too young Warith, wait till you grow up," he
would reply while starting his Vespa.
"But I want to come along," I would shout above the
sound of the Vespa engine.
"Then come up," he would say while patting the back seat
of the Vespa.
I would latch onto Father's sarong-clad thigh and try to
climb the Vespa, whose seat was as tall as me. My little hands
would slip and Father would grab them again. Father would then
carry me up to sit on the back seat.
This is how I wanted Father to treat me. But it never
happened that way. Father never gave a damn about me. Father
would just go off, leaving my 6 year-old self alone at home.
Father never taught me how to pray, read the Quran or do
anything religious. I was left adrift.
My home in The Village was very big and spacious. Or
perhaps it seemed so because at that time I was small. The walls
looked far from each other, and the roof seemed high. Seven
steps led to the porch, which led to the main part of the house
with its one bedroom, and then seven steps led down to the
kitchen. From the kitchen window you could see the outhouse
toilet, with a river as a backdrop. Father forbade me from
leaving the house. I obeyed, even though village houses are
naturally open. The furthest I would go was to the outhouse
toilet, which was still within the confines of Father's ancestral
land. I once ventured out to the river to see the fishes swimming
there but I got scolded by Father. I forget what happened next
but after that, I did not dare venture out of the house, even to the
compound. Except to the outhouse toilet, which I rarely used.
Sometimes, Grey and Orange in the back of the house
accompanied me. But they were still too small to know anything
(still nursing). Every day I would spy on them by looking down
through the kitchen window. A few weeks before, their mother
Bedah came to the back of the house to give birth to them.
Father and I accepted them gladly. We provided food and water
for Bedah to help her raise her children. Our lunch dishes like
fried fish-head were also given to them.
After Grey and Orange were old enough to stop being
nursed, their mother Bedah left them both in our house. We took
over the duties of raising them. When they reached their youth,
something strange happened.
One afternoon while I was eating lunch alone in the house
- rice, chillied mackerel, a little soy sauce - I saw Grey and
Orange outside making noise. Since they were both tomcats, I
assumed they were fighting, but they were actually making love.
This I found out when I was on the way to wash my hands near
the kitchen door. I saw Orange licking his cute dick, which was
pink and erect. Grey was bending his head down towards
Orange's body. I thought about this all day.
Since they were both male, what were they doing?
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